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Ltr married. Confused

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October 4, 2014
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Title Ltr married. Confused
Author

[deleted]
Upvotes 0
Comments 10
Date October 4, 2014 1:49 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2i9xed/ltr_married_confused/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/ltr-married-confused.165803
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[–]Flywithme1980 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We are in her early 30s and there's lots of love I'd like to think

[–]wearing_yoga_pants1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm so confused by this story. If he truly loved you why on earth would he want a divorce? If you had any value to him other than being the breadwinner, he would put forth the effort to stick around. We definitely need more information

[–]Goldfulgore1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If you had any value to him other than being the breadwinner

That's the problem she doesn't get. A man HAS to be the breadwinner or the woman isn't happy.

When the woman is not happy, she starts nagging about the man being worthless.

When the nagging gets to the man, as soon as he is free financially, he leaves

[–]HappySnowGirl 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know we can read your posting history, right?

[–]dreckmal 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

From your post history, it sounds like you are asking for the divorce.

These two sentences do not jive together well:

And now he wants to get a divorce because he no longer needs me financially I have been the breadwinner for a very long time.

He says he loves me and cares for me deeply and that he's never cheated on me but I do have doubts.

Are you just trolling us?

You have not posted near enough detail here to give any advice.

All we can glean from what you have in your post history is that you are a Canadian flight attendant, and you 'caught' your husband shifting money around. You even wrote how you might go back to Canada to initiate the divorce proceedings. Which runs counter to the narrative you are spinning right now.

Don't come to RP subs and look for sympathy with that kind of behavior.

[–]TempestTcup 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, banned. Not sure why she thinks this is a good place to post; she isn't RP in the slightest.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Goldfulgore1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

bitch, shut up

[–]Goldfulgore2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I am pretty sure you are telling half the story here. I bet you are an intolerable bitch who used to point out to him about how special you were for bringing the money home making him feel worthless.

I bet you even cut down sex and now you blame him for leaving you.

NO MAN will leave his woman if she is good to him.

But seeing that you are wearing the pants of the relationship, I can tell why he left you.

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