you guys are really good at translating hamster, wtf does this Taylor Swift quote really mean in trp terms?

"I was thinking about this - boys only want love if it's torture and a constant chase. Men want love if it's real, right, healthy and consistent. Any girl who's really thought a lot about romance and relationships and break-ups has determined that the male species has divided into two groups - and it's boys and men. You can have a 40-year-old boy and a 20-year-old man - it depends on their emotional DNA. I have so much love in my life without having a love affair in my life. I think it's important to find romance and magic in your life without there being a relationship that constitutes that."

edit: I'm not interested in how she rolls, I'm trying to figure out how her fans, mostly women, take this in