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[–]RickJamesBeyach 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And this is why you don't shit where you eat. No piece of pussy is worth losing your source of income.
[–]hydrox1800[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haha I know man. I've learned my lesson the hard way. I won't quit my job bc of it though I need the money. I'll just lose my mind a little.
[–]redpillmad3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why don't you change companies? learn your lesson not to "shit where you eat", and move companies before she attempts to do any more damage. sounds like you have a thirsty supervisor she could easily use.
[–]hydrox1800[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and he tries to use his powertrip on me in front of her. Lately I've been ignoring him as well. Once I'm done getting my license I'm going to another company.
[–]fatgymrat3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
shes a slut. why respect a slut you arent banging or gonna bang again? just treat her like another colleague who you barely know, and dont get into conversations with her. dont say hi when you pass each other unless she does first, dont talk about relationships etc, just be a rock. she doesnt matter, shes irrelevant. youre just there to get paid, she doesnt need to know what you get up to outside of work.
also lift weights if you arent already doing so.
Thanks man I've been trying hard to say nothing. She works in the next cubicle. It's been 5 months and I basically say nothing all day and my boss wonders why I'm so quiet. I would lift weight haha but I had back fusion literally when I started dating her and still can barely function. It's been a living hell.
[–]fatgymrat2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you dont have to be mute. just dont speak to her. (again, unless she comes to you. if she starts a convo, reply, be cool, be yourself, but never tell her anything specific, eg. i went on a date last week, she was a great person). YOU know why you dont wanna speak to her, SHE knows it to. difference is she doesnt care.
ive been through the same thing youre going through. shitting where you eat is a bad idea, but thats all well and good in hindsight.
from things that helped me:
if you cant lift for medical reasons, find out what you can do. if you have excess fat, lose it through dietary changes. if you dress shit, dress better. if you wear glasses, consider contacts or lasik. do anything and everything to enhance your life
[–]hydrox1800[S] -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome reply man. Im definitely going to keep in mind what you said. Right now my main focus is getting money, getting my insurance license and getting the fuck out of this job. I've been trying to improve myself, buying nicer work cloths, keeping myself clean cut, just trying to relax and be at peace with myself. You're right though, I didn't lose anything she's just another dumb hoe. And when I leave this miserable job she'll still be the office hoe and I'll never look back! Thanks for the advice!!
[–]NotUpToAnythingGood1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's never a bad thing to be polite and courteous to another human being. At work, don't go beyond that unless doing so benefits your plans and goals somehow.
Let her make all these comments and such to you. When they roll right off your back without any effect, it'll drive her nuts or she'll decide you are boring (no validation) and leave you be.
Either way, it'll make things better for you.
[–]JimFury0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I do this frequently but the difference between you and me is that 1. I know the company I work for would be fucked without me. 2. If something happened and I did lose my job I have many job offers on my plate so its an easy switch. That being said I've never had work become shit for me, you just can't get emotionally attached.
Yeah i tried not to get attached but somehow I did. I kept reminding myself this girl was bad news. She had a 5 year old kid and I just wasn't looking for anything serious. Somehow the vagina always feels me in. Hopefully I can find a new girl soon and move past this chick.
[–]hydrox1800[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So I dated a co worker and it didn't work out. I became jealous when she talked to other guys at work. I started to realize this girl was very flirty with any guy she would come across. I later learned who she really was when I went over her house and she told me she had a threesome with her ex husband and her best friend, all while her family was sitting next to us and she whispered this in my ear. I told her from there I wanted to slow things down and it made her crazy. Almost like she's never heard a guy dominate a relationship the way I was. She would text me things like "at a bar, this guy won't stop looking at me" so I texted her back "go get em tiger" it made her nuts. Well let's turn the clock forward two months. I eventually starts to grow feelings for this girl even though I knew what she was. As soon as I showed any sign of attachment she backed off and eventually said we shouldn't hang out anymore. Work has now become a battle of whit and ego. She has the upper hand because she's been there for 3 years and I've only been there 9 months. Our supervisor wants to bang her, it's very obvious. She's a hot girl and I'm just another guy. She started talking about seeing other guys in front of me and even saying she's waiting on sex from a new guy she's dating. My question is, how do I regain my dominance? I don't want to date her anymore. I just want to regain my confidence and take control of the situation.
[–]KilluaKanmuru1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
New pussy brah...
Exactly
[–]spurdosparade0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You'll not control the situation, you only option is to no care (why would you, you're not even fucking her anymore).
[–]Tamnaeuth0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
don't shit where you eat.
Heard it many times since this has happened. Wish I could go back and smack myself
[–]binrobinro-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's always interesting to see all the guys here that do this, even though they know they shouldn't, because somehow, it will be different for them.
[–]hydrox1800[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She was a hot older girl. The ass was hypnotizing and she kept making sexual references to me. I have a dick I couldn't fight the urge anymore. I really thought I had control bc I know she was just some dumb hoe, but somehow I was under her spell within a couple of months
[–]omegareborn2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She was a hot older girl. The ass was hypnotizing she kept making sexual references to me I have a dick I couldn't fight the urge anymore I was under her spell within a couple of months
She was a hot older girl.
The ass was hypnotizing
she kept making sexual references to me
I have a dick I couldn't fight the urge anymore
I was under her spell within a couple of months
You're hamstering away your agency because the woman was attractive. Do not do this. You are responsible for your actions, not your dick. Own up to your mistakes, learn from them, and move on. This victim-like thinking will only cripple you.
I definitely made a mistake. I tell myself that all the time. I just really wanted to get laid. Lesson learned.
[–]Rogers_johnson-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't eat where you lift weights and shit
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