Has anyone here had an experience with narcissistic women? what are the signs?

AJ_KG_JG · 2020-11-28T06:57:40+00:00

Love-bombing is the #1 sign to look for before things really go south and the shit hits the fan.

Also ask her about her prior relationships. If she paints them all like horrible monsters, it's another huge red flag.

willwang2020 · 2020-11-28T07:12:47+00:00

Let her talk. I mean you can sense her the way she describes herself and people around.

exegol24 · 2020-11-28T07:37:05+00:00

Walks and talks like she's entitled to being better than everyone else/a bad bitch
Trashes past partners verbally
Doesn't offer to help with anything ever

throwsad39 · 2020-11-28T07:48:05+00:00

Gaslighting, love bombing, hot&cold approaches. Attempting to manipulate you by making you “feel lucky”? Using sex to shut you down, “messing with you - aka humiliating you- in public”, using you for validation, etc

Overall things to make that persons personality grandiose so to speak, typically narcissistic women have inherently high insecurities (the “high alpha female poly” is a good example), hence they require that validation and sense of entitlement

Honestly (and sadly) you’ll find out that over 50% of younger girls share this common trait nowadays...

xJaegar · 2020-11-28T08:47:12+00:00

Last year I hooked up with this chick from Tinder. On our first date, she was already late and showed up with another man who she admitted was only using him for money (1st red flag). We had a couple of drinks and she began to open up about her past relationships, etc... The biggest red flag was when she told me she already slept with 30 men and she was only 19. We fucked that night (I took the necessary precautions) and I made the mistake of giving her my Snapchat.

She'd blow up my phone every fucking minute with snaps of her demanding attention. When I don't reply (which is 95 percent of the time), she'd start throwing fits about why I wasn't calling her cute and shit. University started for me and I moved across the country. She then started messaging me about booking flights to Italy and I knew I had to run. Told her I got a girlfriend and she blocked me straight up lol.

A year later she hits me up again with the same usual bullshit as last time except this time she told me she got raped by the same guy over a period of two weeks. I honestly don't know if she's lying or not. It was the lockdown and I was bored so I agreed on a date with her. As I was walking to meet her, I got this feeling that I never felt before so intensely. It was that gut feeling telling me to turn around and head home and so I did. When I arrived back at my place, my phone was spammed with messages of her threatening to kill herself and how I was only using her and that she was going to blame me for her death (she's still alive btw). I blocked her immediately, backed up all messages and that was the end of it.

I honestly considered going gay after this encounter.

throwsad39 · 2020-11-28T08:19:36+00:00

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Title	Has anyone here had an experience with narcissistic women? what are the signs?
Author	throwsad39
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Comments	12
Date	November 28, 2020 6:51 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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