Matched with this girl on Tinder all the way back in like December. After sending like 5 messages over Tinder over 4 months, she finally gave me her number (i was seeing other girls during this time). It took a week to set up the date. We met to get ice cream and we walked around campus. Everything seemed to be going smoothly kino, laughing and iois. I lead her to in front of my place which is on campus and suggested we go up to the roof cause it's chill up there. She says okay and we go up. Unfortunately maintenance was working up there so i showed her my balcony instead. I suggested we should watch this show i mentioned earlier but she said she had homework to do. She asked if i wanted to come with and then was like wait nvm, why am i asking you to do homework with me. Took her back downstairs, tight hugged and sent her off.

Waited a few days and said i had a fun time and that we should watch that show i mentioned at my place on Xday. She then proceeds to say you're cool and all but that I was weird af because who in their right mind brings someone back to their place on the first meeting. Followed by nahh boo. Honestly she could have just said no but she was smiling and laughing the entire time i was showing her around.

I've never had that happen to me before. I've brought plenty of women back to my place the first meeting with no issues.

I mean i guess I should have suggested as we were approaching my place and said something like, "hey my apartment has an awesome roof, you should check it out ". Instead of just walking straight to my place and saying, "let me take you to the roof of my apartment, its cool".

Honestly kinda shook lol.

Any future tips?