What's the consensus here on prostitutes?

vandaalen · 2014-10-07T11:59:14+00:00

It's completely up to you. I personally see both benefits but also disadvantages and I am too much of a crook to become a reg.

There's nothing wrong in it per sé. It's a proffesional service transaction and it can also be fun if you watch for the quality of the hoe. You will most likely get what you pay for and being willing to invest some more will also get you a better time.

Prostituion is a very honest way of having sex. The boundaries and the price are set up front and whores tend to have a very red pill pov on the world.

Also if you are into, or want to try out, some special kink it will be much easier to get what you like.

Not to forget that cumming into a prostitutes mouth is still better than jizzing in your own hand.

Edit: It can also help to kick sex and pussy from the pedestal if you are struggling with it, since you will learn that you could basically always have pussy from a really good looking girl that you choose by yourself, if you want to, and you will become more aloof and laidback.

toysjoe · 2014-10-07T13:02:07+00:00

I think prostitutes are the most honest, cheapest ways to get laid.

fnordsnord · 2014-10-07T14:38:57+00:00

Visiting an escort, especially if you are very, very inexperienced, can be a useful experience. Other commentators have talked about "taking pussy off the pedestal," and they're right.

Getting off with an escort relieves the biological urge and, more importantly, satisfies the base curiosity of virgins, as well as removes the stigma many men carry because they ARE virgins.

This things can make you too eager and too thirsty to come off as anything other than needy to women in your own league. So visiting an escort can be useful. A good one can also teach you how to physically please a woman if you ask her to.

However, the kind of men who NEED this type of help are also the kind of men who are mostly likely to over-bond with their first sexual partner. And you DON'T want to fall in love with a practicing escort. Her JOB is to act like she cares about you, but to protect herself, she CAN'T actually care about you beyond, "Yeah, he's a good customer, I like him."

Of ALL the women you can't blue-pill your way into love with them, escorts are the worst.

So my advise is - if you can't get any at all, try an escort to relieve your tension and maybe learn something. But don't make it a habit. Beyond the immediate benefits, it's the same as jacking off to online port, but much, much more expensive.

thebuddhalifts · 2014-10-07T12:09:07+00:00

I used it as a stepping stone.

tombreck2 · 2014-10-07T14:36:48+00:00

It's a short term solution to a longer term problem. One night of getting laid will not solve your issue. You should focus on yourself first before you start worrying about whether women are attracted to you

drimadethistocomment · 2014-10-07T14:57:17+00:00

This is posted at least once a week

dreckmal · 2014-10-07T16:31:59+00:00

Sometimes, we really just need to get the demons out, so we can continue to think about improving other areas of life.

Just don't allow yourself to get attached to the hoes. Realize it for the instant gratification it is.

And to the guys who bitch about not paying for sex, every one pays for everything. There is no such thing as free. Even those who can walk up to a woman and get her in the sack in a couple hours have paid with a lifetime of practicing 'those things' that women find attractive.

Your time is arguably your most valuable asset, and if it is going to take 6 months of time to get laid, maybe it is easier to buy a whore for the evening and go on about the rest of your program.

Try not to make it a habit, though. The instant-gratification road is clearly divergent from the self-improvement road.

MrEiffel · 2014-10-07T11:11:48+00:00

Why pay for something you can get for free? If u can't get it for free start working on yourself.

AFPJ · 2014-10-07T18:07:34+00:00

Prostitutes are a temporary fix for a lack of game, escorts are for when you need ironclad confidentiality.

If you're getting hookers, go learn game. If you need confidentiality, hire an escort. It's that simple.

deville05 · 2014-10-07T19:17:25+00:00

Well nothing is free. Even the chick you think yr getting into bed had to be paid with food/drink/your time and energy, depending on how you convinced her. I think going to a nice hooker is bypassing all that and opening our clogged pores so that you can get back to doing your thing. Hookers should be hot and not enslaved chicks from third world countries and prostitution should be legal and regulated. That being said, it aint cheap andits not gonna help you talk your way into pussy and you shouldnt resort to it because you cant overcome your shyness or cuz you suck at game. Getting hookers should either be a phase that helps you get through a rough patch or just something that you do occasionally for the change in experience.

oldredder · 2014-10-08T02:59:28+00:00

Hm. You pay a hooker to leave, that way she isn't messing up your life after giving sex, and usually a lot of them are very hot too so you get a guaranteed hot girl for sex.

Do it if you want to.

skoobled · 2014-10-08T11:59:41+00:00

I've dabbled a couple of times but came out disliking it. The problem to me was that the sex is functional, and can feel quite fake. It's like jerking off you a girl attached.

In my case, this was at a very clean and reputable establishment. The cleanliness is good, but there are rules and the lack of spontaneity kinda killed it. Plus you have to subtract the whole aspect of the girl's desire f

Title	What's the consensus here on prostitutes?
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Date	October 7, 2014 11:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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