mommy issues

robesta · 2014-02-25T16:02:05+00:00

I think you should stop trying to use women to fill any emotional void. You're self aware enough to know you have mommy issues, if you need help working through shit, talk to a bro or an individual counselor. No woman wants a guy who is trying to fix themselves through her.

Learn to stand on your own two feet, make money, and hit the gym.

dreckmal · 2014-02-25T17:49:44+00:00

Dude. You validate yourself. Do not ever expect someone else to validate you. It only leads towards heart break and failure.

Masculinity comes from confidence in one's self. You need to go out and accomplish some shit. Start a business. Work out. Make yourself valuable to society. Then comes the confidence, then the validation, then the pussy.

Quit seeking outside validation. Invest in yourself.

attaxx · 2014-02-25T17:33:08+00:00

Yesterday I was thinking about that, the biggest mistake that people do is to think that a relationship is the be and end all in life. The key is to remember that, you are and have only what traits you inherently possess, and that's what you must strive to "collect" from this life.

It's true that sex drags us and drives us to many things but you must think of it like another thing that is out there in the world for you to take, but it doesn't belong to you and it never will make you completely happy.

We live in a society that teaches us to be "full time dads, husbands, professionals, friends" instead of complete human beings. Men have become utilitarian commodities that have to be there for others. Stop thinking like you need a relationship, or get laid in order to become what you really want to become. Focus on the aspects of your inner self that will turn yourself in the man you always wanted to be.

DoxasticPoo · 2014-02-25T19:41:45+00:00

Remember this, it's your fucking head.

All the validation, came from you. All the comfort, came from you. All the caring and nurturing, came from you.

Your mother never stuck and Ethernet cable into your ear to force you to feel "cared for". That was you. It was always you.

So that means you have control over it. Find that control and you'll never need a woman for anything other than sex.

Title	mommy issues
Author	vake7000
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	February 25, 2014 3:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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