Background info: I'm 22m Chinese, using a fake tinder profile but also stating that in the bio. The girl I matched with is a conservative Chinese girl, only had one boyfriend, doesn't drink alcohol. She's new on tinder, broke up with bf not too long ago, about to ride the tinder cc. We are pretty good friends. We live in a college town in Europe.
So I matched with an irl friend on tinder (I was undercover, she didn't know who I was), we hit it off and she wanted to meet up for sex right at that moment. When I revealed who I was, she was shocked to find out it was me. She then played it off as if her friend sent the messages. Probably because she didn't want me to think of her as a slut, since she's seen as very innocent in real life.
Anyway I told her, look, even though I was using a fake account, the messages I sent to you were real. Then the LMR kicked in.
This is how the conversation went:
Her: I have a cold though, is that okay?
Me: No problem, I can handle it
Her: Both our dorms have thin walls...
Me: I'll hold you still
Me: I'll be at your place in 20
Her: no no no, go to sleep OP (it was 4am)
Me: I want you
Her: Sorry I'm going to bed
The next day we agreed to have a drink+talk next week.
Now obviously I failed the LMR being a needy little bitch. How do I act/proceed when we meet next week for drinks?
I believe there still is a chance to convert her to a fwb.
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