Handling College Parties/Pregames

almightypacers · 2017-01-06T21:19:59+00:00

It's less about your words in that kind of scenerio, it has a lot more to do with your energy. Be fun, loose, use a lot more contact. When you want to talk you need to draw people closer, more opportunities for intamacy. Don't try to make the party something that its not, your not there for deep conversations, everyone is trying to let loose and vibe out

Popular-Culture · 2017-01-08T04:22:21+00:00

It's very common to think, especially at your age, that you need to talk your way into a girl's pants. Not true. At these types of events in college, girls frequently hookup without saying a word to the guy or even knowing his name. They're drunk, the music gives them adrenaline, and they hookup with the first good-looking guy who has a positive and fun energy.

You don't go to parties to have typical conversations. The way you hookup is by dancing and physically escalating. Once the moment is right, put your hand on her lower back, slowly bring her in closer, and go for the kiss.

In summary, think less about how you verbally communicate and think more about how you physically communicate.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-06T22:54:06+00:00

Isolate (you have a built-in reason) and escalate.

DadOnDabs · 2017-01-07T05:22:49+00:00

Just go dance your heart out and have fun and girls will be drawn to you. Build some rapport before hand by chatting up the host of the party or some of the guys who seem to have a lot of rapport there. When you are dancing if a girl comes in front of you and starts dancing with her ass in front of you just pull her into you and let her start dancing on you. Kino from there. Most college girls will gladly dance on random dudes at parties.

Kayaa224 · 2017-01-06T21:36:11+00:00

My knee-jerk response is to say:

Take her hand to lead her to a quiet room, if you need to talk.

If not, just dance and grind a bit?

epistemic_humility · 2017-01-07T02:50:16+00:00

I'd get the fuck out of there. But I'm an introvert and even in college I had no patience for party sloots. The party shit is overrated folks party hard into their fifties and shit. Festivals are to be had. Become something sweet so you can pay off your college debt and get mad pussy later. Fuck a party. Learn day game. On a campus it's too easy.

Title	Handling College Parties/Pregames
Author	Shadowhunter47
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	January 6, 2017 9:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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