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dreckmal/r/askTRP29/06/15 08:57 PM
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Why should I provide you with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 02:54 PM
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You know what... You're right. I suppose I can see it from your perspective. I guess I don't care anymore. Women think they are better than men, men think they are better than women. I don't fucking care anymore. Fuck men and women. Fuck the lot, because nobody but me gives a shit about me. I'm not just better than 95% of women, I'm better than at least 95% of the guys too. Lol, it's truly freeing to see it that way and not hate myself for it. Thank you for helping me get here. This is not me tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:53 AM
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You do when you subscribe to the Redpill idea that women are like teenagers and children. None of the quotes you've supplied say, or even imply that women are less than men. You are the one who decides that being equated to teenagers makes you somehow 'less of a person' or some stupid shit like that. Christ... I mean, if that is what you think, then you think I believe teenagers and children are somehow subhuman. Don't you see how silly that is? I don't need to put men and women on a scale to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 03:06 AM
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I hope this answers the rest of your points about misogyny. It doesn't. Here is the difference between your version and my version. I believe men and women are not equal. I never, ever said that women were lesser, or less important. You have somehow decided I said that, because that's the interpretation you need to have to think less of me as a person. They are just not equal to me, and I'm not equal to them. We are equally important to the survival of the species, or did you miss that part? You…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:03 PM
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Okay, let's do this. And you've provided absolutely no justification to disprove my ideas. That isn't how debate works. You put forth the ideas, it is your responsibility to provide proof of the relevance of the idea. It isn't my job to do the research. I've actually tried to point you in the right direction (look at side bar) but you insist on spewing random crap. Funny, it isn't random from where I sit. I have read the sidebar multiple times. Telling me to read it again isn't going to make me …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 08:23 PM
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That's because TBP isn't based on a philosophy, like TRP is. TBP is literally anything outside TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 07:43 PM
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I'm a bit of a hard gainer. Eat more food. Don't worry about abs until you have more muscle mass.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:01 PM
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At this point, it is apparent that you lack the reading comprehension and critical thought skills necessary to have this discussion. You keep reiterating ideas at me that are flat out wrong interpretations of TRP, without any actual justification. Somehow you missed the entire point of what I wrote, and basically rehashed this idea that TRP men still blame everyone except themselves for the problems in their lives. Seriously, are you aware of what you've written? Are you actually denying AWALT? …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 11:37 AM
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And yet, somehow, I get labeled retarded for not 'getting it' until I got to my early 30's. Now that I do 'get it', I can actualize the advice 'just be yourself'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:55 PM
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Yeah. I mean, that is exactly what happened to me. I would be willing to bet that is the case with the majority of unhappy boys in Western Society. It seems really odd to me that the concept is hard to grasp. Like I am somehow wrong for not understanding the 'unstated' bits of JBY. The message was given to me by the people I trusted the most, and repeated frequently growing up. There never was anything additional to that sentence. There was no advice regarding social awkwardness, regarding how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:19 PM
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I was a chunky 7th grader, but I recognized my parents and friends thought my personality was charming/witty/infectious. See, that's just it. Your insight into your own situation isn't something everyone has. I know you aren't trying to make a jab out of it, but this thread talks about the people who struggle with it as if they were actually retarded. It's funny, because I see it now, but it was near impossible for me to get it like you did for the majority of my life. Does that mean I was funda…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:46 PM
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What, in your opinion, is the correct way to interpret 'Just be yourself'?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 02:21 PM
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In fact, they've projected their incorrect assumption about Sarah TRP onto every woman terper ever. Every woman terper is a superficial cunt misogynistic dickhole and must be treated accordingly. The Red Pill explicitly blames the men themselves. Posters who are deep in the anger phase blame women, and society, until they realize that they themselves are at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 02:10 PM
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Well, of course the endorsed red pill members are going to talk about attitude being the main cause of a woman's attraction for a man. Right. Because that is what works. I am living proof of that. Troll harder dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:33 PM
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Quit trolling dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:32 PM
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And just because it happened for you doesn't mean it will or can happen for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:31 PM
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Lol, you still don't get it, and I don't have the time or desire to explain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:19 PM
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You guys should come to a consensus that it's not the tingles. This is your problem. You are conflating the posts from whiners and noobs with the posts from endorsed contributors. Not one single post from an endorsed member talks about women being solely attracted to looks. The vast majority that even talk about what women are attracted to are about attitude, not looks. Noobs and Bloops are the only ones that think women are only attracted to 'good looking' guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:55 PM
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Sometimes someone is literally to stupid to have sex with. You linked to your own comments section. Are you too stupid to have sex with? TRP doesn't understand how women can be attracted to more than looks because they themselves aren't attracted to more than looks Onto the bigger and better statement. Have you ever read any of the serious posts on TRP? Because how the fuck do you get to this sentiment? Confidence and congruence are the two things that make a man attractive. Period. Fat men get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:43 PM
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Candide by Voltaire. Seriously, the main/obvious philosophy behind that novel is well worth understanding.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:05 PM
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But i have to go to a social gathering (more of people from work) later next week, where I'll be expected to drink. Why? Who is expecting you to drink? I am concentrating on my fitness and don't drink alcohol. Dude... Then you already have a great reason not to drink. You don't owe an explanation to anyone. At all. But if you feel the need to 'justify' not drinking, just tell em that sentence. Side note: you could just get a really strong drink (something manly like a double Scotch) and just nur…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:51 PM
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It's either a shit test that hasn't been past, or a comfort test that got failed.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:12 PM
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For what it's worth, I'm sorry. I know what it's like to be in your spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:02 PM
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Does he take Viagra? Or any other ED drugs? If you have even the slightest idea that him eating your pussy is a chore, then he thinks of it as a chore. If his dick don't work, he don't take meds to fix it, and he isn't diving into your pussy eagerly to satifsy you thoroughly, he isn't attracted to you. He is using his hands and mouth to keep you around, not because he wants to fuck you. Please note: I'm not saying he doesn't love you, but from everything I've read so far, he does not want to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 03:05 PM
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And how do we know that is not true? Have you ever been physically attracted to someone, not been able to get horny, and done little to nothing about it for an extended amount of time? This guy has had ED for months. What has he done to prove he is into her sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 02:14 PM
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Arch's situation is no different the most the other posters around here. I don't even need to hear the details, because it is almost universal now. Arch just hasn't had the perspective shift needed to let go of the resentment he has towards a woman that may not deserve it. And, if he can't let go, why on earth stay with her? I don't think I have the will to push through resentment every single day. It'd be like clocking into the shittiest job every day all day.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 01:06 PM
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He can love you with all his heart and not be attracted to you. No matter how much love he has for you, everything you've said illustrates his lack of desire to help satisfy you sexually. If you need satisfied, you have to go find it somewhere else, because you are wasting the little precious time you have on this one. If it would help, PM me details, because it sounds like he refuses (as opposed to not able) to satisfy your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:58 PM
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women are turned on by a man who starts sharing about his past and literally doesn't give a shit what she thinks of it,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:53 PM
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What did I say that was untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:45 PM
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I was in an LTR for 12 years. We loved each other, fought for each other and moved all around the US for each other. I tried maintaining a 'human connection' with her, and all it got me was twisted to the point that I no longer wanted to tell her any kind of truth, for fear of humiliation. She is a good woman, and had no idea that when she laughed at me for telling her about my painful experiences that it tore me apart. Now you are going to tell me that I shouldn't blame all women for her being …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:42 PM
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The bitterness is from the fact that he married her, offering commitment, and that she didn't hold her part of the deal. And neither did he. And he knows full well that is the case. The fact is he changed after marriage, so she changed. Marriage isn't a magic switch that dries out pussy when it gets flipped. Marriage is one of the many arenas that men get 'complacent' in, and complacency is anti-lube. I would aways resent her for not jumping on board years ago, and for all the time we could have…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 12:35 PM
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See, the scenario you are describing is shit I thought I wanted. It's bullshit. When I open up to a woman I spend time with, her mind actually begins to become less attracted to me. When I spend more and more of my free time with 'her', it's the same thing. All that shit is a beta dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:34 PM
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We're all whores, aren't we? lol, TRP has certainly fagged up recently.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 08:25 PM
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You need to find a different man, honey. He is not into you sexually, and nothing you do can fix that. The ED either due to lack of attraction, or medical issues. And if it were medical issues, the fact that he doesn't want to fix them also says he isn't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:23 PM
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The ability to share everything about the human experience with another. Why is that important for LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:20 PM
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This essentially kills the ability to have a human connection though. What is this 'human connection'?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:06 PM
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What are the benefits of assuming that the average woman cannot sympathise or empathise with the male condition, given that society provides no incentive for women to do so? The benefit comes from being better able to create healthy and realistic expectations of women. When you don't view her as a source of empathy, you'll be far less likely to show your fears and worries, which are turn-offs. What, if any, disadvantages are there to this? Not sure there are any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 07:53 PM
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But a part of me still hates my wife. It's no different than all the other noobs who are still mad at 'women' or 'society'. It's misplaced anger. You can't be mad at a dog for being a dog. She wasn't fucking you the way you wanted because you weren't worth fucking at the time. You know that.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 03:26 PM
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When will society step in and say "Enough is enough, men are people too and deserve their fair shake?" lol What can we do to improve the situation of the oppressed minority group that is male college students? Would dismantling extrajudicial rape tribunals help? lol What steps will we be seeing out of feminists to restore men to their rightful place as equals? I found the roflcopter. Can we expect the situation of young men to improve any time soon? No. Society doesn't, and never has, given a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:31 PM
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Serious question time: What does preaching amoral sentiments have to do with policing immoral sentiments, and how does that affect the price of tea in China?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 08:30 PM
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Q for RP: Do these comments sound sociopathic to y'all? No. And is that okay with y'all? Yep. Being charming on a landwhale customer is a waste of time, when I can easily cut the interaction in half by directly getting them the help they need. Somehow you think this means he isn't going to act civilly. Why is that? If anything that is saving both him and her time. Maybe part of my problem is that I'm in the South, where politeness still exists. You mean you're from where 'Bless your heart' can m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:45 PM
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But SMV is used to refer to people. That's just it, though. As a man, my primary interest in a woman is her physical appearance. That is how I determine who I want the 'goods' from. It is an estimation tool. That is it. I can't know what the value of her sexual performance is until we fuck. I can determine where she falls on a scale that is socially understood, as an estimation of her value, though. All I have to judge her on initially is how she looks. In that case it would be a rating system l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:27 PM
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I personally really like Patrice O'Neal's 01-30 scale, where 01-10 are ugly, 11-20 are average, and 21-30 are hot. 21 would be an ugly hot bitch. 10 would be a hot ugly bitch. In a way, it makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:05 PM
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The problem with the SMV rating system is that it assumes that all preferences can be determined on a 1-10 scale between the communicator and communicatee. The problem you are suffering from is you are trying to tie individual preference with group preference. In fact, the assumption seems to be that a "10" is the same for everyone This is where you are wrong. The logical assumption is that all 10s are personal preferences. At best any given 10 of mine could/should/would be a 9 to other men. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:03 PM
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In the sexual market, you cannot exchange people for one another. /facepalm Dude... It isn't a fucking slave market. Sweet Zombie Jesus. The fact of the matter is, Sex with a Woman is the 'good' I am looking to procure. TRP philosophy runs along the lines that the women are looking for validation, sperm donation, or long term support as 'goods'. We trade these things with one another, so that we can get the things we need. If you really need to be pedantic about it, the Sexual Marketplace is ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:51 PM
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Life is unfair. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 08:45 PM
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are getting laid as frequently as is usual in a relationship. Guys with these traits get laid all the time. So, which is it? Getting laid once a week or so is different than getting laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:38 PM
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Guys with these traits get laid all the time. Do you mean that guys like that get repeatedly laid all the time, or that there are so many guys like that, that statistically that 'group' of men have to be getting laid all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:57 PM
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'Most' is a terrible word to use in this instance. It implies a majority, which is meaningless unless proof is provided. In this case, proof is going to be next to impossible to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 05:50 PM
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But I don't even know if I should be caring about that This is 100% more consideration than either of them are going to give you.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:28 PM
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But it hardly ascends to the electric, categorically different, spiritual experience it's sold to be. Great sex is exactly that. And great sex is out there, you just gotta go find it.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:11 PM
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In retrospect, lots of things he's said I've realized were pretty misogynistic. I love this. Basically, your opinion of this guy changed radically when you realized he preached a game you hate. He cleanly took care of a scene that you did nothing about. He discussed ideas concerning the state of society, and had people agree with him. He sounds like a successful and charismatic guy. Like a good leader might be... He sounds like a really decent dude, and you think less of him because you think Te…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:09 PM
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This judge must also be deep in the truth then, right? Oddly enough, I've heard that 'all men want laid all the time' my entire life, where as I've been familiar with TRP for maybe 2 years now. Strange how TRP must have time traveled back to the early 80s to implant me, and society at large, with these ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:10 PM
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Rape advocacy means actively encouraging people to rape by telling them such a thing as "LMR" exists or telling them when women say no they don't mean no. Or by telling them that all men want to fuck all the time, no matter the circumstances. If he is hard, he wanted it, right? I think it's funny that the narrative largely sells 'rape culture' as something men do to women, when in fact, both genders are at fault. Don't you find that the least bit ironic? Feminism continues to push rape culture a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 02:48 PM
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How old are you dude?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:44 AM
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this is about whether if you know a decision will help you and hurt others, what will you do (intent). Literally any decision you could make, regardless of intent, has the possibility to harm others. If you knew that buying a diamond engagement ring meant the continuation of Blood Diamonds, would you still buy that ring? Buying gas to put in your tank means that we keep drilling for oil, and that we are putting noxious fumes in the air that we all breath. Can you get more specific? Or do we need…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 03:13 PM
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Dude... We were just talking about this over here. What do you think about it? Or are you trying to get a group consensus before you form an opinion on it? The big problem with your question here, is that it relies entirely upon the perspective of the person answering it. How do you determine what is 'harmful' to society? And how can you take an action that has no consequences? Do you mean there are no 'negative' personal consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:57 PM
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But anti-social doesn't mean against civilization, it means 'don't give a fuck about people besides one's self'. I'm interested to see why you think being a psychopath means that you wouldn't be comfortable in civilization. Seems to me that true psychopaths would relish the opportunities living in civilization would bring. As far as I know psychopaths 'suffer' from a lack of empathy, which allows them to engage in incredibly selfish behavior (like making shit tons of money, or fucking anyone the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:14 PM
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a psychopath in not going to be content/happy in a stable culture/civilization. What makes you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 01:54 PM
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My biggest problem is that she is also condescending to the group and makes snide remarks the whole time. Call her out on it in front of the group. Seriously ask her what she has done to earn the position she is abusing. Last time I checked, riding my buddy's dick didn't count towards being allowed to give me, or my people, shit. Fucking make that bitch cry, and when your 'friend' confronts you about it, tell him you are only doing his fucking job, without the benefit of getting your dick wet ov…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:25 PM
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Can I fix this? Yes. How do I fix this? By moving on. You've got to get out there and find new shit to conquer. Going back to her could likely be the worst thing you can do. Go become a man other men are jealous of.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 03:35 PM
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Can't confirm, am emotional, am viewed as pretty awesome in more than my own head. I'm glad for you. It took me a very long time to even have a glimmer of belief regarding how 'awesome' I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 06:51 PM
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As a red pill man, Jesus Christ... Any advice? Any advice about what? The scenario you've drafted up? Things are wrong on multiple levels here. I like both T and J as friends, T is only a fwb in my head and J same thing, but i could see myself dating J as a higher possibility than T This sounds like how girls talk about shit. Either bring something concrete to talk about, or spend more time thinking.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:40 PM
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Dude... Nobody owes you a goddamn thing. And you don't owe anybody. Do the shit you want to do, and realize you aren't in charge of anyone else's happiness but your own.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:13 PM
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i'm a male and most men are not bitter, angry at women or society. How many males would you consider to be most? Because my anecdotal evidence runs counter to what you have written in the quoted text. In my experience, a great many men are unhappy, and typically blame external sources (such as women, jobs, lack of money, society at large...), when in fact it is largely misplaced anger towards themselves (for not 'getting it'). I am not going to say you are wrong. I sincerely hope that most males…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 04:12 PM
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you are expected to be stoic all the time And yet, that is the expectation society has of men. Society (including men AND women) look at an emotional man as a useless man. Period. It would sure be great if men could be successful by relying of feels, but the fact is that a man who is run by his emotion is a man who isn't in control. and view everything as a test In a world where everyone manipulates each other, learning what you will and will not bend to is a cornerstone of success. And sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:23 PM
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You just have to keep practicing until it is subconscious. I'm in the same boat. You'll have good and bad days. You'll make mistakes. All you can do is get back on the horse and continue forward.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:43 PM
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I had decent game beforehand but now I try to practice holding frame and I think it makes me appear boring. Your 'game' from before sucked, or you wouldn't be here. Maybe it got you some occasional pussy, but face it, you're here to learn real game. And you think holding frame makes you boring. Believing that makes you boring. being fun and holding frame Holding frame is literally just knowing who you are and not compromising any of that person's behaviors or beliefs in an attempt to get shit fr…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:21 PM
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Would you lie to your wife or partner about this just to keep the relationship intact? No. I need to be sexually attracted to you if I am going to have an ongoing relationship with you. Period. Lying about it makes everything exponentially worse down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 09:05 PM
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If anything, learning to apply RP concepts is what can allow a 'beta' to become a 'more moral' person in general. Generally, a beta is ready and willing to compromise himself and his philosophies/ideals at the drop of a dime. You simply cannot rely on him to enact moral behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 04:44 PM
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You don't enjoy being funny 24/7. I didn't either when I first started. As I learned what to actually give a fuck about, I learned to be (and appreciate being) funny a lot more often. I don't give near as much of a shit about people taking me seriously, because if they don't take me seriously, when I'm serious... Fuck 'em. It has been a slow change in my perspective that has allowed me to find this to be the case. As a result, people actually do take me more seriously, more often.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:06 PM
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So what I am asking is that I would greatly appreciate any help on how to over come social skills and decrease anxiety. You just gotta get out there. If you are confident in your looks and employment status, there should be little-to-no reason for you to be nervous or give a fuck at all about what other people think of you.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:03 PM
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Can you do game and be stoic if you don't enjoy being funny 24/7? The path you are heading down is learning where your own game comes from. It's unique to you. You can do this. You may find, however, as you learn more about yourself, that this could be looking at it from the wrong perspective.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:00 PM
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But mah labels.... Seriously, sitting around and trying to decide which fuckin greek alphabet character you are is like sitting around stroking ePeen, ultimately pointless.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 03:35 PM
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I know, right? It's a big assumption making circle jerk. Can we please keep riding this carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 07:27 PM
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Lol, so since I asked a couple questions about group affiliation I suddenly blame all problems on Feminism, now? You assume I blame everything on a group you hold near and dear. I don't give near enough of a shit to argue against that small-minded point of view you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 07:14 PM
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No, I asked a simple question regarding the poster's affiliation with a group, and offered up some follow up questions. Had you bothered to not get all offended, you'd see that we briefly discussed feminism, and moved along quickly, when OP claimed to not identify with that group. My statement invalidates nothing. It was necessary for me to understand where OP was coming from. Youre pushing your red pill narrative against feminism in a post where it has no place. Out of curiosity, what is femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:59 PM
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It's almost like TRP is filled with people who like to fuck with other people. Fixed that. This fixes nothing, and neither sentiment invalidates the other. Way to go! You're going to tell me not to judge other people I never said you shouldn't judge. I said you are prejudging a scenario of your own design, which makes me wonder why you felt the need to get your view validated. Their own lives, yes, their 15-year-old daughters? That's the confusion. Okay, now I'm confused. I thought we were talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:48 PM
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I also don't give a damn if you find my thoughts valid, or not. Especially since you are bringing up a tangential point to a discussion you haven't even been involved in. I don't need or want you, or your approval. I do need feminists to decide whether shaming is bad, or if it's useful. Considering the rhetoric I hear coming from feminists concerning shaming language and it's use, I believe feminists would do best to stop shaming others. Lest they be considered hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:32 PM
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lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:02 PM
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Remember the single mothers are the scum of the earth post? highly upvoted stuff, it was. Yep. Lotta inflammatory stuff gets posted and up-boated. It's almost like Reddit is filled with people who like to fuck with other people. That's fine, by why all the open ridicule over at TRP for these guys? Because from a generic and typical male viewpoint, it is way-out there deviancy. I would be willing to bet most guys would be angry, or at the very least hurt in the extreme, if their SO did something …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:51 PM
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That's what happens when you get too thirsty. I'd bet my house that he doesn't think there are any better options so he has decided to cash it all in and make this one woman 'happy'. I'd also bet my house that he will get left and be a useless wreck in 5-10 years.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:25 PM
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it's the word "realistic" which I take issue with. i don't (and apparently many others, including women) find it realistic at all. What specifically do you find non-realistic about Red Pill views? Your thoughts on single moms? Single Moms are just like any other sub-group. There will be good women and rotten women. Some cheated and left or were left. Some had husbands who died. There isn't a common string other than the fact that they are single, parents, and they're women. The reason they are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 04:49 PM
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trying to nail down what exactly RPW and RPM have in common (outside of both being in favour of the patriarchy, very little, it seems) RPW and TRP have one thing in common. We are trying to take a realistic view of how to succeed in the modern SMV. It really is that simple. It turns out, as a sexually dimorphic species, each gender generally has it's own concerns in what they get from a relationship. would you be disgusted or is that normal around here? You show your true intentions by leaving t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:47 PM
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Clearly you don't understand the material enough if you think being an alpha means you'll be striking fear in everyone all the time. Being a man means knowing what is right for you. It doesn't mean you're going to become some maniacal tyrant, unless that's what you want to be. In which case, savvy up to not ever having any real friends.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:32 PM
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Just because something is theoretically possible doesn't mean there's any evidence for it in reality. http://www.psmag.com/nature-and-technology/17-to-1-reproductive-success There is evidence. I'm surprised you so easily bat away the fact that, on a planet with 7+ billion of us, 0.5% of the population are descendant from one man. More from the article: In more recent history, as a global average, about four or five women reproduced for every one man. So, despite there being a 51/49 split in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 05:42 PM
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Just walked around to somewhere else. I wouldn't even say bye. Just turn and go chat up someone else.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 04:05 PM
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Aggression, adventurousness, confidence, courage, bravery, honesty, loyalty, etc...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:38 PM
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Funnily enough, it seems like the girls with interesting hobbies were introduced by some other interesting guy, be it father/grandfather/former BF/etc...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:36 PM
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By simply looking at the reproductive elements in men and women, you can see why men are 'wired' to be polygynous. A healthy woman will have ~400 fertile eggs that she can produce offspring with for her entire life... i.e. a limited supply. She also carries the child for 9 months every time she is pregnant. She also has a roughly 20-30 year window for fertility. A healthy man produces somewhere around ~250 fertile gametes every time he ejaculates. He can theoretically be fertile after the age of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:13 PM
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An alpha does whatever he feels like doing. Maybe it's pottery. Maybe it's crochet. Maybe it's banging the other art students.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:58 PM
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About the only thing you can do is frame it in such a way that you are shaming them. Unfortunately, that is going to be hard to forecast. It's even harder if everyone in the group you are addressing is being loud and obnoxious. If it's an entire group of loud women, about the only thing to do is approach the management. Discuss it like a problem of continued patronage. Like you'd be happy to continue coming back, and bring rich friends, to drop cash... if only the atmosphere were more conducive …
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:15 PM
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Is there anything I can do in these situations? Quit engaging loud and annoying cunts. Like, you should have been able to tell how they'd react before you even started. Where you trying to make yourself a target? Because that's exactly what you did. There's gotta be solutions other than "deal with it." Why?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:29 PM
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If my son wants to play with barbies or my daughter with Action Man/Gi joe they can. I played with my sister's barbie dolls in the 80s. She played with my GI Joe/Legos. But that's just it, man. I am not saying women should be disallowed to do a damn thing. Women should feel free to pursue anything I feel free to pursue. But that doesn't make us equal. However you are aware that if we both committed murder you would get a lesser sentence than me? I am aware of that. But I also never claimed equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 05:34 PM
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None of what you have said has made the case that men and women are equal. I will take your anecdotal evidence for fact, though. Assuming it is fact, that means there are areas in which women are better than men. That doesn't mean they are equal. The word equal carries a very specific definition. One I would expect a doctor to understand. Men are generally better at some shit, and women are generally better at other shit. Law has specific rules for women for the same reason law has specific rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 05:02 PM
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So, how do you define equal then? Like, are you saying that despite obvious physical and chemical differences (i.e. the biological differences) that woman are actually capable of everything a man can do, and vice versa? As far as I can tell, there is no equality between men and women. Not physically. Not mentally. Not in the eyes of the Law or Society. Please note: I don't think women are less important, but I sure as hell don't think we're equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 04:10 PM
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I am not obese, about 190lbs at 17% body fat..but its impossible for me to get laid The latter part is not because of the former part. Your bodyfat % has fuck-all to do with your SMV. My BF% is twice yours, and I've fucked 9 new women, this year alone (maybe not an incredible number, but it is 9 different vaginas). Quit the blame game. You aren't going to get laid until you figure our your real problem. If you are so desperate that you can't wait till you get 'better', hire a hooker.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:51 PM
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Out of curiosity, in what way are women equal to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:46 PM
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Picking up women is the same thing. It is going to take time to become proficient at it. Most of us didn't learn how to navigate women naturally.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:20 PM
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Seriously. There are tons of crafty women out there that are too shy to hit the bars. It's easy pickin's when your the only dude.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:49 PM
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How long did it take you to learn the trade you do?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:33 PM
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Charity/Volunteer Events, Activity Clubs (go learn to knit or crochet), Fairs, parties, school, at their work, On the street, in the supermarket....
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:27 PM
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Do you think a lot of dudes come on there to make themselves feel better by making up fake personas online? Of course. I'm pretty sure this is true for almost every single online forum. You are always going to have folks stroking ePeen for external validation. If it isn't a Law of the Internet, it should be. After you've been around it long enough, you learn to see it and ignore it. It's not terribly different from the town braggart, it's just more anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 12:23 PM
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Many Red Pillers People do it. Why does it matter if the person is red or blue? It's a shitty thing to do. What do you have to say about TRPillers doing it though ? The world is full of shitty pricks. It's a bummer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 12:13 PM
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If you aren't very super extra careful, you could land yourself in a world of fucked up and hurt. There are good reasons why dipping your pen in the company ink is ill-advised.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:27 PM
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Here's the secret: A man's time is his love. Where and what you spend time doing reflects what you actually give a shit about.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:30 PM
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I continue to learn on her because I feel like she's all I have sometimes. Believe me, today I have been shitting all over myself. But I want to ask you one question: Don't you have yourself?
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:54 PM
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That's a pretty big leap you just made there... How do you equate judgement with thinking someone is subhuman scum? HSW... humans operate from a place of judgement. We judge everything and everyone around us. All the time. That's how we make decisions. You are putting a negative connotation towards it. You are the one who decides it's a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:59 PM
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For any given objective there are almost limitless paths to victory. Abundance can mean seeing the options you previously discarded for whatever (more than likely bullshit) reasons you've concocted. For example, if I know there is a chance I will be hanging out with an attractive girl, I immediately start to get self-conscious. How do I prevent this? Just remember that she is human, she shits, and it stinks. Let's even say she's a 10. Let's crunch some numbers here: Let's assume a perfect distri…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:57 PM
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Lol, sure. In some areas, I was very fortunate. I bought a house for $10k. I also was depressed from a divorce bad enough to lose my appetite, which kick started the weight loss. And, I've had four back surgeries. I have no insurance anymore, so I had to start lifting weights for physical therapy. And my count was 4 at the beginning of this year, so tripling it wasn't that hard....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 02:31 PM
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I'm 6'2". I've lost 70+ lbs over the last 18 months. I lift weights in my basement 6 times a week. I make around $20k a year working for myself. I just finished paying my house off this year. I have tripled my 'N-count' this year. I have no way to prove this, without compromising myself, so feel free to call me a liar or a braggart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 02:12 PM
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What is the reason for trying this?
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:38 PM
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You tied your worth to a woman. Go find your worth.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:25 PM
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What goals have you set for yourself?
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:16 PM
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It's all good, yo. There's a lot of trolls out in the web.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:16 PM
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plating her again seen her a few times and in my opinion things were going well How many times have you guys fucked?
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:15 PM
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Typical criticism against TRP are insults directed at the people, rather than actual criticism of the ideas. you guys are not open at all to criticism of your cult and I have tried with I think three members in this thread, so I am kind of done with this one. For instance, you lump me in with all the other TRPers. Because the other people you've been arguing with are hot-headed, you assume I will be too. I would argue that most of the posters at PPD are so emotionally invested that they cannot t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:11 PM
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Then enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:03 PM
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Fact of the matter is, you cannot help someone else improve their lives when you don't have your own shit together. Getting your shit together means putting yourself first. No-one else is obligated to take care of you or your shit. And if anyone (including family) is walking over you, and ignoring your attempts to take care of your shit, what other option is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:56 PM
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Just stop bending over backwards for people. It turns out, your not a dick if you are taking care of your own shit. Why do you assume you need to be a dick?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:01 PM
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No, you said specifically 'overwhelming scientific evidence'. That kind of statement implies scientific research and/or studies, of which you have linked to approximately 'zero'. You just dismiss it because it's wikipedia. Academia dismisses Wikipedia. Nobody who is interested in real scientific findings thinks Wiki is worth a fuck. You said scientific evidence... Where is it? What studies specifically? Perhaps if you linked to some actual papers for me to read, my opinion might change. As it st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:38 PM
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You made a claim and I asked for proof. I simply don't have any homework to do until you can prove the claim. That's not how a debate works, honey. If you cannot provide proof of the claim, it can easily and readily be dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:27 PM
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Poster makes claim of overwhelming scientific evidence. When asked for said 'overwhelming evidence' poster links to a Wiki article. Is this the rigorous study and argumentation modern academics gives us? 8/8 m8, gr8 b8.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:23 PM
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If you want to dismiss the overwhelming academic and scientific consensus that patriarchy and privilege exist Where is this scientific evidence you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:11 PM
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Ah Christ.... Nostalgia boner killed...
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:15 PM
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Yeah, you don't read it anymore because smart, reasonable people like you know it's bullshit. But you had to read it when you started. And they word it so it fits in perfectly with your anger at the time. Take this for what it is, anecdotal. When I started reading the material, well over 1.5 years ago, I was very angry. At first, I thought I was angry at women, because I thought I was giving them what they wanted, and they weren't giving me anything in return. Then I thought it was society. I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 07:46 PM
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It's been a long time since I read the sidebar material. Last time I read it, it was basically a primer on putting yourself first, which is something a vast majority of folks in the Western World need to work on. I mean, I guess it could be viewed as misogyny, but it seems to me it's little different than hearing the women folk talk about men when they think there aren't any within earshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 05:32 PM
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Ah, yeah. It's labeled as 'tone policing'. The belief is that it's best to get that shit out and process it, rather than limit the expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 05:23 PM
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My point before was TRP should try to ween out the crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:32 PM
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Except for the constant criticism of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:17 PM
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I guess what I find strange is this seemingly overwhelming need for some folk to police other's emotional reactions. I would say it's close to 95% of the time, people say 'You guys should kick out those crazy guys'. No-one outside TRP seems to have any empathy for these men. TRP is the only place I've found so far where a man can express the anger and rage he feels over (perhaps years of mostly self-inflicted) abuse. We want to foster places for people to feel safe expressing their emotions or o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:08 PM
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Why would I? People like that draw attention to the group I'm championing. It's no different from any other group. Religious groups, political groups, back alley gangs, ... PETA. Those overly zealous people are the ones who do the work to get the group seen or heard by society. Besides, I haven't noticed much of a push to limit the message folks like her are spreading. Fact of the matter is that there are toxic people. That's life. If we are going to judge groups based on the toxic population, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:00 PM
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It's the same thing with TRP. The one's that get noticed are annoying assholes. It doesn't mean the entire group is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:52 PM
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Like this girl? Seriously, feminists say dumb shit all the time. It's what happens when you have popular social movements... They collect loud assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:33 PM
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Sounds like you've already given up, which means you're a lost cause.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:35 AM
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Even after that. It isn't like she is actually obligated to give anyone fuck-all. That's why so many losers find themselves getting divorce raped.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:16 PM
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Regarding my own thoughts and feelings, perfection is the most interesting thing in anybody and anything, because it's the most pleasing. What is pleasing about perfection? And where have you actually encountered perfection? What are the objective traits of perfection? Is symmetry perfect? Is asymmetry perfect? Perfection does not real, dude. Unicorns don't exist, and women take shits. That's hilarious. Isn't it human nature to be most attracted to somebody/something that brings the most value t…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:14 PM
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They have their own issue and you're like "men have it bad too!" They didn't have it as bad In what objective sense have women had it worse? Nah but why you trying to fucking make it about men? I am illustrating how we generalize mass groups. For instance, you can generally assume that large men are physically stronger than small men. Generally, that is true. By generalizing that point, women tend to avoid large men, like me. In this case you say that it's good (again I agree with you). However,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:00 PM
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Oh so you're telling me it's better to literally clean the house all day and do nothing else because that's your gender duty? Please, tell me where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:17 AM
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Many men have been disadvantaged too yes, but women have been a peg lower. They weren't allowed to work for soooooo long. Talk about an unfulfilling life if you're bored and you want to work. Seriously...? I'm gonna need a reality check on this one. Are we saying women have had it historically worse, because they might not have had the opportunities to go out and work? You realize family men had just as little choice as family women, right? Are we operating under the assumption that because men …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:48 PM
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No that's not why; it's because women have had the disadvantaged stick of society for so long. They're finally getting a chance now. Dude... everybody but the wealthy have had the disadvantaged end of the stick since time immemorial, regardless of skin color, gender, or anything else we could list. Seriously, the vast majority of men have been just as disadvantaged as women, for the most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:22 PM
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Sorry, but you're right you might come off frightening to a smaller women. That makes more sense because she can see that about YOU. She can see that, while she doesn't know how mean or nice you are, you could physically crush her if you wanted to. I know I can. And I am okay with it now, because I have removed the negative connotation from generalization. But if generalization is wrong (i don't believe it is), then their treatment of me is wrong. The fact that it is easy for the both of us to j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:03 PM
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As is my reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 05:19 PM
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Yeah I'm trying to prove a point on how generalizing feels. As an FYI, I already know how generalization feels, but thanks for trying help me grow up, dad. I internalized that 'all men are pigs/rats/bastards' as a small boy, because it turns out kids don't get sarcasm. When I walk around my town for exercise, women cross the street to avoid me, because men rape. White males are incapable of being the targets of racism or sexism, because of patriarchy. Men lie. Men cheat. Men have angry problems.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 04:59 PM
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It only sets you up to fail or be disappointed. That is funny... I'm pretty sure that's how my whole life was, up until I started internalizing TRP. A constant stream of failure and disappointment. You simply CANNOT know something about someone until you know them. And everyone is unique or different. To walk in assuming they're a certain way is unfair to everything unique about them, everything that makes them specifically them, who they are - youre just passing it all over in favor of you're p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 04:54 PM
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You did nothing to address the question I asked, instead you are trying to spin it into an insult against a whole group... Humans generalize things. That is how we come to understand the world around us. I'm sorry you seem to associate a negative connotation to that. For some of us, it helps to have a generalized starting point, so that we can learn to set proper expectations of others, because some of us haven't learned how to do that correctly yet. I guess I really don't get the butthurt about…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 04:26 PM
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You presuppose that all men who follow TRP are only looking to fuck as many women as possible. You have no idea what the objectives of any given man are, unless he tells you, and you believe him. You are assuming that I, for instance, am not looking for some kind of LTR... Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 04:13 PM
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Yeah, that or OP trolled us. I wouldn't be fucking around with a girl like that, were it me.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:23 PM
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Met a chick I knew back in high school on OKC. Had her make dinner, and then blasted her ass all across her own bedroom. money spent? the $0.50 it took me to drive to her place.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:01 PM
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I personally think it comes from internalizing the idea that men and women are equal.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 08:57 PM
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So, I play bass guitar. Unless I bring a girl to the show, people aren't paying attention to me while I'm on the stage. No-one cares about the bass. I play it because I love music, it gets me out of the house, and I think in bass. If you want to pursue music, generally people recommend guitar, because people pay attention to the guy that rips out solos. Drummers also get watched, as do singers. IMO, music is great for socializing. It's also great for moistening panties. Just pick an instrument a…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 08:46 PM
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Dude... I have already answered this question. Do you have a different system? One that you won't immediately dismiss because you don't think it's a system?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 08:26 PM
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I agree, but from my perspective, both are equally important. It doesn't matter how high my value is, if I'm willing to compromise it at the drop of a pair of panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 07:52 PM
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So, that seems to answer your question, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 07:50 PM
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I shouldn't think so badly of myself correct. Better to spend my time on something else. Lift, play guitar, learn to code, learn a foreign language, make/paint pottery, learn to salsa dance, join the theater, do yoga, become a volunteer. There are literally infinite possibilities of shit to do. You have your entire life ahead of you, dawg. Sky's the limit.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:47 PM
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She's broken down crying before because she thinks she's not good enough for me Tell her it's a self fulfilling prophecy, because it absolutely is. I guarantee, you will get tired of building this girls self-esteem up, only for her to knock it back down again, for no-good-goddamn-reason. You are still with her, what more proof does she need?
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:43 PM
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what other systems have you followed with as much effort as red pill for 1.5 years or more? The only other one I ever had was the typical 'just be yourself and wait' system that the women around me preached. PUA bullshit never appealed to me. My friends and family never knew how to communicate what 'being more confident' meant. As a matter of fact, them trying to explain how to 'be more confident' only pushed me into further disbelief of myself (note: these folks were genuinely trying to help, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 07:35 PM
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I want a woman in my life that I can connect with emotionally. A woman that I find physically pleasing (doesn't have to be a 10) but someone I find physically attractive and not just okay. I thought I wanted a girl to connect with emotionally too. turns out, that was an incorrect expression of 'equality' in my own head. Women don't emotion like we do, dawg. They don't have the depth we do. My happiness is a much more powerful drug than her's is. Women want to experience the 'range' of emotion, n…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:27 PM
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TLDR: girlfriend is undisciplined, how to fix it? Incentivize the behaviors you want, punish the ones you don't. Also, be totally willing to watch her walk out the door.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:10 PM
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The key to happiness is to stay away from TRP Lol, I'm 1.5 years into practicing TRP, and I have never, in my entire life, been as consistently happy as I am now. It also gets progressively better every day. Thing is, guys come to TRP because of a lack of the sex they want, and the ones who benefit from it, come out thinking along the lines you've just laid down. Take the pussy off the pedestal, learn how to be happy with yourself, and the world will open up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 06:59 PM
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I'm 16 which is too old to really get good at sports or anything if I start now but I would really like to get extremely good at something. This attitude right here is why you aren't good at anything. Quit thinking your a fucking loser, or you will be a fucking loser. I didn't start working on myself seriously until I was 31. Should I just give up and quit? Fuck that.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:52 PM
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Contrapposto When you are sitting, lean back into the chair. Avoid crossing anything in front of your chest (like your arms). (When standing) Hold your drink in your non dominant hand, at your side. You need to project that you are comfortable wherever you are.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:40 PM
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The groups going out tonight..do i make a move??? Or play cool tonight and dance with other chicks?? Yes.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:36 PM
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What are your personal objectives? The Blue Pill is a satirical sub, related to poking at, or making fun of, TRP. The Red Pill is a sub for discussing strategies for success in today's Sexual Market Place. Look through the materials either place recommends and decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 05:27 PM
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isn't trp about explaining the market not about tactics or strategy? That could certainly be your interpretation of TRP, but TRP bills itself as: "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. " It is quite literally a place to discuss sexual strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 05:23 PM
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Yes. I don't place a negative connotation to that sentiment, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:17 PM
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Be exceedingly careful not to get pulled into the drama. Become the most neutral politician you can be. Deflect, redirect and keep your head down.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:27 PM
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Everyone knows that the initial "love" wears off after a few months and then it becomes a matter of usability. Most of Reddit would actually love to disagree with you. Most of the users on Reddit don't like acknowledging the transactional nature of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 12:01 PM
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the fact that its my duty to help my mom out who struggled so much in her life Here's a little secret: There is no obligation or duty. You decide what the appropriate actions are.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:54 PM
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I guess I have a rather pessimistic view of society sometimes. That said, I sincerely hope you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 12:14 PM
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I think the general argument is that humans as a whole just don't give as much of a shit about other men as we do about other women. I wonder how effective raising awareness would be, I get the feeling it wouldn't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 12:03 PM
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Personally, I see little gain in it, for either side. It's my estimation that most of the conversations that happen here at PPD are people randomly bashing or proselytizing TRP. There is little actual debate, because everyone has on their blinders. Seems like people either believe TRP is useful (including myself), or they are irrationally angry that TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:05 PM
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But the thing is, you are applying a negative context to 'the TRP way'. TRP doesn't see manipulation as inherently negative, it is simply how humans interact. Everyone manipulates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 06:44 PM
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They weren't co-workers, they were co-students. So PPD, based on your knowledge of the Red Pill concepts, is this man alpha or omega? This is a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 05:53 PM
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To be clear, I'm anti 3rd wave feminist, not against feminism as a whole. Missed that first sentence didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:57 PM
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If anyone has experience with this stage of intense emotional turmoil and distrust please tell me what you did to swallow the pill and unplug. Keep on keepin' on. All this pain, and anger and depression you are feeling right now is due to your cognitive dissonance resolving itself. You are literally re-writing the neural pathways you used to rely on. It ain't pain free, but it is worth it. Why can't people be simple? Fuck, I just wanted to get this out. I'm aware I'm still BP despite all my post…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 04:35 PM
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All humans crave order and understanding. Real men have to learn to create the order for everyone else to follow. Dogs, kids, women, even other men want someone to follow because creating the path is hard.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:36 PM
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33 Male IT networking/support USA Divorced Red
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:32 PM
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We live in a world where it's okay to teach 8 year olds that apples are equally as important and capable as oranges even though there are some differences between them, because for all intents and purposes, you wouldn't be wrong in doing so We don't teach 8 year olds that they are equally important, we teach them that they are equal. There is an enormous difference. That's the problem. If we were teaching kids that both men and women were important in a meaningful way, it might be different. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:17 PM
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I have raged for a long time about this, and I have re-wrtten this post 3 times now. Lets figure out a message to tell 8 year-olds about how men and women are equally important, but in no way, shape, or form equal in any other area of life. 8 year olds do not know what sarcasm is. They take everything literally. So, when we are telling our kids that men and women are equal, we are telling them that apples = oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 11:45 AM
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Tell me - why is it okay when the red pill does it, but not when it's directed back at you? I mean, is that what's going on here? Are you seriously enraged at TRP right now? I think it's perfectly fine when people express their anger. Go ahead and be angry at TRP, for all I care. Some guys are angry at, or because of, women. I'm sorry you don't care for that. You do know that your poison doesn't exist in a vacuum? Of course it doesn't. When did I say it did? Or am I suddenly responsible, to you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:13 PM
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I claim considering women to be "just a hole" is a form of hate. Okay, I see what is going on here. You actually don't want to discuss a damn thing. You want to decide that one user's written vomit is enough for you to apply your own definition of hate to an entire group. Congrats, you'll make a fabulous SJW. Sorry I fed the troll guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:00 PM
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Wait, I thought you wanted to talk about anger issues. Instead you'd rather imply that I'm unfuckable. Why don't you try and discuss some of my points, rather than tell me why you don't like TRPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:54 PM
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I am a fake feminist, for the lulz, doesn't hurt my game. Me too. If anything, it makes it that much more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:34 PM
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/thread Seriously, though, when was the last time you spent weeks, months or years trying to understand something you hated? We don't hate women. We hate that we don't understand them, and TRP has some useful insight into how to think about women. I dabbled a little bit with TRP, ages ago. I monstly used to watch some dumb PUA stuff and if I learned anything it was the importance of confidence and de-pedestaling women. It's super great for you that you weren't pissed at the world during this tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:32 PM
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Blackmail is a form of manipulation and most people would consider it wrong. Lol, I agree, but so are blowjobs, and no-one thinks BJs are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:12 PM
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So, I realize this is anecdotal, but for 30+ years of my life I had too much empathy, and too much compassion. To the point that I let everyone walk all over me, because I thought it would make them like me. It was impossible for me, for most of my life, to see how selfish I was being. In fact, from a certain perspective, losing some of my empathy and compassion was a healthy choice for me. Oddly enough, it has only increased my popularity (i.e. making people like me more). As a side note, you u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:01 PM
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Because if it's truly a self-development sub, then there would be made mention of developing empathy and compassion towards your fellow human beings. You assertion is that empathy and compassion are required for self improvement, but you say that as if it were self-evident, and I don't see it. The fact of the matter is that you can self-develop without gaining empathy or compassion. These ideas are not mutually-inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:53 PM
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How do I go about it? Stop letting other people rile you up. It really is that simple. Are you in control, or do you let other people control you?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:09 PM
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No, this angers both people. This is why they probably ought to next each other. With that compromise, she is still having more chore sex than she wants and he is not getting the release his seemingly natural libido is dictating. They need to next each other because that compromise still hurts both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 09:01 PM
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I can absolutely see that point of view now. I'm not sure how I interpreted it incorrectly, but it took me years to understand there is a difference. Its like men and women of the Gen X and after actually bought into the fact that men and women are 'equal'. If women wanted the things I wanted, they would have been falling over themselves to get me a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 08:25 PM
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That women find sensitivity attractive. I'm sure many women would love to tell me about how they love sensitive men, but the reality is that it does not turn women on. Took me way to goddamn long to actually understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:36 PM
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For me, a large part of TRP was learning to looking at problems from a different angle. 90% of the time we limit ourselves from options that were always there. It isn't part of the sidebar, but I would seriously recommend reading 'Playing to Win'.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:19 AM
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Quickest way to get laid without using hookers? What is wrong with a hooker? Hookers are not jerking off, they aren't fucking a fleshlight, and as long as you pay 'em, they don't care what you look like. You have literally taken away the single easiest and fastest method of getting the monkey off your back. Is the problem getting pussy, or is it getting pussy you earned? If it's the first, buy a whore and keep working on the sidebar. If it's the second, just keep on keepin' on. Get outside your …
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:53 PM
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Trust actions, not words. Also, don't chase one girl.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:06 PM
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You literally have to run game on this woman for as long as you two are together. As a single man, we get to say 'fuck off' and go get more women, if we so desire. Married guys' options to cut and run are FAR FAR more costly.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:47 PM
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AWALT doesn't need to be academically accepted, and you don't have to personally accept it. I think its funny that so many people get hung up on the term. Really, it's no different than women sitting around saying all men are pigs. You are the one who claims it is about 'women's nefarious goals'. As if women sit around and scheme how to get the best of both worlds. AWALT is not an 'active' concept in that fashion. You are the one who is ascribing a negative connotation to it. AWALT is just one m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:18 AM
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You did nothing to break what I said. You swept it aside. You aren't here to have your mind changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:04 AM
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Absolutely. I feel like I'm living proof that that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 10:58 PM
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Are you here to have your view changed, or to bat away answers with single sentence thoughts? I'm not going to waste my time discussing things if you are attempting the latter. And if you are shooting for the former, you seriously need more the single sentence answers, otherwise you come off as petulant and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 09:13 PM
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How would you describe "hypergamy"? You want me to call hypergamy nefarious. I don't believe it is. It is simply the name given to the typical human female mating strategy. It isn't anymore or less nefarious than a man's preferred sexual strategy of sleep with as many women as possible. You are the one who assigns morality to it. To me it just comes across as an excuse to buy into TRP and won't lead to any real happiness. If I love owning pet snakes, and I have a post-it note that reminds me tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 07:48 PM
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Working under the assumption all women have nefarious goals when it comes to a sexual relationship means you can not have a healthy connection to a woman. AWALT does not mean that women have nefarious goals. Pulled from a TRP quote about a year ago: AWALT is generally referring to the idea that all women tend to share some traits - all women are attracted to higher status guys (hypergamy), all women will generally switch between wanting an AF or a BB at different stages of their life, and all wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 07:30 PM
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is to make yourself a genuinely interesting, attractive person Believe it or don't, but that is at the core of TRP. It just so happens that when TRP preaches that other people say that it is this: to desperately try to find ways to manipulate weak-willed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 07:15 PM
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I hate to agree, but I do. I suppose it could just be a throwaway from some basic bitch. I know a lot of guys on this sub could easily have been 'Greg', so it is certainly plausible, but something seems strange about it for sure. Maybe I'm just a cynical asshole though... lol
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:06 AM
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You already know the answer to this. Re-read your post and you will find it.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:10 PM
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I haven't gone to class for the past year due to a lot of factors, two if them being lack of self confidence and alcoholism. These aren't factors, they are excuses. I feel that I am not as good looking as my classmates and people would feel repulsed if I go to class. First of all, you think you are repulsive, and you believe it. Secondly, why do you give a fuck if someone else is repulsed by you? That sounds like a giant heap of not-your-fucking-problem to me. Other people are offended by me? Fu…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:54 PM
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I actually enjoy the responsibility of consent. What I don't care for is the possibility that she can remove that consent retroactively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 02:28 PM
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It's not your fault, but I do appreciate the sentiment. It kinda sucks, because I'd love to open up, but I'll be damned if it doesn't bite me in the ass 100% of the time. I used to be really angry about it, but I just accept it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 08:48 PM
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is the idea that a man cannot have an open and honest conversation with the woman he is in a relationship with because she will stop being attracted. Unfortunately, all the women I've dated said the same thing, and never fail to negatively judge me when I do open up about my serious insecurities. If I want to date women more than a couple months, I simply cannot open up to them or they see me differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 08:43 PM
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"My other woman is an astronaut".
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:46 PM
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How can I reconcile this? You gotta give the pill more time. Assuming you 'were' some kind of beta before taking the pill, you most assuredly still have a shitload of mental changes to go through. It's a lot like betas who say they like smart women, or fat women. You 'like' the shit you think you have access to. I used to think I liked smart women more. I seriously used to think I liked fucking fat girls too... lol, how fucking wrong I was. Jeebus. Turns out I like sexy women more. But somehow I…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 02:52 PM
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Taking care of myself, cultivating my hobbies and interests, and not allowing myself to be walked on. It's kind of sad that it took something reviled like TRP to help me figure shit out, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 09:31 PM
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Thing is, I don't really give a shit. If the witch hunt decides to come after 'ole Dreckmal, let 'em come and get me. All that effort would say to me is that I must be doing life right, to make enemies who are that irrationally pissed. Fact of the matter is , TRP works for the people willing to put effort in. It doesn't mean I'm a dick, that I treat women (or people in general) badly, or that I'm a basement dwelling neck beard. I get laid, the ladies love me, and I'm having a blast. That's all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 08:47 PM
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I'm sure it is. Internet trolls abound. But the extremity of the responses get the newbs thinking more critically. Seems to me like the more offensive an idea is, the stronger your response to it will be. I wonder just how many TRPers became such after trying to fight the offensive shit TRP says. Honestly, all TRP did for me was get me to open my eyes to reality. I made me actually think about why I always caved to women, and allowed them to walk all over me. It's funny, but I've become some sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 08:39 PM
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thats paranoid, assuming that every woman thinks they have an advantage over you. This could certainly be your perspective, but from the RP perspective, it does several things. Mostly, it puts a guy in the right head space to deal with women, if you remember that most TRP members were actually loser dumbass guys who thought pedastalizing women would get the woman's attention. It also gives the woman something she doesn't experience every day, i.e. someone else looking to kiss her ass to try and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 07:05 PM
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So what? You think no-one else negative self talks? When you have those thoughts you dwell on them don't you? I know, because I suffer from that bullshit myself. The only thing to do is forget it and move forward. You have to become someone you like. It may take a long time, but anything worth it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 03:21 PM
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My aesthetics are irrelevant You certainly don't think they are. They are the most relevant to you. Stop hating yourself for it. You aren't special. my low T has destroyed me There is plenty you can do without meds to improve T levels. Diet, exercise and the right amount of sleep are the big three that matter. and the best I can hope for is women won't actively bully or spit at me like they did when younger. lol... Your attitude is what is doing this for you. I know it sounds like bullshit, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 03:02 PM
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I'll bet Chad Jr. would be a fitting name for the offspring. lol
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:28 PM
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She knows he knows. This is all that really needed said. He got cold and distant to protect himself. I found myself agreeing with a top level post that she probably is pregnant, and she spun this yarn in an attempt to paint herself in a less dark light.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:45 PM
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The problem with him is that he is reading a script and doesn't re-take audio when he flubs a line. He also has a nasty habit of repeating words repeatedly, which pulls a listener out of the content and into 'what the fuck did I just hear?' mode.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:43 PM
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So you consider constantly relegating your own needs to be "nice" or healthy? How does doing something nice equate to constant negation of your own needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:12 PM
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It's revolting when the advice is that a woman should dump her life This is your interpretation. No where in the list was that actually stated, or even implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:11 PM
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seriously though, is doxxing a possibility? Seriously? A motivated individual is capable of a great deal. That's why TRP works. I don't care how many locks you have on your door, if I fucking want to, I will get in.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:30 PM
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Humans "need" both sex and emotion I just can't understand the need or the desperation. So, which is it? I firmly believe men need sex. When people don't get what they need, they can get irrationally desperate. I just don't believe they need them at the same time... that's just what they want. So you have clearly partitioned sex and emotional connection. That's great if it works for you. But, what makes you think that is what men can or should do that? Frankly, for me, it doesn't even have to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 08:23 PM
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Why do some men people prefer to shit on competent women people instead of learning from them? Men do this to other men too. It literally has nothing to do with gender or sex, or whatever the stupid PC term for it is now. When someone discovers their 'low' value, they often either shut down, or go on the offensive. This is just an example of a shitty person, not necessarily someone who only hates on girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:34 PM
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I guess maybe that is just me though. And here is the problem. See, I can't know what it's like to be you, and you can't know what it's like to be me. For me, as a guy, if I just need to get off, I can hop in a bathroom and rub one out in 2 minutes or less. It's almost clinical. That doesn't fix my need for the emotional release I get from sex with another person. Being obsessed with getting laid is how men are wired. Of course there will be individual exceptions, but by and large, men are built…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 12:37 PM
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Would you agree or disagree that sex with another person carries an emotional connection that masturbation does not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 11:29 AM
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Your comment makes it sound like men are frustrated over their lack of love (human connection), not their lack of sex (orgasm). Men in their late teens to late twenties can become aroused multiple times a day. Some men can masturbate 5-10 or more times a day. If masturbation solved the actual problem, guys wouldn't be bitching about not getting laid. Are you a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 10:02 PM
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I just find it odd that orgasms aren't enough. Masturbation provides no emotional connection. Sex with a partner features the gamut of the human experience. Try and imagine how empty life would feel if you believed no-one would ever willingly share that kind of experience with you. Masturbation doesn't cut it. It isn't just about dumping out some sperm. If that were the problem, then absolutely floggin the dolphin would take care of it. Answer this: Would bringing yourself to orgasm alleviate yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 04:07 PM
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I know for a fact I can get semi-regular sex if I wanted it. I'm 21 and a virgin. these two sentiments don't jive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 03:51 PM
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due to the fact that they are feminists and believe in equality? I have yet to see any one living in the modern era propose what sex/gender equality looks like in reality that comes anywhere close to a text-book definition of equality. When you go basing your world view around concepts that cannot be made real, you're gonna have a bad time. It is going to seem like the world is conspiring against you. How could you be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 08:54 PM
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I seriously cannot imagine an actual 'natural alpha' wanting to be dominated in bed. I could be wrong, different strokes and what not...
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:03 PM
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I don't really think TRP is very successful Let me set you straight right here and now: If you want it to work, it will. If you believe it won't, it will not work. I am living proof that it can indeed do a man wonders. Your looks don't matter. Seriously. You believe your looks matter, and because you also believe you are ugly you have shit self esteem. You probably practice negative self talk all day every day. Fuckin' stop it. Women do not think like you dawg. You, as a male of our fine species…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 07:53 PM
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I am too concerned with myself to be worried about others. Especially their sexual preference. Live and let live dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 07:36 PM
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How do I take back control of my part in her life? Here's the problem with this question: your 'part' in her life is her choice. You know the old saying "You can lead a horse to the river..." You two are not 'together'. You choose to be with her, and she is sort of/kind of/not really choosing to be with you. You already know the answers to the questions you have, you are just terrified of them. And that's okay. Part of being a man is facing the shit you are afraid of. I felt helpless and hopeles…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 01:16 PM
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I am learning to write code, I play bass in a classic rock band, and I design RPGs for fun. I also love to cook. Bitches love good food.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:59 PM
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It is a mistake to try and communicate with women on the same level you communicate men. There are vast swathes of non-spoken ideas that never get brought up when women are dispensing their advice to young men.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:40 PM
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Step One: read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:26 PM
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Really, it's not about 'not giving a fuck,' it's learning where to properly spend the fucks you have.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:24 PM
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We're just talking dating? Count don't matter. I'm not going to waste my time on someone I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:19 PM
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Is there anything you get intense about? Something that you feel a fiery passion for?
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:38 PM
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Sounds like she has been repeatedly failing compliance tests. You sure you wanna keep seeing her dude?
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:10 PM
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Personally, I don't believe FRs written in that manner. There are a number of issues I see with the way it is written. It could certainly be possible, but the guy's writing style sounds a little too try hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 02:33 PM
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Honestly, it is pretty nice. I can't put a finger on why, but I do like explaining my view of gender dynamics to a girl (i think a lot of new RedPillers feel the same way). This way, I get to do it and not endanger my prospects with potential new girls. I also get her perspective on matters, which has been eye opening in a couple cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:30 PM
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What even using the terminology? Yeah. I don't give no fucks man. I'm also about the only person in her life that talks like it is and doesn't sugar coat shit for her. She recognizes within herself the flaws that women have. I can talk to her about it because I'm not trying to pick her up, and she gets some useful insight into how shit works. To this date, she has yet to disagree with a single thing I've ever told her. The look she gets when understanding dawns is pretty good too. She doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:17 PM
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I tell my sister all the time about RP shit. She always agrees. I don't even sugar coat the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:02 PM
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Oh, I get it now, but back then... And I had to compare myself to those guys, because those guys that hit women have women. It seems fucked up to a 'Nice Guy' that women would choose to be with someone who whips their ass, as opposed to him. Like I said, I get it now. It just took 30 some years to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:24 PM
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The Duluth Model is an expressed form of the narrative. It seems perfectly logical to assume the larger person is always the perpetrator, but it isn't always the case. A lot of female to male DV ends up with the male being taken into custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:41 PM
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I suppose I can see how forcing yourself to interact with people as a sort of confidence builder, I just have a hard time seeing myself do that.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 05:29 PM
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Why do you think TRP says: lift, lift, lift...? Becoming a street fundraiser (yes, they are annoying as shit :P) is one idea I had in mind. How is becoming a profession annoyance help you get more confident?
/r/askTRP17/07/15 05:07 PM
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Thoughts? Seriously? Quit asking dumb fucking questions you don't really want the answer to. What was the point of asking that? Were you trying to stroke your own ego? Or are you a masochist?
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:12 PM
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You can be a nice as you want but if you're awkward and ugly as fuck and/or boring as hell, it's not going to help you. That's part of the problem. It's almost like that last bit there get's left unspoken. Like it should be understood. A lot of guys are literal in that sense. You don't get a gold star for doing the bare fucking minimum. A lot of the 'nice guys' think they are doing more than the bare minimum. They believe there are a lot of guys out there who abuse women physically, and that by …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 01:31 PM
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Lol, normal being defined as...? The fact that you openly post such contradictory BS is both laughable and sad. I hope you are trolling, otherwise, you are advocating real violence to end imaginary violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 09:20 PM
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It is the definition one subgroup of society decides it wants the word to mean. The broader society (i.e. the fine folks at Webster, or New Merriam, or any other world recognized purveyor of dictionaries) at large is still operating off the more truncated version /u/Cyralea linked to. So, apparently we have two different definitions to work from. Which one is correct? For there to be a debate, we'd need to agree to the terms first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:44 PM
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I always wondered why women crossed the street when I am out walking. They must be able to smell it or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 07:42 PM
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(think of the the classic "nice guy" scenario where he compliments a woman in an over-the-top fashion, and then when she doesn't respond in the exact way he wants, he reacts with profanity-laden insults). Does this actually happen often enough to call it classic? I mean, I am totally a former 'Nice Guy' and the most I ever did when shut down was get depressed, go home, and cry about it. Take it as anecdotal, but I have never known a guy to shyly ask a girl out and then call her a bitch when she …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 07:21 PM
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So civilized society should destroy a group of people for ideas that you find to be misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 06:03 PM
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Is speaking your mind some form of a hate crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 05:57 PM
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I believe that my problem is that I always think I can do better. Isn't that every man's problem? That there must be a girl out there who brings out my beta tendencies, which in turn makes me feel like I am in love. I don't get it. Are you trying to find a unicorn that makes you weak in the knees? That literally sounds like a female fantasy to me. Or have I established myself so well in my current relationship, that I think it must not be good enough? I don't even know how to interpret this...
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:46 PM
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Will I only feel love by succumbing to the beta, white knight mentality? This mentality is what makes you you think this is okay: hoping there is someone out there who consumes my thoughts more than those of myself. If you don't love yourself first and foremost, above all others, you won't be the kind of man any woman wants or needs. Women are never ever going to love you unconditionally (your mom is literally the only person in the world who could have). If you really want that kind of love, su…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:35 PM
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Any suggestions appreciated. Take a tablespoon of cement and harden up, dawg. The world doesn't give a fuck about your feelings. this little problem I have that is sapping my self esteem recently. Convince yourself that this mentality is bullshit. You are giving away your self-esteem. Really I find them quite sickening, especially as they are displaying warped, irritating personalities and acting like sycophants. And yet, when they approach you, you: respond to being roused out of this state wit…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 03:41 PM
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Interesting... I find the cream dulls the bitterness just enough. I also like how thick it makes the coffee.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 08:29 PM
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Ahh, yeah I was typing this before the edit. I don't think you'll find a unifying answer. My personal belief is that a man can love to do whatever. As long as he can display passion, intensity, and confidence, he can get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 08:13 PM
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Generally TRP will suggest hobbies that offer some kind of social interaction. Robot guy going to competitions might not catch as much flak as a brony. Learning to play music, or some bar game (pool, poker, darts... shuffleboard) is advisable because those pursuits can lead toward an active social life with real face-to-face interaction. Honestly, do whatever you want to do though. You can even be a raid leader. But you shouldn't complain about not meeting women if you spend all your time in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 07:59 PM
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Hard Boiled eggs. Boil a dozen or two and peel 'em Sunday night, have breakfast ready to go all week. Also, coffee with heavy whipping cream.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:25 PM
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Well, there is little to no point in damning yourself for mistakes you made in the past. use the anger to motivate yourself to meet your needs now. Come up with a plan, and make some changes. PM me if you need/want someone to talk to about it.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:16 PM
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Is there any hope? There is always hope. The tricky bit is what to hope for. It's easy to arm-chair scream divorce. None of us are in your position though. Fact of the matter is that you've had people close to you that have held secrets behind your back for years of your life. Ultimately, you now have to question the trust you've placed with all of them who were 'in' on it. But now I have stopped caring for her. I think you still care about her a great deal and just aren't sure how to deal with …
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:45 PM
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I believe men and women operate from different objective truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 05:46 PM
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My 'trigger' is that you used an insult like certifiably insane to minimize the hardships I have faced in life. I couldn't care less if you think I'm insane. I want people to stop telling me that the bullshit I've had to put up with is somehow less than their own bullshit, simply because they haven't lived with mine. *edit: could was the wrong word. Thanks bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 04:05 PM
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Ahh, you are putting words in my mouth. I simply was responding to the OP. Never once in this thread have I said AWALT. I said TRP doesn't slut shame and men don't like being lied to. How did you get to me claiming AWALT in this instance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 04:01 PM
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Lol, you just implied I am insane. Why should I care at all with what you think I should be concerned with? Sorry I fed the troll guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:54 PM
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Yes. My ex-wife refused to give me the sex she used to give other men without hesitation. I probably would have been okay with it had I not found out the way I did. She couldn't care less that my view of her was forever shifted. She didn't think it was a big deal that my mental image of her, built over years, crumbled away in the course of an afternoon. Sorry to break it to you, but some of us have a life story that doesn't match yours, or your conception of what people should be concerned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:52 PM
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You trolling me or something? You are literally calling my story, and plenty of people I know mythic. This shit does happen, and just because you don't think about it doesn't make other people wrong or insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:48 PM
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So because some other people think about life differently, they must be 'certifiably insane', right? That seems like a pretty prejudiced sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:33 PM
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Well, if she had extra-relationship sex while we were seeing each other, yes it is a problem. Also, if I am interested in having kinky sex that she used to have all the time (college threesomes, BJs, anal...) and refuses me, it is a problem. But, the real problem comes when I find out that she lied to me about it. If she did have threesomes in her past and I find out from one of her friends as opposed to her, that is a problem. Notice I tried to address the situation as the lie being hurtful. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:31 PM
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Red Pillers do not despise promiscuous women. Some men discover that they are married to or dating a woman who happens to be a slut, and they get angry at that one woman. It isn't about the sex, it's about the lies, or the perception of being lied to. Largely, it is women who despise sluts and practice slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 02:26 PM
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It's anecdotal at best dude. I spank it 3-5 times a week and fuck my plates for 30-45+ mins every time. Unless you were jacking it 5 times a day every day, masturbation is probably not going to cause performance issues.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 11:49 AM
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There are two perfect times to plant a tree: 20 years ago, and today.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 02:07 PM
2

Do you actually think this 'compare and contrast' will do any useful illustration for you?
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:56 PM
1

You have done nothing to clear this up for me here. Can you ask a more vague question? See, part of my confusion here comes from the fact that I had just said that labeling a man as alpha or beta is fucking useless. And you still felt the need to use alpha as a label. I'm not sure you are actually reading anything. Alpha describes the behavior, not the man. Real men do whatever the fuck they want to do. As long as you aren't damaging someone else or someone else's property, knock yourself out. P…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 10:20 AM
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I'm not even sure what you are asking.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:36 AM
2

Someone decided that we needed to lump men into more categories than alpha or beta, despite those descriptors only applying to behavior, and not the man himself. Like a sigma male is some flavor or percentage of x% alpha and y% beta, while also trying to lump in an amount of intro/extrovertedness. It's useless and retarded. I firmly believe it is used primarily to make people feel like special snowflakes.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:01 PM
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You only receive notification of a high rating if you pay for the subscription service. I would be surprised if most users are paying for OKCupid. so women know that a high rating means sending an indication of interest which women are less prone to want to do Which means that they do not value the average man the same way a man would value an average woman. Which has been the point of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 06:33 PM
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We further found that the more sexual partners a woman had had before marriage, the less happy she reported her marriage to be. This association was not statistically significant for men. Page 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 12:48 PM
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Because the more partners a woman has had, the less likely she is to successfully pair bond with the man she is seeing now. If a man was looking for a woman to marry, and he found someone with a high partner count, that woman is much more likely to run off, or drop her loyalty, which most men see as the cornerstone of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 12:24 PM
2

Thank you for the response. I will be taking this to heart.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:29 AM
1

At this point, I am looking for casual ONS and/or plates.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:00 PM
1

For sure I am not spinning enough plates. The problem I am having right now is in the acquisition thereof. It seems to me to be similar to the 'job catch-22.' It's hard to get experience when no-one wants to hire you because you don't have experience. If I go out hungry, I lose the outcome independence (which I suppose means I never had it to begin with...). I also tend to lose my poker face when I am presented with scenarios that I wasn't anticipating. I don't really have a problem implementing…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:58 PM
4

There are days where I am so emotionally detached that if one were to rub me the wrong way in the street I might kill them in the next minute. This doesn't sound detached, this sounds incredibly fucking angry. If it helps you feel better, I am still figuring out how to deal with women. I have had some startling changes in perspective over the last 6 months (I've been here for a year and a half at least). The biggest one is coming to proper expectations of women. For all intents and purposes I am…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:51 PM
2

but to me it sounds too juvenile to use after a certain age. You certainly don't have to employ said tactic, but the given age of a man is about as relevant as his physical appearance. If you believe you are God's gift, it really doesn't matter what you look like. If you don't give a shit about how mature she thinks you are, then telling her that Elon Musk owes you a favor may be the hot ticket. For me, personally, I don't think I could date women that only wanted serious answers to questions li…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:47 PM
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Honestly, that juvenile aspect is part of the point. If you can pull it off with the correct attitude it displays your ability to have fun and be entertaining. Straight forwardly answering the questions is what typical guys do. Don't be typical.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:35 PM
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You will for sure know when you hit the acceptance phase. I was also pretty severely depressed, and about the only effect it had was it took a bit longer for me to get to acceptance. Chin up, move forward.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:51 PM
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The question is: How long? That's a great question. Only you can decide the right answer. Just know that sexual chemistry is as important as emotional or mental chemistry.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 03:21 PM
1

It'll get better dude. If you really want a STEM career, chin up and push forward. Also note: you don't owe your parents shit. You don't owe them religion, you don't owe them a marriage to someone 'from the culture'. The only thing you owe anyone is you, and your own happiness and well being. You may need to tough it out for a bit, but don't let them get in your way.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:51 PM
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Agreed. Don't feed the trolls guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:44 PM
2

Learn to code. Also, lift.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:02 PM
3

An outcome of deliberate attempts to reduce empathy When you are so empathetic that it stalls your ability to function as a man, reducing empathy is a reasonable solution. increase manipulation you say this as if it were a bad thing. You are the one assigning negative connotation to it, not TRP. view others (women) as evil and sub-human is a risk of sociopathic disorders. Taking women off the pedestal is not synonymous with thinking they are evil. Using words like 'evil' helps you feel better ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:01 PM
2

testing the view that women have an assigned attractiveness that can't be changed, but men have fluid potential Both men and women have fluid potential. For instance, women can engage in behavior that qualifies or disqualifies them as being attractive, regardless of their physical appearance. Women can also modify their physical appearance. Make-up, hair styles, clothing, boob jobs, nose jobs, face lifts, diet, exercise, smiling... There is a shit-ton of things women can do right now to increase…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 07:55 PM
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I didn't say power. Don't put words in my mouth. The comparison for a woman's physical appearance is a man's confidence in his decision making. As far as who has the easier job... What the hell does that matter? Also, why does it matter? Trying to directly compare women and men like this is not productive in the slightest. You are trying to compare apples with tent-stakes. What is you point with this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 07:44 PM
1

Having/employing the ability to make decisions. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 07:37 PM
1

Hiking, backpacking, camping, canoeing. Smoke some meat, and fuck while you wait for it to finish. Prank call people. Watch grass grow, or paint dry.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 07:35 PM
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It's all good. I've kind of had a month or so back slide too. Still not sure what's been going on lately, but I've been having a real shitty mood. I suspect it was from becoming complacent with the progress I had made up until my last epiphany. Keep up the good fight man.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:29 PM
1

You really want her out of your life? Quit fucking talking/texting/messaging/writing-her-love-letters. Jesus, it aint hard man.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:15 PM
2

Got get some interesting hobbies (play music, write, learn a new language, lift weights). Go do cool shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:12 PM
1

Took my about a year to get through the first 4. I was getting pretty bad by the end of that year (sometime around the end of February this year), when things just started clicking for me. I don't recall the epiphany moment, but it definitely came as a surprise.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:11 PM
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I actually agree with what you are saying. Oddly enough, it took some very negative life experiences and finding/employing TRP for me personally to grow into a decent human being. It makes for a convenient sound-byte to simply blame feminism. I realize this. Perhaps in my case it has largely been a case of 'correlation implying causation' in my interpretation. A majority of the people (in this case women, but not 100% so) who shaped my views and thoughts on gender (specifically the male gender a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 12:29 PM
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Interestingly enough, what you've said does nothing to counter my statement. It doesn't matter if: feminism's role has simply been fighting for women to not be treated like shit anymore. because one of it's side-effects is making ineffectual men. It may not have started out trying to do that, but that is for sure one of the things it has accomplished. Now, do you have some actual problem with my criticizing feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:57 PM
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I would argue that feminism's role has been shaming masculine behavior, as well as invading/reducing male spaces. These are what have taught a generation of boys to embrace emotionality, which is where we get nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 03:46 PM
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What kind of women do you think are the best homemakers that fit with alpha personalities, If you think you are going to find quality based on locality, your gonna have a bad time. Women all over the world are like that dog.
/r/GEOTRP17/06/15 11:14 AM
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because some girl didn't like you? You misunderstand what TRPers are pissed about. Let's assume that men and women are equal (this is what I've been told for as long as I can remember). If that is the case, men and women think similarly, right? (they don't, but that is the lie we've been sold the last 40+ years) If we start from this premise, women should be able to tell men what turns women on. Let's face it, men know for a fact what turns them on, and can/will tell you about it in detail. So m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 08:58 PM
0

Is the worst pain any person's life a small thing if it can be compared to someone with a different set of problems? When a 5 year old cuts his hand open, it's the worst pain he's ever had in his life. Is that pain less because someone else has had more pain to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 08:34 PM
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He can't explain, he's just trying to win a pointless pissing match about how he's been abused too, but-didn't-turn-out-all-bitter, so-why-can't-TRP. Basically he's telling TRPers to 'man up' which I find to be fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 07:42 PM
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I would have preferred to have true equal relationships, Agreed. It would be great if I didn't have to hold the reigns all the time. Unfortunately, that isn't the case, and like you I am much more effective now that I see the dynamics for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 12:30 PM
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Hmm... Tutorial time... Notice the small up and down arrows along the side of posts there? Turns out, they are useful for exactly what you are talking about. Jesus... isn't there a rule about concern trolling? You would have better served the community by coming up with an interesting topic.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 03:21 PM
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TRP encourages men to do what makes them happy. Some men are happily monogamous. Personally, I just won't be promising exclusivity. I won't be capable of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 02:33 PM
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You want the real answer to this question? What is the best way to let him see how manipulative women are ? Let him see it for himself. He will continue to fuck it up until he wants to fix it. The only thing you can do is be a positive source of male influence. If you push these kinds of issues directly, you will likely only drive him away from you.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 07:07 PM
1

but if you're living in the real world you know just as well as I do that men love women with money Apparently I live somewhere other than reality then, because I couldn't care less about how much money or status a woman has. I date jobless single moms and Branch Managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 03:15 PM
1

It might help you reach a level of rage quicker. Sounds like your buddy just wants to fuck your old lady man. You don't hasten the pill, or you will vomit it back up.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:11 PM
2

If I take a shower using cold water, my back will seize up on me (Fucking arthritis....), and will be utter shit the rest of the day. Some guys feel like they get some benefit from it? Awesome. It just ain't for me.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:44 PM
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I have a super old set of frames, likely from the turn of the 19th to the 20th century. Women constantly comment on how cool they are.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:37 PM
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Have you ever seen 'Gran Turino'? If not, watch for the scene where Clint Eastwood takes the Asian kid to the barber. This is how men do. We give each other shit to weed out the fuckin' faggot ass pussies. edit: was being a retard.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:59 PM
2

You're sentiment hinges around this: All I want is to know why she stopped liking me and want to be able to fuck her brains out and just leave it at that, just so I can be at ease. There could be thirty billion reasons she 'stopped' liking you. Just about any active attempt to score her back up will come across as try-hard. If you are really 'becoming alpha,' then just wait till she gets back ahold of you.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 04:56 PM
1

Advice: Want to bang this girl You want real advice? Quit looking to bang 'this one chick'. Having one girl you are focusing on means you lack 1) outcome independence, and 2) abundance mentality. Those are way more important than slipping dick to this one girl.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 04:38 PM
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To be fair, I didn't grow up with any of those women. I can't speak to their seriousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 04:34 PM
0

Buy an evening with a prostitute. Seriously, no shame in it.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:30 PM
1

Yes. You didn't give her what she wanted, unlike most other guys. You must be a prick.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:29 PM
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No you don't. You want to be seen as someone who does not compromise. There is a big difference.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:09 PM
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Most feminists don't say that men are monsters. Here's how it broke down for me: When I was 5-6 years old, my Aunt would often belittle men in a sarcastic manner. 'All men are pigs' or 'men are terrible'. These things were not meant to be taken literally. Usually these sentiments would get brought up over frustrations or between close female friends. Thing is, young children do not get sarcasm. I interpreted that as a legit feeling, from someone I was supposed to be able to trust. Her attitude (…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 02:23 PM
1

Always lift. However, I am much like you in that I need to focus on losing the gut before making serious gainz. Don't worry about throwing up big numbers until you hit your goal weight. Once you hit that, then increase your healthy food intake and look to make the gainz.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:56 PM
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Hold up, you are 6 ft tall, 265 lbs, you exercise an hour and a half a day and you do that all on 1300 calories? I am 6'2" 250 lbs, and my BMR (the amount of calories I need to eat to mantain weight) is 1000 calories more than that. What does your diet consist of? How do you track your calories? How much water do you drink? how much do you sleep? Do you lift, or is it all cardio?
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:33 PM
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Yes, your honor, I did sign that loan agreement. But the Bank failed to gain my enthusiastic consent. I just wasn't comfortable saying no to them at the time...
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 02:55 PM
2

radiculitis I suffer from Sciatica, which is a form of what you are talking about. The pain runs from my ass cheek, down the outside of my thigh and into the back of my calf (down into my toes on super bad days). I am not going to argue with your doctor, but I heard the same shit from medical experts for the better part of a decade. If/when I don't do back work (including dead lifts), my sciatica and arthritis get worse. No shit, I have more pain free days because of the lifting. It may not work…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:08 PM
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I've had four back surgeries, and I have degenerative disc disease. I deadlift at least once a week. What kind of back problems do you have that disqualify DLs?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 06:19 PM
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Did you try reading the sidebar? Like, at all?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:07 PM
0

How many instances would it take to prove to you that this shit does in fact happen, outside the bubble you want to place TRPers in? I am only trying to illustrate the hyperbolic statement you made. It does happen. Maybe it doesn't happen every day on every street corner, but there are enough instances to nullify your claim that it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:41 PM
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Zero times. This fantasy doesn't exist anywhere outside of your echochamber manosphere. Yep, you're right! In case you needed to know, there are three links to news articles discussing exactly what you claim never happens, outside the echo chamber. Tell those dead men and boys that what happened to them never happens to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:18 PM
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How do I get past this? Keep your eyes on the prize man. It sucks dick being low man on the totem, but we all have to do it at multiple times in our lives. Head down, push forward. I really don't want to be this way when I start my actual career. You've already started it man. Keep pushing till the end, and use this time to make mistakes you can learn from. Frankly, I wouldn't worry about whether or not you are being beta. Watch and learn from those around you who are experienced in your field. …
/r/becomeaman23/05/15 04:20 PM
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Are you trying to advocate open relationships or trying to teach men not to cry so much when they are cheated on? I think OP was going for the latter. Patrice O'Neal had a similar sentiment when he was making the statement: "We are not together. I choose to be with her, and she chooses to be with me." Guys run into problems when they 'expect' her to be loyal, just because they are being loyal.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 11:54 AM
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I used to think the same shit as you, man. Turns out, stoic and brooding are not actually attractive. It's the 'don't give a fuck about you' attitude those actions carry that is attractive. Women will be much more open to a funny guy that doesn't give a fuck than they would for the brooding guy that doesn't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:19 AM
8

Those who don't know teach.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:27 PM
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your efforts to disprove me ended up disproving yourself. I have yet to be disproven. I feel as if my stance has been vindicated. I remain strong in the belief that there is a clear difference between equality and Equality of Condition as terms. The butthurt comment strikes me like a little toddler stuffing fingers in his ear and saying Nana Nana Boo Boo. Address the topic, not me as a person. Well pardon fucking me for not using the eaxact fucking language of the fucking wikipedia article. Dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 04:48 PM
1

The only time a man and a woman can honestly be good friends (outside BF/GF or Husband/Wife scenarios) is if neither is attracted to the other, and both find each other useful. It's not impossible, but it is pretty unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 04:33 PM
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I thought it was about attracting women "through honesty" Honey, that's part of the message TRP sells. No shit. Yes, you have to read between lines. Yes you have to climb through a mountain of hate. But that is the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 04:26 PM
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Are 'Equality of Condition' and 'equality' interchangeable terms? I fully alluded to it. It sounds pretty close to my first response, does it not? You are aware, of course that even 'fully alluding' to something is still hinting at it, right? As opposed to blatantly delivering on definitions, you vaguely poked in their direction. You try to call me out for making a natural assumption, and I still feel vindicated in carrying that assumption. That is what I posted in the first place, is it not? We…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 04:05 PM
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To treat people equally, doesn't always mean "the same." No, to allow people Equality of Condition means not always treating them the same. Treating people differently is not treating them equally, it is treating them with Equality of Condition. I read the article, in it's entirety. Equality of Condition is not synonymus with equality. It is modifying the idea of equality. My assumption is not incorrect, because equal already has the specific definition of same. You have been chasing me around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 03:13 PM
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Your position also says that men and women are not equal, correct? Yes. That was my original statement in this whirlwind. But this thesis hinges on the definition of the word equal. What is equality? For me, equal = same. That is how I understand equal. Here comes the clue train. It is because men and women are not equal, and because thus society must then form policies to even equality between genders, that such policies as the above exist. When you use the word equal, I assume you mean same. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 02:44 PM
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Actually, about everything on that page supports my position. I wonder, at this point, do you even know what my position is? Or how your position opposes it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 05:51 AM
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Ok. Full Stop. Let's get this sorted. You've alluded several times that social equality does not mean same treatment. Social equality is a state of affairs in which all people within a specific society or isolated group have the same status in certain respects, often including civil rights, freedom of speech, property rights, and equal access to social goods and services. I pulled this definition from the Wiki article on it. Feel free to provide any other you'd prefer to work from. Note that bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 05:55 PM
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If you honestly enjoy going down, fuckin' go to town man. Personally, I love eatin' that pussy. Why would it be beta?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:20 PM
1

The logic behind the cops not taking any chances and thus removing from a volitile situation the person most likely to engage in violence makes your head spin? In this case, the 'person most likely' is the one with a penis. You are literally employing an argument that calls for institutionalized sexism. You realize that, don't you? And you're somehow okay with that... Or is it just that I don't think it's wrong, that you can't wrap your head around? What I am failing to wrap my head around is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 12:20 PM
1

Did you already promise her exclusivity?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 04:36 PM
1

For domestic violence, once again in the majority of cases, the man is the perpetrator, not the victim... That's why when the cops get called, they put the man in the car automatically Despite the fact that you said we should be treating men and women equally under the eyes of the law, you are seriously bandying about the point that men should be auto-arrested no matter who the violent perpetrator was. The logic behind that is making my brain spin. Is it any wonder that women report DV much more…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 04:34 PM
1

Well, you gotta do what's right for you man. Personally, I wouldn't promise exclusivity to someone unless they were willing to put out when I needed it. In reality, I have all but sworn to never promise that again anyway. I don't see the reason to shackle myself to some girl and have my needs met at her fancy. but it does suck a bit when I'm giving my sex for free, yet she's the one that decides whether to fuck or not That's how the game works dude. Male sex is free. She can literally go fuck an…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 01:19 PM
2

Ahh... okay. How often do you get some from your girl? Also, what do you provide for this relationship? Do you two live together?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:55 PM
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than threatening You never, ever, ever make a threat that you will absolutely not carry out. That is Man 101. You say some shit, you follow through with it. Anything less than that diminishes your value as a man. How do I establish this. I've told her once before that "if you don't empty my balls I'll find someone who does", but I find that being direct and upfront about this is ineffective You go and find someone when she doesn't empty them balls. That was a bluff you made with her, she called …
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:27 PM
3

The footwork is everything you have done to improve your SMV. It also includes any and everything you've done with this girl to incite her passion. And I don't care if she ain't in the mood. One of my needs is sexual release. If she is too tired or not in the mood, some other girl will be ready to go. If she can't bother to take care of my needs, should I continue to take care of hers? I don't have time to deal with someone's flighty bullshit. Since I have established this upfront, and maintaine…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:08 PM
1

Did you just walk up to this girl, never having talked to her before, and proposition her for sex? Or had you been with this girl for some length of time (i.e. putting the footwork in)?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:45 AM
1

Almost all women are capable of this. It just takes a little time to find more of them.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:44 AM
2

Being treated "equally" doesn't always neccesitate being treated exactly the same. Funny, because I'm pretty sure the word equal means the same. As in exactly the same. So, unless you can define the word equal to mean something else, I fail to see how we are equal. There are certain disadvantages that both men and women have that necessitate different treatment, if they are to be treated equally under the law. This sentence seems to agree with my sentiment that we are not equal to begin with. Pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 11:43 AM
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Okay, I'll bite. 100% serious question here: How do you define equality? Would you say a fork and a spoon are equal? I feel like you are criticizing me, as opposed to what I have to say. Which is characteristic of BP type think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:44 PM
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Yours. Seriously though, what is the point of your question? Why would you assume my betterment means someone else's detriment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:42 PM
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Because you run the risk of devaluing yourself in her eyes. Believe me, she will too. She won't be able to unsee what makes you weak, and she isn't into you for your weakness. Unless you meant something else, in which case, please clarify.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:58 PM
1

What does she do for you that no other person on the planet is capable of?
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:55 PM
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I used to have a bad habit of making conversation 'contributions' by dropping remarks on any conversation I thought I had an amusing anecdote for. After swallowing the pill, I became frustrated with this habit. Mostly because it felt like I was being a 'tryhard faggot'. The thing that really helped me was keeping in mind that most people don't actually fucking care. Seriously, everybody else is just as 'up their own ass' as you are. It may also help to keep in mind that you don't talk about how …
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:51 PM
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She constantly plays a card she likes to call "my head wants to but my body doesn't". "Well, my body wants it, and if you aren't going to give it, Good 'ol Sally two doors down will." Don't negotiate with terrorists man. I just suddenly feel rage but I don't know how to focus it. You will cool off, eventually. remember exactly how mad you were (or are...) and use that for motivation to improve yourself. Read up on dread game. And seriously, tell her "This dick won't suck itself. If you won't do …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:02 PM
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I've known some guys to say that they just chill with a girl and just ask her for some head so they don't have to kiss her. I've known some guys that lie in an attempt to improve their social standing in the group. Once you are not a teenager, this shit becomes readily transparent. If you do the footwork, you won't even have to ask. But there are no girls that will just suck dick by 'chilling and asking her for one'.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:55 PM
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While this is anecdotal, TRP helped me become a much more happy and productive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 06:37 PM
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the incredible hypocrisy It would be incredible hypocrisy, if men and women were equal. We are demonstrably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 06:36 PM
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What can women do so that men will be happy ? Understand that any given human is responsible for their own happiness. That is what women can do. Women should invest more into their own happiness. A smiling woman is much more attractive than a woman with resting bitch face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 08:31 PM
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You're right I'll take any wins you want to throw at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 08:22 PM
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You realize how open ended that question is, don't you? What should women do, concerning what topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 08:11 PM
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Please stop putting words in our mouths, HSW... Ok , we understand. Clearly you don't, because you go on to say: Men hate women. That is exactly why: Men are frustrated with women. With that being said... what should women do to change ? If you (as a woman) are going to generalize and argument, you seriously need to stop countering arguments with specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 07:52 PM
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Okay. I think I get where you are coming from. The problem here is how or what you define as romantic love, and it harkens back to what I had to say about the failings of English. For you, romantic love is probably clearly defined as 'x'. Anything that falls into 'x' you could/would/should see as being a demonstration of romantic love. For any given man, 'y' is the clear definition of romantic love. 'X' and 'Y' are almost never strictly relate-able. You, yourself, acknowledge that there are diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 07:25 PM
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I'd be interested to know why you feel that way. Can you answer any of the other questions I asked? I assume you think men and women should feel the same desires because you feel that men and women are equal in thoughts, feelings, and desires. Is that the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 06:46 PM
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from personal experience Are you a man? Is your personal experience from the point of view of a man (who doesn't want to be loved), or from a woman who wants to love a man the way she wants to be loved? Do you think that men and women want the same things from a relationship? Do you think the way a man wants love should be equivalent to the way a woman wants love? A large part of the problem is that the English language only has one word for all the extreme emotional connections we humans can fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 06:26 PM
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So... what are some good, non-retarded sounding options then?
/r/askTRP12/05/15 06:12 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP08/05/15 02:42 PM
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Lol, work on it. Next time don't bring it up.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:33 PM
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It's hard, dog. I know it is. Especially when you are emotionally charged by initiating a break up. Women are born, bred and trained to be amazing actresses.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:12 PM
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I look for an exit strategy by finding a mistake they make This is part of the problem you are suffering from. If you want to be done with 'em, be done. Don't look for excuses to leave 'em. Also, if you are going to next them, fuckin' next them dude. That means you don't text, chat or call 'em. You act polite if you run into them, but do not initiate contact, and do not reciprocate. Frankly, You want to freely bump plates into a LTR and back to plates again. If you want to do this, you need bett…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:03 PM
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I think losing frame is probably the only reason for my onitis after any relationship. Out of curiosity, what leads you to believe this is the case?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:52 PM
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I said it in the other thread you posted too. Take your fucking ball, and go the fuck home. I still don't give a shit about her, but am curious: where will this lead? It has already lead to oneitis. You cannot possibly A) not care about this bitch, and B) be her beta. Forget about this one.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:48 PM
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Take your ball, and go home.
/r/becomeaman07/05/15 07:27 PM
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My bad, I didn't see the two weeks bit in there originally. Honestly, I'd give 'em a call Friday (which is tomorrow for me), preferably a little bit after lunch. You're more likely to get candid answers regarding sensitive topics when your close to the weekend. Calling and asking about it at the beginning of a work week could lean them away from hiring you, if you are still in the consideration pool.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:03 PM
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Those interviews also went extremely well, and at the end the HR person said they would get back to me in about a week. This is no different then handling a plate, dude. They told you they would call you back in about a week. Wait for it. Anything you do to contact them before they said they would contact you makes you appear weak. Any weakness you display now will make you look hungry, and no-one wants the hungry guy. If they call you and give you the job, great. If they call you and don't give…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 06:35 PM
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Why do RPW encourage women to marry young if it's not the best outcome Are you making this assertion, based on this statement? according to statistcs people are actually more likely to get divorced if they married young . Because when two young people get married, they are still in the process of figuring out who they are. They are still 'finding their path' (western society has extended childhood into the mid twenties now...). There is too much potential for both individuals to change from who …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 06:29 PM
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If you allow yourself to get hung up on something, it has control over you. Do you want 'x' to have that power? If not, walk away.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 05:53 PM
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Dude, have you read the sidebar at all? There are tons of books and other reading materials regarding exactly what you are asking about.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:54 PM
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If you made a list of all the shit you accomplished today, and slay pussy was the only thing not checked off, would you still see it as failure? Also, how do you defeat failure? Keep on keepin' the fuck on.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:23 PM
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Food is the far more controllable pleasure. You can literally buy whatever kind of tasty shit you can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 02:15 PM
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Thing is, any TRPer that thinks men cannot be solipsistic, is himself being a solipsist. Ok ,but I somehow don't think TRP is appropriate for the job . That place seems full of hatred and negativity. Well, you haven't had the life experiences that most of the men visiting that sub have had. I went through a very long (at least a year) phase of being very angry. It started as being angry at women, then at society, and finally I found that I was ultimately mad at myself. TRP has been gaining membe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 07:55 PM
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AWALT is just a counter to NAWALT, because inevitably (at least when talking in generalized terms) some woman will counter any criticism of women with: Not All Women Are Like That. You have done it several times in several different threads today (note: this is not an attack, just a statement of fact). AWALT is used as a way to discuss behaviors that almost all (if not all) women display, and as a way to get men to stop thinking their girl is some special snowflake that possess qualities most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 07:25 PM
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Interesting. I have been on TRP for a long time now, and have yet to see a serious post regarding men lacking solipsism. Can you give me some examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 06:53 PM
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Because most of those men don't think their woman is a slut. They don't want to think their woman is a slut. And they want to believe their woman when she says she's not a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 06:49 PM
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How can I control my facial expression more? but when I become conscious about it I control it. You're already on your way dude. By becoming conscious to it, you are learning and changing your behavior. It will take some time, but you are definitely on the right path.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 06:47 PM
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So I don't think that women are just all naturally solipsistic while men are somehow not solipsistic . TRP discusses female solipsism, because the primary drive over there is how to get better with women. Why or how would discussing male solipsism make that discourse any better? Furthermore, males having the capability to be solipsistic bears little to no effect on the discussion regarding women's natural behaviors. Now, let's follow your thought train. I think we can agree that children are qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 06:39 PM
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Solipsism Note the last bit of the definition, i.e. extreme egocentrism. The fact that you, yourself, are using your close group of female friends as evidence that women do not put themselves first in their minds is an example of this exact solipsism. Somehow, you not seeing any female solipsism is evidence that it is non-existant. That is your egocentric view of the world. You don't see any evidence, therefore it isn't a problem. It's not like TRP provides any evidence anyway. What kinds of pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 05:23 PM
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12 month monk mode is too long. You will burn out before you reach the halfway point. I would suggest coming up with your goal list, and prioritize which goals need to be met first, and proceed from there.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:27 PM
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So why do I paint the picture in my head that she is just bullshitting me and is actively looking for Chad. This is your expectations of women changing. You've been reading and coming to an understanding, and it's making you question everything that came before it. It's okay man. Think about it like this: Say she is looking for Chad. Say she is lying to you every time you guys get together about all the shit she wants to do with you. She is putting forth an incredible amount of effort into her a…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 06:17 PM
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Sugar and carbs are the same thing. Personally, I use the 'keto' diet. Check /r/keto for more information. Also, you will more than likely have to count calories to lose the weight effectively.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 05:44 PM
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Your amount of bodyfat has much less to do with exercise and much, much more to do with your diet.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 05:07 PM
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Quit thinking about yourself as incel. It colors everything you do man. You labeling yourself as 'incel' is what makes you incel, because you believe that is what you are. You feel me? It doesn't matter how hard you work on shit if you still fundamentally believe you are a loser. If you absolutely need to bust a nut, hire a prostitute. There is no shame in paying for a fuck. Get the demons out, and start believing in yourself.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 04:20 PM
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I'll be honest, I stopped reading after this: My main problem stems from my isolated and unhappy childhood. Get over it dude. Move on, and learn to accept yourself. You will not make solid progress until you leave the past in the past.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 04:09 PM
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Labeling masculine behavior as misogynistic or womanizing is a gyno-centric tool for mass beta shaming. Masculine men are independent and uncompromising. They are very hard, if not impossible, to control. Men who are docile and dependent are much more useful to women and society as a whole, because their excess labor benefits everyone. Women are attracted to masculine men, but they cannot allow that to be the narrative, or we end up with a big pile of men who do what they want and don't take shi…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:25 PM
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If TRP is so "masogynistic" and "womanizing", how are my gal friends tripping their heels over what I'm turning into? Because it is counter to the narrative.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 01:58 PM
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You just prioritize yourself above others, and do not compromise. You may feel like shit doing it the first handful of times, but you need to do it. The way other people feel about you is meaningless. You cannot control how others feel about you. You can only control how you feel, yourself.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 01:30 PM
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Part of the success of the manipulation is the genuine emotion she feels. They are good because they don't consciously know they are doing it.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:12 PM
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As soon as possible, look into free weight training. Check out Starting Strength, or Strong Lifts. It doesn't matter if you are in shape or not, the best looking and feeling gains come from weights.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:48 PM
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So yeah, how do I actually not get pissed just idiotic little stuff? Believe it or not, you've crossed the initial hurdle by recognizing your anger at something so insignificant. Becoming conscious of it is how you begin to defeat it. Recognize that it is little in the grand scheme, have your emotion about it, and move on. Kind of hard to always maintain frame if stuff like that sets you off already internally. The more you work on building a solid frame, the easier it will be to deal with these…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:25 PM
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Check out both: The Black Phillip Show (I think there are around 13 episodes) and The Beige Phillip Show. Also, I know you said you have been working, but are you lifting free weights?
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:01 PM
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I find it interesting that the mods over there deleted the post.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 11:10 PM
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Sidebar son. Did you read it? Seriously, the TRP sidebar has a link (that I saved you the trouble of finding...) called 'glossary of terms'. Hamster is the first word starting with the letter 'h'.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:25 PM
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when you know deep down its wrong? This is putting words in my mouth, and it leaves me with a bitter aftertaste. You assume there is some morality that has been lost, when the actual scenario is more like there were never morals to begin with. How do you enjoy it "I just wanna fuck bad bitches All them nights I never had bitches Now I'm all up in that ass bitches Mad at 'cha boyfriend, ain't 'cha?" I enjoy getting what I earn. Which is all the ass I never had growing up. It's time for me to get …
/r/askTRP25/04/15 03:16 PM
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Why does it matter to you how bad ass someone else is? Do you think they are actually concerned with you enough to objectively measure the subjective levels of bad ass? You need to get in your own head. Seriously dude, fuck what anyone else thinks about you. Fuck how they look at you. Live life unapologeticly. but how am i supposed to do it if the rest people are obvisiouly more badass motherfuckers? You simply stop caring more about others than you do yourself. Do you love yourself? Do you even…
/r/becomeaman23/04/15 01:52 PM
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Ahh... You don't believe you are the baddest motherfucker in the room. Start believing it. Seriously. And if you have to fake it, till you make it. It will take time.
/r/becomeaman23/04/15 01:45 PM
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I know this sounds like bullshit, but you just stop feeling bad. Out of curiosity, can you give me an example of you being dominated?
/r/becomeaman22/04/15 08:49 PM
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I am aware that in order to be dominant it takes more confidence and im working on the last one, but whats next? Just keep working on the confidence. Coupled with that, focus on what you want, and do not allow yourself to compromise or be pushed around. Frankly, it is going to take you a while. Be patient about this process. Many times you will get angry/sad about this. That is okay. It will get better. The people you see that seem naturally dominant just learned the behavior before you did. Als…
/r/becomeaman22/04/15 11:45 AM
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Be incredibly wary of becoming complacent. If you pursue this, you will need to double down on the 'constant vigilance' policies.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:51 PM
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I find that some women people seem to have a very mean vibe toward me for no reason. Some folk are just dicks. Maybe they had a bad day, maybe they've had a bad life. It is unrealistic to expect every single person to enjoy your company. It will also be disappointing to think they would.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 05:36 PM
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Would you feel better if OP had declared they were both 50 year olds? Age has nothing to do with this, with one possible exception: just not enough experience.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 04:57 PM
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I'm gonna be 29 soon. Is it too late for me? There are two perfect times to plant a tree: 20 years ago, and today. I swallowed the pill about a year and a half ago. I was 30 at the time. I'm 32 now, and things are clicking into place for me. YMMV, but the short answer is: hell no, it's never too late.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 12:40 PM
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I am 32. I started taking the pill a year and a half ago. What I wouldn't give to have access to this information at 23. OP, quit bitchin', and quit blamin'. That is shit women and betas do. Maybe your folks fucked up. So what. You get to deal with the hand you were dealt. Now, man up and go kill that shit.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:57 PM
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So, keeping in mind that you want the physical stimulation and she wants the mental stimulation, you should perhaps learn to take things more slowly. If you are going to fuck her for sure, what is the difference between 10 and 30 minutes of escalation? I'll tell you: she is getting off on that extra 20 minutes. A lot of guys also get frustrated with foreplay. It is the exact same shit. If you really want to get the girl off, you are going to take your time. Focus on teasing her. She will eat tha…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:55 PM
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I am confused about these two lines: Nothing insane - no gang-bangs, my number isn't in double digits, no porn videos out there. along with: I don't want it to go to the extreme of my past or worse. I don't want threesomes, gang-bangs, porn videos, open relationships, etc. I have grown away from that and have negative interest in returning. You were either a wild child or you weren't. Regardless, you are refusing to give your husband (the guy who choose to marry and stick with you) shit that you…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 04:22 PM
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Honestly, I don't have much solid advice to give you here. This is probably something you will have to develop a feel for. Personally, I feel like 'she' can be an adult enough to use clear language to get me to 'stop'. When women use clear language, I will usually stop escalating, and figure on maybe one more meet up before we seal the deal. (the confusing bit here is that I have a pretty good grasp of non-verbal communication to be able to differentiate between playful and serious attempts to s…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 10:39 AM
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You got it man. Sometimes we gotta fuck it up to learn what not to fuck up. You sound young enough that you aught be fine. Give it a couple more years of work and you should be slingin' dick like a pro.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:45 PM
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That was an attempt to script flip the shit test back on her. This response is predicated by the scenario that OP talked his sex game up on a new girl. Never, ever, ever do this. Ever. Ever. Most guys I know want to have top tier sex game. They base their own worth on laying great pipe to women. Thing is, like I opened my OP with, women don't like sex for the same reasons men like sex. Take blow jobs for instance. I will imagine you have had your dick sucked. If you haven't, find a cock sucker r…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:44 AM
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setting the right mindset for both of us beforehand. This is definitely the main point I am driving at. That said, if some woman gives you shit about lame fuck game, you then influence her by making it sound like her fault.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 09:47 PM
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Tell that bitch she didn't inspire the animal in you. Men are almost always putting in 95% of the effort when it comes to fucking. It ain't because you don't fuck good, it's because she just laid there like a dead fish (even if it ain't, you believe this). One of the first times, fresh out of my divorce, I had a woman ask me if she could just lay there. I foolishly allowed her to do this. The above quote is what I came up with to handle this situation, should it come up again (note: it shouldn't…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:25 PM
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Women do not appreciate the same things a man appreciates, especially when it comes to sex. While I agree with /u/RPthrowaway123, good oral skills are a must, cultivating yourself as a real man is what is actually going to keep her coming back. That said, there are a couple things you can try: - Vary speed and depth. Unless she is on the verge of orgasm, do not just pound her the whole time. Give her the tip for a bit and unexpectedly sheath yourself all the way in. Fuck her slow and shallow and…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 07:30 PM
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I am not giving up. This is the only action that matters. You will fail. Again. Multiple times. And that is totally okay. The thing that differentiates real men from the rest is that real men understand that you have to fail to learn how to succeed. As long as you keep getting back up on the horse, you will make it man.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 11:44 AM
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Fortunately, there's literally a shit-ton out there waiting to be spun.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 11:32 AM
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I send a message nexting her This is officially not how to next someone. Nexting someone means you cease communication. Telling her she has been nexted makes you sound like a tryhard that actually gave too much of a fuck about her. (if she was busy, she would replied by now) Perhaps she was dealing with a family/life/work emergency. You have no idea why she didn't respond. I deleted her from my fb. This is also a severely beta thing to do. Frankly, this scenario sounds a lot like you were trying…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:27 PM
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I had one of my friends who's a girl listen to me converse and she told me that I talk to girls like I do guys and that instantly puts me into the friend zone. Your girl 'friends' can not ever be a good source of information. Ever. Get it out of your head that she can tell you 'fuck all' (i.e. jack shit) about what your conversation skills are doing, especially when it concerns other women. You don't ask fish how to catch fish. On to the meat of the question: How do I convey attraction Are you i…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:48 PM
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I look very mature. I doubt it. I have had a full beard since I was 16. I am now in my early 30s, and folks still talk about me and my 'baby face' cheeks. People can tell you are still young. The reason you get older women looking is simply because they expect you to have a killer libido. Younger women that are typically into 'older' guys aren't into you either. The ones that you think have daddy issues may indeed have daddy issues, but I doubt that is why they are into you. I suspect these girl…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:23 PM
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And made me feel for months, unwanted and unloved. He is not responsible for how you feel. Why couldn't he have said something when I put on the first 10lbs? Because he knew you would react like you are reacting now. But I am so mad he waited until I was like this before saying anything. Can you really blame him for that?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 03:38 PM
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Open your throat (imagine there is a golf ball wedged in there). Speak slowly, and enunciate clearly. Also, speak from the chest. And lift.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 08:44 PM
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"To have and to hold.... Til death do us part." Did you miss this part of my sentence? does it explicitly state you will never have sex with anyone else Notice I said explicit. Not implied. Not vaguely alluded to. To have and to hold could also imply there is no rape in marriage, but the laws (at least in the US) say differently.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:02 PM
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You are carrying the 'leaving her better than you found her' into TRP. The only people I have ever heard who say this are Patrice O'Neil, and Dante Nero. Both of those guys also tell men to go get side (regardless of their marital situation). Where is the morality there? None of the power posters here (on TRP subs) have ever said anything remotely regarding how she is 'left'. TRP is full of ideas that exist outside morality.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:25 PM
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Where in your vows, or your marriage certificate does it explicitly state you will never have sex with anyone else, ever again? If government contracts (ya know... like marriage) included a clause like that specifically, then spouses who have cheated would clearly have been breaking the contract. As far as I know, sex is never mentioned specifically. It might be implied, but implication and explicit definition are not the same thing. That being the case, do what you fucking want to do. We are no…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:06 PM
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LOTS of money has been lost to her instead of going back to our family. This doesn't have a thing to do with your mom. This is the reason you posted here. Guess what? It is his money, not your mom's, and not yours. Same thing happened with my Grandfather. So goddamn what. Some other man wants to make (what you think are) shitty decisions with the money he earned? So fucking what. Why should any one at TRP give a shit that a man is doing what he wants? The answer is that we shouldn't. And we don'…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:05 PM
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You need to figure out what it is you really want, and then set small achievable goals towards those ends. You are 16 dude. You have your whole life ahead of you. With school I don't have much free time to go exercise and I can't really afford a gym membership. These are excuses. Does your school not have a gym? Is getting fit one of your goals? If you really want to get in shape, you will make the time to make it happen. You are self limiting your options because you don't want to put the work …
/r/askTRP21/03/15 02:16 PM
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Why did you ask her if she was fucking anyone else? Is that something you actually care about?
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:14 PM
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Being funny is one of the ways we men have learned to attract women. It is not an end all be all.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:46 PM
1

It's startling to see this behavior coming from one of my plates. She at least 'seems' to be completely open and honest with me. It is especially startling to see it from the perspective of a former AFC. One of the harshest truths for me to personally accept was that men and women are not, in fact, equal. By any definition of the word. But especially within the realm of honesty.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:07 PM
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I love being here. Seriously. This place is fucked up, but so is every other place. Also, the more man style I get, the more pussy I get, the more man style I get. Real men in the US are like an oasis in the desert, and all the women are thirsty.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:17 PM
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How do I stop resenting my gf's job? You just stop resenting it. It comes off as a horrible bitch move to both secure her a job and get jealous over it. She's starting to resent me because I hate it so much. No shit... Who could'a guessed that would happen? Did you think of the ramifications of getting her a job at a wine bar before you got her the job? Also, worrying about her more than yourself is beta to the extreme. You simply care to much about this girl. You put her on a pedestal, and she …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:27 PM
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Aren't your previously made plans more important to you than sitting with some dumb chick you won't even get pussy off of? She wants an emotional tampon. Is that what you want to provide? Seems like a no-brainer to me.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:44 PM
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Open the back of your throat. Slow your speech, raise your voice (not to yelling level), and focus on enunciation.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:50 PM
2

Ahh... I guess we all feed the trolls every now and then.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:47 PM
1

how do you RP men respond to a (hot) woman who genuinely wants absolutely nothing more than casual sex and a good rapport? "Awesome." At least, that would be my response. But that is because I am looking for FWB situations with hot women. Some guys are not. They see a woman they consider 'hot' and want to lock her down. Not all RP guys are the same in our wants and desires (frankly, though, the guys you are describing don't actually sound RP at all).
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:45 PM
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That is because most of the posts getting made are illustrating a lack of basic understanding of core concepts. What you are seeing is noise, as opposed to signal. Unless the post is from an endorsed member, generally, hamster posts can and should be ignored.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:22 PM
1

how many cocks do you fellas think she has taken in the past year? Questions like this only extend your oneitis. You seriously need to let go. Go get some new pussy. The sooner, the better. Quit talking to her, and go find some strange.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 06:39 PM
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Of course you don't enjoy doing it. Part of being the man is doing the shit that gets the job done effectively. To hold frame you need to treat her consistently. You don't punish a dog for shitting on the rug three days ago. You have and employ punishments when the behavior warrants it. She is acting in the manner you have taught her is appropriate. For you to change the situation, you will need a lot of patience, and consistent action.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 01:17 PM
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The problem is, I care too much about her getting frustrated or embarrassed and so I let her continue with this behavior that I don't find acceptable. That is definitely the problem. You are not responsible for her reactions. You are allowing yourself to be guilt tripped. That is where in incongruity lay. When I do this, she gets pissy and isn't fun to be around. I tell her to put her smile pants on and cheer up and we end up talking about childhood trauma bullshit, or she shuts up and won't com…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:16 PM
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You need to establish consequences for their inaction. Inform them once. Then carry out the consequences. Or tough it out till the lease is over and find a new place to live.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:54 PM
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OP also states she just started the suit. It was filed back in 2012.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:27 PM
3

A man hits his prime SMV at 31. You have 7-8 years to get fucking badass. Stop whining.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:10 PM
1

The absolute first chick was a fat psychotic meth-head, and I fucked her until completion. I felt pretty bad about myself at that point. The very next one was a smoking hot massage therapist that also tended bar part time. By all rights, she is still one of the hottest women I ever slept with, but there was just something about her that made it impossible for me to go to completion. The only thing I can honestly figure is that her attitude was so bad that it didn't matter how good looking she wa…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 01:00 AM
1

New girl is hot but not my normal type This is the issue. Believe me, you just aren't really attracted to her. Same thing happened to me after my divorce. Looks aren't everything.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:47 PM
4

Contrapposto. Also, chin up. If you are in a bar and standing, hold your drink in your non-dominant hand, at your side, not in front of you. Do not cross your arms. If you are sitting at a bar, do not lean forward with elbows on the bar. Keep your shoulders back and remain in an 'open' position.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 04:47 PM
1

Incorrect. It isn't the justification hamster, it is a rationalization hamster. From the sidebar's glossary of terms: Rationalization Hamster - The tendency for women to use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance. The core mechanism that allows women to say one thing and do a different thing. She explicitly states she made bad decisions. There is no hamster here. There is no cognitive dissonance, there is no mental conflict. The term hamster has a very specific…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 12:18 PM
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I am not in disagreement with what you posted. I was just trying to clarify for the people who may stumble into this post. There is a lot of muddy thinking in TRP, here lately.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:19 PM
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Moral: Be warned. There are hamsters out there who will completely avoid responsibility for their decisions Except she actually accepted the consequences of her actions, OP. She never said that it just happened. She knew full well at all points in her story that her decisions were utter shit. I don't think you actually understand what 'the hamster' is, or how it gets used. You are diluting the signal, brah. Concern trolling be damned. Stupid me set my self up to get taken advantage of... Nobody …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:17 PM
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The reality, seems to me, is that issue exists outside of gender. You either do shit, or you don't. You either get shit done or you don't. Talking about what should be, and going out and doing are not the same thing. The sad bit is that most modern feminists seem to think that applying 'critical theory' is equivalent to doing something, and it just isn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:27 PM
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he wants someone to throw things back at him and put him in his place. Your naturally RP man sounds like a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 07:13 PM
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The extra inch keeps my dick from draggin.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:28 PM
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We can't answer this for you, only you can. I will say this though, it isn't as exhausting as it sounds. If you continue to work at it, you will set up a positive feedback loop, and then everything (even the failures) feel like success.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:04 PM
1

but you decide one day that he is getting more limelight than you in your circle of friends. This is not a decision, this is an observation. So you decide to punk him out. I'll be honest, I'm not sure what you mean by punking someone out, but that is the decision I (you) hypothetically made, and this is what is wrong. If I have a problem with an associate's behavior, and I want to address it, I am going to inform said associate of the consequences of continuing this behavior. Once. If he continu…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 04:36 PM
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I know that he likes riding his high horse, and now he knows that I can knock him the fuck down when I feel like it. Except he could easily interpret your actions as petty bullshit. Especially when you say: He just took advantage of a position where he knew I would have trouble fighting back (surrounded by family where he is more respected than I am) Your consequences are in the arena of his friends, not your family. He is pretty smart so he might pick up on the fact that fucking with me on this…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:57 PM
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If you think your family noticed you getting righteously pissed, and you did nothing about it, then he was more alpha than you. He does that shit to you because you allow it to work. He likes having the ability to get under your skin. He is putting you in your place. Is that the place you want to be? Everything you have described about your actions and thoughts towards your brother consist of covert contracts and stooping to his level. These are beta behaviors. Who knows maybe he'll learn his le…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:31 PM
2

It is equally plausible that either or both parties were being dicks. For example, her employing covert contracts, and expecting him to offer up equipment without her having to ask. If you want to make assumptions, there are literally an infinite number of ways to go.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:19 PM
1

I can't accept I'm inferior. If you want to be a man, you will make an inferior man. When he said women are inferior that is what he was talking about. Imagine this scenario: You go to eat dinner at a restaurant. You decide you want the soup and salad. To properly enjoy the meal, you want to have both a fork and a spoon. Is the spoon superior to the fork? Or vice versa? The fork will always be better for eating the salad. The spoon will always be better for eating the soup. Was one utensil bette…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 10:02 PM
1

I believe I was implying just such a sentiment. The reason I feel it necessary to comment, was you can't come to TRP and drop shit statements like the one I quoted from him. The signal to noise ratio is way to goddamned high, and there are enough newbs coming here everyday that don't even know what frame is. Saying it's exhausting to hold frame is exactly the wrong message to send. OP doesn't know what frame is if he thinks he isn't holding one. And guys just taking the pill don't need to hear b…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 12:21 PM
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The only issue I take here is this: If you want a LTR... don't bother holding frame Look dude, I totally get where you are coming from, but what you are describing here is holding frame. Your frame happens to be existing in the position of Fuck You. The reason it is a successful frame is because existing in the FU position allows you to act in a congruous manner. This isn't a matter of it being too hard or exhausting. You have simply found yourself is a circumstance that really allows you to say…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:45 AM
1

I have a beard. I have it because I want it. I cut it how I want it. No-one's feedback on it is accepted (aside from compliments, which are the only comments I get on it). is it some kind of beta shaming? Yes. But I want to heard what do you think about this feedback? Her feedback is meaningless.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:13 PM
1

Go get Starting Strength, and follow that program, just maybe take it easy, at first, when using your shoulder. I have had 2 back surgeries (both required a 2nd surgery too), and the hospital assigned PT did nothing for me. My back/sciatic pain didn't really go away until I started lifting. She's pretty and all, but I know almost nothing about her so I have no particular attachment or feelings towards her. If that is the case, go ask that girl out. And don't go in figuring you'll get anywhere wi…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 10:50 PM
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You got oneitis, and you haven't even banged this chick yet. You became facebook friends with her... why? You still have a long way to go man (good on you for quitting cigs, btw). Start lifting, don't wait till your diet improves. Get hobbies, because to be interesting, you need to be interested in shit. Save up some cash and buy a prostitute if you need to get the demons out, because your lack of getting some will affect women's perception of you. making myself appear to have some SMV. You have…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:56 PM
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sometimes I wonder if my over-analytical nature (IE: caring too much) can be sensed by the women I go out with. Just as horses smell fear, women smell too-much-give-a-shit. Any advice on how to lose the ego? Stop caring so much. Women can smell the desperation, which you get because you value them more than they do. They can smell your desire to change yourself to keep her in your life, which is horribly unattractive. Out of curiosity, are you trying to engage in TRP behavior to get women?
/r/askTRP03/02/15 06:20 PM
3

Red Pill is about becoming the best man you can become. The best version of yourself. All humans love a confident leader. It doesn't matter if you are a woman or a man, we all are attracted to confidence. Maybe the finer points of how women think wouldn't matter so much to a gay red piller, but the foundation still stands the same. One guy plays the receiver or feminine role of giving to the other what he wants. This may be the case, assuming the strong leader man wants to be partnered with an e…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:15 PM
2

TRP makes it seem like "getting plates" is as easy as getting groceries. I want you to think about this. Imagine you are the Iceman (great movie, btw...) and you just got thawed out this morning. Now, go get groceries. See, you think getting groceries is simple, right? How long you been doing that? Imagine, if instead of the years (likely decades) of practice you have in driving, economics and communication, you had years of practice getting women. You learn how to spin em, and then you get year…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:54 PM
2

Then you need to make him explain exactly why he thinks it is bullshit. If you understand RP, then you should be able to debunk his bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:55 PM
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If you have to talk with him about it, ask him to describe the problems with RP, in specific detail. Chance are, 90%+ of his arguments are basless bullshit with no (non-emotional) substance behind them. And if he can't give you good reasons to swallow a different pill, there is no need for you to do it. Your other obvious answer is to stop talking RP with him.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:41 PM
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Sad as it may seem, it is your best bet. Brand new 20 somethings are being made every day. Seeking 'classic trim with any quality' seems like an endeavor best left in the city.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:39 PM
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Pretty & Single women in that age range are next to impossible to find in rural communities. Period. I also live in a somewhat rural area, and there are no women, age 35-50, that don't fall into one of the categories you listed. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate what you are looking for. Maybe it's time to get with uglies, or young ones.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:18 PM
2

Is maintaining frame only for women that you want to game? Dealing with disrespect from female family members. Frame is not a tool for picking up women, it is how real men conduct themselves day in and out. If you had frame, your female family member reactions wouldn't mean fuck all to you. They are poking your frame hard, likely because it isn't as shored up as it needs to be.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:02 PM
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I assume her friend directly asked her to attend, which trips her social response. Women will always attempt to be seen in a positive light by 'the group'. She didn't actually have a good reason not to go, so instead of just saying no, she saves face and goes. Also, a woman's honesty is directly related to her emotional state. When she was talking to you, I imagine, she actually believed she didn't want to go. But I would venture to guess that is because her friend wasn't right there tripping he…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 03:42 PM
2

Kenjataimu is the Japanese term for post orgasm clarity of thought. I call it getting the demons out.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:40 PM
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People employ the behaviors that get them what they wanted. It's part of the reason it can be so hard for beta males to acknowledge their behavior is weak. Sometimes (randomly) they get what they 'wanted', i.e. sex, LTRs, etc... She has likely been 'rewarded' for acting like a spoiled child most of her life, which is why she acts like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:20 PM
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Yeah, I definitely missed the edit. hah! Mistakes have been made. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 06:51 PM
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I think it's funny that you want to nitpick my idea that: A diet rich in carbs is terrible for most of us. Because you think that idea is easier to misconstrue than what the post I was responding to said, which is: A diet rich in protein and carbs, vitamins. Which includes no discussion of fats, or what healthy carbs or proteins look like. I made a mistake when I assumed OP was an American. I made that mistake because the common cry around Reddit is that Americans are fat, which is mostly due to…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 06:38 PM
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Sure. I won't disagree, but you have clarified a position that the person I was responding to left vague. For instance, a 10-snickers-a-day diet is rich in carbs. The fact of the matter is that we humans are designed to burn fat and carbs for energy, and we need both to be healthy. It seems silly to me that we are trying to diagnose OP's SO here though.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 05:38 PM
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I try so hard to excel at things and it never happens. Nigga... No you fucking don't. You know how I know? I used to do the same whiny bullshit you are doing here. "I tried this thing once, and I sucked donkey balls at it. I must just be born a loser..." You are and will be as long as you think like this. Underperforming is basically my life story. You give way too much of a shit about how other perceive you. Fuck them. They don't know shit. And if they do, fuck 'em anyway. Here is the plan: Dec…
/r/becomeaman22/01/15 04:56 PM
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A diet rich in carbs is terrible for most of us. There have been many recent studies stating as much. To many carbs too often can/will lead to diabetes, which is very much a literal boner killer. Also, porn? I have to call bullshit here. Unless the guy is jacking it 5+ times a day, masturbation is a healthy activity. And if he is shaking hands with the one eyed pope too much, what is the reason he has turned to porn/masturbation? Deciding that he needs to stop that is premature. People don't tur…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:43 PM
1

Following PUA pick up scripts can also hinder you if your improve skills are lacking. For instance, if/when girls do shit that is not according to the script, much like trying to follow explicit build orders in Starcraft. Sure, the build order gets you x amount of resources/army units, but that is assuming the opponent doesn't do something out of left field.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:37 PM
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Emotion is what allows us to make choices. It has less to do with caring for offspring and more to do with providing the ability to make decisions in general. Normal and healthy men and women both have and need to have emotions. The difference is that real men do not let go of the reins. Men coming into the red pill were men that didn't have a proper grip on those reigns, and this often expresses itself as anger or rage.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 11:38 PM
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The only moral issue here is a possible lie, assuming you made a promise of exclusivity. If you made such a promise, going back on it lowers your cred as a man. However, if you wisely choose to not make such a promise, fucking other women cannot possibly be considered cheating (and in actuality, raises your SMV in her eyes). I cheated on my ex-wife (funny bit is, we divorced because of unrelated issues, and she didn't find out until after the ink was dry), with one of her best friends. I broke a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:18 PM
2

I started the process about a year ago. I am just now actually beginning to internalize TRP philosophy. You will find that there are multiple levels of understanding and perspective.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:08 PM
2

I'm sure anyone outside the 45-50 year old cat ladies would find this creepy. Also, BoTW is fucking awesome!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:06 PM
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Responsibility and taking blame makes women absolutely miserable. Because when the person who is responsible fucks up, that person risks being ostracized by the group. Women are programmed to avoid this by any and all means.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:51 PM
2

Women are incapable of the form of honesty we employ as males. It has likely always been this way. Their honesty comes from expressing how they feel right now. It has little, if nothing, to do with the reality of a situation. Their innate solipsism will not allow them to do otherwise. Seriously, have you ever known a woman who could be reliably honest in an objective manner? It also is not pessimist to view them this way, it is realistic. When you can understand and accept what and who women are…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:18 PM
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Your wife is not a plate dude.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:00 PM
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"I'm willin' to eat stale Cracker Jacks. But I want 'em right. now."
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:22 PM
1

Yes, real men need to be able to apologize. If you need to make an apology, say "I apologize." Saying 'I'm sorry' is very weak, passive, and very much over used today.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:08 PM
1

My biggest fear is that one day my son will find out and be crushed. Tell him the truth. Do not lie to him about who his father is, or why he isn't in his life. He may discover the truth on his own someday, which may lead to a resentful attitude towards you. The red pill is viewing reality for what it is. If you love your son, do not fill him with falsehood.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:07 PM
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I'm talking about the institutionalized censorship being proposed here. Who has proposed institutionalized censorship? I don't see anywhere where that is being proposed. The OP and the post you responded to are both just calling for posters to think about what they are posting. but when we start talking about censorship on something subjective like sarcasm I can't support that, You are the only one who is talking censorship. Where is your argument coming from? As a matter of fact, the OP uses th…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:37 PM
4

For future reference, you can always google '<term> urban dictionary' and get good results.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 09:23 PM
1

Drink Scotch. Scotch is one of the official drinks of the keto diet. Also, Scotch is one of the manliest drinks.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 04:33 PM
1

I really don't feel happy ever. You choose to be happy or not. It is that simple. When you have sunk low enough, you too will realize this. Stop thinking about getting women and start finding productive shit that makes you happy. Period.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 01:55 PM
1

Interesting. I may look into that.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 10:20 PM
3

I just want someone to understand and hug me. Say I am a woman that feels bad enough to provide you with this bullshit (and it is bullshit, it is what women want, not Men). It would not give you the validation you need. Trust me on this. It's probably a good thing that she is so disinterested in you, because you have a shitload of personal development that needs to happen. Your oneitis is like a horrible BO. She can smell it, and it reeks. You want to change yourself for some bitch. Fuck that no…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 05:49 PM
1

What kinds of dance are you doing? Unless it's square dancing, you are probably touching her, which should get the ball rolling. If they are comfortable with you touching them, you can escalate. Sounds like you sit in a pretty damn nice spot. Assuming we are talking some kind of contact dancing, and you are leading some of your fellow students... You hold the power. Get numbers, invite the women to do shit with you outside the dance club.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 05:42 PM
2

I assume women actually like the look/smell/feel of a guy doing guy shit. Typical guy shit makes you sweat. Also, the more you workout, the easier your body will produce sweat(yet another added benefit from hitting the gym). I personally feel like wearing cologne or body spray detracts from the natural pheromones my body makes, which has an effect on women.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 05:10 PM
2

If you change, you will weaken your stance as a man. You made a statement. Real men make statements, and stand behind them. You do not owe your wife's friend shit, good sir.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 04:37 PM
1

Only if you let it change. You said what you were thinking. Is it wrong to be honest?
/r/askTRP25/10/14 04:17 PM
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Her other family members were not developing inside her. You cannot possibly understand the emotion a woman ties to her children. Sounds like you have actually done nothing to help her with her problem, which is your primary job as her man. If she could do it herself, she would. You using dread here is like using a hammer were a wrench is needed.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:32 PM
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Sounds like she has the busier schedule. Whether that is the case or not, she will make more time for you if she wants to spend more time with you.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 04:29 PM
5

Former janitor here. Women's restrooms are fucking disgusting. Guys, in general, are less 'clean' than the cleanest women, but dirty women are fucking atrocious. A guys restroom might have piss on the floor, or all over the urinal/toilet. The women's restroom will generally have all manner of the most disgusting shit in it. Like women who try to flush sanitary napkins. Or those that put the used tampons on the floor. I have seen more shit smeared toilets in the women's room than any men's room e…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:54 PM
1

So let's assume that I have no interest in having children of my own, or that I am for various reasons unable. The more important question: Is dating a single mother important enough to your happiness to expose yourself to the dangers of becoming attached to the product of another man's balls? If you can answer that, you'll have the answer to your OP.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:57 PM
2

I downloaded the whole thing about 9 months ago, and I listen to it, in it's entirety every couple months or so. I still pick up different things every time I listen too.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:19 PM
1

Sometimes, I fluidly pass between the stages, in a non-sequential order. Sometimes, anger will be followed by depression, followed by more anger.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:09 PM
0

You are not attracted to them. Why would you want to keep them interested?
/r/askTRP18/10/14 05:28 PM
2

Because it is apparent that you cannot follow simple instructions like read the sidebar. Your question (which is horribly vague, btw) is covered from many angles in various sidebar material. You come into /r/asktrp with specific questions that the sidebar material does not explicitly cover. Nowhere in any TRP related sub does it suggest skimming the sidebars for material. Read that shit, think about it, and then read it some more. If actually reading and digesting that material still leaves you …
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:11 PM
1

How about not skimming it and actually read that shit. I ain't doin' the leg work to make you better, I got my own shit to worry about.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:05 PM
1

Have you tried reading the TRP sidebar, like, at all?
/r/askTRP17/10/14 03:57 PM
1

Seriously man, keep with it. I turn 32 next month, and I been on the pill for about 7 or 8 months. It will get better, you just gotta keep at it. There may be weeks or months were you will feel stagnant, but you are making progress. I just cleared a couple plateaus in lifting and bass playing in the last couple weeks. I had been hung up on that shit since I started.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:19 PM
2

I have a power rack, with safety bars, in my basement. I lift three times a week right now (I use the Starting Strength program). I think I will be transitioning into a 6-day split for the late fall/winter, as I won't be able to walk for 45-60 mins when there is ice. I do bench press (and have to crawl out from under the bar maybe two or three times a month), seated shoulder press (because I am too tall to do it standing up in my house), deadlifts, Pendaly Rows (mostly because I am not yet stron…
/r/askTRP16/10/14 05:11 PM
5

That is actually a pretty good analogy. Prolly gonna steal that. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 01:01 PM
13

What do you define as an equal relationship? Men and women are not equal, by any stretch (even according to the law). Also, who here claims that women are inferior? Just because we are not equal doesn't mean one is better than the other. Men and women compliment one another. There are strengths that both sexes possess. Frankly, trying to shoe-horn men and women into equality sets us both up for failure.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 08:52 PM
5

Girls fucked uncircumcised dick for hundreds of thousands of years. It's the same with girls and blowjobs. A girl will suck your dick, if she is into you enough. She won't if she isn't. It ain't about your dick. They just haven't been that into you.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 06:09 PM
6

Girls don't reject you for that, they just use it as a convenient excuse.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 05:21 PM
2

What is 'girlfriend sex'?
/r/askTRP11/10/14 04:26 PM
4

For me, it seems like when I get better at dealing with women, I also get better in dealing with all the other BS that crops up in life. I started by fixing the foundation (i.e. lifting, diet, finances...) and I am still in that stage, but I'll be damned if it doesn't seem like everything gets better. Currently I am examining my thoughts on appropriate expectations to have, as well as how to subtly pump for, and digest, more information from people in general, and women, in specificity. It has b…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:39 PM
3

TRP is not unified enough to have a specific take on something as ridiculous as pubic hair preference. Know what you like, and that should be good enough.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:59 PM
1

There is no where near enough information here to give any useful advice.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:32 PM
2

The Black Phillip Show, and also the Beige Phillip Show.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:12 PM
1

Can't you understand someone as a fellow human being rather than an object? Explain to me what that looks like. I have basically asked you to do this three separate times now. You continue to ask me to clarify your thoughts on this matter. I do not think of people as being non-objects. It is not possible for me. I cannot define that for you. Would the alternative to an object be a living human being? No. Coming strictly from the definition of an object, the opposite of an object is an intangible…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:01 PM
1

How do you think making them an object will help you understand them? Our brains have an ridiculous need to classify things into easily understandable/digestible chunks. It's why Reddit users respond to memes rather than well thought out posts or blogs. It's why we, as humans, spend countless hours discussing musical genre or art mediums. It is the same with people. Anytime you thought about your mom as 'my mom' you objectified her. She became Mom. She is more than just your mother, but she is a…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 08:11 PM
2

Dude, it is because they are objects. Stop thinking objectifying is bad. There is no negative or positive connotation here. The problem isn't objectification, the real issue here is that you have arbitrarily assigned negative connotation to a word, and don't want to use it any more. It is beyond dumb to tell people they shouldn't objectify. It's like telling people that we shouldn't judge, or we should fuck, or we shouldn't eat. These are the things we are programmed to do. It is how we get thro…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:28 PM
2

Of course you should, because that is how your brain comes to understand the people and things around you.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:08 PM
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There is the difference. I do not feel like it strips any human of anything to see that they are, in fact, objects that exist within my reality. To answer your earlier question, I have no problem telling people (i.e. not just women) that I view them as objects. Out of curiosity, why do you 'feel' that way? Is it a quantifiable feeling? Or do you base that sentiment off of others telling you that objectification is bad?
/r/askTRP08/10/14 06:40 PM
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Answer my question.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:56 PM
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Do you believe it is wrong to objectify people? And if so, why is it wrong?
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:41 PM
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No, you assign it the negative connotation. I do not see it that way. Obviously I do not believe it to be the same as dehumanization. I will not answer anything else until you clarify your position. Why do you see it as dehumanizing?
/r/askTRP07/10/14 07:44 PM
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You start from the perspective that objectification is inherently wrong. Explain that first. Why would you want to be seen as an object rather than a living, breathing, thinking, fellow human being with your own opinions, goals, drive, and personal lives. How does anything in that list not apply to an object, if that object is a Man, woman or child? Is the realistic view really to objectify everyone around you? Yes, when my perspective is that all the things and people around me are objects that…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:39 PM
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Humans objectify each other. It's how we classify and come to understand who/what/where we are. Even my closest friends see me as an object. Perhaps they see me as many or few objects, but that is how they see me. Out of curiosity, do you think it is bad to objectify someone? More to the point, though: TRP doesn't promote objectification directly, but it does promote a realistic view of the world.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:09 PM
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Sometimes, we really just need to get the demons out, so we can continue to think about improving other areas of life. Just don't allow yourself to get attached to the hoes. Realize it for the instant gratification it is. And to the guys who bitch about not paying for sex, every one pays for everything. There is no such thing as free. Even those who can walk up to a woman and get her in the sack in a couple hours have paid with a lifetime of practicing 'those things' that women find attractive. …
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:31 PM
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Guys age like scotch. We only get better with age (assuming you continue to practice self improvement). Go out and be the guy everyone wants to hang out with. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 02:48 PM
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Wat? I can't make heads or tails of this post...
/r/askTRP04/10/14 04:48 PM
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From your post history, it sounds like you are asking for the divorce. These two sentences do not jive together well: And now he wants to get a divorce because he no longer needs me financially I have been the breadwinner for a very long time. He says he loves me and cares for me deeply and that he's never cheated on me but I do have doubts. Are you just trolling us? You have not posted near enough detail here to give any advice. All we can glean from what you have in your post history is that y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 02:24 PM
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This article is terrible, and only highlights the fucking problem with the whole shit-show that 'gaming' journalism is. It would be nice if there was proof one way or the other about whether either of the chicks (Quinn or Sarkeesian) received actual death threats. The article doesn't discuss the ethical question that are still up in the air. I am going to go back to pre-interent gaming mode, where I hear about games from buddies, and then I play those games. Fuck the journalists, fuck the SJWs, …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:03 PM
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I never had a Facebook account. Right up until just after I got divorced, I had preemptively sworn off all social media. After about 2-3 years of doing nothing but sitting in front on a PC, I decided to make an account. It is actually a useful tool for discovering events to attend. My going out and about has quadrupled since starting a facebook account. I use it just enough to plan events, and then I forget about it. Fuck all the other BS, though. I don't see much real 'social' use for guys when…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 04:34 PM
2

I focus on one goal until it accomplished. For a couple weeks my goal was to completely cut out statement qualification. I don't need to qualify statements, and a vast majority of the time, people don't ask me to qualify. Another thing that I practice quite often is holding eye contact. I play the staring game with people, I just don't inform them I am playing it. After a couple weeks of practicing that, 95% of the time, I am dominant in eye contact. Pick one thing. Work on that shit like it is …
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:28 PM
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Why do you want to get married?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 11:18 AM
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Gotta be the old one. I would also nominate Cpt. Kirk (also from TOS).
/r/askTRP27/09/14 02:36 PM
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The doublethink is strong with these dumbasses.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:10 PM
1

The Blue pill is everything that isn't Red Pill.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:49 PM
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Coffee.
/r/trpGAME20/09/14 05:34 PM
1

Looks are the hook, his frame is the meat and potatoes.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 01:45 PM
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What are you doing to make your life better? Do you command the ship? Do you reward good behavior? How do you punish the bad behavior?
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:05 AM
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I guess it's time to say fuck that, imma get mine. Word. The only nigga you owe shit to, is you.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 05:48 PM
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Embrace the failure. Wear it like a shield. You are going to fuck shit up, and that is awesome! How else you gonna learn? The first months you played guitar, did you rock out some mother fuckin' Stairway? I know I sure as fuck didn't. I sucked major balls at bass guitar, for years. Years. You feel me? Were you too afraid to pick the guitar up after sucking at it? Fuck no you didn't. You have written and recorded 3 fucking albums. Do you know how many people can claim that? It is the same shit wi…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 05:34 PM
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This list is illustrating the things women are told they want. Ladies get this same BS list from their friends and family. 90% of this list doesn't actually matter.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 04:47 PM
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Be conscious of your frame. The folks back home 'think' they know how to deal with you, because that is how you 'taught' them to treat you. You have to recognize when they are attempting to break your frame, and act accordingly. If you don't want them to push you around like they used to, don't let 'em.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 02:13 PM
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Your actions define who you are. I am not saying cheating is bad, but the dishonesty, like many other guys here have posted, is something that will affect you (unless you have no compunctions about dishonesty). If getting strange, or recruiting new talent is something that is important for you, you really need to structure your life around that goal, and structure your relationships based on that expectation. This should include not promising exclusivity, ever.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:46 PM
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You gotta get up every day and fight that shit man. After all, being a man is facing the disappointment/anger/frustration and continuing the good fight. You won't always feel like this, and as long as you keep working on the long goals you will get better. After taking the pill, my lowest days now are almost better than my best blue pill days. I have more money, focus, muscles and skills than I ever had before. When depression kicks me in the balls, I can still look around and see how much bette…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:51 PM
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When I realized she didn't have my back, with her friends, co-workers or her family. I moved across the country to be someone's punching bag.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 05:50 PM
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Changed diet (down 70 lbs), weight training and playing bass (got into a classic rock/blues cover band).
/r/askTRP04/09/14 06:59 PM
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Men don't want to date men! QFT. This is what feminism never got. Men do not want to marry, or even date their equal, they want their complement. If men and women brought the same things to the table, we wouldn't be as effective a species.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 04:46 PM
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That first sentence you typed doesn't illustrate your understanding of the concept of what the red pill is, which is what u/IanIronwood was commenting about. You saying you were RP and coming here and not even representing the philosophy correctly paints you into a weak spot. You wrote a diatribe against something you don't really get.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:21 AM
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If she is fully aware of his intentions, and she still decides to provide those services, it is consensual. Claiming he is forcing her to remain under those circumstances implies she lacks agency. No one here supports rape or slavery.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:17 AM
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What do you gain from marriage that you don't have now? Or can't make happen now?
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:44 AM
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You cannot change someone else, and you can't expect to love the person they change into, if they do change. You can want someone to change all you want, but you cannot realistically expect them to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 12:36 AM
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They didn't even had anything in common. They are human, and we social animals like other predators, prey on those who don't defend themselves. They have vaginas. I would venture that is just 3 girls who capitalized on what they saw as an opportunity to 'improve' their social standings. They will do what 'feels' good in the moment, and sometimes that means being a merciless piece of shit when someone shows weakness. It only 'happened' with those three girls because that is the kind of people tho…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:53 AM
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we sustain the defendant's appeal in part in respect to the award of punitive damages This statement means the opposite of what you just said, doesn't it? They sustained 'his' appeal in respect to the award of punitive damages.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:20 PM
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If the same thing happened again, I just know it's going to be a trainwreck. How is her reaction towards anything your fault? Only she can control how she reacts.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 01:52 PM
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If you were openly harassing a member of the same sex I doubt he would like it, either. I exhibit the exact same behavior with my male co-workers, and there has never been a single official complaint. Ever. And I have actually worked with far more men. I know, it's anecdotal, right? That's the great thing about the argument you are championing. You don't have to get it from my perspective. You actually think the drive for me to physically contact people I have performed difficult tasks with is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 01:50 PM
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Pretty much every job I've had It is my experience that most people just want All we can supply each other with is anecdotal evidence, apparently. In my opinion you are applying prejudice because you are incapable of moving on from the past. Maybe... My brain is programmed to see patterns, though. In my opinion, the 'male workspace' isn't old or antiquated, and women have no idea because the environment changes explicitly when women are present. I don't have to police myself when women aren't pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:22 PM
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From Patrice: "If you get a tingle in your balls, you are about to get kicked." I know they're red flags, I just thought it would be different if I put an end to her bs. She either produces BS or she doesn't. You can't control her like that. You either allow her to think the bullshit is okay, or it isn't. Unfortunately, you allowed it to happen in the first place, and backing out of that hole is gonna be rough. I'd take the 'L' if I were you man. You don't want her possible cheating to hang over…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 08:24 PM
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RP men, are you okay if your wife wants a career? Yeah. I play an instrument and might do it professionally. I am learning multiple languages requiring upkeep everyday. I love reading and math and science. How much would I be free to have these interests? Do they have to be second to working for you? For someone who isn't going to be getting with any men, you seem to be overly concerned with how a man would treat you. That being said, I don't have the time or desire to keep someone so under the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:18 PM
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The idea of "male work environment" is old and antiquated. No, it isn't. Men, in general, want to get the job done. Everything else is secondary (i.e. feelings, emotions, thoughts and ideas). There is an over-riding sense that we shouldn't be made to feel offended, and that other people shouldn't be allowed to offend us. This pushes 'getting the job done' into a secondary role. I can suddenly lose my job because I didn't first think about phrasing. Not because I didn't get the job done, but beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 06:53 PM
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How did you "teach" her? And what, exactly, is it that you "taught" her? We all teach the people we interact with how to properly interact with us. If I show obvious disapproval at your action towards me, you will either modify your behavior, or I will discontinue association. There seems to be this mentality that 'teaching' implies treating your 'student' as something less than human. The simple fact of the matter is, if I 'teach' you that it is okay to walk all over me, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 05:15 PM
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I ended up reading the blog where the dude discusses dating Zoe. It was fascinating, if only to read about a shitty woman from a firmly blue-pill kind of guy. To watch him waver about how she could do any or all of what she did... Poor dumb-ass.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:42 PM
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Which one do you want to go to? Do that. You owe it to yourself to do what you want to do. Pick which ever activity sounds more interesting or better, choose it, and don't feel bad about the choice.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:28 PM
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That is the blue pill, tight there. It is people who believe in shit they refuse to think about, which they also defend furiously.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:33 PM
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so I can try to brush him off onto one of them. Just tell the guy you are not interested. Be polite, be firm, and be direct. Do not beat around the bush, do not be coy, and don't try to brush him off on younger girls. Just tell him you have no interest in a clear way and make sure he gets it. It's better for him to deal with rejection now than down the road. It isn't your job to make him 'feel' a certain way.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 11:49 AM
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How does this relate to self-improvement or sexual strategy? This is the important question. Illustrate how this news story helps a man improve his SMV. Please, clearly explain how this relates to what we are discussing here at TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:12 PM
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Never listen to what a girl says. She is not objective enough to tell you what she actually wants. She lives inside her emotion to much to be objective. She tells the world she wants a nice guy, but she goes home with a bad ass. I guarantee it. She tells the world this, so she doesn't appear to be a slut. Have you actually read anything here? Because these ideas get discussed all the god-damned time. She ends with this: I promise you this, Nice Guy: I don’t know you yet, but I will be a nice gir…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:33 PM
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but her boyfriend isn't really doing much of anything to make these goals a reality. This is her problem, not his. You cannot ever expect anyone to take up your goals for themselves. He either wants what she wants, or he doesn't. No-one can make him change what he wants either. If she wants to stay with this guy, she had better revisit what is important to her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 06:27 PM
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It really is too bad that fat bastard had to stroke out on us. He had an incredible gift for communication.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 01:36 PM
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It is a waste of time and resources to try to help these guys. Swallowing the pill is something a man decides for himself. You cannot be talked into it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:22 PM
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OP is bitching about how feminism is fucking society. And I agree with that assessment. It has nothing to do with TRP, however. I come here to discuss how to deal with women. I need to see how removing physical fitness tests for state police relates to discussion revolving around sexual strategies in the current marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:21 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. You forgot the first part of the sentence. It is arguably the most important part. When you remove the fact that this sub-forum is dedicated to discussion of sexual strategy. What does removing physical fitness tests for cops have to do with sexual strategy?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:17 PM
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This is a prime example of the feminization of America and how feminists are fucking up important institutions in very real, dangerous ways that are going to have far-reaching consequences. While this is certainly a problem, what the actual fuck does it have to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:08 PM
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After refreshing myself on the meaning of delusion, it very well could be. However, it doesn't matter if it is or isn't. It is just something we get to deal with when we want to get women. And more often than not, she has little to no control over it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 08:05 PM
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Women have a different form of honesty. They rely on their emotion to dictate their actions. She may be honest with you about being with you forever, because right now her emotions say that is the truth.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:52 PM
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Do you communicate your wants and desires to him? Do you 'wait on him hand and foot' in an attempt to 'get' him to do stuff you want to do? It is very passive, and not healthy, to expect someone to take care of needs you don't express. Don't think he will do what you want if you don't tell him what you want. No-one can really read minds. Do you do favors for him because you want to, or because you think that he will love (provide you with what you want without asking for it...) you for it?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 03:36 PM
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You're right though, I wouldn't be escaping western culture. Especially not in France... They speak French in some areas of Southeast Asia and the Caribbean, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:22 PM
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Men get the 'be nice' shit advice from women. Because it is how women are supposed to act. You don't ask a fish how to go fishing.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:26 PM
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"You are subliminally sexist. So am I. So is basically everyone over 15." This is the core of Critical Theory. Feminism is trying to be a point-and-yell guy for issues that are actually ingrained into us biologically. She is perfectly willing to passive-aggressively hurl insults (which seem less insulting, because she self-deprecated, right?), in an attempt to illicit an emotional response. Her statement about how we are all sexist is framed in a blame-game way, which is immediately qualified (t…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:19 PM
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I don't think women are capable of the same form of honesty that men are. It seems to me that a woman's reality is in the right here and right now, and if her emotion tells her she will 'love you forever', that is her objective truth. It doesn't mean she will or won't, but she believes at that point in time that it is 100% true.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:50 PM
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In an odd kind of way, you are being a complete fucking asshole if you do not stand up for yourself. Being a 'Yes Man' is not being in a position of power, it is a weak form of manipulation that often results in skewed ideas on how to deal with other people (because it is effective some of the time).
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:30 PM
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It's really interesting how the most free-to-choose humans freely choose to participate in activities we view as 'traditional'. In highly developed countries, women dominate nursing and men dominate engineering. Women dominate in child-care and men dominate in construction. It's sad that people are told to rail against who/what they are, and actually try to live by that advice. It's a recipe for unhappiness.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 03:23 PM
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With those two facts in mind, a lot of us have an inferiority complex that makes it extremely difficult to keep frame in many social and "gaming" situations when you feel like a boy amongst men. Get rid of the bolded bullshit. You either a) believe in yourself, or b) don't.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 03:14 PM
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You can date 'em, but you sure as shit don't LTR/wife 'em.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:15 PM
1

Did he ask you how you wanted it that first time?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:06 PM
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There are some things I always like, such as hair pulling and biting, some things I almost never like (receiving oral and anything involving very light, tickling type of touches), and some things that are good with the right person but off-limits otherwise (choking, slapping, heavy bondage, etc.) You didn't list a single thing you don't want. Instead this list comprises things you want with a scale of how much you want them. Almost never is very different from absolutely never. Rather than give …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:41 PM
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I don't think women possess the capability to actually state what they want. I don't think less of them for it, but I accept it as the nature of woman. I feel like asking a woman how she likes it is a form of projection. I certainly know what I like and do not like in the sack. Most men I know do as well. But guys are like that about everything. Women are like that about nothing. The projection comes from thinking that women surely think like I do, right? I mean, I clearly do not like 'X' in bed…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 05:33 PM
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I actually agree with a majority of what this girl wrote, except asking what the woman likes done to her. Most women do not know how or what they like, they only know they like or don't like what other men have done to them. If you ask a girl how to eat her pussy, the best advice she can give you will be emulating the guy who ate her pussy best. I guess if you want to eat it like the last decent fuck she had, ask her. Otherwise you need to come up with your own dining technique, and master that …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:35 PM
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Some Guys are wising up I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 05:34 PM
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I would imagine it is recent converts who: a) Lack a place to discuss men's rights issues and think this is the place to do so (it isn't, and should not be). b) Feel there is some connection with bettering yourself and bettering society (there may be, but it is tenuous at best). It happens in every single sub. Seriously, I was beyond horrified to find that /r/TrueRedPill is actually a sub. Enough unlike minded people join the pool, and the meaning begins to warp.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:21 PM
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Haven't you noticed the upswing of MRA posts here? I would bet real money that someone will try to explain to you that you need to be reminded of your disposability, as it will help you maintain frame. Which is fucking hilarious, because any man who comes here already firmly grasps the concept of his own disposability.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:16 PM
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Nah man, she probably only kissed the 'other guys'... On the dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:58 PM
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It's all about that social lube. There is no negative PR.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:12 PM
3

I wonder if the validation they get from men is different 'feeling' than that from the women in their social circle.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:12 PM
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It is worth mentioning that however popular TRP gets, it will NEVER be accepted by the mainstream. We could, we just don't give enough of a shit to wrap it in a pretty pink bow, like the OP from that EMSK post did.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:06 PM
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Most liberal Redditors cannot stand the packaging we present TRP in. This guy got gilded by dropping TRP truths in a much prettier package. See guys, we could all get gilded if we just pussify up the advice.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:59 AM
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Life is a competition Absolutely. And the more people continue to buy the bullshit, the easier it will be for us to get what we want.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 01:09 AM
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I fooled myself into believing that making someone else happy would make me happy. I got one of those women who is on the aggressive side. She really is a good woman, and we both did ourselves a disservice by allowing me to be the 'man' in that relationship. I wasn't ready for it yet. I had no direction, and you can't be captain without directions. I put her through her Master's Degree, and followed her 2.5 thousand miles to the first job she got. You probably see where this is going. She wasn't…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:39 AM
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They assume everyone here is a white misogynist piece of shit, because it fits the narrative. They don't want to combat the ideas we present, just us. They don't like that we don't give two fucks about the stupid shit they say.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:00 PM
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It's funny how the rest of Reddit sees what you typed as 'being better than everyone' as opposed to 'being better than who you used to be'.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:58 PM
5

If you meet an asshole in the morning, that guy was an asshole. If you meet assholes all day long, you are a fucking asshole.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:11 PM
5

I was the beta who 'lucked out' and got a chick who initiated. I spent 12 years thinking I got lucky. Boy was I wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 01:52 PM
1

That doesn't sound very progressive. Interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 02:33 PM
3

Who she becomes when she is drunk is who she really is, bud. Accept it. Everything you think about her is a front she has put on display for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 03:04 PM
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He isn't offering it for nothing. One of the interesting, and totally bullshit, things about being a beta is this 'unspoken' contract in which the beta provides and then receives (except he never does receive). It is this kind of BS that leads men to get ridiculously angry at women and society. He thinks he gets sex because of the gift, but never communicates this sentiment. When he doesn't get what he wants, he will eventually blame the girl, despite it being all his fault.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:53 PM
1

they are very..um, progressive they would hate any man I brought home. What? How are these two things compatible? Doesn't being progressive imply allowing children the freedom to be themselves? Or did you mean conservative?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 02:30 PM
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When women entered the workforce en masse (especially the married women), they radically expanded the household income. If a guy could support a family of four on $50k a year, and his wife gets a job making $25k+, that family is suddenly making a shitload more money. They can afford to buy a whole bunch of dumb shit they couldn't before. However, the economy changes to meet the new expectation of a family living off $75k a year, and so all the products become more expensive. Give it a couple thr…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:40 PM
2

What brought you here?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:24 PM
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It makes sense to me. Males have to be goal oriented. It was the males job to hunt and build. It didn't matter if the group felt good about itself, only that the group came home with a carcass. Women are driven by ego-centric goals and group validations. It was a benefit to our species to be overly concerned with women. A woman has to look out for herself and her offspring first. We wouldn't be here if that weren't the case. If everything is 'all-about-her,' that group validation is necessary fo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:28 PM
12

Chinese law also works the way Islamic law does. Men in China are required to provide for parents, children and spouse. The wife is required to do nothing. The lion's share of 'male' preferred birthing in China is because a male child is a retirement plan, where a daughter is a permanent legal burden with no responsibility.
/r/AlreadyRed14/06/14 05:22 PM
7

Wow... I assume you don't actually have any kids, because you obviously have no concept of how hard it must be to watch your children being taken from you, and all recourse stripped. You come off as awful trolly.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 10:04 PM
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It's true. My folks split when I was 8. My mom put me through shit no 8 year old ever needs be exposed to. I ended up suing for paternal custody, because I realized at the time what kind of toxic woman my mom is. When I hit my late teens, I started putting the pieces together. My old man got fucked, and he is one of the best, most decent men out there. Women... Damned if you do.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 10:01 PM
7

All the universities do. Pretty goddamn sad.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:04 PM
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Me too man... But, there are two good times to plant a tree. 20 years ago, and right the fuck now.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:47 PM
3

Yeah, getting lucky with women is definitely a blue pill way of looking at it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:55 PM
3

Speaking from experience, 'getting lucky' is anything but... If you don't know how to deal with women, and you end up with one, you're right fucked.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:11 PM
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You will get there. It takes time to absorb and chew on what information there is, and the desire to change is more important than the info is. In the past 6 months I have become more aggressive, direct and confident, basically just by reading and digesting the information on this sub, and where i have been linked to. And the women eat that shit up. Hang in there dude.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:41 PM
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What if for nearly two decades after you are born you're given spoonfed information by the media, your parents, your parents' parents, society and everything which could theorically give you some insight about how life is told you that Blue Pilling is the way to go in your life? That is exactly how I grew up. 31 years of BP. 31 years of not understanding why women weren't banging down my door to get some sweet, sweet 'nice guy' dick. I could either choose to blame the women, or myself. I blamed …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:35 PM
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You are choosing to enact that behavior. It is not involuntary. I have been dating this one woman for a few months and haven't escalated because I'm so used to holding back. You don't want to escalate because you are afraid to lose her. That fear will lose her for you. You need to man up dude. All the things you have listed were completely under your control. Nothing you said implies that your celibacy is involuntary. Learn two things that have helped me: "Use the force, Luke." (i.e. your body p…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:43 PM
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We are here to hack it, it can be changed. Biology cannot be changed. Gaming is hacking. No it isn't. Hacking implies using things for unintended purposes. We play the game to get pussy. We use strategies to get laid, women use strategies to get stability. How is any of that hacking?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:35 PM
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It's impossible to say it's voluntary when he spends his entire existence in his illusion world where his mom provides for him his internet bills, computer, chair, food, water, shelter, and shit. Unless his mom is literally tying him to a chair and forcing him to act the way he does, his actions are voluntary.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:32 PM
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Biology is a social construct. Where's my anti-man point?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 05:33 PM
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Educated people won't allow their families to be damaged by world views aiming to degrade their spouses. My ex-wife is educated. She also buys into whatever bullshit the mainstream media feeds to her. Education doesn't mean shit if you don't have the inner-truth-seeker in you as well. They will see what's really going on in the world rather than be manipulated by motivated reasoning. Show me the women who fit this bill, because the only people I know who can see what's really going on have been …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:23 PM
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Any given woman cannot unconditionally love a man the same way she loves her son.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:19 PM
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That tl;dr fucking did me in. Girlfriend involved in near-miss infidelity situation, Guys, it's okay... She barely missed kissing his dick.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 06:10 PM
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It's like that episode of South Park where Mr. Garrison can't forgive his father for not molesting him.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:08 PM
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I believe it was made with scanning software that was writing it to text, hence all the typos. It was a struggle to get past those, but once I started to get the information, I didn't give a shit about a couple misplaced or misspelled words.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:41 PM
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I really found The Manipulated Man to be a fascinating read. It has also profoundly affected the way in which I view women.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:08 PM
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I just do not understand why they need to be like that, I mean, I know they are like that, but wouldnt be easier to just say, hi, how you doing, instead of going into some aggressive bitchy state throwing shit tests and what not. Women cannot help but shit test. They aren't even aware they are doing it. They are bred and trained to shit test like men are trained to work and be honest. It sure would be easier for men if women communicated like men, but they don't. You can't get mad at a fish for …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:47 PM
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She is inconsistent with her arguments. She claims in the article: I get extremely angry when I come across articles that insist there are gender differences that extend beyond physiology. But then answers a comment with this: “The way men and women are socialized is different so there is a lot of room for confusion (woman to woman) if she is not clear on boundaries. In the past women were integrated into the business community as subordinates; professional women know how to act as an employee b…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 02:43 PM
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That actually doesn't answer the question, which I ask in all seriousness. Holding or maintaining frame has nothing to do with value equivalence. If the value of either sex is not measured the same, how can value be equivalent?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 11:20 AM
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How do you see the values being equivalent?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 11:30 PM
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There's always one...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:39 AM
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Man's curiosity is universal. There is almost nothing that does not interest him, whether it is politics, botany, nuclear physics, or God knows what. Even subjects out of his province hold his interest, such as bottling fruit, preparing cake mix, or caring for a baby And a man could not be pregnant for months without knowing all the functions of the placenta and ovaries in detail. This really spoke to me. This is a nice read, just to get what feels like an honest interpretation of how women thin…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:35 PM
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Will the goals of fucking girls and making money fulfill you enough that you will die happy? How should I know? Honestly, it seems to me that it is better to have a plan that may fail than to wonder what the plan should be. Are you genuinely satisfied with those goals only? These are the current set of goals. I am no longer the man I was yesterday, and I am not quite yet the man I will be tomorrow. I am satisfied for now, but it could change at any time. He figures there is no point to life anyw…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:45 PM
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Goals: Fuck bitches, make money. Route: Working at a small PC repair shop, Owning a Remote security business, Eating right, Exercise, reading blogs, books and articles, listening to theory, discussing theory, listening to podcasts, forcing myself to do it...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:43 PM
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You rock too. You just gotta go out and make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:42 PM
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That life has exactly the amount of meaning I invest into it. Life doesn't get better unless you make it better. If I am not passionate about something? Move on. Find the passion. I have become passionate about myself. I have already lost 50lbs of fat, and increased my muscles. My attitude has changed completely. I have the ability and the desire to make myself better. within 3 months I have made an almost 180 degree change. I am far less depressed. I am far more social. I am willing to let thin…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 06:55 PM
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I didn't find any until I was 31 and divorced.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 06:18 PM
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You win. I am gone. You don't give a shit about hearing opinions. You just want someone to bash on. Fuck PPD. Gratz.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 05:14 PM
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I agree. But I was talking about why hypergamy is viewed as bad from a male's perspective. Why should I make the attempt with women, if they will just leave me for whatever better comes along? I personally don't find it to be compelling, but had you asked me about it 3-5 years ago, I would have gotten very angry. I should be enough of a man, and comfortable enough with myself, not to worry about such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 04:59 PM
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Because a majority of the men don't even know what you mean when you say happiness. It strikes me as being along the same lines as Plato's Cave. They don't know they aren't happy, so why fix what doesn't look broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 04:37 PM
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equal rights for men and women. What rights do men possess that women do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 04:26 PM
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Why is this considered a negative female trait? Because it is anti-loyalty. Most men I know value loyalty very highly. The reality as seen from a male's perspective is this: It is much easier for women to 'get' men. If the woman I end up with is going to leave me for the next better thing, why should I put forth the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 04:18 PM
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My group is really big and really old and we STILL have less crazy whack job haters than TRP!! So what? Who cares how long or big something is? Christianity is big and old too. Doesn't make it right. I'm meant to cover for feminists who were talking about equality when the steam engine just came out whereas you just have to scroll down TRP's front page and actually read the words they wrote today and then just admit to yourself that there's a lot of hate there. I don't care who you are covering …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 03:37 PM
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So we've probably reached an impasse. You have created an impasse. You admit it yourself. On the one hand you claim: Feminists are always demonized. And on the other hand: It's okay to label an entire group by the actions of a select few. You have justified the demonization feminists receive. If we are at an impasse, then you won't feel the need to respond to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 11:45 AM
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Confirmation bias is my grappling with incoming information. Like when you choose to only see misogyny in TRP, right? Do not attempt to sway me with links of your bias against TRP either. Because not even the woman you cited as an example actually believes we should kill all men. Can you find an actual feminist who sincerely believes all men should be killed off? Valerie Solanas wrote the SCUM manifesto. It argues that women need to overthrow and kill men. She attempted to assassinate Andy Warho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 01:07 AM
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I really don't see this. Feminists are always demonized. This is confirmation bias. I am a big friendly guy, and women always cross the street to avoid walking by me. Parents pull their kids away like I am some kind of monster. You are right, we all get our own piles of shit. The problem here, is we both end up generalizing and applying the vocal minority to the entire group. TRP is a hate group, simple as that. TRP cannot control it's turbulent emotions or its vitriol, and it would do more harm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 12:31 PM
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Of course circumcision has been around for thousands of years. It has been around for at least however long the Jews have been around. It came into fashion in the West during the Victorian Era, when society decided sex was worse than Hitler. Don't you know the difference between a fad and a religious practice? I wasn't saying it got invented then, it became popular. It became the thing to do. It became the way to treat men. Do you not get what I meant? Please don't get me started on this shit. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 11:39 PM
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Is it ever okay to lie about yourself? If you want to form solid relationships, honesty needs to be the foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 11:29 PM
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There have also been studies that indicated STD transmission was lessened with circumcised penises, but that study was severally debunked. There are very few reasons to honestly have a circumcision performed. NSFW Phimosis is about the only medical problem I can think of where it may be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 05:37 PM
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Circumcision became a fad to reduce the urge to masturbate. It was supposed to reduce sexual drive by removing the most sensitive area of the penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 05:07 PM
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She knows her beta has no clue, or is whipped enough to not react.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:56 AM
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Sure. I will absolutely grant the subjective nature of the terms. The problem stems from words like value, good, better, or equal. These words are meaningless unless an clear, concise, and agreed upon explanation is given. Look, I really don't think less or more of women. I am only trying to come to an understanding of the situation and how I relate to it. I think the vehemence has gotten far beyond old. People will read into things what they want. Confirmation bias abounds, on all sides of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 09:36 PM
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I can agree with this. I understand that as society progresses we will change how we view the genders. With the advent of the internet, I imagine we will see even more drastic changes. The even more interesting bit will be to see what our new roles in society become. That being said, we are still affected by our primal side, which stems largely from the continuation of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 07:12 PM
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Of course they would want to make sure to protect the ten surviving of the gender, but pull it further into hyperbole. I would argue that the chances of continued survival far better if even just one male survives rather than the opposite. One woman would not be able to produce enough people to make a viable settlement. One man could. That is where the logic comes from. The areas in which a person excels are not necessarily governed by an inherent ability. I would agree, and there are outliers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 04:18 PM
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Then what is a more accurate reflection? I am seriously and honestly interested. What makes these assumptions incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 02:52 PM
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That isn't the point. The modernity of our situation doesn't diminish the basic truth. I guess I don't see why this is such a sticking point. It is a foundational thought amongst the ideas behind TRP. Women have more value. It has shaped our laws, customs, and societies. Women traditionally needed protection to ensure the continuation of all of us. The rights males classically enjoyed were necessarily given to enable men to protect and provide for the women. Women's rights were restricted becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 02:05 PM
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Women are more valuable to the species as a whole. One man could impregnate thousands of women. One woman can birth maybe 20-30 kids, at max. If we had to repopulate, we would need more women than men, thus they are more valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 01:41 PM
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Take pride in the fact that you have worked hard. You know about physics right? Engage people in topics you are interested in. Keep in mind the accomplishments you make are truly your accomplishments. Don't think about the 'men' that came before, just the people. There have been plenty of both men and women who have made our understanding of the universe clearer. If that is the path you want, take it. Be bold. Consider yourself and your goals first. Let nothing stand in your way. Not gender, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 02:55 PM
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Thing is, we all fail. That is the 'man's world.' Pushing through that fear, right there, is what I was taught being a man is. If that is really the case, you can do it too. 'Man' is the word that gets used. It doesn't make it gender exclusive. The men in your field have those insecurities too. Make no mistake. Ultimately, I think you should really consider whether you want a family or a career. You can have both, but having a fulfilling life in both areas will be rough. This is truly unfortunat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 01:27 PM
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Most debates on the internet come down to this. Unfortunately, most debates I have with women end up like this too. They quickly get frustrated and try to attack the post or the poster instead of the argument. And when you look dumbfounded because she answered a question that never got asked, she considers it a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 12:18 PM
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No, that was a pretty spot on summary of the action up to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 02:29 AM
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And this kind of crap means that YOU are obviously not worth my time either. Jesus. Do you hear yourself? This is exactly why I wrote what I wrote. What are you so god-damned upset about? And, again, instead of trying to debate the points, you merely piss and moan about another poster doing shit that annoys you. You attempt to wave it away with this: and I find the "subreddits can't do anything" train of thought to lead to a worthless debate of semantics. Then why does it get brought up over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 02:27 AM
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Written word forms of humor are notoriously easy to misinterpret though. When we argue about topics that have such an emotional background, ill phrased humor tends to just make the situation worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/14 05:39 PM
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One can tell by the subject matter TRP routinely discusses that they don't get very far with women. TRP pretends to discuss actual LTR minutia, but every observation sounds like it's been made by people who have never been in that situation. I must be reading different posts than you, then. TRP doesn't have a good idea of how women react to things the way other male redditors do. That is because TRP is comprised of men. Men don't think the same way women do. When TRP talks about any woman they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/14 05:09 PM
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The point of a debate is to discuss the ideas. You choosing to ignore the point he raises means the idea of a debate is pointless. You don't want to answer his question, because your reasoning and picture of the sub-reddit is overly hostile. You interpret words as actions. You assume TRP is a movement with meetings, maps, objectives and pie. TRP is a place for males to discuss strategies to get satisfying relationships. It has nothing to do with politics. It has nothing to do with a movement. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/14 12:12 PM
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It is pretty easy to dismiss the protection men 'used' to provide. We don't get attacked by Saber-tooth Tigers anymore. We don't have to hunt down wooly mammoths for food anymore. Women also don't spend all their adult lives making babies anymore. When you had to have 10 kids to get 2 adults, women spent a lot more time needing protecting and providing for. We don't live in that place anymore. It is far to easy to dismiss those tendencies. It seems if this is all based on evolution that all cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/14 12:16 PM
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The woman (or frankly, man) could be in danger of a great many things. We truly enjoy a safety that has probably never been seen in human history. However, the fact of the matter is that we live in a dangerous place. Rape, robbery, murder... In general, men have a physical advantage over women. It is all but a trivial matter that a 300lb 6ft 4in guy can force a 130lb 5ft 4in woman to do whatever he wants her to. Yeah, there are laws and stuff, but some people just don't care about the law. And i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/14 12:20 AM
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The wall encompasses the idea that women can healthily reproduce until about 30. After that, it is less safe for her and the child(ren). Her (i.e. women in general) looks also start to dissipate after this time mark. RPillers take the idea that a woman's main natural resources are how she looks and her ability to birth offspring. A man's resource for trade comes in the form of labor and defense. This is where the needs come at the expense of men. Across time, men necessarily laid down their live…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/14 04:46 PM
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In my mind, those who pursue the MGTOW way of life exist in a similar vein with the women who burned their bras or refused to carry on traditional feminine roles. They are not participating in what we might consider social norms. It isn't a movement though. There is no leadership. There is no direction other than what any individual MGTOW supplies himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/14 04:07 PM
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Seems to be that the drive to go get fucked up is still an effective form of being driven. There is still a plan, and the single-mindedness to do whatever it takes to achieve the goal.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 05:32 PM
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This is a poorly phrased question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/14 06:22 PM
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Here. The claim is that 80% of women have reproduced, whereas 40% of men have, according to the article's quoted PhD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/14 06:21 PM
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First off, do you think women will never cheat? Some people cheat, some don't. Second, if they do, will you break up with them or confront them if you find out somehow (without her knowledge or admission) or because of suspicions/gut feel? I would need proof, not just a gut feeling. And yes, she would be dropped faster than bricks on Jupiter. Cheating is not to be tolerated. Third, what is an acceptable level of cheating for you? One time single sexual encounter? Two time? Many time but with jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 07:12 PM
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I think it's a throw back to Victorian era attitudes brought by settlers to the new world and down under. You don't think it has anything to do with the possessive nature of humans? The Bible discusses ideas like fidelity where it concerns women being beholden to men. That didn't come from Victorian Era thinking. Judaism, Christianity, Hinduism, and Islam all shaped Western Global thoughts and opinions on fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 06:53 PM
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SMV
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:21 PM
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To Whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 09:46 PM
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It seems ridiculous to me that someone could have that much anger over something so trivial and ultimately just a part of life. What? Trivial? I was raised to believe that women were more emotionally mature than men. Emotionally mature women do not trivialize others emotions. I don't hate women. I am not angry at women. I am very angry at society. I am very angry at my parents. I am very angry at myself. There are plenty of times when I get angry and yell or write about things that are unrelated…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 12:26 PM
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Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 12:06 PM
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That is why it is terrible advice coming from the mother. She loves her son unconditionally. She cannot see his flaws as being detrimental (if she sees them at all). She gives him what could be great advice, if he actually were the person she sees.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:57 AM
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This is why you can't say truth in front of Blue Pillers. She doesn't hear a discussion based on science, she hears that she is a rotten bitch. It's funny to me, sometimes, how difficult it is for a lot of women (and men) to think outside themselves. Not every article is an assault on you as a person. Shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:19 AM
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That also describes the age-old battle between good and evil. I find the parallel both funny and relevant.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:13 PM
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There is always another one. She needs to realize this.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:01 PM
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The nature of the topics being discussed here swing from general to specific. Some women are responsible for themselves, some are not. It isn't any different among men. Are women capable of making decisions for themselves? Yes. Or are women agents when it's convenient to make a point, but not agents when it's not convenient? Yes. Men are the same way, in general. How can this blue pill thread be anything but online bullying? Are you referring to the thread you made, or the one you linked to? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 03:14 PM
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Word. It turns out, owning a small business is both risky and hard. It's your baby, and it needs almost all your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 11:54 AM
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If they are already using RP ideas, what's the the "red pill" aspect of TRP? What gives it its unique enlightening, step out of the matrix secrecy if tons of people are already aware of them. I was a guy that for a long time suffered under the delusion that I should put others before myself. The red pill for me was realizing that I need to put myself first. And, honestly, I am not aware of tons of healthy relationships. Most I am aware of are terrible for at least one of the people, if not both.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/14 01:51 PM
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Which is interesting, because wearing the hijab would effectively force women to employ personality or knowledge to get by.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:03 PM
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This is along the lines of "why can't I be a successful, assertive woman without being called a bitch?" It is because most assertive people are dicks/bitches. Women don't deal with that very well.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:57 PM
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I'm a bitch rather than assertive Guys think other assertive guys are dicks. It is our nature to judge like that. I am not saying you are a bitch for being assertive, but the 'man' real world is literally just a competitive place. There are no rules in love and war. Business is about success. The focused, driven, disciplined and assertive people (men and women) that want to get things done, things get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 12:47 AM
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However, like I said in a previous post somewhere here, it is relative. What group are you the alpha of? Is the Chief of Police more alpha than the owner of the Bank? Or the local chapter leader of the Hell's Angels? They all can express alpha traits. There is not one group all humans belong to, aside from our species, and there isn't a hard defined alpha male for that group. I wasn't previously aware that TRP was using a different definition of alpha. Simple posters use the word alpha as be all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 06:08 PM
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TRP define beta traits, and discuss ideas about why women react to beta traits they way they do. A beta provider is like a code word for poor sap. It doesn't mean that guy is locked into beta-ness, it just means he is displaying a great many beta traits. Just because a guy has money doesn't mean he is a beta. Beta, as a descriptor, gets used to describe the fat guy that makes under $100k a year, that pays the woman's bills and maybe gets laid 3-4 times a year. Just because you make money and hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 05:59 PM
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What do you define as beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 05:15 PM
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No what I directly referenced are people who are here maybe a week tops and get really excited to make a post to the "cool guys on reddit" so they can essentially rate themselves without taking the time to learn. This happens in every single sub. Every one of them. Downvote the material you don't find interesting or amusing and roll on man. Getting pissed and making a shit post does nothing to fix the goddamned problem.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:45 PM
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Because I am a success oriented individual, and their tactics work. Honestly, not only can they work, but the core of it is self centered in a way that actually appeals to me. The idea I take away from it is that by becoming the most important person in my life, I can positively affect those around me. I feels kind of strange to admit, but there it is. I want to feel like I am the most important person, and I never actually have before. My attitude previously was unhealthy. I didn't satisfy my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 03:12 AM
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I think I see what is going on here, now. It is social dominance, but on relative terms. Are you the most dominant man in the room, building, block, city, county, state, etc... I don't have to be more dominant than the CEO if I am in a bar down the street. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 03:08 AM
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I get that. It isn't just success. There should really be some other levels of attraction, unless there are ulterior motives... ;) I really don't like to make black and white statements. I am coming to understand a great many things exist on a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 03:03 AM
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but muscle tone has little to do with social dominance. Neither does being an asshole, or a nice guy. Confidence is what the people follow. It has been boiled down to a sound byte. The qualifiers 'nice guy' and 'asshole' mean more than the money and muscles. Did you forget that part? What are you getting at here, mate? Are you trolling? Or do you have some greater point to make? You have successfully taken us in a circle. Out of curiosity, is it a problem for you to have words with multiple mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 02:55 AM
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Surely you are aware of hideous men getting lovely women, right? Male looks don't matter anywhere near confidence and attitude. It has been boiled down to a sound byte. The qualifiers 'nice guy' and 'asshole' mean more than the money and muscles. And, generally speaking, just about any man can develop his physical appearance, including muscle tone. The attitude adjustment is the real trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 02:41 AM
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I.e. her/his most valued asset. Men want sex, and women want the safety or foundation of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 02:32 AM
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So which is alpha? Social dominance or physical dominance? Both. It matters what you look like to some women, and what you think like to other women. That is where the spectrum comes in. A lot of the billionaires are intelligent, and a lot of athletes are physically powerful, but they both are confident as fuck about themselves. It is the confidence that is alpha. Confidence is king, and that isn't just red pill, that is life. If you got the balls to go out there and get it, you will, or you wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 02:13 AM
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TRP imposes their views on the population and calls it generalization for the sake of simplicity I know you commented about the other bad ones, but this is the nature of a site like Reddit, where sub-reddits are privately moderated. If you cannot debate them there, you can at least debate them (and me:P) here! I am here to tell you that not all RPers are evil misogynists. I am absolutely looking for a submissive feminine woman. TRP espouses techniques for attracting those women, and then there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 01:59 AM
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I don't see what got settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 01:38 AM
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No, I am simply stating the fact that you never countered my arguments, past like perhaps the second post. You instead stuck around a story I told about myself to illustrate a point. You could wait till after your test to respond, but you are still replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 01:17 AM
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I had no dogs in this fight, hon. I don't care what you think about me. It is obvious you have absolutely zero logic left. Your attempt to bow out, without answering a single serious question I posed, is weak. I wouldn't say mean, but I also wouldn't say bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:44 AM
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Yep, boil the entire conversation into one sentence on my part. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:41 AM
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Lol. You are hilarious. So far you have only attacked a couple stories I shared about abusive women, and yet you are the one who cannot move past it. Despite me reiterating several times that I do not hate women for what I went through. I have presented you multiple arguments that you don't want to tackle, because you might not win. Attack my character, so I become the bad guy, right? That is a pretty typical thing to do when you get frustrated and run out of logic to support an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:21 AM
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What point am I not reading or trying to understand? What have I blamed on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:07 AM
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Because men still exhibit beta behaviors. I for one grew up thinking that if I gave a woman what she told me she wants she would be happy. It didn't work that way. I never felt happy, and she never felt happy. I tried, desperately. And the reason there are still 'betas' is because there are droves of men eating the same bullshit I ate for 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 11:52 PM
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I guess I see what you mean, but that doesn't mean the core tenants are centered around women bashing. Maybe I am diamond in the rough, but I don't harbor hate or disgust for women. I love women. Honestly. For instance, when I hear a Red Piller talk about treating women like children, I assume he means showing them how to think about things. People who take offense to treating someone as a child must treat children like shit. I wouldn't beat children. I would feed and shelter children. I would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 11:34 PM
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From the article you linked to: Also, males are viewed as an economic asset in a poorer household, for they help with work on farms, they will take care of their parents as they age, and they do not require a dowry for marriage Women can not generally be counted on for hard labor, like men (i.e. women won't be running a plough). In China, male children are literally lawfully responsible for taking care of their parents when they retire. Women have absolutely no lawful obligation to care for anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 10:51 PM
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I am literally not blaming shit on women. I am taking full responsibility for my actions. I guess more words at this point don't matter to you. You stopped discussing two posts ago. I tell you what TRP is (at least what I have come to learn it is), and you tell me about shitty people. I tell you what I think being a man is, and you actually agree with me in all but name. You are the one who is angry here. You hurl insults instead of attacking my logic. Stop it. If you truly are intelligent, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 10:35 PM
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We seem to be gliding between generalization and specificity. Which would you prefer I continue on with? You don't have dissenting voices. The voices are censored, banned, deleted because they don't suit TRP narrative. You don't allow outside voices to challenge you in your sub. It's an echo chamber. What sub isn't like that? Seriously. I don't know how many feminist subs I was perma-banned from just for asking a single question. The only answers I can give you were given to be by those individu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 10:11 PM
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Wow you are really some victimized mother fucker. I'm sorry society doesn't specifically give a shit about you. You know what? It doesn't give a shit about anyone. You are seriously so entitled that you think you're special and deserved some kind of recognition because you were beat up and abused by girls apparently all your life? Guess what? No one cares. But I can't understand what it's like to have troubles and being able to move along from life altering events because I'm a woman. Get over y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 09:59 PM
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I will give you the sitcom bit. Last time I watched TV "According to Jim" was on the air. I seriously gave up on mainstream media a long time ago (probably 5-7 years). And yeah, those stories need fucked up characters with big problems to stay interesting. As for the part about women not being pushed into logical thought like men have, would you mind expanding on that? Fair warning, this could get lengthy. Women possess an inherent value in the ability to birth children (this will feel like gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 09:34 PM
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Where does TRP define masculinity? They define it by the course of action they advise men to take. What? Advising a course of action is not a definition. It is advice. Take it or leave it. .... Every where in the media. Dude, you guys have BALLS of influence in the media. Generalization. I have influence among my friends and family. That is the extent of my influence. I have no iron in the media fire. I don't blog. I don't make videos. I am not a journalist, nor an editor. You have defined some …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:50 PM
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Indeed. I really like to get zen on it. Our actions are not inherently good or bad. They just are. The sooner we recognize that, the sooner we can make real change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 07:51 PM
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But TRP thinks they can define masculinity, and the way they do it excludes a lot of people. Anyone who doesn't conform to the way TRP defines masculinity are dismissed as betas or manginas or what have you. Where does TRP define masculinity? If there is some definition there, I cannot find it. And if they present an ill-suited definition for masculinity, where should I find one? Are you going to tell me how to be a proper man? Who should I learn to be a man from? Whether you believe it or not, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 07:48 PM
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And I find it hard to believe that women told a five year old boy that he was a pig for being a boy. If I saw that happening, or if any woman I know saw that happening, she would definitely have it handed back to her. You seem to take things way too far. I do not care what you find hard to believe. You were not there, and no-one else who cared was there either. I also bet you would tell me the countless times I got the piss beat out of me by some group of girls that they should have been punishe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 06:47 PM
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I have never been told this. Ever. I don't know anyone who does think this, except for the rad-fem stereotype which I've only ever seen on random internet posts. My Mom, aunt, sister, and step-aunt have all said men are pigs at various times in my life, sometimes jokingly, sometimes completely seriously. To my face. I had little choice but to believe them, until TRP opened my eyes. My grandfather used to preach never ever hit a woman. You can understand my confusion when I used to get the shit b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 06:09 PM
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In all honesty, I have yet to see society care about men. Perhaps it is due to my age (hit 31 last November). Perhaps it is confirmation bias. They do not have a lack of male role models through society and media, Who are the good male role-models of today? Where are the people saying it is okay to embrace masculinity? I must have missed them, because the only people I have seen or heard preach that are the very people getting called misogynistic. and there is no excuse for putting down and mani…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 04:55 PM
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It is the same thing for /r/ShitRedditSays, /r/atheism, /r/wtf... I guess I don't see your point. Would you rather discuss people or ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 04:10 PM
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You may not dehumanize women but TRP very much accomplishes that. I think is where the fundamental break in understanding is. I have spent months now pouring over material related to the ways men and women interact in society. There are individuals (just like in any group, be it religious or political) who misunderstand or misrepresent the information. Daily there are posts in TRP that reflect genuine anger and hatred. Often times, this anger is directed at society, but more specifically women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 03:57 PM
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would they have a right to it? No. A Right in this instance is an entitlement, and I don't see any reason to be entitled to birth control. You could not have sex and be about as equally (or better) protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 03:39 PM
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I believe I said that TRP isn't about bashing. Did I say I look to dehumanize women? I don't remember insinuating that. We note how TRP males come across to women and how they regard women, and we don't like it. So what. I look at women the same way I look at men. I don't dehumanize either. You can go ahead and think I look to dehumanize, but that only makes it easier to ignore my argument. I hate that you constantly refer to TRP like it's just a truth we refuse to accept because it's too hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 03:14 PM
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The Red Pill is medicine. Medicine doesn't taste good. I don't care how many posts are angry. I don't care about posts that bash anyone. The quality posts are about focusing on men. The rest are posts where men are learning how to embrace male emotion. You don't have to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 03:06 PM
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Honestly, if the core idea's of TRP became mainstream, there would be more fierce competition and more productivity. I get the feeling that there are a lot of individuals who believe that at it's absolute core, TRP is about misogyny, when that couldn't be farther from the truth. The ideas appear misogynist when considered from a female perspective, but TRP isn't anti-female. It is pro-male. It is about bettering yourself and creating value and worth for yourself. This isn't some anti-vagina para…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 03:03 PM
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It appears bitter and angry because the taking the Red Pill isn't fun. The core of the ideas of the red pill isn't about bashing women. It isn't about reducing women. It is about focusing on men. It is undeniable that masculinity has not been lauded by society for at least the 40-70 years. The last three generations of men have grown up not knowing how to embrace masculinity. The red pill is just one way to truly come to terms with what it means to be a man. It isn't necessary for women to under…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 01:39 PM
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Women fail the worldview test all the time, every time.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 01:14 PM
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You say this like women have the ability to think about proof. It doesn't matter what kind of proof you present. They don't need facts, they have their emotions.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:33 PM
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And it's totally cool to try and bring them into the fold, but you have to wait till they are ready. It's very similar to telling a friend he's fucking a succubus. You simply cannot tell him until he begins to think she might not be great for him. The more you try to tell him, the farther he will push away from you. Keep at it man! Just look for chinks in the armor.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:40 PM
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I think it is important to understand the people you want to supply with this information though. Often times, to correctly apply the medicine, you have to wait till the patient is receptive. The best candidates for bringing into the fold are the ones who are asking the questions we all had before we got here. If a guy isn't asking those questions, exposing him to it could push him away from the idea. It's cool to talk about these ideas, but you have to keep the forum limited, because society ri…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:35 PM
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I have to at least give these poor afc some chance. No you don't man. Fuck those douches. This ain't a popularity contest, and most people are still sucking the Disney Tit. TRP isn't something you give to others. It is something you take yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:23 PM
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Time to get my shit together and start living. Right here. Figure out what you have that is broken, and put into action a plan to fix the problems. You are a man. You are born to solve problems. You got this, it just takes some time. Real psychologists are only going to help you find the tools, you still have to do the leg work. You are also young. You have at least another decade to get shit figured out (this doesn't mean be lazy, work that shit like there will be no tomorrow). Men don't truly …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:19 PM
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Islam was created my men. The world didn't give men Islam. And the 'privileges' males receive in Islam are counter-balanced by social responsibilities. Males in Islamic society hold all responsibility towards society and family. When a wife fucks something up, generally in Islam, the man is responsible for it. Not the woman. Same for kids. Men are responsible to society for the actions of his family. That isn't catering to males. I guess I don't see your point.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:56 PM
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Humans have always been the victim. Anything that has ever lived on this planet has been a victim. The thing that makes us men is facing the pain and moving forward. I simply state facts about being a man. I said nothing about women. Women struggles don't matter here. It doesn't mean they don't have struggles, but the place for that discussion is not here. I don't know about you, but I am sick to death of being told women's problems are worse than mine. Her problems are different, not necessaril…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 11:38 AM
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There is no acceptance of fat or short men because the world does not cater to men. The world has never, ever catered to males. Period. Being a man means going out and getting shit done, despite what the world thinks, says or does. It is not the worlds job to accept you. It is your job to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:40 PM
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The harder you push from your end the farther away your friend will go. All you can do is support the guy, and hope he seriously isn't fucking up his own future. It isn't your future to save, it is his to fuck up. And if (and this is a big if) he gets fucked by this broad, do not tell him I told you so (unless you guys are really fucking close friends).
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:36 PM
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I will bring truth into it though, because that is exactly how I feel about the situation. I simply stated that I find the idea repulsive. Sexual strategy is amoral. I think most serious posters in this sub will agree. However, I find the implementation of this specific strategy to be distasteful at best. Concerning bodybuilding, as far as I know (I could be wrong) but use of steroids and HGH is outside the accepted rules. If the practice exists outside the given rule set, that person is now a c…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:42 PM
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Indeed.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:32 PM
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Again, I find it disgusting. This is simply my opinion. I can see your points, but I don't see them changing my mind. The thing is, there are plenty of traits humans can possess that cannot be fixed surgically, or through hard work (mental and to some extent physical handicap comes to mind). We expect those people to deal with it. “It's not about the cards you're dealt, but how you play the hand.” ― Randy Pausch
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:52 PM
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I feel like plastic surgery is tantamount to lying. Surgery don't fix genes. I really can understand the guy that sued his wife for providing ugly children. I feel like hiding your true self is pretty extreme, especially when it is a country wide phenomena. I think the same thing about plastic surgery here. I understand plastic surgery for things like fire damage, or facial reconstruction after a terrible accident. But to pursue facial reconstruction (or fake tits, w/e) to gain mates is kind of …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 05:11 PM
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This was a woman hitting her daughter. The moral of the story: Never be anywhere in the vicinity of women being hit.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:49 PM
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Unless the law changed, Oklahoma does not have stop and identify laws. This makes me fuckin' sick to my stomach.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:48 PM
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Indeed. It turns out, that is what our primary school system is in place for. We don't teach kids to question authority. We teach kids to conform, which leads us down the road of incorrect expectation in life's goals. And then businesses wonder where the people who think outside the box are.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:33 PM
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I find it really funny just how many people go to college and parrot things professors say. People in their late teens and early twenties are far to impressionable, and possess very little real world experience. I should know, I did the same stupid stuff ten years ago (not the feminist rhetoric, just parroting profs). Maybe ask him if there is anything women can be held responsible for then. Obviously the man being responsible at all times must surely mean women aren't strong enough to make any …
/r/MensRights26/02/14 03:09 AM
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Dude. You validate yourself. Do not ever expect someone else to validate you. It only leads towards heart break and failure. Masculinity comes from confidence in one's self. You need to go out and accomplish some shit. Start a business. Work out. Make yourself valuable to society. Then comes the confidence, then the validation, then the pussy. Quit seeking outside validation. Invest in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:49 PM
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This sums up politics as a whole. This has nothing to do with "a" country, let alone America. This is a world problem. It really is narrow and shallow comments like that, that turn social movements into monster movements.
/r/MensRights23/02/14 02:35 PM
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It feels like we need to decide whether women have agency or not. Only from there can we as a society make decisions based on social responsibility. Stating that males hold the responsibility in this case should garner as many perks as it garners consequences. It compares with selective service and voting rights. Males get to vote because we were forced to sign up for a draft (as it stands, the men of this country haven't always had a vote). Women just get the vote. There is no social responsibi…
/r/MensRights22/02/14 04:52 PM
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I can only hope that the daughter gets over the brainwashing, and that the mother gets deported and has many books thrown at her.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 04:27 PM
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Her intellect must truly be dizzying.
/r/MensRights22/01/14 07:49 PM
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Why does she assume all transgendered individuals are male to begin with? Also, she supports gays, which are explicitly male... I need to stop before I go insane trying to figure this dumbass out.
/r/MensRights22/01/14 07:18 PM
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she even specifically supports only LGB, no T, because since transexuals used to be men, they're still men in disguise, so fuck them...sigh... Is this actually her stance? So much wtf...
/r/MensRights22/01/14 06:41 PM
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I am sorry, did you think that I believed the post to be written in all seriousness? I was simply asking questions relating to how to interpret sarcastic intent written phrases. I did not interpret the post as serious. I am not the user who got downvoted for an over-reactionary post. You were the one who insulted a user for not having the same interpretation you made. When someone referenced Poe's Law, you counter with Basic Reasoning. When I ask for clarification on your basic reasoning you giv…
/r/MensRights22/01/14 05:03 PM
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Indeed. These are symbols I usually hunt for when trying to determine the nature of a post. Thank you for the answer!
/r/MensRights22/01/14 03:47 PM
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I can understand the exclamation point, but I cannot assume sarcasm sue to others interpretation. That said, thanks for the answer!
/r/MensRights22/01/14 03:46 PM
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Honest question here. How are we supposed to know if a written passage is employing sarcasm, without proper context? This line gets dropped by feminists, and we take it seriously. If it gets dropped by a non-feminist, apparently, it is sarcasm. It is literally one sentence, with little to no context. Some folks are so blinded by anger or hate towards the opposite faction they assume anything written in this style is actual rhetoric being employed by the 'enemy'. How are we supposed to tell witho…
/r/MensRights22/01/14 02:22 PM
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Feminists won't get it. They will think it is a pro feminism poster.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 09:28 PM
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To be fair, rape never had a real solid meaning to begin with.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 02:47 AM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 02:18 AM
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So if I stood by and watched someone murder somebody, what sentence should I get? What is your relationship to the perpetrator? Are you married to the perp? Or where you an innocent bystander? Was there video of you watching the murder happen? Did you honestly just watch a murder (or even a man get beaten day after day) and do nothing about it? Is that scenario different than supporting the perpetrator? That is the problem. She willing watched people break the law, and did nothing about it. It c…
/r/MensRights09/01/14 01:57 AM
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Show me the evidence that you have right now, that isn't speculation or inference, that proves she abused him more than the husband or son. She pleaded guilty to battery. She is also guilty of holding a hostage against his will for nine weeks. What more proof do you need?
/r/MensRights09/01/14 01:49 AM
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NCOs will sometimes claim that getting a soldier getting a sun burn, that prevents execution of duty, is damaging government property.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:16 AM
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Not sure why you got down-votes. DAs can either be appointed or elected. It depends on the jurisdiction you live in.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 08:16 PM
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You don't have to take it, but you damn sure can't hit back. If your woman is beating you, you could just leave. If you hit her back, you are setting yourself up for failure. It doesn't matter if she started it. Unless you can somehow prove it (video), even then men look pretty bad when hitting chicks. Especially in western societies.
/r/MensRights15/12/13 08:49 PM
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It is an abuser mindset, justified with female rationalization. I have seen men do this same bullshit. The difference was, if the man was dumb enough to admit it to his friends, he usually got his ass beat, or lost friends over it. Feminists encourage each other to be abusers, but they aren't always abusers themselves.
/r/MensRights14/12/13 04:26 PM
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Because if you don't let her, you will go to jail. If you so much as leave visible bruising, and you are male, you are fucked. How are you a man if you let your woman beat you? Maybe this attitude is regional because it's not something I've seen enforced by peer pressure. This, btw, is the same attitude that gets female-on-male rape ignored. Statements like this are why the MRM is 40+ years behind feminism.
/r/MensRights14/12/13 04:16 PM
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OOC, who does (or did) the class react to that? Were they incredulous? Or did they understand what you said?
/r/MensRights14/12/13 03:56 PM
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This is how women operate. This is why men scratch their heads in befuddlement. There is no logic, only emotion and emotionally driven rationalization.
/r/MensRights14/12/13 03:55 PM
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Right, but assuredly there were cries of DNA tests accuracy. I seem to remember that was what the majority of cases during the 90's tried to claim.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 08:02 PM
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Thank you for the info kind redditor!
/r/MensRights09/12/13 09:09 PM
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Just walk it off.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 03:48 PM
1

I realize I don't have to take the pill. The one side-effect I have seen that gives me pause is the possible testicle shrinkage. From what I have read/heard, a man's balls can shrink up to 30% in size. I don't know if it is a permanent change, but that one leaves me iffy. I don't think it makes men less-of-a-man or not. I don't see reasons to emasculate anyone for wanting to use it, but it still gives me a reason to think about it.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 03:04 PM
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Excuse me, your logic is showing.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 06:07 PM
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I illustrated examples above where men are victimized by male privilege, which I would argue is very oppressive toward men today How is it a privilege when it is causing victims? According to you: Privilege does not mean that all members of that group live a cushy life, or that they are to blame for the ills in society According to Google: priv·i·lege ˈpriv(ə)lij/ noun noun: privilege; plural noun: privileges a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/13 05:15 PM
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This has been my personal choice for 31 years now.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 06:12 PM
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is that people do suffer grave injustice around the world and massive inequality FTFY Women are not special in their suffering, just different.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 06:04 PM
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Because men made that poor woman a drug and welfare addict. That is what the downvoters think.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 06:34 PM
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I thought that was primarily a French way of writing currency/mathematics amounts. Also, isn't the article from a European news source? Wouldn't that indicate that at least some Europeans use the , and . symbols like most Americans are used to? edit: nope, I was wrong. Turns out, there is no single way to write currency. Some countries would write 12.000,00. Some write it 12,000.00, others write 12'000,00, others still use: 12 000,00 There is no standard.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 03:25 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 07:04 PM
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She was probably worked up from the act of violence. The article claims she liked perpetrating it. I would imagine at least one of the other attackers was a male, and they probably fucked right when she got home after kicking the shit out of some guy she didn't like.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 04:07 PM
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Stories like this make me want to vomit.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 04:04 PM
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Please present proof of this when you make blanket statements like this. Also, no need to post twice.
/r/MensRights04/10/13 03:06 PM
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My wife has argued the transmission point several times when we discuss this issue. I asked her if the opposite were true if it would be okay. I suspect she agreed because there wasn't a study at the time.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 05:44 PM
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Is there some cultural norm that dictates that male sibling is responsible for female siblings errant conduct? I could be wrong, but from what I have come to understand, the cultural norm is that women are not responsible for their own actions. I think it has more to do with gender than relation.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 01:09 AM
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I am not sure any sane individual would ever suggest the first option. That just sounds ridiculous.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 07:35 PM
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Why feminism doesn't ask for women to take on hard labour jobs? Because feminism isn't about equality.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 01:26 PM
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