I have been having a casual relationship with a girl for about 8 months now. I have and had other plates during this time as well. She has spent a lot of money on me compared to me spending on her. It started off where I'd only see her once a week, now I see her twice a week. A few months ago she was low-key fishing for a status by saying her sister asked and it got her wondering. Ultimately said she was fine to keep things casual.

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Recently I've been thinking of upgrading her to LTR, it's basically at the point where her sisters and friends think we are together anyways. She has been fishing hard the last week and a half. Now before I continue, yes I get it. She isn't mine and it's just my turn. My only red flags are as following. Last weekend she went to a concert with a "friend" in another state, which she told me before hand. Apparently he payed for everything and drove her down there himself. They stayed at his friend's and his roommate's place for the weekend. During the concert she sent me snaps of herself and his/her friend. She wasn't at all dressed to impress. When she went out with me and my buds a few weeks ago she did her entire make-up and tried on about 8 outfits for me to choose from, the works. Anyways, she came back Sunday afternoon which I later swung by and picked her up. We fucked three times during the time she was over.

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However this week and ONLY this week, twice I've noticed she would randomly stop texting me around 11pm but then would follow up around 3am. The only thing I can think of is she either a) fell asleep after putting her sister's baby asleep and then the baby woke up around 3am. b) her friend came by and picked her up (no car) and she had fun at his place and then got back to me. Also today, she threw a shit-test at me yesterday saying he texted her to be cuddle-buddies, which I joked about and said I'll be his cuddle buddy ;). All in all, he could just be an orbiter or she started seeing him too. I guess I can't be too upset since we aren't exclusive yet. What are the chances of her fucking him? Look wise, he is pretty fat and short, I'm tall, skinny but muscular.

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Also just another side question-

With this girl only, ALL of our texts start disappearing after awhile. The ones from more than 3 months ago? Gone. As far as I am aware of, you can't simply delete SMS texts from both phones from one phone unless you delete them from both phones. She never touches my phone and it's locked. I don't believe it to be just a glitch.