Hard nexting without anger

redpillcurious1 · 2015-12-16T04:20:42+00:00

Abundance mentality and cold hearted bastardry. She's just one pussy amongst literally billions, and you're getting precisely zero return on investment from the effort your investment. It's a simple business decision; stop investing, you can put your efforts elsewhere and get a decent return.

UnicornWIP · 2015-12-17T22:25:12+00:00

This is beta behavior. You are responding to percieved rejection from her by attempting to reject her first or harder. Since she already isn't responding to your friendly messages you are trying to get her attention back by rejecting her. I bet you even secretely hope she will come groveling back to you so you can date her with full alpha control again. It's too late for that.

First: Give up on the idea of ever re-gaining her attention. Soft next her. Which means no longer putting any effort into her. If she contacts you (I doubt that she will unless you are in each others social circles somehow) be friendly, but do not give any inclination of wanting to see her again. If she does a 360 and suddenly wants to see you for dating again, go for it. Otherwise, just let her walk away.

You clearly want her to come back to you and only want to reject her out of spite. Don't take rejection personally and you won't respond with anger. There is no reason to take rejection at this early stage of a relationship personally. It usualy just means you aren't that compatible. You can have the same SMV as someone and not be good for each other or get along well.

When a girl says she "just wants to be friends" at this stage: it usually means she doesn't feel sexual chemistry with you, but liked your personality. She probably never wants a relationship with you, not that she isn't looking for a relationship with someone else or is keeping you as a backup option. Maybe she just has a hard time with conflict and wants to let you down easy. It is possible that she wants a casual sexual relationship, but she would probably be showing more interest in meeting if that was the case.

Title	Hard nexting without anger
Author	dante2702
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	December 16, 2015 3:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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