When I stared BJJ at the advice of The Red Pill, I was already going gym 6 days / week. I kept going gym a month into BJJ but soon after I started going less and less. Now I don't go any more. It just hurts too much. I'm always hurting somewhere especially my arms and I find it impossible to go gym while doing BJJ as well. Am I a pussy TRP? the two just seem incompatible.