Hey guys ! So I've been lifting for two years and I'm about to cut (30% bf rn) so I'm raising my smv atm.

I'm good socially can make friends easily, make people laugh etc... and I'm generally well liked by men and women alike, I have clear boundaries and let people know when they're displeasing me and stand up for myself. However, I'm a virgin and have no experience with women sexually.

I don't understand how to go from a regular conversation to flirting or sex, heck I don't even understand flirting since I already tease people all the time and we have fun and shit.

I don't understand the process, like, how do you essentially go to point A (conversation) to point B (sex)? Because I can talk to women for hours just fine, not feel nervous, joke around, be playful and touchy but it just stays at that level, a fun conversation.

I'm a bit lost because everyone has sex all the time naturally, seemingly without that much effort.

Any book to recommend or bullet point lists or explanation.

TL;DR : 21 yo virgin, good life, normal social skills, how do I show intent and how does everything happen from open to bed ?