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Free weight compound movement weights for 3 weeks, then 2 weeks where I was ill and could only do basic bodyweight work. I'd like to look 'big' rather than shredded and cut, but obviously don't want the excess fat making me look puffy. Estimated body weight ~18%, was 16% in January.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:38 PM
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Never read anything more English in my life, you madman. Tone down the autism and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:38 PM
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Honestly? Use it as an experience to develop your knowledge through reading, learn a new language, and get stronger. Use what you've got at your disposal.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:55 AM
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No problem propping yourself up against a wall/headboard, whatever. Keep the spine straight, try not to angle your chin downwards. Don't try so hard that your body becomes tense.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 07:18 AM
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Appreciate this massively, as a young man.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:37 PM
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Sign me right the fuck up
/r/askTRP05/03/17 08:54 AM
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The simple fact is I struggle to get over myself and make connections with these people; I'm fine with my own tribe, it's when it's others that I start to slip.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:42 AM
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My only reason for going to social gatherings is networking, building connections and that sort of thing. My future career is one that depends highly on making the right friends in the right places and participating in the terror that is social politics. This includes going to informal parties too.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:41 AM
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Had a physical. Maybe therapist, if it stays on. I was just wondering if anyone had had similar experiences. I've been under therapy before, it's just never been conducive to my health.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:31 PM
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Buddhist under traditional Buddhist instruction here. No, Buddhists did not remove themselves from the cycle of mating, otherwise they wouldn't have bred... If you mean monks, yes they did, just like christian monks. It's part of a life of asceticism. Doesn't mean you should do it. At higher Buddhist practice, monks can experience the full sexual range of feelings with no stimulation. You don't need to do that. You simply need to live a positive lifestyle; if you don't feel sex is particularly p…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:30 PM
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Thank you for the response. The weird thing is, is sex is one of the few UNhappy things in my life. I enjoy my life. I work hard, I push myself, but I enjoy it. No porn, ever again. However, maybe after a full year without it I may be feeling even better. The issue at hand is, although sex is nice at the time, it makes me feel SO physically and mentally depressed that it really is the only truly bad aspect of my life.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:24 PM
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Dude, you didn't suffer anything. You're unplugged, they're not. You're ahead of the curve. Don't see yourself as a victim and you won't become a victim
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:08 PM
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Normal vitamin D, healthy testosterone. Exercise 4-5 times a week (mostly free weights), no smoking, no alcohol, no other drugs. The depression only occurs in the days after having sex.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:13 PM
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Thank you, have a productive day/evening
/r/askTRP25/02/17 10:14 PM
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By far best answer here. Nice one
/r/askTRP25/02/17 10:06 PM
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Any idea which Archwinger point that was?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:47 PM
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It's horrible to read this comment knowing how true it is, but most of us here will have felt it. Your life is down to you, OP, and you're the one controlling it (or are you?) and we can't do anything but be here for when it falls down. If you're going to keep the relationship going, for the love of God start working on yourself and living a general self-improvement orientated lifestyle.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:09 PM
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You might need to just stop staring at them... If they thought you were hot, they wouldn't mind, so that just tells you something about yourself eh
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:26 AM
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Listen to this song, look yourself in the mirror throughout. She Belong to the Game by Troy Ave Aside from that, the Dhammapada and Marcus Aurelius' Meditations
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:36 AM
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Chances are he's interacting with girls who also speak his language (which I think is French considering 'comportement'
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:30 AM
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'I can't help how I react emotionally to certain things' Bullshit, this is fully untrue. You can always have influence on your emotional reactions. Lift weights like a God, eat like a God, read, definitely make some guy friends, and become the person you're meant to be
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:27 AM
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This doesn't mean you should learn to gossip, OP. It can come off as petty and might lose you some respect
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:25 AM
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I cannot believe I'm giving this advice on RP, but you may wanna try just being yourself. This does not being an autist if you are an autist. You shouldn't really be that concerned what she thinks of you from now on because she is evidently totally interested. Just have fun with it and make sure you enjoy yourself I assume if you bagged a pretty good chick you're not totally useless socially, so just have fun with it. Say what you wanna say, do what you wanna do, don't worry too much about comin…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:23 AM
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You've got some good chances for making up a cool/humorous story. Have fun with it. Very importantly: if you get shit for it, absolutely laugh it off, find a way to agree and amplify, just don't show them you're offended. There's a lot of fun you can have with this kind of thing
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:18 AM
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The fact that you used the word emasculating like that tells me penis size probably isn't the issue you're having....
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:14 AM
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Sounds like you're just a bit sensitive tbh
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:50 AM
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Assuming you wanna keep these friends (you could drop them and find people more suited to your lifestyle), all you can do is to chill. Seriously, just chill. They offer you something, you say nah and laugh it off if they call you out. They show jealousy because of your improvement? Laugh. They get mad at you cuz of that? Laugh. If you are close friends they'll get over it, the same thing happened with my mates. When I got mad at them or went off to sulk, it was bad. When I laughed it all off and…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:50 AM
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Better to read and understand at a younger age than wait til you've made years of mistakes and then find out what you were doing wrong. I'm probably only a few years older than you and we're at a massive advantage in that we see and read this stuff at an earlier age. Don't hide from the truth man.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:59 AM
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Not everything is a shit test...she could've had a reasonable excuse for being delayed, or she could've just been terrible at time management. Doesn't mean it's all a shit test...
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:40 AM
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I'm not sure you've figured out the meaning of beta yet
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:56 PM
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I'm not talking about one particular woman here, probably shouldve clarified. But I acknowledge your advice fully, I usually ignore the overly insecure types.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:53 PM
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Great advice dude, thanks :) I've done the insecurity confrontation too many times to make that mistake again though, and I feel like the attention seeking behaviour (its not super common thankfully) is always a lose-lose for me. I still ignore it.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:49 PM
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will revenge make you a better person? will it make your children better or give them better lives?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:34 PM
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^
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:33 PM
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Hadn't thought of cheese in such a way. Cheers.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:33 PM
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I'm happy that you've made that life choice, however that's not the one I've made and am looking for food related answers. Best wishes for your fasting
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:32 PM
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Cheers, I've been looking into 5-day meal plans. Chicken and sweet potatoes sounds tasty. The main issue is stuff to eat throughout the day to hit my calorie requirements (usually a tupperware meal doesn't do it).
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:36 PM
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Works every God damn time.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:22 AM
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Try some Romanian deadlifts.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:32 PM
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Same thing has happened to me with the piano (I have a...special relationship with piano). I actually ended a relationship over this one because I responded 'the one I actually enjoy when I'm banging it all night.' just say the piano. Or something about how the piano doesn't ask stupid questions
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:39 AM
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And after 6 months of that? Do it again, and again, and again. It's not a matter of a time limit or blueprint, it's just about living a good, healthy life.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:29 AM
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Learn a lot about lifting and healthy eating...then eat and lift healthy. Stay clean, work on school/career, read about psychology, society, etc, lift some more, learn some skills (instrument, language, craft, whatever).
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:28 AM
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1) keep doing what you're doing, work hard 2) make sure you can discuss logistics in Chinese comfortably 3) fuck
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:12 AM
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You say this, but there's a significant level of logistics and a VERY high level of nuance in Chinese culture that a westerner could struggle with.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:11 AM
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Lots of Indian men in England are from high class families so they don't struggle too much. Even if they don't have the chance for going out and gaming/plating, they pretty much have a guaranteed pool of women to choose from (or for their parents to choose from). Poorer men may struggle, but it still doesn't seem to be as difficult as it is in the USA, I'd say Indian/south Asian culture is a lot more accepted here.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:10 AM
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First you need to accept that emotions are natural. They are there to keep us alive, and no amount of Zen or Stoicism will remove those emotions. The ONLY thing that matters is HOW you deal with them. Men aren't more emotional now than they were 100 years ago, or 1000 years ago. They've just been taught to deal with those emotions differently. You have to accept this before you can work towards any level of stoicism. Emotions keep you alive, and without them you couldn't lead a fulfilling life. …
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:05 AM
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You've seen the problem, and answered your question. Now fix it :)
/r/askTRP05/02/17 06:56 AM
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Just some advice for a young one like me...I ended up building this reputation of 'manwhore' amongst my friends, which also slides over into the communities of girls I know, and although I don't struggle much, am I really meant to be defending myself here? I feel like if I go too far I will lose respect and/or integrity...sex in general is very new to me (literally only started a month ago)
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:26 PM
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The thing that's confusing me is I do feel some sense of abundance (more than in the past). I don't have much trouble getting what I want sex wise, so I'm still not sure where the jealousy stems from
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:20 PM
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Same case with me dude, I wonder whether I should take TRP seriously or not sometimes...
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 02:31 PM
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This has nothing to do with the aim of your post but...how do you find teaching esl in China specifically? Do you find it significantly different to doing the same thing in the west?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 02:29 PM
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What the fuck has TRP become...this does not belong here.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:04 PM
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Laughing is always a good one, have a fine night (or whatever it is where you are)
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:11 PM
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Definitely like the sweet tender love one. Thanks my man
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:10 PM
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^ this one gets her going usually
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:10 PM
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I totally understand it from their perspective but it's just getting old, I'm not one to stick with the same boring responses
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:51 PM
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I'm only 17 but I've learnt a whole lot in the last year (with a lot more to learn). Best advice I can give you as someone who is also in a school environment: ~ don't try and turn your friends to any kind of RP/conservative ideas if they're not already. You'll just come off as a massive cunt. Don't bother. ~ your grades are the most important. Don't go for STEM if you hate it. Do what you're good at, and then get better at it. ~ learn a language (or three). Won't explain here but you'll thank y…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:11 PM
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First time I've even been called a red piller. Feels pretty good man. I've still got loads to learn though.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:56 AM
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Stop fucking complaining, posting on the red pill won't change anything. Get your life together, study, lift, eat well, sleep. Focus on these before women; healthy living will always be more important than sex. Tell a woman some bullshit career if you need to but you're better off just working instead of sitting pathetically on your ass. TRP is here to help you, advise you, and give you guidance. It's evident you haven't read the sidebar, so read it. Stop complaining and do.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:33 AM
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It's quite relieving I can list 5 things (barely)
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:22 PM
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Ummm....??
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:08 PM
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Just asking, to you really think anyone is inherently mean/cruel? You're thinking about it as if you can only be nice, or only be mean. It's a balance dude...
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:59 PM
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Probably not. I'm not in university so the whole party concept is very different. If in doubt, kino, strong eye contact, smile, hold frame
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:36 PM
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My knee-jerk response is to say: Take her hand to lead her to a quiet room, if you need to talk. If not, just dance and grind a bit?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:14 PM
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'They're people' would be my answer. You don't have to give a shit, but unless you wanna become a pariah/get arrested you have to have some general decency. Treat them like slightly older kids (pre-teen type)
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:49 PM
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My main personality issue is probably my reservedness, I don't have social anxiety, nor am I shy, but I really struggle building the motivation to speak to people when it's important. I could easily be content spending weeks doing my own thing and letting the world pass by me in a trance.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:45 PM
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Have you even read the sidebar
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:44 PM
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<sup>really</sup> struggle with comfort game too. Not quite sure how to fix it.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:44 PM
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This is my way of interpreting RP but everyone here is somewhat different. The way I see it, you do not need to go out and actively search for social circles and friends, you don't need to be going to parties every night and events every afternoon. It's not about that. It's about developing your skills so that when you ARE in a social position, you ARE able to act in a charming, confident way that can draw attention if need be. And, the best way to do this is spending time in social situations. …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:23 AM
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Keep lifting, practice talking to new people, get good at something interesting that you can talk about. What country are you going to? If you wanna talk about this stuff generally, pm me, we're the same age.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 11:46 AM
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I'm actually gonna try to slide into one of her friends today while she (ltr) isn't around. I'm just gonna try for a number close though because it'll be public
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:42 AM
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Cheers for the good advice.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:18 PM
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Likewise. People would be better off putting work into making men/women comfortable with themselves than encouraging them to change sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:01 PM
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I'm thinking to just ghost her, if she hits me up and wants to fuck I'll go for it, if not, I'll move on with my life
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:58 PM
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You're right here. I'm gonna stay silent, if she hits me up and wants to fuck, I'll go for it. If not, im happy to leave it
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:56 PM
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(im in the UK too) It's actually crazy. I support adults making their own decisions but it's sick with children. Not to mention the fact that the majority (statistics aren't great, the general idea is 65-85%) of sex transitions are Male to Female. I can't help but think this could be correlated to the growing aversion and demonisation of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:49 PM
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Stop complaining, be the best person you can be and fuck these people you're complaining about
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:35 PM
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Don't care what people identify as, what they do, who they like, I'm bisexual myself, but I do firmly believe it shouldn't have such an involvement in the workplace, politics. It just doesn't matter. I actually believe progressiveness harms vulnerable people in certain communities. Identity politics and political correctness are at the heart of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:31 PM
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I do agree with the rest of your comment though.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:28 PM
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I support the (real) transgender community; but sexual reassignment surgery is indisputably not the best way to treat this right now. Those who go through a transition are just as likely (if not more) to kill themselves, and continue to suffer just as much discrimination afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:27 PM
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There is no activity that will make you 'more alpha'. There are things that will help (lifting being the main one) but alpha is very much a mindset. I'm working towards the same goal. Making new connections and friends isn't a bad idea (ie joining a club for a hobby/sport/martial art), learn to meditate, and read.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 09:38 AM
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I honestly think you have an ego issue. Confidence is not caring whether people know how 'great socially and educationally'. You're right, it's a pain in the ass, but check that ego
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:36 PM
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The only nearby classes for JJ or Kung Fu happen to be on nights where I'm working/with family. I'm looking to start JJ in the future but right now Aikido is the opportunity I have and want.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:46 PM
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Aikido. Classes are once a week, there's not much I can do outside of that.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:07 PM
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I was raised by a Buddhist mother so it's always been ""there"", but it's only in the past year or so that it's become a big part of my life. It definitely helps and is a good habit to have.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 07:29 PM
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I'm in England so it's probably not as disastrous here, but it can't be that difficult to ignore it all. Rule 38 if you can't ignore it. It's a pain in the ass, but it'll be there whether you like it or not. Apply stoicism, don't get mad at what is out of your control. If you feel that there's something in your control that can change what bothers you, enact that change.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:54 PM
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Seriously wish more posts/comments here had this tone.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 11:37 AM
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Great quality post. Possibly the most important point being the difference between rage and anger.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 09:22 AM
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I'd leave out Art of Seduction. I recommend 'Mastery' by Robert greene
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:11 AM
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Yep, Spain is definitely not as bad as England.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 07:55 AM
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You're 100% right. I'm planning to draw back for a few days, ghost (maybe a few texts) and leave it at that. I find that after 1-2 days of zero contact she comes begging. As far as I know it's not a disaster, I just really want to play my cards right.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:14 PM
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Honestly not willing to. We get on well in and out of the bedroom, our personalities fit well together, I'm just looking for ways to draw back my influence in the relationship without dropping the exclusivity, if you get what I mean. The only thing saving me here is she has absolutely no abundance mentality and my SMV is increasing quite quickly (and has increased a lot recently)
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:10 PM
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Why doesn't OP just go and lock himself up in prison to speed this whole process up
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:26 AM
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Sidebar and recommended books
/r/askTRP28/12/16 08:02 AM
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Highest quality red pill content I've ever seen
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:10 PM
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I suppose I should clarify my meaning of ego. The culture I am around identifies 'ego' as the belief that you, as an individual, have more importance than others simply because you are you. This is where suffering finds its way in. I hope that clarifies my point; it is definitely a lot more difficult to get these messages across over the Internet.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:58 AM
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Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:27 AM
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Honestly I'd just recommend Game of Thrones because: 1) it gives you conversation ammo with huge numbers of people 2) you can learn a lot from it. It's really quite impressive how much can be gleaned from it. Aside from that, just do productive and fulfilling things with your life: you don't really need so much common ground with girls.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:24 AM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:16 AM
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If you don't have a strong ego in the first place, you won't feel anything from rejection. You need to develop the understanding that "" "you""" don't matter any more or less than anyone else. If a girl rejects you and embarrasses you? Don't fucking take it personally, stop attaching your emotions to your ego. Ego causes suffering
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:16 AM
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Where do you live?
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:11 AM
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Spot on.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 11:17 AM
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Actually same. The latest post I made is very much regarding how to make ltr feel slightly more comfortable and less attacked. I don't struggle being charming in big group situations, but when it comes to one on one discussion I find myself being very blunt and do come across as rude.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 08:04 AM
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Learning a language. Can't recommend it enough. I'm hoping to make a proper post on it over at TRP main sub.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:40 PM
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I'm a calmer person. Less resent, less confusion, I feel like my views have lined up with my personality. Stronger from going to the gym, better at touching girls, much more success in being dominant (physically and socially). I waste less time doing stupid shit.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:38 PM
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INTJ too (though I don't like to pay attention to it) Anything you've found that's been quite specific to you in relationship and TRP in general? Regarding the INTJ type. I'm interested.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:35 PM
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Good resources you could recommend?
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:32 PM
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See the issue here is your bothered discussing sexism and racism with your girlfriend. The best resources for this are the raw numbers from the National Institute of Statistics (or whatever its called)
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:28 PM
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Get a close shave dude, if you don't have massive ears. It looks tough and clean if you've got the right face.
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:07 PM
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Thank you for the thoughts. I have found that the more 'recklessly' confident I am, the more I can get away with.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 07:42 AM
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Thank you for the response, I'll take this all into account. On quite a few occasions recently, she's straight up said she feels like I don't give a shit about her, or that she likes me more than I like her, lots of comfort tests. I haven't overloaded the dread, I think it's simply my improved confidence/self-assuredness. What's a good way to respond to comfort tests along the lines of 'you don't like me' 'I'm worried you don't like me', 'you don't even give a shit
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:44 PM
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This. Own your masculinity, not just in these situations. Though a fart isn't always the most prudent course of action.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:26 PM
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Stay away from porno, period. If he can't stay away, that's some serious weakness and needs to be vigorously crushed
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:58 PM
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Not OP but this helped me out massively, definitely needed to read that. Wise words
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:49 PM
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Sparkling water you can drink just as much as normal water. It has no more calories. Keep yourself on a good protein intake, lean meat!! Also; don't completely exclude fiction books. They're not 'productive' in the same manner as non-fiction, but they have significant uses if you're reading the right ones.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:44 PM
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Exercise, meditate, books, all of those things red pill advocates. Keep practicing. Frame is like a muscle, seriously. Read Marcus Aurelius' Meditations. Reread it.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:36 AM
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Yep. I grew up speaking with quite extreme socio/communist family members in Peru, where the left wing is truly about work and rights. It's completely different in any of the westernised countries.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:24 AM
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I'm referring more towards the writing style. Crudeness has a use, but you overdid it a bit there. But your general point is sound.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:36 PM
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Shit quality. We get your point, but seriously.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:30 PM
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Traditionally, the left was the symbol of labour and rights for the (hardworking) workers. It's only in the past few decades that it was been warped into what it is now. Unfortunately it's being dug into a deeper hole day by day.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:39 PM
1

No, dude, seriously, as in I couldn't get any blood down there at ALL. Nothing. I wasn't even focusing much on her at that point, she was relatively easy to pleasure with fingers/mouth. I just couldn't get myself going.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:37 PM
5

Couldn't get it up, not feeling great about it
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:25 PM
2

Couldn't get it up. She didn't mention it or freak out, but I'm not feeling too great about it.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:24 PM
1

Honestly that's the funniest thing I've heard, I'm tempted to do that. We're in a relationship (both young, both virgins) too, any advice for dealing with the 'after' part of it? She's a pretty direct girl as girls go, she'll probably use this to shit test me a lot, any advice for holding frame?
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:43 AM
3

Any tips? Losing my v-card in a few hours it seems. (17y/o)
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:27 AM
1

Solution; never reveal your past experiences to anyone, ever.
/r/seduction20/12/16 08:06 PM
2

That's already passed. It's happened. Try your best (it can be difficult) to ignore any shit they give you. Don't get defensive, don't try and explain yourself away. From here onwards, don't let other people know if you can help it. Maybe even make another account.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 10:04 AM
2

Carry on doing your thing with TRP, just don't actually bring it up, and don't tell people your reddit name. Easy.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:58 AM
16

Don't talk about red pill to anyone in your life
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:58 AM
1

She wants your penis inside of her. I'd say just put it in her all the way next time, but that's difficult due to rape cases being blown out of proportion and such. Try and get some tangible proof of consent (which I doubt you'll manage with this girl). She's got a giant hamster up there and you need to push through it, but it's a tricky situation to handle. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:45 PM
6

This is actually abuse. There will naturally be feelings you have towards her, but nothing is worth that. Reclaim your manhood and get the fuck out of that hell.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:11 PM
1

I hope OP thinks about his decisions in a practical way, but if he wants to go into law or any form of politics, he's picked the right subject to study.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:54 PM
1

Don't actively do anything to make other people suffer or feel pain. If you need to do something for YOURSELF, and it happens to inconvenience other people, do it. You need to do what you need to do. Other than that, just don't go out of your way to hurt someone. There is no part of TRP that says you should be hurting other people for the sake of it.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:22 PM
5

The Rational Male. Less about pickup, more an insight into a bit of (basic) psychology. It's definitely worth reading.
/r/seduction19/12/16 06:18 PM
1

Good comparisons here.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:15 PM
1

Definitely. Especially when receivjng signals from women (rather than giving signals). Actions over words.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:15 PM
20

If it's sucking the energy out of you, you're putting too much into it. Either 'increase' your energy reserves or put less into it. Some women are boring, some or not. AWALT is an important rule, but this does not mean every woman is exactly the same as every other woman, all the time. Find interesting people to share your life with. Be an interesting person yourself. If you're having to rush other aspects of your life, rethink your priorities. Women should be a compliment to your life dude. The…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:59 PM
1

Well, regardless of monk mode or not, you have to go to school. Use your school days to improve socially (before school/during lunch or breaks). When you're at home, try and cut back (or completely quit) messaging friends or snapchatting and things like that. Read, read, read. Lift, lift, lift. Eat, eat, eat (eat WELL). Don't fap. Cut down video games (though I'd recommend cutting them out completely). If you do monk mode in high school, I highly recommend that you do it shorter bouts rather tha…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:46 PM
1

One can be completely ethically sound and follow The Red Pill. TRP is a mechanism for self improvement, with the added aim of being better with women. The 'selfishness' preached by TRP is not intrinsically wrong. Putting yourself first is not intrinsically wrong. The only thing that can make these things wrong is acting in such a way that you are harming other people arbitrarily.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 03:38 PM
1

Same reason men do the same. Add the expectation that all men want them.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 03:34 PM
2

This. Feeling the feelings is normal, it's human. It's how they influence your actions that matters. Use the negative emotion as a conduit for self improvement and learning.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 03:27 PM
1

Yep, still working on the 'making her feel special' thing. She talks a lot about not feeling cared about, and I'm not sure how to show it without being super beta.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:52 PM
1

Let me specify, she's going to be there with friends too, it's just she initially wanted for it to be just us two. They're her friends as well as mine.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:52 PM
1

Brilliant, I'm already on track with the diet. One last question (promise I'm done now), what length should a medium-heavy workout actually be? I can never really tell how long certain things should be taking, I see guys going in for 20 minutes, other times I see them there for 2 hours
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:43 AM
1

Most likely a stupid question, but I'm new to lifting. What about swimming after a workout? Is it completely a bad idea? (bear in mind I'm aiming to lose the fat around my gut and gain muscle in my arms/shoulders/chest)
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:19 AM
1

Yep, I was on water jugs for a while. Glad to have gym and swimming pool access now though.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:30 PM
3

Just pointing out, although these are definitely excuses, some people legitimately have no access. He's evidently not from the states or united kingdom, and in some places it's practically impossible to access a gym. When I was in Peru the only option was running/baby weights, because there were no gyms around. Not everyone is in the same situation as you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 06:36 AM
1

Mate, you don't need to like any of those things to be red pill. You can be an emotional person. You can like what you want. What you need to learn to do is LEARN to co-operate with your emotions in such a way that they benefit you and support your life goal. Liking cars and sports has nothing to do with being Red Pill or Alpha. Working out however, is a step you should take in self improvement, regardless of your interest in it. It quite literally improves every aspect of your life, and you'll …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:10 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:55 AM
1

Any resources around that talk about how to healthily do something like monk mode? Or any advice in general? I've been considering doing something like monk mode for some time now, but I'm not quite sure how to go about doing it.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:16 PM
1

Will do all of this. I already sleep 8-9 hours a night, no drugs, smoking, alcohol. The hardest is working energy up to exercise. I was doing an hour a day not long ago, now I can barely cope with ten minutes, it's as if I'm physically weaker.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:11 PM
1

In terms of what I want to get out of it: ways people dealt with severe emotional pain in a healthy manner, and coping around other people. I value my reputation highly and don't want to become a blubbering fool.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:29 PM
1

I've got to ask, how would one go about this 'training'?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:27 PM
1

No uses las redes sociales, o úsalas solo cuando sean necesario . Aparte de eso, tratate como rey. Por que eres un rey. Sí quieres hablar conmigo (tambien 16 años) mandame un PM. :)
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:04 AM
1

Won't lie, I've been bad with boundaries. My frame is an improvement to how its been in the past, but I still struggle with enforcing boundaries heavily. I'm just going to straight up tell her I don't want a relationship right now.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:10 PM
2

The having to see her is to do with having shared classes/social circles. I'm going to tell her tomorrow morning, pretty much what you said.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:09 PM
9

Expand on the Models comment? Haven't read it, but that's difficult to believe when so many TRPers (and others) rate it.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 08:16 PM
2

The reframing one I've been doing for a while, it's very helpful. I've built up a lot of self confidence recently but perhaps the biggest issues are fear of sexual failure (just got into first relationship) and feeling too 'fat', however I am doing 6 days of workout a week.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:07 AM
3

Have you got any advice for another 16 (about to turn it 17) y/o getting through the anger/insecurity phase?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:09 PM
1

I just finished reading 48 Laws of Power, very insightful. I actually just bought The Rational Male, I hope it's worth the read.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:23 PM
5

100%. I live in the UK, I'm still in mandatory schooling and I've had teachers tell me to stop reading ahead in my courses. This is definitely worsened by social media. We're all guilty of neglecting reading to some extent, and it's definitely becoming easy to get stuck in 'comfortable' fiction.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:13 PM
2

Love this. Reading definitely needs to be encouraged more, not just here but everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:05 PM
17

Brilliant quality post. I think people regularly pass over the importance of learning about world issues, politics, history, physics, etc. Expanding your mind constantly is an invaluable opportunity and provides amazing results.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:03 PM
1

What about if you're in an established relationship with someone? If you can see someone almost every day you have the opportunity to constantly be touching her, bringing her into your frame etc
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:32 AM
1

I can only talk from personal experience here, if your accent is relatively tolerable (not southern) and you have a deep voice, girls in England would definitely like that. I grew up around girls and know that a lot of them have a 'wild rugged American stranger whisks me away' type fantasy.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 06:33 AM
2

Thank you very much. She does indeed love the rugged yet quiet teenage alpha (which I seem to be doing well), she's also totally inexperienced so I'm not too worried. This helps a lot.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:11 PM
1

Thank you for the direct advice. I've been solidly working out and eating well, it's just a slow process. I was at 22% body fat last year, I'm now just under 17%, but my torso is my serious problem area. Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:10 PM
1

I think I'd rather be behind her ;) Would you recommend a spontaneous first sight kiss kind of thing? Just to show that my intention for the interaction is physical (rather than waiting 10+ mins just to kiss
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:42 AM
1

Thanks. We go to the same school though, so 600 people probably know by now. Should be interesting.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:45 AM
1

Did this exactly. Her parents are strict (we're still under 18) so it's not like I could bring her home with me, but I escalated pretty much constantly, kissed etc. Thank you.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:07 PM
1

My favourite is 'IT'. I also loved Misery, Thinner, The Shining, Pet Sematary, and the Dark Tower series. Honestly, it's difficult to find a 'bad' Stephen King book.
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 07:36 AM
2

I'd add politics to the university thing. It clears the pathway hugely if you have a degree in say, international relations, law, blahblahblah
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:23 AM
1

It's never had a huge effect on me; lots of girls have called me cute and tease me about being babyish, but after I changed my body shape and got a different haircut, it wasn't so bad. Different haircuts can make a huge difference! Plus, having a very deep voice (for my age) helps.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:20 AM
1

Gotta ask, how was getting your nipples done, and how was the recovery?
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:07 PM
2

Jeez, I think I'm gonna end up losing my Card in a few weeks and I hope it's nothing like this
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:28 AM
1

Learn how to learn. Have good reasons for learning it. Just start. If you wanna pm about it go ahead, I've learnt 2 langs in the past 18 months or so.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:18 AM
1

Biologically Iranian actually.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:14 AM
1

Ahahaha yes, I'm in England. I'm not english/european, but I'm white enough to obviously stand out compared to my peers
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:51 PM
3

I'm white, in a majority Pakistani/Indian community. I wear a uniform like everyone else. I understand that people are racist, deal with it, and will be motivated to get where I want regardless.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:16 PM
3

You have to look at context. I get race related comments every 2-3 days I'd say, and I'm not even black. Some people will receive lots, some will receive little. I think the most important thing is to not develop it into a 'poor me, I'm a victim of racism' complex, and fully ignore it.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:57 PM
1

Thanks. I'll try to get a chance to take a walk with her after school, neither of us can do weekends unfortunately.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:54 PM
1

Thank you for the advice. My main concern here is that I've never dealt with a girl (and the shit tests that come along with it) in a sexually tense setting. I'm young, and very new to this.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:22 PM
1

Yep, just looking for a short thing. Issue is, I've literally never dealt with girls/shit tests on this level before, I've had silly middle school relationship type things, but this is my first time with sex on the table with someone.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:21 PM
1

I'd assume yes, unless they've shown very obvious signs of disinterest in other areas of interaction.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:15 PM
5

Yep, made the crusade mistake a few times. I'm still struggling not to, but I realised that TRP is something to be kept inside my head and in my actions, not words.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:14 PM
5

I've had a few slightly similar things, never had someone spit on me. I've had comments about other aspects of me too (hair, mouth etc) and seriously, things helped so much once I started ignoring it. Literally, totally ignoring people is what helped me the most. I understand you can't ignore someone if they're beating the hell out of you, but for petty verbal abuse, not engaging at all works best for me. Engaging makes it seem like you're bothered by it.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:13 PM
1

Although people will say it's safe to start off the bad, you may find yourself pulling a LOT of muscles as you start, however this depends on the style itself. I highly recommend you start flexibility based exercises to prevent injury, something quite common in early stages.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:20 AM
6

The character of Hannibal in the Hannibal TV show might impress you. He's played by Mads Mikkelsen, pure badass.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:18 AM
1

5'11, 155lb, I was 180lb before the problems. I've somehow ended with massive shoulders and decent pecs, massive legs, but I've a pretty chubby torso and pretty shit arms (for their potentia). I still seem to be ahead of a lot of the boys my age (changing rooms are my main way of telling). Now I'm looking to sort out the torso fat, and fix up my diet.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 04:21 PM
1

As I said previously, I don't actually have access to a gym. If I did, I'd go. But I don't. Thus I'm making the best of what I do have.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:12 AM
1

Fortunately for me I've been stocky since I started puberty. My shoulders/neck/back are built, I have big calves, decent biceps, main problem area is my chubby torso.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:10 AM
2

Thank you, this helps a lot. Do you have any relevant diet advice?
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:50 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:49 PM
2

Thank you
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:49 PM
3

There are no excuses. The money I earn goes into a bank account that I do not have access to. The closest gym won't let under 18s in, and I have no one to go with. It's not making excuses. I'm trying to make the best out of difficult situation.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:04 PM
2

Really needed to hear something like this. To build on that, is there any advice you could give in regards to dealing with the social pressures in HS? I'm in the UK, some things are different, but it's difficult being in the epitome of a 'blue pill' community (it's soul-crushing) and in the middle ground. I lift a bit, work on my emotional being and frame, but sometimes it feels futile. Being 16 is not the easiest right now.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:05 PM
1

I'm still underage so limited in terms of certain life choices (mainly because I can't drive yet) but I get the idea. What exactly do you mean by checking the ego?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:04 PM
1

That's given me a little more initiative, thank you. And you highlighted the other issue: I REALLY don't want her to say yes out of general giddiness or if she feels too pressured to say otherwise!
/r/seduction09/10/16 12:56 PM
2

You could definitely use r/howtonotgiveafuck for this. Great sub.
/r/seduction06/10/16 07:05 AM
1

Haha, I like your description. That fits me. Until I'm near someone I find attractive. Then I become a complete wreck.
/r/seduction14/07/16 11:08 AM
1

When I say uncaring, I mean not affected by what she says.
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:37 PM
1

Very nice advice! I'll take that into account. Is there any specfic advice/techniques you can give for the seeming uncaring/smooth part?
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:36 PM
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