I am very inexperienced in terms of dating/sex. Even if it's improving, I need more "structure" in balancing my time between dating and other stuff. On the advice of another Redditor on this very sub, and after having tried different alternatives, I thought the following workflow made most sense for getting plates without wasting too much time for my work and other activities such as lifting/sports :

  1. Set up first dates with girls during weekdays at some point during the afternoon. These first dates should be short (<1h) and even if they should involve the necessary flirt/escalation, they might not end in kissing if I do not feel it. Sex is only we get along really really well. The idea is to have a first contact, make her see who I am and the other way around, and preserve the rest of my schedule while making her feel that I have a life and I do not value her too much.
  2. If there are first dates I liked, set up second dates during the weekend. I'd suggest that she comes to my place for whatever reason, preferably one related to the first date. If she agrees and comes, that should end up in sex.

So here are a few questions :

  1. Does that workflow make sense?
  2. Should I target anything in the first date like kissing? I know RP theory suggests I aim a close but could "flirt-close" be enough or should I really target more like k-close?