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| 4 | I feel like I'm stuckBro you might as well just ask "how do we do things"? This question sucks ass. It has zero direction and is super vague. What are you trying to accomplish. Let me give you a shitty answer for your craptastic, vague question: You do things by practicing them in real life and the. Do them well. Then you get some results after amounts of time. Hope that helps.... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/25 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Painting a PictureYou have to keep in mind that this sub has gone downhill. There are many fake alphas on here. Reading comprehension is low and critical thinking is too. I post so that a small portion of guys will get something from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Painting a PictureLook. I'll try to explain this again. I play guitar. I've done that for 33 years now. I love guitar. Women will know this right away. I've been to paracho Mexico. That's the point of the story. You can tell a story of a music festival. Of a bonfire party. Anything you're passionate about. Did I say paint a picture or tell her some bullshit? When did I ever buy her anything or make promises in this example? Now you seem to have some twisted thinking. If you think some chick is going to have tingl… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Painting a PictureI truly think that you're not thinking contextually or even using reading comprehension skills. This is painting a picture. I never take this women on lavish vacations, I don't promise anything, I don't spend money. I just paint a story. It's costs nothing. It makes no promises and you can do it regardless of financial status. It shows that you know how to be entertaining and you have fun goals. And my example was a vacation. It could be going to try absinthe at a bar, going camping at a great s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/24 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Painting a PictureIt's a tool not a how-to guide with a template..... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Exchange RatesDo you feel that you're going to find a woman that doesn't think like a woman? Do you think women give away sex and intimacy with nothing in return? How does picking another partner solve that? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/24 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Exchange RatesI would like to add to that. Your body AND attitude have to be desirable for sex. I've met a few morons that screw things up once they open their mouths. Charisma plays a bit part in female attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/24 08:53 PM |
| 10 | Exchange RatesI'm an older guy with abundance. That being said, I see some of the younger guys struggle. 33% of the male population has no sex at all. I'm hoping that every thirsty guy gets to a point where they can filter for compatibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/24 04:09 PM |
| 15 | Exchange RatesI completely agree! Once your life has more success and you are financially stable, you will have options. This is why I advocate for guys to spin plates. And DO NOT commit to one woman before gaining ample dating and sex experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/24 03:02 PM |
| 4 | The reality check some of you needI agree. The main problem that most guys have is this alpha trope. Every noob tries to LARP an alpha ego. They give bad or toxic advice and have zero idea how the real world works, or simply how to be human. It's the new guys that really have polarized and dumb ideas that make subreddits like this easy to quarantine. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | You don't get your medalGreat response! I think this supplements my post well. I think it's really easy to get stuck in a rut and feel sorry for yourself. That's what must be avoided. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 04:02 PM |
| 2 | You don't get your medalBro. What are you on about .... My dad didn't walk around the house for half an hour scraping his tongue. I wasn't that unobservant in my young age. Did you gain anything from this story or just thought about tongue scrapers... Wtf.... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 10 | Studies on pair bonding?I can't speak for everyone. This just seems like justification for finding a low notch count woman. As a fairly promiscuous guy, I have held an LTR for many years. It just depends on the person. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/24 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Did you poison the well?That one is hard to back pedal out of. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/24 12:25 AM |
| 14 | Did you poison the well?For sure..you're bound to develop a favorite. I get it totally. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What are our thoughts on “don’t eat pussy”Fuck yeah! That or some 69 action. Big fan of that shit! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What does the RP think about GF being in Pageantry?Why are you asking us what to think instead of making your own decisions and enforcing your own boundaries. You don't need our permission to not like it. Work on your frame you're rationalizing something fierce. | /r/askMRP | 17/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Is there an exception to the rule?Dude, this is really bad! An LDR isn't a relationship. Do you like becoming a mobile ATM? The more I know the worse your desperation is showing. Find a normal single girl or three. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/24 03:26 PM |
| 14 | Is there an exception to the rule?A single mom will not be available all the time. She will look for a father figure for her kid. Also, if you get attached to the kid but you and the girl don't work out, it is emotionally painful for you and the kid. I've dated single moms before. It's your life, I don't think it's worth it unless she's just a plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Don't put yourself in the DoghouseYes and no. Keep in mind that AWALT. A new girl that you are dating doesn't exactly know how you operate. She will "try" to put you in the Doghouse. To her it still exists even if you refuse to go there. She hasn't learned her place or how you, the new guy operates. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Don't put yourself in the DoghouseTell us what "far stronger game" is. Write up some examples on how to address this problem in your superior way. We want to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Don't put yourself in the DoghouseIt goes back to honesty. I would have a great time on a very limited budget. When a girl wanted to go out, I would suggest something slightly less exciting and inexpensive. They would pony up since my finances were struggling after a divorce. The one thing girls would say is that I was so much fun and so positive. That was the key. Don't bore them. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Don't put yourself in the DoghouseI would call honesty a strange form of kindness. You aren't bullshitting anyone or being untrue to yourself. You're giving them an opportunity to make a choice. Deal with reality or don't. They can look for some guy that will lie to them to make them feel better in the short term. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 04:26 AM |
| 10 | Don't put yourself in the DoghouseWhen exactly to use honesty?>> With plates or relationships I'm brutally honest.i don't want to tiptoe around anything. This is my life. When you were seeing these girls, from the start, were you honest about the fact that you would spin plates?>> Yes. Why not? Your last question is a very sad and inexperienced question. Betas provide resources. A red pill guys supplies excitement and sex. Most of the time I was broke and my girls would buy me shit and keep me afloat. I was the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/24 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Unsure how to handle this.I'm going to say this because I was in a hurry with my second response: Consistency is the key. If you consistently take charge and consistently show her that she is wanted, you'll get better results. Now it's your fault for throwing in the towel before you get yours. Say something. You have a covert contract about her rocking your world and you're keeping score. She's not a mind reader and your communication and assertiveness is pretty damn bad right now. Sounds like you expect great results wi… | /r/askMRP | 19/07/24 10:05 PM |
| 12 | Unsure how to handle this.You're getting an opening to do some crazy kinky shit with her and you're not taking it. Do you really expect her to come up with all kinds of crazy sexy stuff and you just sit there and enjoy the ride? This is your fault for being lazy, entitled and uncreative. You aren't leading the situation at all. If you want a sex goddess you have to teach her the ways. Women have an inherent need to feel wanted. I can guarantee from what you wrote you aren't showing her that. I feel bad for this woman. Sh… | /r/askMRP | 19/07/24 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Should I cut the allowance of my entitled wife?Get yourself a side piece or pay for an escort if you need sex. The main problem here is you aren't improving yourself, your just keeping the problem going by enabling her. Withdraw it all, time, attention and decrease her allowance. Tell her finances have changed. This isn't loving or at all healthy. It seems like your relationship is purely transactional at this point. You're giving your resources to someone that really doesn't give you much. That's a bad ROI. Start doing for yourself and stop… | /r/askMRP | 21/11/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | [40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice?A LDR is a fake relationship. She is a plate my guy, not a committed relationship. There is no commitment or boundaries you can enforce. Find a few more women that are local to you and stop worrying about this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Moderation is for losers - Pedal to the metal always or NGMI.This is dumb myopic bullshit. Anyone with half a brain understands diminishing returns. Working 20 hours a day only exhausts you. Moderation is having the sense to pace yourself. Moderation shows skill and thoughtfulness. When you're young and inexperienced working hard seems like a good plan until you're broken. Skill will take you farther than simply hard work. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Goons guide to addressing depression and insecuritiesIs this good? You'll have to explain what the Eff this means. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/23 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Goons guide to addressing depression and insecuritiesThe problem is still with your frame. You aren't practicing gratitude. You aren't looking around and observing the outside world and you aren't having fun. It's laid out in that primer I wrote. Here's the thing. The only person you should be comparing yourself to is the old version of yourself. There's always going to be better looking and worse looking guys than all of us. Does Steve Buscemi look handsome? How about William H Macey or Jack Black? All ugly and don't lift, but loved by people bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 07:06 PM |
| 14 | Goons guide to addressing depression and insecuritiesTake action. It's that simple. Go out and have experiences. Touch grass. Talk to people. Most of the time feeling sorry for yourself or just reading content will make you a theorycel. Read the post and implement this stuff into your life. Inaction never leads to results. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 07:10 AM |
| 8 | Goons guide to addressing depression and insecuritiesYou bet. I'm trying to help my boys. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 02:23 AM |
| 2 | MRP Starter PackHow is divorce a failure? My divorce was the greatest decision I've ever made. I was with some buddies a year back at a bar. My buddy saw a hot bling that he was trying to game. I stumbled closer. He introduced me and she began chatting. She casually mentioned that she got a divorce. "Oh congratulations"! I told her. Her head practically spun around. I smiled. "So what are you going to do with your new freedom and endless potential"? Of course, my buddy seemed bland after this and she gave me al… | /r/askMRP | 23/04/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | You should bartend at least once in your lifeI used to bartend at a sex club on the weekends. It was a great resource to meet kinky women and get invited to some crazy parties. Also it was never boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?Your response and your question makes you sound like a child. People that actually work on themselves have results and better attitudes. You may be 32, but you have the mindset of a 17 year old incel. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Wha can I do?Your attitude is shitty and you're complacent and cowardly. I want to say work on yourself, but I doubt you will. You've already heard what you need to do, you just probably won't do it. I suggest going to therapy first. Your way of thinking is abysmal. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel disrespected by girlfriendYou sound like an insecure little bitch. Why not just tell her to wear a moomoo or fucking tarp? Girls wear bikinis. If that's too much to handle you shouldn't be dating. Change your fucking diaper, you man baby. | /r/newTRP | 31/07/22 08:56 PM |
| 4 | instagram necessary for dating?If she can't give a number, she's not that interested. It's up to you how many hoops you want to jump through. At the end of the day either she wants to hang out with you or not. Don't waste time on stupid IOI's. | /r/newTRP | 26/07/22 08:09 PM |
| -3 | I keep everyone at arms lengthYou've developed insecurities. I wouldn't call that maturing. That's losing your balls. If you would rather spend time journaling than interacting with people, your social skills are garbage. Go out and start talking to everyone. What you're doing isn't healthy for a man and it will make you very unlikeable. | /r/newTRP | 24/07/22 03:30 AM |
| 7 | Waste of time to help overweight women or train em to get leaner once more? A 8.5/10 has clearly let go so much.This is ridiculous. Out of 9 billion people, you settle for one that is a fixer upper instead of just going after what you want? | /r/newTRP | 23/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Be Brutal: Is it worth trying to get girls if im extremely skinny?Bro you know this shit. You can still pull, but you need to eat more and lift. Don't stop practicing game and start lifting. | /r/newTRP | 22/07/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | idk why, but I feel like for some reason I feel like I'm worse with women when I'm drunk?Drinking makes you dumber as more intoxication happens. That's just how it works. | /r/newTRP | 17/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on.She doesn't like you bro. It's just that simple. This was a rejection. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Sex on first date and immediate test responses after first date but delayed response after asking for second date. Long ass post but want to give details bear with me thanks in advanceJust ask for a second date. If you say something insecure like your comment on being too late. That will ensure that you will get shot down. Work on your confidence and decisiveness. | /r/newTRP | 16/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | What's so bad about being the "bad guy" when a relationship ends?Yes. That happens almost every breakup. | /r/newTRP | 14/07/22 05:18 AM |
| 6 | What's so bad about being the "bad guy" when a relationship ends?Every guy is the bad guy when a relationship ends. The only way a woman wants you to walk away is completely destroyed. Don't worry. This is normal. | /r/newTRP | 14/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 11 | Is it a red flag when a potential partner or date says you can't have any female friends?Is she your mom? Check between your legs and tell me if you still have balls there. You can do whatever you want. | /r/newTRP | 12/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle deleted text messages?This is a very good example of overthinking. If she deleted a message then she deleted a message. If she eats pizza for lunch, then she enjoys pizza. If she brushes her hair, then she's taking care of her hair. If you want something, be direct. | /r/newTRP | 11/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Is taking back an ex as a plate a bad idea?I think it's a bad idea. I've done it before. Many many times. It always ends up badly. Don't dig through the trash. Why aren't you going for several new women? | /r/newTRP | 11/07/22 09:03 AM |
| 2 | If the woman I'm dating does not have a strong supporting group of friends or family, is it a red flag?It's neither good nor bad. It just is who she is. She may lean on you in hard times of you're up for something like that. My suggestion is if you're going out of your way to look for red flags, you'll find them. This isn't really a big deal. If she has substance abuse issues, mental illness, poor impulse control, daddy issues, childhood trauma or is just a hoe for anyone. Those are major red flags. The rest are all fairly manageable. I would say that a girl without a robust support system is mor… | /r/newTRP | 07/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How to be emotionally unavailable?That's a great way to be unlikable. Don't be a robot. | /r/newTRP | 05/07/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Does dread game work using escorts or strippersWow you're really dumb. Go back to the sidebar. You pay escorts for sex. In other words, they don't actually want to have sex with you. Dread won't work. Get a real girlfriend. | /r/newTRP | 04/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Do girls want you more if youre avoiding premarital sex? Girls forcing themselves on you?You really are imagining stupid scenarios instead of just owning up to the fact that you're a lonely, horny, moron. | /r/newTRP | 04/07/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Got really drunk and kissed this chick on the mouth lol gonna see this girl after a year. What to do for damage control?Find your balls and act like an adult. It's just a kiss. Big deal. | /r/newTRP | 04/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain a relationship with a woman that is open on your end ( you could sleep with other women ) but is closed on her end. (Since promiscuous women will destroy your life.)I can tell you as an older guy that has done this before many times. One sided open relationships don't exist. That's bullshit. All that means is you're bulldozing a girl and she will tolerate for a while until she decides to leave. Guys that tell you differently are larping. Why would a promiscuous woman ruin your life? It's your life to manage not hers. | /r/newTRP | 04/07/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | I dumped my gf and 2 weeks later she got a rebound and is posting him everywhere. What am I supposed to do?Look Buddy. She moved on. I suggest you do the same. You're very deep in her frame. If you were dating multiple women you wouldn't give a shit. | /r/newTRP | 02/07/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | I dumped my gf and 2 weeks later she got a rebound and is posting him everywhere. What am I supposed to do?She's not your girlfriend anymore. She can do what she wants. You still care. | /r/newTRP | 02/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Best Way to increase confidence?Strive for what you want. Accomplishment helps confidence. Remember to have fun and talk to people. | /r/newTRP | 02/07/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | What are the keys to getting a woman to laugh?That 100% a shaky frame. Your confidence is getting weak. My suggestion is to go out and talk to everyone. Don't worry about outcomes at all. Don't think about what to say, just talk. | /r/newTRP | 01/07/22 06:22 PM |
| 6 | how often do you contact/communicate with your plates?Here the truth that young guys don't understand: you want to have a successful dating and professional life you only need two skills. 1. You need to learn how to be assertive. 2. You need to be decisive. Playing waiting games is incredibly dumb and low value. It shows that you're a weak minded simp. You text and answer when you want to. That's it. If you're making up rules, congrats! You're a moron. | /r/newTRP | 26/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.First off. Don't keep score. You two have very different lives. Second is you need to learn two things to go along with your social skills. Assertiveness. Learn how to advocate and go after what you want for yourself. Decisiveness. Decide what you want. If you're always asking others, you're not thinking for yourself. If you're an introvert fix that. Introverts don't do great in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Is there an ugly man’s guide on talking to women?Game is game it's doesn't vary. Don't take the black pill. | /r/newTRP | 25/02/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Second date with girl.Why are you wasting your time with this prude chick when there are 9 billion people on the earth? 2dates and you barely got a kiss? Sounds like she isn't that into you buddy. Move on. She's not even worth posting about. | /r/newTRP | 15/02/22 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Have i become the gay friend?Dumb.... Quit being an orbiter. | /r/newTRP | 15/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | My girl just texted me “I know who followed you on ig”Who gives a shit? If you talk about it it's a big deal. If you ignore it, it doesn't matter. | /r/newTRP | 02/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.Are you approaching? They don't magically come to you. You have to understand that reddit is now filled with spergs and incels. They will All five you pure shit advice. They haven't accomplished anything and probably have zero success with women or life in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.Congrats on being a moron. I'm saying don't do boring dates. I love how you black pill idiots think that you need to skydive and jump through hoops. Drop the tough guy alpha LARPING. Work on your reading comprehension tough guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.I would say Google is your best friend in this case. You can look up attractions and meetups. Do stuff that you want to do and try. Then go have fun or invite a date to go with you. You want to be that guy that is always going to try new things or pursues his interests. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.After work I lift and I play guitar. There are a few local jams I go to each week. I also joined a motorcycle group. Also TRP has a Discord group. We voice chat and plan get togethers. This weekend the boys and I have a ski trip planned. I'm stoked! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 7 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.It's a simple question: What would you do with friends that's fun? Paintball? A trampoline park? Go karts? Chocolate martinis? A Lazer light show? Try a new cuisine. Being a high value man means that you're creative and can keep yourself entertained. If you can't keep yourself entertained, you've got problems. That's extremely low value. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/22 08:33 PM |
| -3 | You're not having a dry spell, you're just boring.That sounds like weak frame. You've got some work ahead of you kiddo..... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Would pretending to be a male feminist work?I'm sure looking like a weak minded lemming will land you all sorts of pussy..... Start wearing a dress when you approach women as well. You'll be just like them. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Responding to her bad mood.Says the guy who trolls guys on trp. We're done talking. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Responding to her bad mood.You are one lazy ass larper...🤦 Way to add zero value to the conversation or life. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Responding to her bad mood.How else do you show your women your cowardice and lack of diplomacy? This isn't the 1950's buddy. Either you manage the women around you, or they run you. It sounds like you need to work on your leadership. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Responding to her bad mood.Absolutely! It show that you're still childish with a weak frame, poor social skills and poor problem solving skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Responding to her bad mood.Hot enough to smash. But not worth the drama. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Responding to her bad mood.No. Thats stupid and a waste of time. You need outcome independence, not metrics. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Responding to her bad mood.You sound like an SJW. Is your heart bleeding? I made someone smile and I got what I needed to do done. No one got hurt in the process. Why don't you change your diaper? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Responding to her bad mood.I can see where you're coming from. I however like the challenge and have dealt with this multiple times before. In this instance, I needed those papers or nothing could continue. It's a useful skill to have. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The two strategies of a cold approach.I like this analogy too. Good shit bro! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 07:08 PM |
| -2 | How to never go hungry.Why don't you get some cream to cool down your butthurt. And some water to swallow those black pills. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 08:17 AM |
| -3 | How to never go hungry.So the guy that didn't comprehend what I wrote is calling me stupid? 😂😂 Have fun with that blackpill life. Send me some links to insightful posts you've wrote. If you ever write them . | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 08:09 AM |
| -3 | How to never go hungry.I see, you missed the point and are going about this from a black pilled perspective. Most guys believe statistics and bullshit tropes. So they don't try. I look around and I see normal looking, even unattractive guys with girlfriends. These are guys that understand that women are everywhere. I've been in this game for a long time. I've heard every excuse under the sun. This is no different. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 07:07 AM |
| -4 | How to never go hungry.Wait, I'm talking about abundance. It's your mentality. This has nothing to do with female agency. Are you just trying to say something Smart. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 0 | How to never go hungry.Not fat, chubby or chunky. I have 3 types: crazy rocker chicks with tattoos and colored hair. Chunky Chicks that are cute. And cute like Emma Stone or Natalie Dormer. Stop talking like an incel. It's fucking lame. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 05:44 AM |
| 7 | How to never go hungry.Yeah you don't fake. You work on yourself and go after what you want. That's some hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/21 02:54 AM |
| 30 | How to never go hungry.No one said get married bro... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The two strategies of a cold approach.Yes, your comment does look like it was written by a virgin. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | The two strategies of a cold approach.I'm curious as to what you think is morality? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/21 02:16 AM |
| -1 | The two strategies of a cold approach.Well then you write a post kid. Tell me how it's done. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | The two strategies of a cold approach.Cold approach at night in general is a bad strategy. It's better done in the day. What I'm talking about is social skills. If you read the part about taking things literally, you would realize that you're didn't read for context. You're thinking like an incel. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | The two strategies of a cold approach.Thanks brother. I've been gone because a bunch of guys and the EC's have started a discord server. We all get together voice chat, video chat and go hang out in real life. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 11 | The two strategies of a cold approach.Hmmm. You read it, put in shit that I didn't say, and completely missed the point. Congrats! 👏 | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | What is more impressive, getting a beautiful girl to say she loves you? Or getting a beautiful girl to send you her nudes?This is a big steaming dog turd of a post. Who cares? | /r/newTRP | 01/10/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Girl from Tinder claims to "accidentally" have looked at a dick-pic behind a 2-step pastebin url link I gave herYou text like a real asshole. Your game is shit mate. | /r/newTRP | 26/09/21 09:12 PM |
| 4 | How to get better at dates?Look bro, you being on steroids has nothing to do with your SMV. That's stupid. You have to find ways to be interesting and flirty. The idea of ,"game", is a social interaction. People play games to have fun. If you're not having fun, your focus is off. Go to do things you like and you'll be around like minded people. Practice conversations with everyone you see. If you have access to YouTube look up ,"charisma on command", that channel has great videos about social skills. Keep pushing forward … | /r/newTRP | 26/09/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I am a sperg at partiesSounds like you are forcing yourself to be social. Do stuff that you think is fun. I don't like watching chess tournaments. I'll skip going to one and do something I find more appealing. | /r/newTRP | 12/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | are you the best looking dude in your group of friends?I don't compete with my friends. If nothing else, we work together. I don't care how my friends look next to me. I like them. I know that I'm sexy, that's all. | /r/newTRP | 03/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Why don't I get hard while grinding on chicks?You need to lift and commit to it. Lifting heavy stuff boosts your testosterone. Second, try having actual sex with chicks. Grinding is for middle school. | /r/newTRP | 03/09/21 10:41 AM |
| 9 | Can you still become an alpha even if your short/have weak chin and jaw/high pitch voice/etc?Alpha is a state of mind. Worrying about stupid shit you can't control isn't Alpha. | /r/newTRP | 02/09/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Does your partner's body count mean anything to you?If it's a ltr, dies she accept you for who you are? Most women want to lock down their best option. Does she like you for who you are or just as a guy she can call her boyfriend? Does she get in the way of your mission? Does she make your life slightly better? Do you feel like her babysitter, or does she treat you like you're her kid? Is she good in bed or leave you hoping for more. Is she someone you can take out in public proudly? Do you find her attractive or just good enough? | /r/altTRP | 30/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Now that there's this - what do you really think about TheRedPill?I think that confirmation bias is real. If you're looking for something toxic, you're going to find it. I've been following TRP for over 10 years. It's vastly improved my life. I'm in better shape, I'm more social, I have a better outlook on life, and I'm happy in a functional non toxic relationship. People look for reasons not to try and they hate on people who put in effort to live a better life. I think that every man should have this toolbox. | /r/newTRP | 27/08/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Is there advice on dating more succesful and older women? It feels like a power struggleBro you're overthinking this shit. I was 24 and went through a cougar phase. I loved banging older women. They were crazy in bed and would show you some crazy sex stuff. They would buy me shit and take me out. The tradeoff: you give them the dick down they are craving. It's that simple. Enjoy it. It doesn't mean shit. Youll get older and your girlfriend's and plates will get younger. Thats just how this shit works. | /r/newTRP | 23/08/21 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Why is trp.red so shit?The endorsed contributors got tired and complacent. They decided to give up instead of getting around the system. The forum is pure shit. I do this to help my fellow men who need it. I got banned and I created a new account. Giving up isn't bold. | /r/newTRP | 23/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | What means when: "I'm not looking for a friend" or "I am not your friend"How many plates are you spinning right now? Look here bro, you can't come on here and ask how to friend zone yourself. Everything you've said is very blue pilled. You can't use redpill tools for beta goals. It doesn't work. Do you want to be the girlfriend she confides in when her boyfriend cheats on her, or the guy she hops in bed with? | /r/newTRP | 23/08/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Why does trp lean more towards powerlifting or getting heavy numbers in the big lifts instead of bodybuildingI snapped my plantaris tendon on leg day. And my brother in law tore his bicep. If you've been lifting for years you're bound to do something wrong and injure yourself. It might not be life changing but it will usually take a few week to heal up. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Does your partner's body count mean anything to you?It doesn't matter. If you ask any redpill larper they only date 19 year old 10's with a both count less than 2. All human beings are sexual. I've been in the non monogamous lifestyle for years now. And low not count does not equal a quality partner. | /r/altTRP | 03/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How long do your casual relationships usually last?One does. The other is just kind of a dumbass, but fun. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/21 05:20 AM |
| 15 | Is TRP specific to western culture (Europe, Australasian, New Zealand and the americas) or does it apply to all women everywhere?AWALT. Female nature is just that. Is not called ,"some female's nature". | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 56 | Can one have a sane life when they got no family and no place to call home ?Do you want a sane life? I'm pretty sure you do. I had a few years where I was homeless. I got zeroed out after a divorce. I had no friends or family. I had a few articles of clothing, a motorcycle, and my freedom. Your freedom is worth more than anything. That's what gives you your potential to do whatever you want. I went out without fear or shame and gamed women. I couch surfed until I got caught up on child support. I bought a crusty old RV and lived in that for a while and continued to date… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 01:22 PM |
| – | How do you stop needing validation, recognition, affection, etc?Opinions will vary from each individual. What works for you is something you need to approve of. Opinions aren't ever consistent or reliable. Opinions aren't something you need to survive. They aren't a need at all. You ask anyone on here and they will say Musicgoon has his shit together. You ask any of my bros they will say I'm fun as fuck. You ask my girlfriends, they will say I'm charming. Yet you ask one of my exes or my ex wife and I'm the biggest piece of shit on the planet. That I'm selfi… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it common for looks alone to be enough for girls to make move?!You can't use looks to hamster out of approaching. You have to find your balls and approach. Every guy needs to learn game. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys who follow me who I’m not friends with sending responses to insta stories?Sure K | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on asking to kiss someone?Never ask. That's the most pussy move ever. Instant rejection will happen. She will dry right up. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Guys who follow me who I’m not friends with sending responses to insta stories?This doesn't affect anything... What the hell are you talking about? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Guys who follow me who I’m not friends with sending responses to insta stories?Who gives a shit? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with FWB jealousy?Will do! | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Don't have interest in dating women now, but they act strangely hot/cold or just odd around me. what gives?Bro you should always be gaming. Doesn't mean you have to fuck anyone, but keep your skills up. You need to keep gaming your LTR. Your probably giving off some strange oneitis vibes. You honestly sound a bit ambivalent in how to proceed with other women. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | How long do you guys wait for a date to show up?15 minutes sounds like ample wiggle room. I usually start flirting with other women around me at the 5 min mark. If shit is lame I take off after 15 mins. If I strike up a good conversation I may stay. I personally would rather be early than late. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta for a guy to be in a open relationship on both sides?Worrying about being beta is the biggest sign that you firmly are in the beta camp. Now as a guy thats had a lot of experience with polyamorous relationships, I can say they are a hot mess. Once a woman fully identifies as poly. There is no coming back. That's the golden ticket. It's an endless supply of nourishment for her hypergamy. She will find one guy and keep him close. Then she will find someone new when the novelty wears off. She will gush and obsess over this new guy while the older par… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 11 | How do I reply to this"Of course! I use what I have to get what I want. So when are you dropping by"? Or "So you get to spend time with a cute dog and a charming guy. That sounds like an all around win". | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl on bumble messages me but her bio says she has a bf and a picture of himI knew a girl that cheating was her kink. She loved the fact that she was fucking her boyfriend over and getting away with it. I did smash twice but I thought she was a bitch. Anyways, now that you mentioned it, I'm curious to how true it is? I'm also curious as to how a girl would bring up a devil's 3way to a new guy she just met? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl on bumble messages me but her bio says she has a bf and a picture of himThis isn't always the case, but she could be using it as a beta deterrent. Some guys won't approach while other guys will readily cuck the other dude. Or, she might be in an open relationship. The other dude is well aware if her escapades. Neither of those are yours to manage. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Are all women really like that?You sound like you're still looking for a unicorn bro. No one has found one yet. Life has a funny way of giving everyone dings and scrapes. We are all damaged. That's the truth. You can't fight reality. Disney has sold us some bullshit. Like dumbo. How many people get pissed off that elephants can't fly? Yet they look for their sleeping beauty like that's a realistic depiction of what you should want as a man. We are all just evolved apes with animalistic sex drives. We in society, always think … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Are women attracted to anger?Oh so when you see a child throw a temper tantrum that's powerful huh? When you see a man lose his composure, that's masculine huh? When you see a guy feel so helpless that he punches a hole in the wall that's sexy? Is that supposed to get a girls knickers wet? Tell me where in the sidebar does it tell you to lose your composure.... Point to where it says anger is part of a masculine frame. Or did I strike a nerve buddy? Anyways, I'll wait. Prove me wrong. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 08:49 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with my "vibe"?This is way too broad. We haven't seen you interact so we really can't answer. Has anything changed with you mentally or physically? Are you focused on going out to have fun or just to get laid? If it's just to bust a nut, you might be coming off as thirsty. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 31 | Are women attracted to anger?Anger is a bad thing. It means your frame is weak or shaky. It usually shows your hand of cowardice or insecurities. I've said this before. If you are in an argument or all out fight with a woman, the first person to get emotional, loses. If you're in court for custody of a kid. If you get emotional first, you lose. When you get angry around a woman, it gives her feedback. She knows knows what buttons to press to control you. Anger is not sexy. Assertiveness and dominance are. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | How to get over STD fears?Well bro you are really overthinking this to a hypochondriac level. I'm not the man to advocate for abstinence I think it's bullshit. I'm very sexually active and I take a shit ton of risks because of a vasectomy. But that's what makes me happy. I suggest you read this article I think it will help guide you. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | How did you get over approach anxiety?The only way to get over it is keep going and face it. You'll get better and it won't be a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Do I Apologize after bad ending to date?That's sounds like the weakest thing you can do. Don't ever apologize. Now the second think you don't do is sit in silence. Where was your escalation? Did you kino her? It sounds like you're not bold enough. Fix that. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Ldr gf got fat , should I still proposeHave you read the sidebar? A LDR isn't a relationship at all. You shouldn't propose, Marriage I'd the worst idea and you should have more than a single option that almost is imaginary. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 8 | In order to get her to like you, you have to not give a fuck about her?This is your answer. You can care just don't be a pushover or a simp. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | fucked a single mother with no condom because she said shes on birth control. am i fuckedProbably fine. Don't stress it. But stop raw dogging or get a vasectomy. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to turn girl asking to apply sunscreen on their back into an opportunity?Sound like serious insecurity talking. If you don't take risks you'll live the rest of your life in failure. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with FWB jealousy?Gotcha. I leaned something new about the system. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with FWB jealousy?I would love to be one. How about it u/trpcops? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 07:11 PM |
| 8 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsDo what you want to do. Paying for her shit is not the same as you controlling the finances. She is controlling you and you are paying her for it. And let's dispense with all this alpha bullshit. Don't be a walking ATM. You telling me that some guy is alpha, just because his girl is submissive is a huge stretch of the imagination. But I'll let everyone chime in. Maybe I'm wrong and you coughing up cash is ,"controlling the finances". | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 8 | Did I just waste the best years of my life?I have a big extended family the kind with so many second cousins and such that you don't know them all. My parents took me to a funeral for a relative that I didn't know. The guy was 36 and died of a heart attack. His family went in front of the church and spoke about him. The only story that they could tell was that he was a really good basketball player in highschool.....that freaked me out. What the fuck happened with that other 20 years!?? Have you ever met anyone that relive their highscho… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 8 | For the guys who quit smoking, how did you do it?I caught a cold and had a cough. I figured if I already felt like shit I would just lump in withdrawals with that. I went cold turkey. Never strayed back to it. Try to replace the habit with some other obsession. I suggest sex or just pickup itself. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 10:41 AM |
| 7 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsSo you're going to be betabux for this girl huh? She sounds like she makes the decisions and you follow. Bro..... you really need to read that sidebar thoroughly and then some of the reading materials. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Is this plate broken & approach to softnextingGood call my guy. 👍 | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Missed an opportunity. How to recover it?When you see her again ask her out. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Is this plate broken & approach to softnextingIf she says she isn't feeling good all you can do is accept that. If she wants to see you again she will reach out. Don't sweat it either way. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:42 AM |
| 7 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeYou either have to be a female parading as a male, a weak male feminist, or you're just a complete mess. It sounds like you either didn't read the sidebar or did and didn't understand it at all. This forum is about your self improvement, not to white knight for womankind. Now here's the truth: both genders get abused. Many guys on here have escaped really bad situations to turn their life around. Abuse is not gender specific. Please get off your soapbox. If you can't handle reality you shouldn't… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:39 AM |
| 32 | How to deal with FWB jealousy?She's jealous. That's a good thing. It shows she's invested. Let her get jealous. Who gives a fuck? Don't let her steer you and continue on as normal. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | How to turn girl asking to apply sunscreen on their back into an opportunity?You put sunscreen on her back, talk for a while. Then ask if she wants to hang out again. Then you get her number. It's really as simple as asking. If she already asked you to touch her body, that's a green light.. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Is there red pill lesson here?The word you're looking for is oblivious And he was running game on this chick and it worked. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | We joked about the idea of OLTR but says she'd never explore it, yet...Your all over the fucking map bro. Calm the fuck down and form sentences and concise thoughts. Now I think you were asking about being the primary in a poly relationship. If you want that go for it. I don't think those things work, but that's just my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: girls use snapchat for their beta orbiters, texting for their alpha dick providers. Go for her number?Yeah...... It's quarantined....... It doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: girls use snapchat for their beta orbiters, texting for their alpha dick providers. Go for her number?It's quarantined. You need to post questions here bro. You're going to get flagged... | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | FR: Its not as hard as it seems…What was your question? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:29 AM |
| 4 | How often is too often to see a new plate and why?This is the right answer OP. Don't listen to spergs and LARPERS. Do what you want. Anything other than that is a little bitch move. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: girls use snapchat for their beta orbiters, texting for their alpha dick providers. Go for her number?What's the question? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Is this a shit test?By the way, "brought it up". Brang isn't a word. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Is this a shit test?Yup call her bluff. I agree. And if she keeps on bringing up other girls, ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I go out to dance with my girlfriend, guy “friend” of ours asks me in front of her if he can dance with her… what’s the best response?Yep. Great. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Entrapping people who are intentionally messing with you into assault?I agree. I don't think op is ready for a fight. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Entrapping people who are intentionally messing with you into assault?Bro, do you really think a guy like this is going to kick anyone's ass? It sounds like he's in the cowards camp. He needs to fight back with words and logic. He's going to get his ass handed to him otherwise. You and I both know that if a guy posts some bullshit like this, he's not going to win a fight. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Entrapping people who are intentionally messing with you into assault?Bullying happens to everyone. Your idea is ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Entrapping people who are intentionally messing with you into assault?Bullying happens to everyone. Your idea is ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I move to new city with LTR?And? She s cheated on two guys to be with you. Two guys got cucked. Do you think that behavior stops with you? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I move to new city with LTR?You've got oneitis for a ho. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Is the US just hard mode for getting laid?No, it's very easy to get laid in the US. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Help to understand basic gameYou need to escalate. Try that. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Heres Your Chance To Be An AssholeI've been banned twice. Reddit mods suck.. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | LTR "breaks up" with me multiple times a monthShe's a drama queen and needs this kind of shit to feel alive. You can tolerate this shit, manufacture outrage ,next her or call her bluff. I would let her tell you it's over. Start spinning plates. And when she comes crawling back tell her you can't see her because you have a date. What you have is dysfunctional. And you're getting rewarded with sex for staying in dysfunction. Be careful of this. I've done that before. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 2 | She told me she'd let me know after asking me to ask her out againDon't be dense. She isn't into you. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Heres Your Chance To Be An AssholeScarcity mentality to the max. Spin more plates you bundle of sticks.... | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Giving the “shy/ugly/weird girl” as a LTRRead the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | She looks down on me but still wants me?Once again, you need to steer the ship. If a girl is getting possessive. You tell her that she hasn't earned the right to be possessive over you yet. She needs to act in a way that makes you happy. A relationship is given to her by you, not taken from you by her. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | How to not let rejection get to me?There are women out there that are sick of brad Pitts shit. Same for any celebrity. If it was just money and status, women would stay with these guys. Don't assume that celebrities don't have problems or get rejected. They do. I hate wasting time. A woman that doesn't share my values, doesn't make me happy, or doesnt crave me and my time is a low value woman. In my eyes she provides nothing. Why would I want that? If she's not interested or bails, that's one less obstacle to deal with while I se… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | She looks down on me but still wants me?Why would you say this bro? No, that type of behavior isn't acceptable at all out of any girl you're dating. And especially an LTR. You need to remember this: You are steering the ship. This is your relationship, not hers. You can stop it at any time if she doesn't act right. Don't worry about all LTR's being like this. If any girl pulls this shit, you pull the plug on that LTR. Quite simple. Now, you need to work on your assertiveness, you need to advocate for yourself, draw strong boundaries a… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 44 | I go out to dance with my girlfriend, guy “friend” of ours asks me in front of her if he can dance with her… what’s the best response?What is this mateguarding bullshit? Spank her on the ass and tell her to go have fun. Go talk to other women while she's dancing. When she comes back, she'll see you getting your flirt on with some cute girl. If you are the prize she won't matter. If she steps out, she will see how quickly another girl will fill her shoes. In fact, you're talking to one right now. If you are really good, introduce the two girls and invite them to your place for tea. Then you know the rest..... | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 3 | New to TRP from Purplepilldebate - need some criticism on my "Ex LTR" and what i can do to protect myself and regain power within our dynamic and what red flags i missed (long post)Bro learn to summarize. I started scrolling and then just stopped reading. You aren't any different than the rest of the guys here. We've seen some shit and can help. What is your question without giving a novel? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Accepting my fateYour mindset is absolute garbage. Your frame is pure shit. You're young and you've already thrown in the towel. Get your lazy ass to the gym and lift heavy. Implement the sidebar and act instead of complain. Your reasoning is bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:57 AM |
| 7 | Giving the “shy/ugly/weird girl” as a LTRYou're hamstering. You're going to settle, you won't really like her that much and she still will be a pain in your ass. AWALT. Sack up and go for girls that you really want. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 8 | How to increase recovery time?Two days to recover!? That ain't normal bro. Go see a doctor. I'm in my 40's and can bust 2 to 3 nuts a day. Mind you, the third one isn't that impressive but still. And why do you want your recovery time to be longer than that? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do men fuck & date fat women if they're their last choice?No one is forcing you to do anything bro. I'm just throwing that out there... | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Do women bully or intimidate weak men?Are you asking for yourself? Everyone will bully a weak man. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Which ethnic group of women are best?AWALT | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Plate tested positive for ChlamydiaSame shit happened to me a month ago. My girl and I were playing with a girl we've known. She called us and told us she tested positive. My girl and I both got antibiotics and tested negative. I wouldn't bother with them if you don't have anything. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Should I break up with my girlfriend or just start gaining plates while in the relationshipJust do it the quickest and most painless way possible. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 10:37 AM |
| 5 | Why do men fuck & date fat women if they're their last choice?This question is way too broad. How far are we talking here? And how do you know what every guys preferences are? For example: I like really fit women and really thick women. Like the pornstar Sophie Dee. I'll even go a bit bigger than that. I'm not into rail thin chicks. But I own my likes. I would recommend that someone who is an incel get a ,"starter chick". They might not be the best, but it gives a pathetic guy some confidence to build up from there. But my thought is, do what makes you hap… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 7 | Should I break up with my girlfriend or just start gaining plates while in the relationshipIf you want her to understand, you're wasting your time. You could spell it out in bullet points and do a 3 hour power point presentation. She won't believe you and won't understand. If you're not serious about breaking up, just stay. If you are, get it done. It should be quick and simple. Ending it is what matters. The ,"why", doesn't change shit. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Disappointment in society after becoming RP awareHonestly, society sucks in general. The general theme is stupid people telling other people stupid shit. And then of course the results of these stupid ideas makes people more miserable and confused than ever. Somehow I'm supposed to buy into the new knowledge that there are 63 genders or some shit. Yet we only know xx and xy chromosomes. We have access to more information than we ever had in the past and some people are eating tide pods and super glueing their eyelids shut for stupid challenges… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Is having anxiety when talking to girls a sign of virginity?This is normal. Here's how this all went for me. When I was in my teenage years, I was anxious, I had a few cute girls pursue me. After highschool I was terrified of rejection. After college I would get nervous around women. Then as I got better that nervousness turned into excitement. Now that nervousness and anxiety doesn't exist. It more of a curiosity. How fast can I close. Keep moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 09:45 AM |
| 16 | Should I break up with my girlfriend or just start gaining plates while in the relationshipBro...... Here's what you say: "This just isn't working for me so I'm going to keep looking". Then you fucking bail. That's it. Don't overthink this or even explain it. And make sure you block her so you're not tempted. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 3 | LDRCalling something an LDR is just a nice way of saying that your relationship ended. Cut the chord. Revisit this when you two are close again. Or just move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 09:34 AM |
| 0 | Who here has had success pulling girls from Instagram?So you're saying there's a bunch of Instagram game posts? Why aren't you following them then? And why are you asking us? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Who here has had success pulling girls from Instagram?Why don't you figure out a system yourself? No one has a paint by numbers system for this bullshit. Instagram is to get THOTS attention and likes. It's not for meeting IRL. It's like gaming chicks at a Planned Parenthood. You want to run some bullshit game, go for it. The rest of us don't want to waste our time. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 72 | Am I the only one who feels like the idea of financially sustaining an adult woman simply because she's a woman very uncomfortable?You don't need consensus from anyone. A bad idea is a bad idea. Don't buy into ideas you don't like. Simple. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 07:02 AM |
| 0 | What girl would you value more?It's your decision not ours. Sack up and figure it out yourself. You have to live with that decision. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Should you really force kino & touching on first date? Does it matter that much?Why are you saying kinos? Do you drive you car to the Walmarts and eat a personal pan pizzas? Do you like fuckings a girls? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 4 | All the good ones are taken?So what you're saying is that you've tried to pick up thousand or even millions of girls and they're all taken? That's some horrible luck. Or maybe you're exaggerating a bit. I don't seem to have problems like that. How many women on average do you approach per week? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Why's my LTR talking about another guy? Clarification pls.She doesn't give a shit about respecting you. I hope you've set boundaries. If not, learn your lesson and set them next time. This relationship is done. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Everything i learned in my recent realtionship (The reality, a woman’s nature, red flags)I don't think this is a question. Get off your soapbox. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 10 | To what extent should you treat queens like whores?Bro this is classic push pull. You can't be all push. So my girl and I have a D/S dynamic. Most of the time I give her that rough primal ownership. But you need to sprinkle in some sensual lovemaking and comfort every so often. So try to reframe it. She's not a queen or a whore. Right now she is your property. You do what you want with your property. I suggest training her as a submissive. Be structured and dominant. An asshole is a retard that thinks he's dominant, but just doesn't understand t… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Pussy HurtsIt sounds like she's in pain and you're an idiot. What do you expect? Her back is fucked up and she just had surgery on her uterus. This has nothing to do with you. Try not to show her how dense you are. She will definitely lose attraction for you that way. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneYou continue going out with women that you find attractive and interesting. And the focus needs to be you having fun. That's it. No looking for an LTR, no looking for a notch, no vetting for a good mom etc... Just you going out in the company of women and enjoying your life. You can't stay stuck in anger. It will keep you from accomplishing goals. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneUh huh, so you think that as a guy who can't handle the truth, and can't manage his women, you're going to be successful at keeping that family intact? Your standard woman will eat you alive buddy. The more you want to be a dad, the more your ex will leverage that against you. You'll get some scraps of time and pay the mother tons of money to alienate your kid from you. Sack up. You don't have the stones for this game and you're spitting the pill back out. You're somewhere in between denial and … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 13 | Eyebrows or no eyebrows?Rock no eyebrows for a while. When you get used to it, it won't be a big deal to anyone else. I would only try something else if you get really bad responses for an extended period of time. I don't think 99% of the people on earth are going to give a shit. Own your life with pride bro! | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Did my ex get bored/lost attraction or simply freaked out about the future?It's all speculation. So we probably couldn't answer you about what happened. The excuses or explanations she gave sounded like nonsense..... At the end of the day, you two aren't together and it sounded like the chemistry was a bit off. Move on to a few more women. If one doesn't work out, keep going. Don't stop to pick it apart. What's done is done and onto something better. When you're dating try to keep things binary. Yes I like this or no I don't like it and it won't continue. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 10:45 AM |
| 1 | I've been happily single most my life, but at age 25 being single suddenly feels lonely and unusual.Sorry about that bro, this got lost in the reddit muck. So to answer that: No. We aren't into polyamorous relationships. I did that for about 9 ish years with a few girls. Most people suck at poly or use it as a last ditch Hail Mary to fill voids in a broken relationship. Don't let people sell you bullshit. Everyone gets jealous. That shit isn't sustainable in my opinion. At least from what I've seen. So my girl when we first met told me she was Bi and she wanted someone to teach her how to pick… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 09:55 AM |
| 1 | How can i avoid becoming somewhat mysogonistic because of my Bi polar mum and grandmother.So the vast majority of sleepwalking people will call you a misogynist if you don't blindly agree with women. Some will call you a misogynist if you put yourself first. Other people will call you a misogynist if you're proud to be a man. And the mist extreme will say you're a misogynist simply because you were born a man. Fuck em. I lived with a BPD woman for a decade. Counselors and the like would tell me. Oh she may hit you or scream at you, she may cheat on you, she may steal from you. Be und… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl keeps asking n countI totally agree with you bro. I would just say what I have to say and not give a fuck. What I was trying to get across to OP is frame control. He has a boundary he wants to set and this is a good opportunity to practice how to do that. It's a powerful skill to know. Most guys aren't good with issuing boundaries or telling a girl to act right. You can thank 3rd wave feminist ideology for that mess. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Pre-selection backfiring?Probably just some really insecure women bro. The young ones are usually naive. Keep gaming. Who gives a fuck? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Pre-selection backfiring?Are you trying too hard to demonstrate pre-selection? It should be covert not overt. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneWhat the hell are you going on about? This sounds like a bluepilled fantasy. Another woe is me, convince me to not to give up post. If you don't do the work, that's cool. That's a few more women for guys who will not come here with a weak ass attitude looking for sympathy. You're not a special snowflake. Man up. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually like “Dad bods”?Dad bods aren't ideal. They scream beta bux. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | trp overthinking and affecting ltrYour frame is dog shit. Your insecurities are huge. Pretty much every girl you interact with has had at least one or two dick's in her mouth and guys nutting inside her. That's just nature. You can cry like a little bitch about it, but it won't change anything. Are you lifting? Do you have any options besides this girl? She won't leave if she knows that if she strays she is easily replaced by another better girl. Your scarcity mentality is running the show. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:20 PM |
| 25 | Girl keeps asking n countYou've got to find your balls on this one. You need to tell her that it's time to act right. "My notch count is a few. I don't keep tally and I don't really care. We are dropping this. I'm going to move forward. Do you want to do that with me". If she starts wandering say sternly ,"It's a yes or no question. I'm moving on from this. Are you coming with me"? You can't spend the rest of your life being grilled about your past. It's bullshit. You are who you are in the moment. She can accept it or … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 0 | How to let plate know I only want her for sex without breaking it?If only they had something in the sidebar about handling ,"the talk"...... | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceWhy would you want to be with someone you don't trust at all? That's an impasse bro. Find a trustworthy girl. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Need adviceTrust your gut. That's all I'll say. Every time I've ignored my gut, shit went sideways. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Breaking the hypergamyLook at what you just wrote. You're not breaking shit right now bro. You already have this hypothetical or real girl up on a pedestal. She is the prize and you are beneath her. Do you see the problem? Who is Paris Hilton? She's a trashy spoiled daddy's girl. She hasn't accomplished shit. Maybe just gave head a guy with a night vision camera? Big whoop. Does that make her pussy better than any of the other billions of women out there? She only has value and power if you give her that. She is just… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Should we spin needy girls? What to do when she's needy?Most girls are needy bro. If you get them off good, they get dick whipped (the opposite of pussy whipped). When they are very needy, they get jealous easily and are hard to get rid of. Let her be needy. Every time she complains or asks for more withdraw attention. Make her happy for what she gets. If it gets too much, tell her you feel smothered and need you space. She will cry a lot. Make sure you bail if you are in her physical presence. If you are on your phone mute her notifications. She wil… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:58 PM |
| -4 | invited a girl out for drinks. she replied "how bout dinner and drinks!" smhI say don't be a sperg. If you never deviate from what you've been doing you won't adapt. Part of getting good with dating and social interactions is being able to thrive in any conditions. I like grabbing food because sometimes I want something specific to eat. Where I used to live there was a crumpet shop. So I could do a coffee And a crumpet for about 4 bucks. It doesn't have to be steak and lobster. So you've never had a first date lay or an all day date? Try some different shit. You kids se… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?Sorry for causing a therapy bill my guy. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Formerly depressed Red Pillers, how did you battle depression?Absolutely! Probably the happiest I've ever been. I worked extremely hard on myself to get where I am. The two keys for me were to be completely brazen with my honesty. I don't give a fuck, I never lie anymore. And to build a tribe. You need a support system. These are people that understand you and you feel are valuable. Those will get rid of anxiety and depression real quick. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Formerly depressed Red Pillers, how did you battle depression?That's great bro! Also think about things that make you feel free and alive. Depression for me felt like I was trapped and pretty soon hopeless. I started to go to rowdy concerts and that made me feel alive. And I got a motorcycle and would just pick a direction and drive. Those made me feel alive and free. Direct your focus into enjoyment. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Why do some modern women think they don't have to contribute to a relationship?Simps and cucks give them the pussy pass. They are used to being the dominant one in the interaction. Submissive or weak men will bend over backwards while they use them and are also bored to tears and unsatisfied. That's where someone like me or one of my RP brothers comes along. I once had a total submissive friend. Don't ask me the draw of that..... That's how he identified. He started simping for this fem domme. She was a gold digger and treated him like shit. She never actually dominated hi… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 40 | Is TRP a common knowledge among “popular” guys?No. Some popular guys have zero clue why they are popular. When I was younger in highschool I was very popular, but I was a totally pussy when it came to making moves. They don't share a correlation. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 07:55 AM |
| 4 | Bar and club logistics for plate or potential ONS?Too far for that kind of shit. The only way she would agree is if your game is rock solid or she lives near you. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Starting to understand my “aura” more.Moral of the story: Drinking isn't helping you. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 3 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?Naw bro, Piss protocol says: the proper place to piss on a girl is the bathtub. That way if she gargles it and it drips out of her mouth you don't have to clean up the carpet or something. Then when she's drank her fill, you turn the showerhead on an hose her filthy-ho self off. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:12 AM |
| 29 | I've been happily single most my life, but at age 25 being single suddenly feels lonely and unusual.I started with the PUA community long before all of this shit went down. I read the rational male first. Then I started trolling TRP. The community as a whole saved me. I never cut out porn. I just started making my own and having a lot of sex. Then the porn just lost it's luster. I got a job in robotics in the aerospace industry. Now I have my own business. CNC machinist is the way to go. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | FWB shows massive disrespectWhen you get good at bitch management, it really is quick and easy. It's a learning curve. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Vetting a potential LTRWe don't know shit about you. Answer your own questions. What are your values? What do you want? What are your boundaries? Do you have goals and a mission? Are you monogamous or want something more open? How strong is your game and frame? Are you good at pleasing women in bed? If you can't answer this by yourself, you sir are not ready for an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Do I Have Any Potential??Bro. You aren't even drinking age. You haven't wasted any potential. You are aware of trp and can use that to forge a fantastic life. But first stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have nothing but potential and time you're not close to your peak and at your age, societies expectations of you are simple. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:01 AM |
| 230 | I've been happily single most my life, but at age 25 being single suddenly feels lonely and unusual.Look here bro. Give the other friends and aquatintences about 5 years then re-asses. I would say the vast majority, if not all will be in the process of divorce, divorce raped, starting over or in a dead bedroom. You have a chance to improve yourself, spin plates and actually develop standards for a sustainable LTR. Or just have fun being a playboy. I was baby trapped and then miserable from about 26 to 32. I finally got out. I was zeroed out. I had to rebuild everything. I had no home, massive … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?Yeah for sure. Two of them worked for plastic surgeons. One was an er nurse and the other was a nurse practitioner I think she worked in geriatrics. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Making only 500 an hour at 17, get a second job?Do you live at home? If that's the case, just chill. If you want your own place, the best time to look for a new job is when you already have one. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | What kind of girls am I compatible with based on my attractiveness, realistically?Well said. I totally agree! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Is the city you spend your 20s in really all that important?I've moved all over the place. I agree that each place and experience molds you. I don't think you have your shit figured out in your 20's. By your 30's you start getting to know yourself better and you're less inexperienced. I don't think the city is that important. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?All sorts of electrolytes... 🤣 | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 20 | Will a girl cheat with a guy who has lower SMV then her BF?It makes you Mr. Right Now and a terrible friend it also means she's a shitty girlfriend with poor impulse control. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 10 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?Thanks bro. Just keeping it real. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 17 | Will a girl cheat with a guy who has lower SMV then her BF?You're a fucking idiot! Women don't date or fuck down. She was probably lonely and you just torched your friendship. Good job. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:24 AM |
| 35 | What have been your experiences dating nurses?Bro I don't know where you are getting this nurses gain weight type of shit. I dated 5 different nurses when I was living in Seattle. All of them were really hot and a bit crazy. ALL of the nurses I dated were absolute freaks and ridiculously good in bed. They were super kinky. One actually liked to get pissed on and had her own porn page for that on a few websites. Nurses make great plates or FWB's. They might be a bit too slutty to bring home to the family though. I'm not going to tell my fami… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | The ultimate alphaSo fucking cringey.... | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | For the very sexually active RP men. Do you get tested for HSV1 -2?I get tested for everything about every 3 months. My girl gets cold sores but hasn't had a outbreak in years. I may or may not get them . Every time I get tested I'm ok. I also raw dogged at least 2 chicks with hsv-2. They were on top of it so probably more responsible because they told me up front. I've dodged a few bullets, but I think it's better to know. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleTheir wellbeing is their responsibility. You only owe it to yourself to make your life better. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | The ultimate alphaDumb. You're not talking about game or frame, you're just betabux for a glorified prostitute. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Formerly depressed Red Pillers, how did you battle depression?The best way always is to go to the gym and take your woes out on the iron. It's the best antidepressant to around. Work out hard AF! | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 3 | I told a plate I was sleeping with other womenPlates break. Find a few more. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Are there any good websites or books for information about cohabitation with a woman?You can read the sidebar and the RP recommended books. The only way to cohabitate well with a woman is if your game and frame are on point. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Crazy Women ; BlackmailingCall her bluff. Tell her to send the pictures and you'll be happy to tell everyone stories of what a ho she is. She will have to explain how she got the pictures. Don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 37 | how do you guys deal with the female ego?Ignore it. That's all. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | TRP teaches that men hit our sexual peak @ 36. These days with OF being a factor is that still true?I don't believe in a peak. I did well in my 30's and continue to do better now in my 40's. It's all about applying and bettering yourself. It seems like everyone wants a magic answer. I'm 36 now, where is muh wohmanz? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Confused & terrified with my sexuality, any thoughts?Bro, first off calm the fuck down. You're spinning yourself out of control. Sexual preference has nothing to do with hormones. There are gay guys with plenty of testosterone. If you have more estrogen than other guys, it won't turn you gay. You have performance anxiety. It will only get better over time but you have to keep trying. Enjoy doing dirty shit. Third is own your shit. So you like jerking off with other dudes? So what. It doesn't mean shit. It wasn't an adult molesting you. It was you … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Cheated On My LTR. Feeling HorribleBro here's the thing. You may not be ready or even built for a monogamous LTR. Nothing wrong with that. You will get shamed and you'll be on the receiving end of some butthurt from some girls. But it really helps to be honest with yourself, then everyone else after that. You really have to look at the fact that you weren't completely sold on this girl. 6 months of exclusivity isn't that long. Something didn't keep you from straying. You can't unfuck someone. So here you are. The last time I actu… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:26 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend said she missed me after acting kinda rudeFuck that! She can either hop on board or fuck right off. If she doesn't value your time or attention when you give it, then give it to another bitch. Don't reward her bad behavior with attention. If she says: "Sensational, I miss you" And you know she's not acting right, put her ass on ice. Respond with ,"K". Then soft next for a day or two. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women love you?It's a tricky question. What's your definition of love? Some of the bigger narcissistic personality see love as someone sacrificing for their partner. And more submissive partners prove their live by sacrificing themselves. That's how you get abusers and victims. Simps think that their pandering and effeminate actions are a sign of love. Some people don't see love without respect. Some cultures have different words for different types of love. I think the thought of women being incapable of love… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:44 AM |
| 0 | reacting to ltr denying sexual advancesYes you've got all of it right. The suckass part is following through with that. I'm gonna be honest bro, it's much easier to just start spinning plates rather than holding out for a slow change in her shitty sex drive. I personally would demote her ass to plate for giving you a weak ass sex life. And start your own soft harem. Make her work hard AF to regain her title. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Night game opener rejection making me demoralized, what do?The less you give a shit the more successful you'll be. That's just the way it works. It sounds strange but It's true. Focus on going out to have fun. Who gives a fuck if you crash and burn a few times? You should be also talking to everyone. Guys included. It will make you appear like a leader. Make a tribe instead of just picking up ho's. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | It feels like my personality is in conflict with how red pill says to beI would say at first I felt like a jaded asshole. Then when I started being more bold and got a handle on my life, I can now say I'm authentic. Some people will say you're an asshole because they can't handle the brutal truth. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 7 | It feels like my personality is in conflict with how red pill says to beI would say at first I felt like a jaded asshole. Then when I started being more bold and got a handle on my life, I can now say I'm authentic. Some people will say you're an asshole because they can't handle the brutal truth. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 12:03 AM |
| 11 | Just lost my virginity at 22.If I sat some random person who had never played piano before and asked the to play me some great concerto do you think they would be able to do that? It's your first time bro. I didn't know what the fuck I was doing the first time. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 16 | I’m fucking miserable. I’ve lost almost all motivation for life, i literally dug myself into a whole.Nice victim puke bro. No one feels sorry for you. You're being a moody teenager. Get your ass to the gym and start lifting kid. You're life hasn't even started yet. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 9 | I fucked with no protection at first date, how much am I fucked up?Bro you got the herpeggonnasyphilAIDS! And you're a father! So, congrats on being a dad. Raise your kids right and tell them to always use a condom. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | It feels like my personality is in conflict with how red pill says to beRejection isnt a big deal. You'll learn that quickly. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 4 | It feels like my personality is in conflict with how red pill says to beWell when you want to start, the sidebar will be here. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | pissed and feel no remorseYou've got a long tough road ahead of you bro. I'm just being honest. Every girl is going to put you through this. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | pissed and feel no remorseDoes it matter? Almost every chick you will get with will have a past and probably massive notch count? This one is really low. But do what makes you feel ok. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | pissed and feel no remorseThat's just the truth of it all. Spin more plates. The truth will piss you off at first. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 6 | pissed and feel no remorseNot much to say bro. It's obvious that you are insecure and immature. You've got to fix those weaknesses and live in reality. Women will have a past. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 24 | How do I handle a girl saying she sees a future with me?This is really pathetic. You don't have a real relationship at all. Go out and meet girls in real life. This is all fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 19 | It feels like my personality is in conflict with how red pill says to beYeah bro. You might need a few more years and a lot of heartache and disappointment before you're ready for all this. If you're not interested in sex or vetting for a LTR, you should remain celibate. In order to have a successful life and a good LTR, you'll need to put in the work. Continue just the way you are. You'll come back after you get stepped on and fucked over. I wish life was rainbows and sunshine. It just isn't. It's a lesson you have to learn by experience. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Source of trauma?Sounds like you need to stop worrying about others and focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 4 | Bumble match asks me the reason to visit my city. Should I be vague or be straighforward and say it's to fuck?Tell her that you want to show her _____ (something really interesting). It could be something in your apartment or in the town. Then go, escalate and bring her to your place. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 09:32 AM |
| 3 | debating killing myselfYou aren't your job. And why are you typing weird? Have you taken something? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP preach non-monogamy if quality women want monogamous men oftentimesI just realized that I would rather lay the brutal truth down to shock a girl than to lie to get pussy. Have you ever said something so bold that a girls jaw drops? And then she gets the tingles because no other guy has talked like that to her? That's one thing that gives me power. Lying to get pussy is ok. But corrupting some innocent catholic girl is very savory! 😏 | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP preach non-monogamy if quality women want monogamous men oftentimesThere's a lot of women who's views don't align with mine. I like loud music, slutty women, motorcycles, lifting, playing guitar and going out to talk to everyone. Some girls aren't down with that so we don't vibe well. My level of excitement is high energy. You spin plates to use as a tool. Giving your commitment to the first girl you meet is completely foolish. Don't buy anything sight unseen. What final type of relationship you have is yours to choose bro. Some guys here are married, some have… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 12:54 AM |
| 11 | 1 year since breakup, can’t get over her.Start lifting heavy. And keep up your search for women. Don't just go for a quick kill. I think you need a few FWB's instead of just plates. Go out and have fun and make connections. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | When a fat chick invites you over telling you she wants to get laid?Parroting again weak. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | When a fat chick invites you over telling you she wants to get laid?It's another excuse to not handle your shit and shift blame to masturbation. Correlation doesn't equal causation. That's the placebo effect. Your argument is weak. And your insults are pathetic when all you can do is parrot me. Keep drinking the cool aid chump.... | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | When a fat chick invites you over telling you she wants to get laid?You completely missed my point. The point was that celibacy didn't work for those priests. The fact that they're pedophiles is just because they are fucked up. Just like Ted Bundy was fucked up. Ted Bundy was NOT a normal dude. The fuck are you talking about? I've watched porn my entire life and never thought about cutting a bitch up. Don't come to me trying to sell your snake oil bullshit. I'm not in the no fap cult. Every single guy that comes on here with no fap always has issues and is unhap… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Important vetting questions for hookupsTry the sidebar. There's good info there. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | How would you have handled this?Your frame needs work. You care too much about others opinions. Now if you don't want to be around this girl, next her. She knows exactly what she did wrong. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Trying to regain dominance and make things workBro this is severe oneitis. She isn't interested at all and you've wanted a shit ton of time on her. This is truly pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 13 | When a fat chick invites you over telling you she wants to get laid?Sex is a need for every human being buddy. It's part of a healthy life. Will you die without it? Not directly, but the denial of it will make you sick. Look at catholic priests, their celibacy leads them to a life of gay pedophilia. People get depressed and despondent from lack of intimacy. Incels suck the business end of a shotgun.... If you're doing nofap your problem isn't orgasms, your problem is your priorities and follow through suck. Billions of guys are out busting nuts and still getting… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Update: all you want from me is sexDo you really want this girl calling the shots? And on top of her calling the shots, it something that will make you unhappy... My girls would be absolutely terrified to say something like this to me. Not only would they know I wouldn't say yes, they would be afraid that I would be balls deep in another girl by early evening. Sex with you should be a gift. Time with you is a reward for acting in a way you approve of. You have to steer your ship bro. This girl doesn't see you as a prize if she's … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Why the fuck are guys kneeling?Bro who gives a fuck? If you don't like it don't do it. It's just a custom. Where I come from, every fall the entire city gets together to party and then we burn a giant effigy that's represents all our gloom and woes during the year. It was a strange spectacle to outsiders, yet very normal to me. You're making conspiracies out of dumb shit. Calm your tits buddy. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | I am 29 and she is 45, is this really that big of an age difference?Bro you enjoy pounding your cougars. I was 24/25 years old when I went through that phase. The older ones were more appreciative and just wanted a younger guy. They let you do sick and depraved things with them and aren't shy at all. Just enjoy getting your nut. You'll get a bit older and want younger women. It's all fun. Don't worry about the label, just enjoy your life. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Feminism & self-accountabilityWhat was the question? Or were you just trying to preach to us? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 07:38 AM |
| 44 | disagreeing with a femaleDon't engage in an argument and if she pushes, withdraw time and attention. The first person to get emotional in these situations loses. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveBro..... You fractured your elbow and you wonder why your mood isn't great? C'mon... I wouldn't be in a good mood either. That's not a frame issue. Give yourself a break. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Plate peed after orgasmWhat a waste bro. She should be pissing on my balls after the deed is done.. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Kissing after BJYeah you shouldn't be having sex with girls (oral sex counts too). Very beta. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Mention criminal record for the tingles?Sounds autistic. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 4 | MO after first date fuck?If I like them and want to do that again, I hit them up whenever I feel like it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 4 | What Red Pill resource should I study intensively?You should study the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else struggle with low quality women but find high quality women easy to "get"?Utterly moronic. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Older guys - LTR’s wanting to travel with friends or even aloneFellow older gentleman here. I don't mateguard. If a girl is going to go out and cheat you can't stop her. Forbidding her from going is pretty much going to make you look insecure and ensure that she does go and cuck you. She will lose tingles for a guy who is being a pussy. You can however make yourself a guy not worth cheating on. My girls know that I have no problems pulling a new prospect. I've had girls try to steal me away from my current relationships and arrangements. Dread and preselect… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | How I overcame female nature and hypergamyYou aren't Rollo Tomassi. He wrote a book that changed lives. And you somehow think that you are more knowledgeable than the collection of guys here plus Rollo? Nice snake oil pitch. You really are a scumbag. 🖕 | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | How I overcame female nature and hypergamyYou are abusing a system used to help men out. This isn't a question and doesn't belong on this subreddit. This is not your advertising platform. You really are a true prick. Taking advantage of guys that are struggling for monetary gain. The rest of us do this because we had problems we overcame and really want to help. u/trpcops | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 10:33 AM |
| 18 | Is it possible to be redpilled and not be conservative?Im not conservative or liberal. Im a free thinker in a land of lemmings. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | The Orange PillI'm very satisfied with my relationships. And I'm very happy with the community. I've made great friends and improved my life exponentially. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | The Orange PillNo one has been asking for it. My business is none of yours. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else struggle with low quality women but find high quality women easy to "get"?Why do want drama and bullshit in your life? Stay away from that. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for men to cry...? How in the fuck do I stop drinking every god damn night... I cannot control my alcoholism...Yes seek help like AA or rehab. You aren't any different from the slew of alcoholics out there. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:54 AM |
| 2 | The Orange PillTool... | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:50 AM |
| -1 | Does anyone else struggle with low quality women but find high quality women easy to "get"?Are you huffing gasoline? Where the fuck are you getting this garbage misinformation? Either you're trolling or you're a complete imbecile. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else struggle with low quality women but find high quality women easy to "get"?I don't even know why you're asking this. Why the fuck would you want a low quality woman? "Waiter, please return this steak and lobster. I'll take the soggy shit sandwich on wonder bread". | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Conflicting rush of emotionYou're definitely overthinking this. You're going to go out and look like a fool. Alpha is not a goal to chase. Go out and have fun. If you're stuck in your head about some alpha bullshit, you aren't going to have fun and come off awkward. You aren't some fictitious character. Just be a high quality version of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone thought about friend-zoning a gay person to use for drinks/validation?Did you get this out of a female dating strategy book? Is your game and frame that fucking weak? I think this is a new level of pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:34 AM |
| 9 | What if she has a high body count, but is an exceptionally devoted and trustworthy partner?Thank you for posting this. As a guy that's dated for a very long time, this is the complete truth. Now get ready, you're going to get a slew of pussies and LARPERS flaming this post. So let's just sit back and watch the atomic butthurt, shall we? Truth be told low n-count doesn't mean a girl is a high quality partner. And high n count is just a number. But there's a lot of super insecure guys on this forum that will get their panties in a wad when reading this. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 08:27 PM |
| 16 | What country is the best for leveraging my looks/race/money?AWALT. If your game sucks ass and you can't get women in the place you live, it isn't going to change. First and foremost the best way to leverage anything is work in your mission and lift. You're playing ken and barbie in your head. Knock it off. There's no cheat code. You'll go to south America and some firecracker latina woman will see a Beta bux provider. She's tell you whatever you want to hear for her green card. Then once she's officially here you'll have a one way ticket to cucksville. A… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Why doesnt anybody respect me?Your mindset is one of someone that gets picked on. When you think that you're a bitch, you will communicate that non verbally. There's something about this that makes women despise that type of man and makes men just want to beat the shit out of someone like that. It's like it's an insult to the gender if you will. Work in being more bold. Tell people to fuck off. Practice saying no and stick to your no 💯 of the time. Learn the art of the sift next with your girlfriend. You need to work in your… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Turned 28 a few days ago, heavy introspection triggered a "moment of clarity" that hit me like a truck with the grim reality of my situation. Guidance and advice needed.You put on the defeatist hat quickly didn't you. Your past is your past. Who cares? You can't fix it so you drop it and move forward. You're too skinny. Start lifting heavy as step one. The testosterone will change your mindset. It will bring you out of apathy. You're suffering from pussification. It's time to set aside the fucking anime and live in the real world. You can start watching again once you get your shit handled for right now, you're not living in your world. How I don't know how iso… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 12 | Gf chick not giving inYou're wasting your time with this chick. Why don't you have several options lined up? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Making Her Seek My ValidationAre you ready for the mind-bender? So here's your problem. You're doing the exact same shit that you're trying to avoid doing. By wanting her to seek validation from you, you are seeking validation from her. You are still making this girl the prize. It sounds like you give way too many fucks. I go out with the sole purpose of having fun. If the girl isn't heavily invested, who cares? I still had fun and there are billions of other girls that will gladly bid for my time and attention. Stop caring… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 11:17 AM |
| 9 | Never H*rny on semen RetentionFirst off, if you're not lifting, lift. You need that testosterone. Second, you should be approaching every day. Even if you don't want to. Spin plates. Third, stop doing stupid shit. Your body does things in cycles. If you deny it any sexual build and release, those things are seen as unnecessary and your body shuts them down. 7.5 months is absolutely ridiculous. Not busting nuts doesn't give you superpowers. And the problem isn't the orgasm itself. Most guys that need nofap are either lazy, sc… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Dating Profile: Overly sex driven profile? "Have some nice, bigass arms and wear a sleeveless shirt. Get your dick 75% hard and put on some gym short or sweat pants so the bulge speaks for itself."Sounds autistic AF. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | “Independent woman”Bro. I honestly couldn't give two shits about what any random people on a forum think. Honestly this isn't relevant to anything. Some guys get butthurt. Some don't. There's no general consensus. I focus on my own life and mission. I suggest you do the same and think for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Lack of Sexual Desire / Sex Appeal?You might not agree, but sex is vital for me in a relationship. If you LTR her, you're always going to feel like you're missing out. It sounds like she needs to see a therapist. I don't think you two are compatible sexually bro. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she is always sorry?Are you going to play therapist for the next 5 to 10 years? Do you know how to reverse this sort of damage? Or are you just going to say what everyone has said? That doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she is always sorry?I knew this one girl that was hella crazy. (I have a lot of these crazy chick stories) She had daddy issues and Frankie to much, was a ho etc. One day she asked me to pick her up after her tooth got pulled. I got her back to her place. She got up too quickly and half fainted and list her balance. So she twisted her ankle and fell. At the hospital all she could say was ,"I'm sorry', and sob uncontrollably. Even the doctors got sick if her saying it. Anyways, girls like that are usually severely a… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | changed for a guy that gives her expensive jewelry and gifts. is he a beta?Always go with sprinkles or Oreo cookie crumbles for sure! | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | changed for a guy that gives her expensive jewelry and gifts. is he a beta?Beta bux. Then she will come crawling back a bit later to you for dick. That's just how it works. You'll probably cuck the guy, just so you're prepped for it.. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Accepteble Body CountMarketers first. They try to take this info and monetize it. Then every jackass that's unhappy comes on here and wants to somehow be an alpha with bluepilled goals. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 04:14 AM |
| 8 | Accepteble Body CountBro, how many if these guys that we are answering questions for are ready for an LTR? Most of them aren't spinning any plates. Some can't get a girl, let alone vet for a quality woman. I'm saying you can't teach calculus to elementary school kids. You have to understand and I'm sure you do. That these kids are very bluepilled with a limited skill set. I don't ever advocate for a newb to get into an LTR. They can't handle it yet. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Accepteble Body CountFor sure! It's getting worse on this sub. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Accepteble Body CountAcceptable body count really depends on your confidence. Weaklings and insecure dudes will want the lowest body count possible. LARPERS will tell you that they only date girls that are virgins or have a notch count less than 4 or some horseshit It's your dick. You decide what's acceptable. But also be realistic. Notch counts are very high in just about everyone these days. It honestly doesn't matter as much as some LARPERS and fake alphas let on. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Is it Blue pill to stay with your girl before going into the Naval servicesSure bro, if your fantasy keeps you happy keep it going. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Does TRP encourage men taking solo trips?Who cares what guys on the internet think? What do you want? It doesn't sound like you want to be a walking ATM. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | nudes on dating appsI did read that. No girls are going to send a stranger nudes unless you're paying for them. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 06:51 PM |
| 11 | I became beta and cant break upYou sack up and you break it off. Then you go get someone new. This isn't rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 8 | nudes on dating appsYou start going out and sleeping with women and then when they really like you you can ask them for nudes. Or just go on a porn site. Quit acting like a thirsty autist. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 84 | How to tell my female friends I don't give a shit, and how to respond to further BSLook buddy. Do you like being an emotional tampon? Either sack up and tell them you don't want to hear their bullshit. Or ditch them as friends and spin plates. Where are your guy friends? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Is it Blue pill to stay with your girl before going into the Naval servicesBro it's already over. A LDR isn't a relationship. Get yourself an actual girlfriend. What is this bluepilled advice right here? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Books or other media on how to be better sexuallyYour best way to learn isn't books but actual practice. Every girl is different so one thing might work well on one girl but not on another. Spin plates and try everything. If you read a book it won't give you feedback. Learn how to read cues from the girl you're with at the time. That's the reading you need. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Hard Nexting is tough..I totally Agree. Sometimes the guilt doesn't exactly make sense. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Plate theory - definition and conflictNo that's scarcity mentality bro. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Plate theory - definition and conflictBy saying up front that you're looking for something fun. You're not ready to settle down. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Gf Always Wants to PayWell, more money for me to get gifts I suppose... | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:31 AM |
| 9 | How often are you called “emotionless”This is your answer. I was almost going to type the same thing. Edit: usually when a girl says you're emotionless. That's a good indicator that you are boring or at least getting boring. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Plate theory - definition and conflictYup casual sex only. That's a plate. And I always let my intentions be known up front. Before we even meet up. I don't want to go out on some platonic bullshit. So I don't filter anything. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | What are RP thoughts on PDA?No big deal. Some guys don't mind it. I'll grab my girls ass and makeout in public. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl wants a male friend to join us while we "hang out".Naw, not fucking worth it. It sounds like a weak ass time. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Gf Always Wants to PayMeh, just enjoy it. She's a grown woman. It's her money to spend. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Hard Nexting is tough..I can totally relate. Do you think it's easier to be the guy that gets dumped instead of doing the dumping? I would think that if she dumps you there's not that pleading desperation to keep you around. I know most guys without abundance will cave if she dials up the sex just so she can stay. If it's her decision to end it there's not this sort of reaction. But I dunno... I can only speak from my end and I'm only one guy. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Understanding The Subtle Art of Not Giving a FuckI want to address this from a different angle. So first off, are you a human or just a program? Like a robot. Humans make connections. The idea of this book is outcome independence and mindfulness. It doesn't mean shutting down your life or becoming a robot. The other thing you will find out is if you avoid people, show them nothing but lifeless stoicism and generally a callous demeanor, you're going to lose friends and isolate yourself. After a while people will grow to dispose you and your lif… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 16 | Hard Nexting is tough..I agree with this. I will say that for me, I have an ego thing that gives me bad feelings about a hard next. I truly feel like I'm taking away something awesome from a girl. But she will move on. And you'll get used to it. Sometimes logistics don't align or you just have different values. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Baby voice talkYeah I had a few Babygirl relationships. I didn't like the Daddy Dom/ Babygirl dynamic. At first it was fun, but got annoying. If she's playing the role of ,"little", 24/7, you're going to get tired of it. I prefer more traditional Dom/sub dynamics. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 10:46 AM |
| 20 | Why are the ones who take 1-3 days to message you back the ones who i usually get laid with on the 1 or 2nd dateBro you've got some casual plates. You're on fuckboy status. These girls don't see you as provider guy. Roll with this and keep going. It's a great way to build abundance. I'll give you a term that I use Cushion Harem. A cushion harem is a soft harem of casual yet dependable FWB's and plates. These are the girls that will sleep with you but don't want anything more. This provides a Cushion if things go wrong in your dating life. So your current girlfriend told you she would leave if you bought a… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 10:01 AM |
| 10 | How do you cope with the fact the perfect girl doesn't exist?You sound like a little bitch. Let's live in reality shall we? Are you perfect? No. No one is. That's some Disneyland blue pill bullshit. There's nothing to cope with. You work on yourself. That's it. You learn to enjoy the gifts that life gives you. Adversity is a gift. It gives you strength. Potential is a gift. Experience is a gift. Life is full of amazing wonders and here you are stuck on a fantasy idea. As a man, you spin plates. You date. You have adventures. You take risks and you learn. … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else’s biggest hurdle lack of exposure?You sack up. You ALWAYS approach. IOI's or not. It doesn't matter. A high value confident man will take his shot. Sometimes just having the balls to be that bold and direct will give her the tingles. If you don't approach, that's a fail. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Where would NPD males typically fit on the socio-sexual hierarchy (Alpha, beta, delta, etc.)Are you trying to date an NPD man? Or are you asking for yourself? Either way, most of us aren't psychologists or have dealt with NPD men. So I have no idea how that relates to sexual strategy. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Day hangs with plate?So you hang with this chick? Holy shit bro! You might end up with a FWB! The horror!!! It's all over..... Let me tell you how fucking retarded this sub is getting. Everyone want to be alpha so fucking bad that they shut down the rest of their life. As far as I know, it a guarantee that you won't be around one day. 6 feet under or ashes. Do you want people to say.,"this guy was great! He really knew how to live. Or do you want to have some random redditers say ,"you did this thing and it was alph… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 12:36 AM |
| 45 | Is anyone else’s biggest hurdle lack of exposure?It sounds like you're hamstering. Once you start putting limitations in yourself, you'll go out looking for things that confirm that bias instead of looking for opportunities. The problem is your focused on outcome instead of not giving a fuck. You should be out having fun. If you find a cute girl approach. If you don't, whatever. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 15 | Should I ever ask a plate "what are you looking for?"You're not breaking hearts or doing anything immoral by waiting for her to ask the question and giving her the truth. Not all relationships are going to be even. Sometimes one person is way more into their partner than the other one. This is normal. You'll eventually find someone worthy of an LTR just enjoy the ride right now. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:42 PM |
| 15 | I almost don't want to communicate with girls anymore?This for sure! | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 56 | Should I ever ask a plate "what are you looking for?"Bro WTF? She's supposed to give you ,"the talk", not the other way around. Get your head out of your ass. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl i slept with just got hired at my place of business.All I'm saying is that it isn't a problem unless you want it to be one. Don't stress. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Does TRP teach emotional intelligence ?It teaches strategy but doesn't really go into depth. Some of the other posters on here gave some great reads for you. I find that there's massive value and power in social intelligence. Most of the social intelligence we teach would be under the umbrella of frame control. The problem you see here is a lot of really dumb guys thinking that being a robot and a complete douchebag is Alpha. So they look like social retards. I always recommend looking at Charisma on Command on YouTube. Those are all… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Tinder convo adviceI agree. Go with what works. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop looking at ass at gymWe all do it bro. Ain't no thing.... | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Girl i slept with just got hired at my place of business.This isn't shit. It's like a new girl getting mad over your having sex with ex from 5 years ago. It the past and you didn't do anything wrong. Don't apologize or justify something that you didn't make a mistake on. It makes you look weak and unsure. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Did I make the right decision to go NC?This a very severe case if oneitis and hamstering. You dropped all your plates to promote her after barely knowing her and not vetting her. That's a huge mistake. Why aren't you listening to your gut? She's moving fast and getting clingy. That means you aren't leading. She's calling all the shots. You shouldn't emote to her. And ,"taking a break", is usually subtle code for ,"I'm going to go fuck some else". So of course she got butthurt. You've got to line up more plates. Your frame is super we… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Tinder convo adviceIt's not particularly clever, but it's right down to business and flirty. I approve.👍 | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Roman testosterone supportWe aren't doctors. As a rule of thumb if you take something and it makes you feel like shit, don't take it anymore... Jesus man... | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Can’t you just “fake” pre-selection/social proof on Insta and Tinder? Hear me out...Try it and see what happens. What do you have to lose? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 06:56 AM |
| 3 | worthy for an LTR ?Body count doesn't amount to shit. It will go up if you don't stick around. I wouldn't sweat that shit. Make this binary. Do you want and LTR with this girl? Yes or no. If yes, do it. It's your call. Even if it doesn't work out you'll learn from it. Most of these things aren't that difficult. Just go with your gut. It doesn't sound at all bad to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?I'm skeptical of all of the people on those forums. Just today a guy on this forum claimed he was in the top 1% of men in the world and he would never get cheated on or divorced. That's larping at it finest. Like a multi billionaire has time to troll other dudes on reddit. 🙄 I like to own my shit. Am I successful? Yes. Enough to keep me happy. Am I good with women? Yes enough to have abundance. Am I a world leader? No Am I a bodybuilder? No but I'm in really good shape. I'm not perfect, I'm not … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 06:49 AM |
| 3 | keeping it highly sexual with a ltrSounds good. You do you. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What is a good reason for getting marry?Uh huh. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What is a good reason for getting marry?Smart huh? So you're telling me that with over a 50% failure rate you feel that marriage is a great investment? So sell me on it... What do you get out of marriage that makes it worth that risk? It's easy to stand on a soapbox and make shit up. I'm sure you're the most alpha Chad that's ever walked the earth. With an IQ that surpasses everyone right? So smart guy, what makes marriage a great investment? What do all the guys here stand to gain by following your advice? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?Sounds like you haven't fixed your core issues. That's why you're stuck. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 4 | What is a good reason for getting marry?K. I'm sure that the other 50% of people that stay married are extremely faithful and super happy. Also, I'm betting you're the special snowflake that is the poster boy for marriage. Good for you bro. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | What is a good reason for getting marry?Bro go watch ,"Marriage Story", or go to family court for a day. My brother went schizophrenic after losing everything. My two cousins drank themselves to death. My coworker put a shotgun to his face. And my girls cousin is still in the mental ward and rehab. I don't exaggerate. Did you know that when you get divorced you have to pay for your lawyer and your soon to be ex wife's lawyer? You pay someone to fuck you over. Ask around on this forum. Do you really think this is a joke? It's not. It r… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:33 PM |
| 21 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?As far as I know, the guys here have made it, or are in the process of making it. I have yet to see one guy that actually applies himself not make it. Go to foreveralone if you want to see whiny losers that don't try. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 32 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?I would be very direct about the post. Just simply ask her.,"What's the story about this guy's jacket"? Don't give any reaction. If she starts to squirm,she fucked up. If she acts like it isn't shit, I wouldn't sweat it but keep an eye on her. The honest truth is you shouldn't mateguard, but you can demote if she's pulling bullshit. Exclusivity goes both ways so you can revoke her card. I would be careful with your frame. This girl may be hot, but that doesn't give her a free pass. She needs to … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 06:27 PM |
| 68 | What is a good reason for getting marry?You get married if you like having your life ruined or if you're looking for an excuse to jump off a bridge. Maybe you have a fetish for being treated like a piece of shit simply for being a man. Or maybe you're very poor and the girls family is paying you thousands of dollars to get her a green card? If you want to know what it's like to get married, cash out your life savings and light it on fire. Destroy all of your possessions. Smash you balls with a hammer and do something that will put you… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 11:08 AM |
| 11 | keeping it highly sexual with a ltrDon't listen to this ,"limit sex bullshit". That like reaching a plateau lifting, so you just stop. You lose your gains so you can get them back. I'm over 4 years with the same girl. We usually have sex once to twice a day. We might mis one to two days a month but it's always consistent and good. First off, you continue lifting and improving yourself. Stay sexy. Second, continue gaming your girl. Treat her like she's a plate. Game her, rough her up a bit, tell her dirty shit. Third be experiment… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you run “asshole game” to women on Instagram?Jesus .. This is the most autistic shit I've read in a while. There isn't such a thing as ,"asshole game". You made up some retarded shit. No one likes an asshole. Girls like confidence. Showing you're a douchebag is anything but confident. Read the sidebar and stop trying to invent shit. It isn't working and won't work for you. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 07:18 AM |
| 6 | A little annoyed about LTR going away on a trip (not sure why)Keep busy bro. Don't let your mind wander. That's when minds tend to go to shitty places. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 8 | A little annoyed about LTR going away on a trip (not sure why)Sounds like you don't have a mission and your not keeping yourself busy. Are you lifting? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Dating in late 20s / early 30sUnfortunately, there's a lot of low quality women out there. You won't settle for one, but you will need to sort out the duds. The ones that will get you into trouble look really good, but are emotional wrecks when you get to know them. You can't judge a book by its cover. Have you heard of the crazy/hot matrix? It's a funny way to view this, but really true. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?Another special Olympiad that can't understand what he's reading...😒 | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 36 | Hooked up with OF chickHoes are gonna ho. You got your nut. That's what's up. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 5 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?There's nothing wrong with just spinner bf plates until the end of time. If you want an LTR, your game has to be on point, you can't get apathetic and you can't stop gaming your LTR. Guys usually get complacent in an ltr and then the relationship goes to shit. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:28 AM |
| 12 | Broke frame with my LTR?Look here bro, talk is cheap. A few years ago I had a fantastic FWB. She was beyond good in the sack, slutty, experimental, super fucking hot, submissive and understanding. I would have ditched all my other chicks if she wanted an LTR, she was that good. The only problem is she was going to finish college 4 hours away from me. I took a few trips to see her and spend a day or two there, but I knew the distance would fuck things up. And it did. We both found other people, but we still sneak away a… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:25 AM |
| 13 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?Here's your catch 22 for the day. The more you worry you worry about losing frame, the more you actually do lose frame. You give way to many fucks bro. This is a sure sign of scarcity mentality as you're afraid to lose this girl. Now when you get your ltr are you still lifting? Do you keep improving yourself? Are you leading? Do you still game your girl? Are other girls eyeing you in front of her? Are you decisive in your relationship? Your game has to stay on point. You should be having fun and… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 20 | girl wants me to get more emotional and text moreWhy would you let her steer the ship? Continue on as usual. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you gents tell plates you aren't looking for relationship?I was just going to say this. Basic sidebar material. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Urgent advice. Tldr at the bottomYeah any guy can develop oneitis, abundance or not. And oneitis is a cancer. Don't fool yourself. You're hamstering. Oneitis will make you forget your values, make you simp, it will erode your masculinity and shatter your frame. It will also make this girl slowly despise you. She's already got a boyfriend and you're already making her out to be not like the other girls. You're going to do what you want. I will say going there is a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | NauseatedIf you didn't like her then you wouldn't be with her. You sound like you're full of shit. Accept things for the way they are or dump her. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 8 | Urgent advice. Tldr at the bottomSerious oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 07:19 AM |
| 4 | Lied to this girl about being in collegeWhy are you telling girls stupid shit? Just keep your mouth shut going forward. Don't lie just to get a girls attention. That's thirsty AF. Just stop taking about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:29 AM |
| 4 | How to talk to girls?Read the fucking sidebar and then go practice talking to everyone. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:27 AM |
| 10 | Dating in late 20s / early 30sDating vastly improved in my late 20's and 30's. I was red pill aware, more confident, more decisive, better at game, more experimental, lasted longer in bed, more handsome etc... When I was younger I didn't have a clue what the fuck I was doing. It was sad. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Should you go for the kinds of women that want you or the kinds of women you want even if they are not as easy?The time is something you have to schedule into your life. Like I would bring plates to the gym if I wanted to work out. The energy comes if you're excited to sleep with someone new. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 2 | What could I do to be more appealing to partners?Start by striking up conversations with everyone. Go to YouTube and look up Charisma on Command. That's a great channel about social interactions. Start there then apply tools from the sidebar once you get really comfortable talking to anyone. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 14 | Should you go for the kinds of women that want you or the kinds of women you want even if they are not as easy?Yes to both. Take it all. Taste the rainbow. Sample the goods. It's a buffet. Take what you want. Experiment find some new and exciting stuff. Don't put limits on anything. There is no rules that say you can't have both. Spin lots of plates bro. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 3 | What could I do to be more appealing to partners?Work on being social. You won't get very far without social skills. If you don't try, you won't grow. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Follow-up to my previous post(9 weeks ago): At age 37, I am mourning a wasted youth(and life) thanks to inattentive ADHD(initiating action = climbing Mt. Everest). Now what? Burdened with lofty ambition that won't quit, how do I achieve major life goals when I can't even shower regularly?Force yourself to go to gym more Al lift heavy dammit! Sounds like you're in love with being a little bitch. We can't force you to shower and take care of yourself. You have a community of guys that can help, a sidebar of valuable info and you're old enough to take care of yourself. Get off your lazy ass and quit feeling sorry for yourself. You can only move forward right now or decide to be a bitch and live in the past. If you decide to feel sorry for yourself then fuck off. We don't want to he… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 17 | Are parties awkward for anyone elseJust don't go to parties or use it as an opportunity to work on your social skills. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Fellow trp experts, in todays generation i cant find a woman which i would consider high value, should i lower my bar? Or wait for my "unicorn"?Give up on the low body count especially looking for a virgin. That's extreme insecurity speaking. Second is you can't use redpill tactics to achieve blue pill goals. Unicorns do not exist. Keep dating until you find your best option. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Would this still be classified as a beta provider?Don't bullshit and older guy. I know hamstering when I see it bro. You aren't going to find a sugar mama that's a conservative virgin that will submit to you and give you amazing sex. Stop living in blue pill fantasy land. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Plate in relationship with another dude, she wants to leave him for me. I need some advice?Let her leave first before you step in. She ends it before you start anything. Otherwise it's just talk. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What does trp mean?I'm a guy we don't hide anything. Why are you on this subreddit? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 13 | Would this still be classified as a beta provider?Are you asking for yourself in a Disneyland fantasy? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | What does trp mean?It means Trees R' Pretty. Guys love nature. 😉 | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Being called buddyI usually say that when someone says stupid shit. But it may be different with other people. Do you piss people off when you speak? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | New LTR said she wants to see me angry at her, why?You aren't lying bro. TRP on hard mode. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 11 | How do you deal when your woman has a silent chemistry with another guy?Well you definitely are her second choice. The fact that she had the nerve to say that to your face means something. You need to be realistic with yourself. How would a guy like me handle that? I would give her a silent demotion, withdraw time and attention and start spinning other plates. Then when I find amazing chemistry with two or three of them, I would tell her about how amazing the chemistry is and how I'm glad we both have that. Then I would dump her immediately and go ice cold on her. P… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:13 AM |
| 7 | New LTR said she wants to see me angry at her, why?Couple of reasons for you: The first one is she's fucked up. These type of girls think that anger and shit treatment is love or passion. They are used to a certain level of emotional arousal. You can manufacture outrage (picks something you couldn't give a shit about and pretend it's a huge deal breaker). This will give them some drama that they need, scold them, spank them, and otherwise win the fight. These girls are good for plate only. This level of drama isn't sustainable. The second one is… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Why do girls take so long to respond?So you're an orbiter for her attention. That's why she isn't interested. She's already got a guy. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls take so long to respond?That usually means you're saying uninteresting shit. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Why do girls take so long to respond?And bitching is getting you where? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 11 | Why do girls take so long to respond?Well back to the sidebar and get to work on your game and social skills. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls take so long to respond?Ok well then hit up other chicks while you're waiting. Line them up bro. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 9 | Why do girls take so long to respond?Quit being thirsty. You can wait a day. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Is building muscle necessary to gain SMV?Back after my divorce I was homeless and fat. But my game was good. So I slayed despite being raggedy and broke. I just didn't give a fuck. I started working out for me. It helps your mood, increases your testosterone, makes you more assertive and dominant. You're less depressed, happier, feel more successful and have a shit ton of stamina and sex drive. Women will want to touch you and guts will give you respect and props. Even getting a job is easier when you're swole. Lifting is the best thin… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Ltr asked if she could hang with a guy friendAh I should have looked. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Learning gameMost of the PUA stuff is indirect or bar game. It rather antiquated but gives good fundamentals. I would also look into direct game. That's more of my speed. Sasha daygame and David X were some if the first to show me that kind of thing. I like being able to say what I want. Scripted shit can go wrong easily. Look those 2 up on YouTube. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | What’s better for a man? Strength training/powerlifting , mma or natural bodybuilding?I go bodybuilding all the way. I did powerlifting and snapped a tendon and also had two carpal tunnel surgeries. I like looking good. Losing all your gains and functionality of a limb for an injury sucks. I would do MMA if it's something you want to put to use. It really should depend on how much risk you want to take. If I fuck something uo I can ride my motorcycle or play guitar for a while which really sucks. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 32 | Ltr asked if she could hang with a guy friendI would get ready for a branch swing. This is rather suspect. If she brings up the guy again, demote her silently. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | help me figure this outYou've forgotten one simple fact in all of this: You are leading this. This is your train and you are the conductor. It's your job to be fun and interesting. You are going to do fun and interesting things. The girls are invited to hop in board. So for an example: A chump would say ,"What would this girl like to do that I can tag along for and look good"? Then he would take her out to watch Mama Mia number 3000 or whatever the fuck they are at now and suffer through it. Someone like me says," I'm… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I make a power move in front of ex?Terrible idea bro. Your oneitis is super strong. You need to get over that first. This isn't a power move. You're hamstering. This is a lame ass attempt to win this girl back. Go to the gym and lift heavy. Take your pain out on the iron. Then go game every single girl you find appealing. Don't go anywhere near your ex until your oneitis is gone and you have at least 3 good plates. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 2 | How do I use money to get enjoyment out of life?I fucking love my motorcycles! I second this! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:19 AM |
| 3 | How do I use money to get enjoyment out of life?People trade their time and health for money. They want that money to have experiences. Then, they trade the money they have to try to get their health back. This is in the hope that they can buy more time to have experiences. I choose to be rich in experiences rather than monetarily wealthy. Trust me when I say mist people don't have a clue how to live. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:18 AM |
| 3 | You guys out gaming in the field again? Feeling rusty?Good shit Bro! Great tip! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 15 | What are your thoughts that TRP only applies to USA women?Sounds like a bunch of bullshit. I have two friends in the UK that use the sidebar and one friend in Brazil. Oh and two in Canada if that counts. Where are you getting this garbage? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | If you had to give one RP tip what would it be?Nothing will get you further in life than being bold and brutally honest. Those are the two things you use to get whatever you want in life. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Ass HairJust look at it and say ,"no-homo". | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 08:55 AM |
| 23 | Cougar GameBro what the fuck are you on about? First off every place I've lived, when someone is looking for hookups only, or hooked up, that means casual sex. So you hooked up but didn't have sex? What the fuck does that mean. I went through my cougar phase at 25. I was blue pill as fuck. And I was fucking cougars left and right. There is no cougar game. You just have to be young and sling her the D. What is up with that?? Have you been lifting and reading the sidebar? Half of the time the older ladies wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.That's rich kid. Enjoy your trolling. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.Sounds great. Good times kid. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Examples how to start first approach without giving girls free attentions?(in real life)Free attentions? Like it costs you anything. Grow the fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 12 | Why do y’all think people refuse to acknowledge this information?Don't talk about fight club. You aren't going to get understanding people. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.It's sounds like you're a guy that's easily replaced or cucked. You give way too many fucks about your relationship. Work on that ego bro it sound fragile AF. Cheating requires dishonesty. She admitted to her mistake directly to her man. She didn't hide it. That shows respect. She knew it didn't go over well, and yet she told the truth. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.No I'm not kidding. It's comments like this that show when a guy's is lacking in frame. So you're telling me that you are so low value and insecure, that any guy that talks or flirts with your girl make you an insta-cuck? That what you're bringing to the table is so weak she's going to jump ship and onto another dick? That doesn't sound like a prize mentality to me buddy. I don't know how many LTR's you've had. I've had a few. You can't expect to go 3 years and not have a single fuckup. Telling … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 4 | Sick of learning and improvingYeah bro. No one is going to read that. Ask simple questions. From the title and not reading the rest you have two options: Stop improving. Just become a lump of shit Or suck it up life is about learning and improving. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Other opportunitesBro there's women everywhere..... I've met them in line grabbing coffee. At concerts, at the gym, at restaurants, walking in the park, at meetups ect. You can even do online shit like tinder and OKC. Why do you think bars are necessary? They aren't. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Is there women that won't want to submit and be feminine, even if the guy is doing everything right and not being beta?Bro if you're thinking about not being beta, you're probably are very beta. That being said, some chicks have shit attitudes and won't submit to anyone. The either stay single or have a bunch of short shitty flings. I avoid this type of bullshit. No one needs a salty bitch spreading her bad vibes to everyone. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to stop seeing me because we didn't vibe togetherProbably so my guy. Go get your nut elsewhere. There's a whole sea of women out there. This isn't worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t having “good/bad game” dependent on whether the girl is attracted to you or not?The incels and simps are saturating the forum today brother. 😒 | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to stop seeing me because we didn't vibe togetherHe might to work on his tongue game if the rest of the shit is weak. Don't be afraid to get experimental and rough OP. Show her some dirty shit that she can't talk about with anyone. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 03:44 AM |
| 23 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.I think that was very fucked up of her and short sighted. She did however cop to it. I would withdraw some attention not quite a soft next, but just be less enthusiastic about her for a while. See if she steps up her game. If she continues to talk about this guy in front of you and sings his praises, demote and start spinning other plates. It sounds like she was just doing some stupid shit. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Everyone tells me I’m quiet. Every girl I go on a date with tells me I’m hard to read and quiet and emotionless.Exactly bro. I found that brutal honesty has changed my life. I don't ever have to remember what I said to whom and worry about filtering. If you don't know what to say, just say the first thing that comes to mind. Sometimes for me it's really crude. But I get away with it because of the unashamed honesty. My pont was Everytime someone labels you as an introvert, they are calling you a coward. Prove them wrong! | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Everyone tells me I’m quiet. Every girl I go on a date with tells me I’m hard to read and quiet and emotionless.When someone starts to use the label of ,"introvert", I just change that word in my mind to ,"pussy". Because we are just playing semantics games about a guys cowardice. "I need to be approached gently and slowly before we go talk to girls Musicgoon. I'm an introvert". Translation: approach me slowly and gently because I'm a pussy. "I can't be in crowds of more than 5 people. It's because I'm an introvert". Translation: I'm being a pussy right now that wants to be left alone. "Introverts need lo… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | How do I break this never ending cycle?Yup that's obvious. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if sister is gaySo you want to control your family? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 5 | If a girl updates her dating app profile after the first couple dates, but keeps agreeing to meet up, what does that mean?It means she's a regular girl and her hypergamy is working. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if sister is gayThe most surefire way to tell if your sister is gay is either when she comes out to you or she introduced you to her girlfriend. What does this have to do with your self improvement? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I break this never ending cycle?You friend-zone yourself right off the bat. This ensures that you'll get rejection 100 percent of the time. Whare you doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results? Like others have said, you really need to read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | When did you realise that you were Chad?My wise counsel is don't be another sperg. I've been on this forum for seven years. In that time I've seen hundreds if not thousands of guys go after this idea of alpha or Chad and fuck up bigtime. What exactly are your goals? "Becoming Chad", isn't a goal. So what are you working on for yourself and where do you need help? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 09:28 AM |
| 12 | Why I keep going back to being an AFC with my girlfriend?If you were dating multiple women, you wouldn't be so thirsty. When you are feeling needy and clingy. Grab your gym bag and go lift. Take it out on the iron. You're focusing on one girl instead of focusing on your own improvement. She will resent you and bail if you don't shift your focus. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 7 | What is going onStop giving a fuck and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get to the gym and fucking lift. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:47 AM |
| 6 | When did you realise that you were Chad?This question is cringe. Why can't you be yourself instead of larping an imaginary character? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:45 AM |
| 10 | misunderstanding the red pill?Bro making yourself into an asshole means you completely missed the point of all of this by a long shot. This is about being the best you. Not being a phony, bully or dumbass. The guys here that try to be alpha are usually losers or lying. Anyone that tells you to be an asshole truly doesn't understand what the fuck they are doing. I smile, I joke, I text I play on the playground with my kid. I'm successful. Not once did I think ,"is this beta"? Who gives a flying fuck? Your focused on external … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | How to move on when you lost a truly high quality girl?Well at least you realized you fucked up. Now find someone new and don't fuck it up. That is your past and here you are. You learned and now it's time to put that knowledge to use. Continue with therapy and lift. You can't change the past. Focus in now. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:16 AM |
| 3 | How to reconcile nofap with spinning platesYou busy your nut, go down on them and then bust a second nut after a refractory period. Easy fix. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 47 | Plate says I’m too stoic, why?She's impressed. She can't control you. Big pimpin! Keep it up bro! | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | How are we suppose to text following rules like, text fewer than her's, low investment open etc?I totally agree with talking on the phone as well. Texts can be misconstrued or someone will put their own tone on something. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:20 AM |
| 7 | How are we suppose to text following rules like, text fewer than her's, low investment open etc?Dumb... They are guidelines, not hard rules. And some of them are ridiculous. Most guys with or without rules are going to end up looking autistic and blow it. Let me simplify the rules: Don't send unsolicited cock pics. Don't act thirsty or needy. Don't simp. Use full sentences and good grammar (yo I'm trynta smash isn't acceptable) Be decisive And don't act too busy. Women will know when you're full of shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Is it safe to say I’m getting her best?Who gives a fuck? We don't know and you don't know. If she's making you happy and keeping you satisfied, all your doing is wasting your time speculating. What is making you so insecure? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Can’t stop thinking about a girlYou definitely don't want to simp for your oneitis. Bad idea bro. Cut her off. She already did that to you. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you have sex with someone who’s admitted to having a lot of unprotected sex in the past?I agree bro. Honestly I've always been indulgent with this. That's how I ended up with a kid. But anyone that's been there knows that condoms really really suck. You honestly can't feel shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Opinion about girlfriend of 8 months,C'mon bro. You said she was arm candy.... She's not your soulmate and you aren't exactly happy. Instead of writing all this, sack up and next her. It will suck, but you aren't being honest to yourself or her. She's not what you want or need. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good thing to always be busy and have no free time?You're burning the candle at both ends buddy. Your going to reach a burnout point. You'll eventually get very angry or very depressed. I've been there. I agree with the other posters that there has to be balance. People focus on the grind and ignore the details that make life worth living. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Need LTR adviceI can say as an older guy, that every single time I've decided to move in with a monogamous girl has been a mistake. She will think she's got you on lock. Expect the sex to quickly dry up and the demands and complaints to intensify. If you feel like you're missing out now, you'll need to multiply that feeling by ten and you'll understand how stuck you feel. You are young and this most likely won't last. In fact, she's already said it wouldn't. Don't move in with her and demote to FWB. She's dump… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Why are father issues so common with women nowadays?This is the answer. Kudos to you my guy! | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?When this happens, it's a bummer. So you might feel down. I go to the gym all the time, but I would hit it hard if you're bummed. Then start lining up new dates. If you're sleeping with a few new women and lifting you'll get over her really quick. Just dump most of the time and energy saved into bettering yourself and after that, dating new girls. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 11:08 AM |
| 4 | I've been re-listening to No More Mr. Nice Guy. I have a few questions, and things I can hopefully discussShe's not withholding sex. You weren't having sex with her in the first place. She just said no. That's that. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 10:53 AM |
| 6 | I've been re-listening to No More Mr. Nice Guy. I have a few questions, and things I can hopefully discussWhat you're talking about started in the early pua days. Inferior game was one camp and direct game was another. I didn't ever like indirect game. To me it's like these kids on here worried about looking ,"alpha". It's disingenuous. People can tell you're being fake. This isn't for me. I don't have the time or want to memorize routines or remember rules and lines. My personality is more direct. I go bold and honest AF. I like oozing confidence. It's easier for me to pull off. it depends on your … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 10:50 AM |
| 7 | Ive got around 2-3x a week i can dedicate to gym. I want to get fairly big/lean, what are my options?I would just go full body myself. I think you'll see better results than giving each section a split. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Would you have sex with someone who’s admitted to having a lot of unprotected sex in the past?I'm just going to be honest bro. I'm snipped and I have a shit ton of unprotected sex. And honestly about 98% of the time I'm hitting it raw. Not to scare you, but the vast majority of women out there don't use condoms, or even ask. I can't fathom how many kids I would have if I wasn't snipped now. So to answer your question: I would have sex with someone who's admitted to having a lot of unprotected sex in the past. I have had a lot of unprotected sex in the past all the way to the present. And… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | You guys think I can pull a hot missionary or is this a ‘no-go’?Look bro. I don't know how good your game is or anything about her religious boundaries. But as a guy that likes taking risks, I would go for it. I would make sure to go a little more slow and read the vibes. But if you don't pull her you really haven't lost anything. Why not...🤔 I would like to hear how this goes if you decide to go for it. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I need book recommendations that can help me 1. feel like I have a good life and 2. accumulate good memories I can happily look back on.You tell me kid. Have you been able to create good memories this far? It sounds like you wouldn't even be asking the question if that was the case. Memories are made with other people. Going solo just means you had an event. You sound like you seriously need therapy. To make yourself this antisocial isn't healthy. And I don't ever lie to anyone. I am who I am without apology. I'm not a sheep. I behave like myself and I'm relatable. That's part of being fearless is having the guts to be honest. T… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 09:27 AM |
| 3 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?So I know you're new here. The problem that you're running into is a carrot on a stick type of situation. A girl that makes you wait isn't into you bro. She likes the attention. A girl that makes me wait is a girl that loses my attention. You'll learn this as you gain more experience. When you get good at this, you will go from grabbing drinks to her grabbing your cock and inviting herself over to your place. And she won't even object to you raw dogging it on the first night (please don't do thi… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Being ugly is such a problem with womenOh wow, the Klansman Klown is also blackpilled? You are knocking it out of the park today buddy. Check it out OP your bigoted shipment of fail has been delivered. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | I need book recommendations that can help me 1. feel like I have a good life and 2. accumulate good memories I can happily look back on.Yeah it sucked bro. She murdered my two dogs. Not the best time of my life I would say. But that was what brought me to trp. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do I lose attraction when I find out a girl’s been with black men?Aww you poor thing, I hurt your little racist heart. Well congrats on being able to keep trash alive. Tell the other bigots you've got their back big boy. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do I lose attraction when I find out a girl’s been with black men?Isn't that some fantastic trailer trash scholastics? 🤦 Whatever, sounds like a confirmation bias. You can't find anything better to do? Don't you have some hoods and robes to bleach and some cousins to inbreed? Congrats on being retarded! 😉 You can share something in common with your family tree. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Why do I lose attraction when I find out a girl’s been with black men?You definitely have some KKK ideals kicking. You might want to talk to a therapist about that. You are going with all sorts of bullshit stereotypes. Maybe you should hang around more black people instead of making generalizations about them? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 3 | I need book recommendations that can help me 1. feel like I have a good life and 2. accumulate good memories I can happily look back on.Here's what I've noticed after being on this forum for almost 7 years: Most guys will read all the RP materials, all the books, the sidebar and listen to podcast. What they don't do is actually live life for themselves. Not all answers you need will be in a book. Living someone else's truth won't bring you satisfaction. It's like the people that immerse themselves in a video game or TV. When that ends you're back to your real life where you haven't derived satisfaction from anything. You've live… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 8 | Vaginal dischargeThat's happens bro. You just whipping up her juices when you go to pound town. That can get rather frothy, but it's nothing to sweat. You'll see that in porn every once in a while. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Just Curious If It’s Too LateThat shit hasn't gone cold yet. The sex talk would have died. Go bold and have a great fucking time with her. She sounds like she's aching for it! This shit is pretty much on lock. You just have to take it. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 11:13 AM |
| 4 | How to re-plate a girl I just broke up with?Trust me, you'll find chemistry that is different but just as strong or even stronger. This will happen several times in your life. That's how you'll feel abundance and get the DGAF attitude. Keep looking for new prospects. Don't stop. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 11:05 AM |
| 4 | What are some ways I can create an aura of 'leave me alone'That's a psychiatrist not a therapist. You should look into CBT. It's based on frame and frame control. You sound like you have a cluster -b personality. Probably antisocial personality disorder. I don't mince words or sell anyone lies to placate them. So be insulted. It is what it is. The guys in here that want to help will all recommend being more social and working on your social skills and leadership. You're asking the wrong people that question. It's like going to a vegan restaurant and ask… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 11:02 AM |
| 3 | How to re-plate a girl I just broke up with?Yeah. You don't dump her and then get back together over and over again. That will never cure you of your oneitis and you'll turn into a shitty partner for any woman. You ditched her now live with that choice. Get out there and spin plates. You sitting around whining keeps you from spending time improving yourself. Go out and meet some new cool women. You'll thank me once you feel abundance. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:52 AM |
| 8 | What are some ways I can create an aura of 'leave me alone'Walk around with a bit of doo-doo on your upper lip. No one will want to be around you. Or just go live in the woods. Seriously, it sounds like you may need some therapy. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Should I forget her? Could she be fucking someone during summer? She really wants me though. What the fuck should I do?Look bro, you lack abundance and you reek of oneitis. This chapter is over and it was a good run. It ended because if distance not because of you fucking up. This shit sucks, but trust me, do you really think this is the only girl that will be your sex toy and rock your world on command? Fuck no! You haven't tasted the rainbow yet kid. Not until you've had more that two chicks at the same time. You haven't even hit your stride yet. In the near future, when some hot chick is all over you and you'… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:44 AM |
| 15 | What do you think about Coach Red Pill?Look at him.... He's a total douche. He wants to sell you shot you can get for free. Does he seem personable? To me he doesn't. And you know damn good and well he doesn't lift. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Am I Becoming Chad?Keep improving. That's all there is to it. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Plate fucked up her birth control and got pregnantFirst off you need to stay cool. If you lose your shit she will definitely keep the kid out of spite. I would sit down and start talking about finances and logistics. Overwhelm her and keep her hamster going about managing this. Just stay calm and make sure she understands what a monumental life changing undertaking this is. I hate to say it buddy, but as a father you're completely fucked. You really have Zero say in anything. You can be there for your kid. Just know that most women will use the… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:58 AM |
| 3 | How to filter virgins?I prefer the non bleached paper filters. They are more natural. Also don't use tap water for filtering virgins. Try some natural spring water or distilled water. Also make sure you're using certified HEPA filters if you're also filtering virgin air. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:50 AM |
| 15 | Is there any exemptions from the " she is never yours, it's only your turn" ?The only way to have a successful relationship is to work on being the best you. If you want it, you have to put in the work. There's no way around it. You have to learn game. You have to have solid frame control. You have to be exciting and romantic with your girl. So you're going to need to spin plates and learn female nature. You're also going to have to lift. There isn't any chance to skip or go around that. You also have to be realistic. Not every person is LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Where do you guys meet women?Bro there's a thing called ,"google", use it and stop making excuses. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Likelihood of pregnancy from precum?Well congrats. You fucked up. And you list your shit which means your frame crumbled. She will probably keep the kids out of spite. You're now going to find out how truly unfair the legal system is. You've got another 18 years of hell. Get a DNA test for sure after she has the kid. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 28 | Still stuck in the phase where I think the girl I like will come to me, and I wont have to approach her. How did you get rid of this thinking? How do you game girls in conservative countries?Stop being submissive and acting like a woman. It's your job to purse and lead. You're making excuses for being scared. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What’s the appeal of a devils theeesome?I thought it was only gay if you're the catcher and not the pitcher? RememberThe Golden Rule | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Chatted up by PTI totally get that. You did say she was one of the hottest trainers there. All in all, she's just another girl. Proceed as normal. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Chatted up by PTHere's the thing bro. Women are women. Whatever scale you use to rate them amounts to two things: jack and shit. Just treat her like every other girl. Now to answer the other part of your question, you need to first grow some balls. You do not wait for her to approach you that's not her job. That's pure cowardice and will take you immediately to the friend zone. She will take it like you aren't interested. That's very insulting to a woman. So instead of asking people on the internet for permissi… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 11 | If she invites me over and I don’t bang, Do my chances diminish each time I see her?Usually it one and done bro. If she's throwing out IOI's that are blatantly obvious you need to make a move. Otherwise you're forever in the friend zone. You either go bold or go home to have sad sex with yourself after you fail to make moves. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 11:15 AM |
| 12 | Why does trp lean more towards powerlifting or getting heavy numbers in the big lifts instead of bodybuildingPowerlifting is about breaking through physical barriers. Bodybuilding is for aesthetics. I don't lift for ego. You can fuck yourself up for life. I focus on form I go for size first and foremost. Strength will increase but I want to do it safely. Snap a tendon and you'll know how awful a sports injury can be. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Older woman?I went through a cougAr phase at 25 I liked older women. They got right to business and knew what they were doing. Just enjoy it bro. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:31 AM |
| 5 | Older woman?Lose not loose bro. Something is lost not loost. And yes I'm being a grammar n@zi. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:30 AM |
| 16 | Plate is mad because I left her in the house when she refused to wake up.Withdraw attention for two or three days. Small soft next for bad behavior. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:21 AM |
| 8 | Is my girlfriend LTR material?That some superficial shit right there. Does she make you happy and do you see a future with her? The rest is all stupid bullshit that isn't a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:13 AM |
| 5 | Cheating my LTR; PostNut Clarity gets super realLoose is not tight. Lose is something you can't find or don't have anymore. Think of it this way something is lost not loost. And yes the lying will chip away at you. You need to either get used to the shitty feeling or just be honest. Decide what makes you happier. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are women fat and ugly?Don't go hogging.... | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is the largest reason there’s a sex recession.Sounds nice. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on going for a 2nd date 2 days after the 1st?You can set up a second date right after the first. If you want to do it, then do it. Waiting is some really stupid shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Why do girls dislike it when you have options?This is your answer. Most guys don't have options. And secretly deep down she will really like that. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Texting after the first date...Always text when you want to. Don't wait. That shit is really fucking dumb. You want to look interested and interesting in the beginning. If you act aloof she will think you're uninterested. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Do sluts/damaged women ever think about their future? How can they ever find a man to have kids and settle down with if they behave the way that they do?They don't need to think about their future. There's an endless line of simps ready for them. They will ride that train forever. Most of them will find a chump to put a ring on it. This is where someone like yours truly comes along, they will keep another guy like me as their side piece. They cuck their man, fall in love with their current affair partner. The affair partner bails, but not before they decide to leave their primary relationship. The government will officially reward her for this. … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Is being direct and demanding towards women an Alpha trait?Trying to be Alpha and faking it is an extremely beta trait. Direct is good. Demanding is an absolute disaster. A good leader isn't a tyrant. Leaders communicate and persuade, not demand. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Any facially average guys here spinning plates?Yes a metric shit ton of guys every day with average stats spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Loosing my hearing slowly, scared I will loose social communicationI have a friend that does quite well with these tiny hearing aids. He used to suck with women because they thought he was stupid because he could hear what they were saying. Now he slays. BTW: Loose and lose are two different words. Loose is the opposite of tight. And lose is when something is lost.if you lose your hearing make sure your writing is on point. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Looking for orbiters or unicorn?You didn't even kiss and you expect sex? Naw kid, she doesnt like you. Move on to someone else. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:22 PM |
| -4 | Why?What you don't like Snapchat puppy or bunny filters? And you really don't care for pictures of people food or drinks? Madness! Anyways, it sucks that no one is interacting with each other. It's making all of us weird. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Should I get worried that my GF is following other guys on IG she matched with on dating apps?Um, awesome ....? Can't lie, That's some grade a hamstering right there..... | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 3 | How to always be one step ahead of others in any situation? [Question]Bro really? Billionaire.... Get the fuck outta here. No one on here is a billionaire. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 35 | Should I get worried that my GF is following other guys on IG she matched with on dating apps?What the hell? You've got to be joking.... Next her! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Plate doesn't want me to come overRead the whole thing. Its a whole tool set for any thing that comes up with dating. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Plate doesn't want me to come overIt's usually in the top right in asktrp under community info. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?So you're going to live your life in apology instead of checking in on her when she's not doing great? Cheating on her and Covid have nothing to do with each other. Be a decent human being. Or just move on and leave her alone. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?You aren't Alpha. Stop with this shit. I checked up on plates when they had Covid. They both were nurses. If you come off uncaring, they will quickly move on to someone who gives a shit. Try being human for once instead of faking your way through life. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | She's not available for me but is for her other guy.You refused to go to her place to have sex. And you wonder why she isn't interested? Don't get it twisted, she doesn't see you as alpha at all. That was a pussy move. You blew it. Reread the sidebar and work on your game. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:59 PM |
| 17 | Question for the LTR guysAlways keep improving yourself. Don't get lazy. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | 62 year old plate ignoring me, am i applying too much “pressure”?!Bro, drink more water. Maybe get one of those gallon jugs? You're going to have to start pissing on everything to mark your territory. Knock some of the cobwebs off her old body then give her the ,"R-Kelly". | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | When to reach out after getting the numberDon't listen to bullshit. The idea of waiting a certain number of days is absolutely retarded. I've been at this shit for a long time. If you pretend to be busy you will look like a loser and she will know. If you wait too long, she will think you're a cowardly little bitch and move on to the dozens of guys interested in her. Be a strong man. If you feel like reaching out, do it whenever you want to. If you play dumb games like the ,"I iz duh alfuh", you're going to get terrible results. You are… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Plate doesn't want me to come overLook here bro, I'm going to try to be nice. This post is a dumpster fire. Reread the entire sidebar. You don't have a plate. She's an acquaintance. You have to be having sex to call her a plate. And 2 months is way too long to be talking without moving forward. You get a number and set up a date. Escalate as far as it can go. Second, stop this oneitits shit. She's not LTR material. You aren't sleeping with multiple women and you don't know this girl intimately. That's a mess. Back to the drawing… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Is this girl a virgin?Who fucking cares? If you're having fun, continue to do so. If you aren't enjoying yourself, find someone you will enjoy being with. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | whats been going off with my game these past few days?I was just going to say this. Instagram is for girls to get attention. That's a weak cop out instead of getting a number. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:00 AM |
| 20 | Is marriage a good idea in 2021?Or just ask guys like me that have been married. Divorce and custody is worse than most can imagine. A lot of guys choose to end their lives over it. That's no joke. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What now?It's time to go. She's trying to bully you to pick a fight. She's looking to get angry enough at you to justify leaving. Get out of that shit relationship. It's run its course. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:53 AM |
| 2 | LTR giving me silent treatment, trying new ways to deal with it. Advice?Sure, being a total doormat is a great strategy for life. Add an apology for that. Good on you buddy! Keep that passive lifestyle alive. Someone needs to set the standard of what weak looks like. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do I feel wierd?You're owning your shit. That makes me proud! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | LTR giving me silent treatment, trying new ways to deal with it. Advice?Where are you getting this shit? He said LTR not marriage. And you're talking about simping and apologizing to a girl that blatantly disrespects you. That's shit advice bro. Ask any guy here: If your girlfriend disrespects you, should you apologize? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 05:29 AM |
| 5 | Why do I feel wierd?Awww! I'm flattered. 😂 Even running game on another guy. That's always going for it. You sir, win! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you live in a society thats against you?Learn to keep your mouth shut. Work on yourself and make yourself happy. Only talk about this shit to masculine guy friends that would understand. You have to understand that society creates these problems to make money. That's it. A man makes money. His girlfriend or wife makes his miserable or cheats. If they have a kid, he pays thousands in legal fees and lawyers for everyone. Just to simply see his kid. If he has no kids, he pays Alimony or Palimony. Or maybe both. All this conflict is used … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Want to upgrade my plate but I'm confused about her story and action.You are going to have to find out for yourself. If you are high value enough and fuck her good, she won't branch swing. Are you working on making yourself hard to replace? You've got to constantly be improving and gaming her in an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:31 AM |
| 7 | Why do I feel wierd?Do you get tingles in your sack when you think of dudes? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | DEAD Serious Post: I feel very uncomfortable about my own ass after squatting. Am I the only one?Jesus man! Start lifting heavy and work your upper body. You're not prepping yourself to be a prison bottom... WTF? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | LTR giving me silent treatment, trying new ways to deal with it. Advice?This is the weakest blue pill advice I've read all weekend. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | LTR giving me silent treatment, trying new ways to deal with it. Advice?Find a new place, stop arguing with someone who's abusive and next her ASAP. She doesn't respect you. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Ldr got fatThat's not a relationship. So your imaginary girlfriend got chubby? Go out and get a real relationship and stop with this over investment. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | She walked back to my place, then leave?Sounds like you just didn't understand what happened and she didn't like that at all. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Is gaming/fucking average to below average chicks, when starting out "beating a dead horse"?No. It's a good idea to start with. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | She walked back to my place, then leave?She had her period bro... C'mon she probably started bleeding worse and needed to go. This is common sense....🤦 | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | How do people maintain LTRs?You don't have a choice. You want to have a healthy relationship, you need to plate women, learn game and abundance. An LTR is game on hard mode. Otherwise you will get cucked and dumped. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:32 PM |
| 0 | What does the black pill get right & wrong?The black pill is the antithesis of self improvement. It's a crab bucket mentality and loser fuel. If you're already reading about black pill shit, you're well on your way to becoming the lowest value version of yourself. Save yourself from reading that shit and just fully commit to a miserable life. Take a hammer to your dick, you're not going to need or use it again. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 6 | How often do you initiate contact with plates?You care too much. Live your life and schedule and do things when you want to do them. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Vetting for LTR- Previous Sexual PartnersNeeding to know a notch count is a sure sign of insecurity. If you have to ask the question, you aren't strong enough to handle the real answer. You'll get some bullshit and she will know that you're very insecure. Spin more plates and work on your abundance. You're not ready for an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Seeking advice on How to beat hook-up stigma and what to do in my case: Indian StudentYou aren't out getting laid because this whole post is about what other people think. That's bluepilled AF. Girls will share a high value guy. In fact, they may get competitive. If a guy has options, girls see that as a good thing, even if they say something else. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 10:36 AM |
| 4 | Have you guys noticed more success from cold approaches than online dating apps?Look bro. Any guy that loves women, going out and spinning plates will utilize all the tools at his disposal. Get your profile up on a few OLD sites. And talk to girls in and out of your social circle. Why would you do just one? Try cold approach and if you know someone in their crowd approach from that angle. Utilize every way to get this done. I personally love the game. It's the art of getting good at all of these. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys ask your gf/plate about her sexual health?Tell her ,"hey let's go get tested". If she asks why: "for transparency". She can't say no without looking suspect. If she pries further or resists, pressure flip ,"I like being honest. Don't you"? And there you go. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | I started developing feelings for a plate so stopped seeing her, now I feel regret, does this happen to you guys?I would agree that you didn't play it bad. Most of the girls that bitch about their dad and ex usually do so because they don't know how to keep a man around. It's best to just call it fun and go looking. Honestly, even if this is slight oneitis, you can still go out and game other chicks. Pretty soon you find not one, but a few options that will make you even more excited to be with. Getting over oneitis gets you closer to abundance quicker than just dating. Ditch her and go for the buffet of h… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Letting your intentions known immediately vs Just letting things play out?Letting things play out is a pussy move. Sack up. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth pursuing women on the wrong side of the wall?Did you somehow lose your ability to say no? Post wall women are still fun. No one says you need to wife them up or anything. Keep it casual and if you don't want an LTR, don't get pressured into one. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:29 AM |
| 11 | “I’m not ready”"I'm not ready for you". She's not interested bro. She's stringing you along for validation. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | When should I call her?Just be a man and text her whenever you feel like it. And don't worry about the outcome. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 05:53 AM |
| 2 | How to react in these situations?Yeah it sounds lame he it's not calibrated right. Don't reward bad behavior. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 02:36 AM |
| 3 | How to react in these situations?You answer to her and DEER. You shouldn't fear her wrath or her getting upset. She's wearing the pants in this dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | How to react in these situations?Damn bro, she sounds like the dominant one in the relationship. Disrespecting you and calling all the shots. You need to work on that. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Questioning realityWomen aren't men. They are attracted to more than looks. It's a small portion of everything. The most important aspect of getting women is Frame and Game.when I was really fat I pulled some super hot girls. And a few ok ones. But most of those guys probably have confidence or good social skills. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 6 | How to react in these situations?You let it go. If you mateguard, she will branch swing. My biggest suggestion is if she isn't acting right, withdraw attention. If she goes to talk to some guy for five minutes, that five minutes you gave to talk to another girl. Strike up a conversation with a cute girl. It will cause dread. She should be introducing you as her boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Any metal heads here? What do you listen to at the gym?Great Question bro! I listen to Wage War a lot. That shit gets me pumped. I like the newer monuments with Chris Baretto. I also listen to Of Mice and Men, Defy. And Meshuggah Koloss. I have many more. But those are my top ones for getting amped up. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Can you recover after fucking up?We don't know. You gave no details at all. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Can you recover after fucking up?What? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Can we have polls on here?Did you read the rules? You're going to get banned bro.. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 5 | I don’t know what the fuck to doOof! | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Is It Good/Bad If a Girl Wants to go Multiple Rounds in a Night?If someone cooked you a meal that tasted like shit, would you go for seconds? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | What have you had to sacrifice in your red pill journey?This! My guy! Preach the truth! | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Anyone seriously considered having multiple wives?Having one wife sucks donkey balls two would be worse. It exponentially sucks from there. Spin plates and be happy. More wives = more chances of getting fucked over in court and more drama. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | I always hear the advice "Don't be available" but how do you reconcile that with the "Propinquity Effect"?The bad thing about this sub is guys take the route of trying to be super alpha. And they come off like they're on the spectrum. Here's what that means. Don't rearrange your life for a date and don't put all your emotional energy into someone you're just meeting. It doesn't mean fake unavailability. You will look like a total doofus if you do that. Always keep yourself busy, but if you don't have anything better to do, don't fake it. Women will be able to tell. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Third date no sexI would agree to this. If she's bobbing on your knob.keep going. You might need a bit more kino and some pillow talk with her. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:35 AM |
| 25 | Would you give up part of your youth for wealth?Fuck no! That's not living. I made a shit ton of money working in aerospace, but had zero time to enjoy anything. I wasted a decade. You can always make more money, you can't get your youth or time back. Anything that makes you sacrifice your freedom and life for money isn't worth it. Think of a different way to get money. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 06:14 AM |
| 9 | How do you get past that empathetic feeling bad about leaving women on "read" or other things?Here's your problem you are acting aloof. Most guys suck at acting. And most women will pick up on your bullshit. You're playing a stupid game and now wondering why it's getting tiring. You aren't going to get some sort of alpha badge or something Being ,"aloof", doesn't mean being antisocial and being passive aggressive. That's just some serious misunderstanding of how this works. It's not giving a shit about outcome and being bold and honest. You kids need to stop with this ,"I'm alpha", garba… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't reciprocate my cutesy shit.I've been on here for 7 years. So absolutely no success with anything. I can see a true alpha in you. So alpha in fact that you can act beta and get a girlfriend huh? How may times have you gone out and slept with this girl again? | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get matched with so many single moms on online dating sites?Women have a dual mating strategy. AF/BB it's both not one or the other. That's why you have so may providers that get cucked by Chad. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Girl doesn't reciprocate my cutesy shit.Ok then. Sounds like you've figured it out. I guess this one girl is special and not like the other 3.5 billion. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Girl doesn't reciprocate my cutesy shit.You absolutely have to be sexual first. You cannot be cutesty at all until the relationship is very solid. Girls don't want cutesy. That really cringey. Go finish reading the sidebar and the rational male. Your frame of mind is still conditioned and very blue pill. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Girl doesn't reciprocate my cutesy shit.Go read the sidebar and tell me where it says to do cutesy feminine shit? She's not reciprocating because that's not a turn on. It's submissive and will push her right towards a guy that is more dominant. Think about that garbage movie ,"50 shades of grey". Does that movie depict cutesy shit? Does James bond send out hearts to his women? Do you see any dating coaches telling you to get her a greeting card and a teddy bear to get laid? Just fucking stop. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Can’t inspire lust, any tips? (No Blackpillers please)Sounds like an excuse to me my friend. Lift was one part of the total equation not all of it. And stop making excuses was another. Plenty of comprehension right there.... | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl doesn't reciprocate my cutesy shit.Why are you acting like a cuck? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Can’t inspire lust, any tips? (No Blackpillers please)See number 3. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Dating a 31 (I’m 30) what to do?Read the sidebar about ,"the talk". | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Can’t inspire lust, any tips? (No Blackpillers please)C'mon bro. Either you didn't actually read the sidebar or you haven't put it into action. Lift. You need to start there. Work on your social skills that will get you everywhere. Stop making excuses and don't complain. No one gives a shit. Date multiple women. This one isn't doing it for you. You don't sound inspired. So stop wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | existential questionSounds like a big ol' dog turd of a statement. It's some defeatist shit. You don't need wealth or this highest SMV to get a girl. These are average women. There are millions out there. Some guys on this sub act like women only go out with super ripped multi millionaires. It's absolutely stupid. I was fat and homeless in the past. Did I have trouble getting dates? Hell no. If you aren't getting any bites I would suspect it's because your frame is awful. Especially if you're regurgitating this neg… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 9 | Why do I get matched with so many single moms on online dating sites?Single moms are everywhere nowadays. They get a decent guy and decide they can do better. Then they treat the guy like shit until he bails. They divorce rape him. Other guys see this and don't want to be the next victim. Plus, LTR's and marriage are a dangerous game with no gain. Have you ever heard of palimony? The legal system for men is absolutely fucked! Guys are getting smarter. There's no gain to raising someone else's kid. You get attached, the moms get entitled, and they branch swing and… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 16 | I hate having to ignore.Dont ignore. Use your voice. Be very direct: "I don't do drama". "This is the way I want it" "I'm going with or without you" "Act right" "I'm taking you home" "I'm going for a walk/drive alone" "I'm giving you time to think about your actions" "We will discuss this when you're ready to have a mature conversation" "I'm not going to do that" "I don't like that" And my all time favorite: "no". I tend to be very direct about what I'm thinking, what I want and what I like as well. I care. I just don'… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:47 AM |
| 12 | Is DM-ing a girl creepy?Pretty creepy and thirsty bro. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with a psycho?She's either frigid, stringing you along for attention, or you're solidly in the friend zone. Why haven't you moved on? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 5 | I was halfway through my cut and thought I was good enough to reinstall Tinder. Suffered blow to morale. How to get back on track?Shirtless selfies turn most girls off. They think it's a thirst trap. Wear tight fitting clothes that show your physique and post other pictures of you doing interesting shit and hanging out with puppies or kids. There are also other OLD apps that aren't as fucking shallow. Try them until you find the one that suits you. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Tension HeadachesIt's usually a mixture of dehydration and strain to your back muscles and traps. Take a very warm shower and stay hydrated after your workouts. I've found for me that sleeping with a firm neck pillow helps quite a bit. I would look into massage or active release therapy. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Is Spinning Plates An Aspect Of Self-Development?Love the comment bro 😂 | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Is Spinning Plates An Aspect Of Self-Development?You're using plates as an excuse. No one said or forced you to consume too much alcohol or backslide in your responsibilities to yourself. Take a better look at your mental state. Why do you need to drink alcohol around women? Is that a glimpse into a crack in your frame? Why can't you get shit going after a date? I can go out with a plate, drag her to the gym, have sex and get up at a decent time. I'm steering the ship bro. Allow me to be a bit critical. You're young. Most of the guys unpluggin… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 23 | Are most "open relationships" bullshit?Bro an open ldr is utter bullshit. That just a nice way to say that those two aren't dating anymore. I'm going to give my perspective and opinion from personal life experience. I live in a fucked up city. It's filled with people that are lemmings. I'm sure you know the type, not even liberal, but crossed over to absolutely insane and unrealistic ideals. There are a lot of polyamorous people here. Now in my experience. The vast majority of them use open relationships as a fix to a truly dysfuncti… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Had to schedule a date for the weekend to work with both our schedules. How to go about maintaining interest before the date?Sounds good enough bro. You might lack abundance if you're worried about maintaining interest. So if you schedule a date 5 days out and she doesn't text you at least 1 hello, do you think that's a good sign? Keep a few options around. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 21 | How do you guys deal with periods of life where you are doing what needs to be done but you feel fucking exhausted and entering a depression of sorts?Do you have a mission? What do you want for your life? Most people put their nose to the grindstone and don't have a reason for it. I've seen a lot of guys do that. The bros: "Hey Musicgoon I've been working insane hours and saving so I can have a lot of money". Me: "Fuck yeah bro! Get that paper! And then what are you going to do with it"? I wait anxiously for an answer that seems cool and I just get a blank stare and awkward silence. Most guys trade in their time for money and hope money will … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 10:35 AM |
| 16 | Most redpill responses to girls giving compliments like “you’re absolutely gorgeous” on dating apps?"Thank you". | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 08:15 AM |
| 4 | Giving up too earlyBro there's only 7 days in a week. Just saying... You're addicted to the game. I've been there. Slow down. It's that simple. You scheduled time to approach, mow make it a goal to follow through. Once you have a few girls riding the D you will regain interest in the outcome. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 27 | Should I withhold sex from my LTR?Bro, she is away for 15 hours. I would be Burnt the fuck out too and miserable. I don't think she's unhappy with you. That work situation sucks ass. An unfortunately you are suffering along side of her. I seriously doubt she has time to branch swing much less fuck anyone else. I worked in Aerospace several years ago. We used to do 14 hour days. I hated it. I didn't have time to smile and I was never horny. It was soul crushing. Don't withhold sex. I would shrug it off like it's not shit and go t… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Girls just leave it up to men to pick them up.Yup. It's up to you to steer the ship. And you need to be decisive an interesting. Never let anyone control your life or decisions. If the responsibility all falls on you, then you always have the final say on what you are going to do with your life. Don't ever hand that over to anyone. That's your power. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Fear of revenge when soft/hard nexting girls?Just expect it bro. Most women don't want you to walk away unless you're completely destroyed. Ghost block and delete them from all social media. If your shit gets fucked up, like keying your car, call the cops they will ask you if you've had a recent breakup. Make sure you have insurance for your vehicle or your home. Most of the time their revenge will be petty, but you never know when someone will go psycho. Know that is she's crazy enough to do that kind of stuff, you dodged a bullet by next… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 3 | A hard one...I can see your dilemma. My girlfriend is bi. We have our own set of rules she can explore that side of herself with me involved. And she is involved in some capacity with me and other women. We share well. I don't do double standards. That would make me leave. And she knows with absolute certainty that I would replace her almost immediately. Now it seems like your girlfriend isn't coming from a place of scarcity and doesn't have that fear of losing you. The thing is when you make a deal on a rel… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Frame control and How to deal with women who have perceived higher value than yourself ?Guy that are insecure give (the stupid 1 to 10) value to justify not approaching. She's out of my league They use it to justify her bad behavior she's used to getting her way, I mean, she's a 9. They use the numbering system to not work on themselves There are so many 8's 9's and 10's out there and I'm a 4. I'm genetically inferior! I'm deformed! Wahhhh! I'm going to take the black pill! Status trackers and numbers are fucking excuses. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 10:15 AM |
| 39 | Frame control and How to deal with women who have perceived higher value than yourself ?Higher value.. ppppppft! Please kid... The only reason she has higher value than you is because you gave her higher value. You made that up in your head without really knowing her well. We call that ,"putting her on a pedestal". Knock it off. You might as well hand her your balls. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 25 | Is it even worth attempting to cold approach 9's and 10's when you don't massively have your shit together yet?Always approach. This numbering system is made to weed out weaklings. If you think she's a 10 approach. If you think she's a 6 approach. If she's slightly approachable, approach. Hell, even approach women that you aren't going to date to practice being social. At the end of the day an arbitrary numbering system is the dumbest system on the face of the planet. It's not universal and doesn't account for quality. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 3 | I'm dull and it's taking its toll on me +lonelinessI come from the land of introverts. And honestly it's taken its toll on me. A lot of guys don't want to try to put effort or risk any sort of rejection. So what's a great way to do that? Labels! "Oh,I don't talk to people. I'm an introvert". "Be patient with me and approach me delicately. I'm an introvert". "I tend to stay at home. I'm an introvert". "Introverts tend to stay away from conflict. So don't ask them for their opinion or call them out on their behavior" Bla bla bla. It all excuses fo… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with the fact that my ex is living a far better life?Bro, no one wants to post up all the bad shit that happens day to day. I had an ex that was a really bad alcoholic. I dumped her over and over. I'll be honest, they say don't dig through the trash. She was the only one I did that for. It wasn't worth it in the long run, but honestly the sex was amazing! Anyways she would get into a relationship with a new guy, post shit all over her social media about how this was the love of her life and sing his praises. I knew her better than that. She was a … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl said I looked like a player, best response/ is that a good or bad thing?That's a really good thing! They see you as high value and someone who could get other women easily. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | What's the point in meeting for a walk or drinks or some other bullshit if it's almost pure SMV related?You sound salty AF. Seriously who cares how you do your dates? Do whatever works for you. We aren't dating these women. If it works, good. If it doesn't, try something else. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Been told I’m a terrible texter but the complete opposite face to face.This is your only answer. Always text for logistics only. If you do this you'll have zero problems. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Gaining power backBro you caved in an epic fashion. They might as well call you ,"Carlsbad Caverns". You simped fucking hard and totally lost your frame. This situation isn't something where you can get your frame back. You've gotta move on. You look weak and she's going to roll with that from now on. Her emotional terrorism was rewarded for treating your whole group like garbage. You can save your group image by nexting her. I would bet that she thinks you are a pushover. Show her your valuable qualities by gett… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Should you tell your plate that you are going out with a guy friend or be vague about it?She's a fucking plate. Does she have you on a leash or something? She's not in a relationship with you. You never run anything by a plate. To put it into perspective: I live with a girlfriend. We do a lot of shit together. But when I want to go out, I just go. I don't ask for her permission or explain or defend it. And if I want her to go I take her with or tell her I would like her to meet me. You're a grown ass man and a plate isn't your mom. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Is that a shit test?A shit test is usually a passive aggressive insult about you. You just exchanged numbers. You're looking into this too much. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | how to deal with an argument.That's exactly what you do. You change the subject. Don't even speak about it. The thing is the soft next needs to be immediate. So go about your business for now. If she gets abusive say ,"I don't do drama". Initiate the soft next immediately and leave the conversation or area immediately. When you come back if she tries to bitch at you for it respect that again ,"I don't do drama". And extend the soft next for a few days. She will get the pattern. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with an argument.Bro that's blatant disrespect. Give her a soft next for at least a week or more. No contact. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | how to deal with an argument.You have to give details bro. You basically said ,"Some shit happened and I didn't like it". Wtf are we supposed to do with that? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I being played?Sounds like she's not interested. I would just game some other girls. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 22 | She saw me with another girl, then DM’s meWho cares? Tell her to tell her family whatever. It doesn't matter. You're broken up. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls leave when you imply that you are pleased by her?They don't leave. They are happy that they've pleased me. And I return the favor.😏 | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 3 | How to find out what someone is insecure about?Your time is better spent building yourself up instead of breaking someone down. In other words, don't attack first. That makes you look emotionally weak. If someone goes out of their way to bully you or stomp on you, you hit back with everything you've got. So you hitting first is like going to a park and sucker punching an old man sitting on a bench. You're going to look like a little bitch. Usually when an accuser is blaming you for something. That is their insecurity. Like the biggest homoph… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 59 | How do you handle ultimatums?An ultimatum is the ultimate expression of powerlessness. You have to understand that you have such a severe upper hand that this is all she can resort to is a petty threat. So as long as you don't give in you have a few options: A. Ignore it. Hit her up later with a completely different subject like it didn't happen. B. Take your time to have a good laugh, watch her meltdown and hit her up later like it didn't happen. C. Call her bluff. Take away her power right then and there. I had a habit of… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | How effective is Redpill relationship advice when it comes to marriage?Do you see a moderator flair? No. So tell me where you you found out this nonsense. Back up your assertation. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s considered an overdose of the redpill and how do I avoid it ?I wouldn't call it an overdose, but a lot of guys that come here are looking for a formula. They think that they need to be alpha and chase that title. They don't improve themselves , they just dial up the stupidity and try to be an asshole. They do the dumbest shit and can't seem to understand why they have no success. Basically clueless guys that take things too literal. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:34 AM |
| 4 | How effective is Redpill relationship advice when it comes to marriage?That sub isn't moderated by women. What the fuck are you spewing bro? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | I bought a Yamaha R6, I don’t feel compelled to ride the fucking this...?Ride it or sell it. Sack up bro. I ride my motorcycles rain or shine. It's a lifestyle. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:23 AM |
| 13 | Can being too assertive make people despise youYou have to be assertive when it comes to matters about you. Stating boundaries, going after what you want, defending your position with logic ect. When working in a group, you need diplomacy. A good leader knows when to talk and when to listen. Steer the ship, but listen to other viewpoints and parrot back what someone says. It builds rapport to show someone that their voice is being heard. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Is it weak/beta to feel scared of marriage even though the marriage laws in my country are pro men?Why are you even thinking about marriage when it sounds like you don't want it? I don't want a professional boxer to punch me in the balls and therefore, I don't bother to think about it. I also wouldn't put myself in situations where that could happen. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:14 AM |
| 5 | When you show a girl affection they leaveWow..... Good luck to you bro. Your reading comprehension needs a bunch of work. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:51 AM |
| 29 | When you show a girl affection they leaveListen here buddy. Relationships are about showing affection. If you've got some kind of stupid ,"I iz duh alfuh. I has noe feelings". You are dead wrong. Slap yourself for being dense. Women like to feel like they are wanted by a high value man. You know what being afraid of affection makes girls think? It makes them think you don't like them. They don't like rejection. No one does. And for every girl that you don't show affection to, there are a line of other guys that are happy to give her al… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | When's a good time to text after hooking up?Whenever you want to. Waiting make you look like an idiot. Don't fake abundance when you aren't spinning multiple plates it will show. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What lead to your "tipping point" and caused you to realize you need to do something with your life?I read one or two sentences. And all it was was negative bullshit. No one needs to read a novel of victim puke. Stop doing that. It's a dick move. First toss out all that negative shit. It's not fixable. Learn from it and move on. It's a turd. You don't need to protect it or give it your time it's a fucking turd. Now here's the question that made me change: If your younger self could travel in time and see you how you are right now, how would he feel? Would he be proud, impressed, happy.....? Or… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 17 | I want to have sex with women but asa I see vagina I am disgusted.Bro, I know a gay guy that used to sleep with all sorts of women to tell the world he wasn't gay. He said vagina was gross as well. Well guess what? He's now out and full on gay. He every few years will sleep with a chick. But he's mostly about dudes. I don't mean that in a negative way. I'm just saying you need to be honest with yourself. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 18 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?I don't know what you're talking about. There's a bunch of good looking women everywhere. Yeah you have your unfortunate looking ones, but that's in any location or culture. Sounds like you're in the anger phase and have some confirmation bias going. Develop a mission and work on your anger issues. I imagine that anger is coming through and tainting your interactions. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 11:43 AM |
| 8 | I reject girls who shows interest because I feel like I'm too ugly to be worthy of them.You need to remind yourself that a woman isn't a man. You're probably saying ,"Yeah no shit Musicgoon". However your actions and thoughts say that you forgot that. Men have visual attractions. Women aren't like that. They have some attraction to looks, but without social skills, confidence, personality and passion. Looks won't even get you through a single date. Women look for many factors to determine attractiveness. When I was fat and homeless I did quite well. So stop thinking that women are … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Showing off Alpha?Sounds like you've got this all figured out. Good luck with your alpha act. I hope you find happiness. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend tried smoking while with gay friendThis is really dumb. You're going to dump a girl over trying a cigarette? Good luck to you bro. Your standards are complete nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Showing off Alpha?Alpha is a placeholder term. Striving to be alpha is the exact opposite of alpha behavior. It shows cowardice to not be yourself and a serious a lack of individuality. People will pick up on this and see you as a tryhard. And showing off will repulse people and further make you hated. Stop with the alpha shit. You're going to make yourself frustrated and neurotic chasing after a title. Most of the guys on this sub are larping. No one that reads or answers questions on this sub is a millionaire o… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Will girls pull back if they realize you aren't looking to LTR?You have to ask yourself what you want and are your comfortable being honest? Most guys will sell a bunch of bullshit to girls and in the end look like cowards and liars. If you're not looking for an LTR, have some balls and own that. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:42 AM |
| 11 | Girls online with no social media presenceSome people are more private than others. It really doesn't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Can someone explain this 6’0 vs 5’11 meme and fixation on 6 feet? Is this somehow the new cut off height?This is honestly the best answer you'll get. I'm 5'11" and never had complaints. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 15 | I'd rather jerk off than go out and have sex, how to change that?Sex is about finding a connection with someone. It's not about just an orgasm. You should really work on your social skills. If you can't enjoy spending time with a girl, sex isn't going to bring you satisfaction. In that case, just stick with masturbating. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Does balding at a young age basically destroy your chances with women?No I have at least 10 good friends that are bald and slay. You can destroy your chances with women with your attitude about it. You will see that a lot on here. Guys literally want to be unsuccessful and use balding as their go to answer. Honestly it's makes almost zero difference in picking up women. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 10:26 AM |
| 7 | I realised I am Purple Pill what do I do with current options?I don't understand what you're asking. If you don't want to simp, don't simp. If you don't want to buy them shit for doing absolutely nothing, don't buy them anything. It's your life, time and money bro. Take things in the direction you want to go. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 23 | Can't get over LTR's past.Look I get it bro. Every guy on here is a super alpha male right? They all have a soft harem of 19 year old virgins that are submissive and amazing in bed. And that's all we have time for because of our six to seven figure incomes. We here spend the majority of our time at the gym where we all look like bodybuilders with 8% body fat. Totally realistic right? So you feel like it's scarcity to be realistic about female nature? Sounds like you've got this all figured out. Go out and change the worl… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I just turned 23. What do you do when you feel lost?I started from scratch after getting zeroed out at 34. I was homeless, divorced, and overweight. My freedom was Soo sweet! The rest was just untapped potential and things I can work on. You're still very young. Some people spend their whole lives not able to know what to do with themselves. I suggest you start lifting for your mental and physical health. Then build a tribe. My home town was very good with community. If you or someone was broke the others would pitch in what they could to help. L… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys meet women?Out in the real world. I just talk to everyone. Then there's school activities. Sex parties. Online dating. Concerts... Just hit up every venue. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How long do your casual relationships usually last?There's no set time for this. I have two on and off again FWB's that have lasted about 4 years. They don't want committment, just to go out and have fun and sex. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 50 | Can't get over LTR's past.You're going to be hard pressed to find a girl that hasn't slept with several people. We all have a past. Some LARPERS will tell you to look for a virgin. Good luck with that. How does she treat you? It sounds like everything is good except for your own insecurities. She can't take back her past. So are you going to look for your unicorn or just accept the fact that no one you're going to have relationship with is going to be perfect? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Girl comes over to my place for drinks then starts talking about ex trauma, wtf gives?You are officially in the orbiter friend Zone. she's not attracted to you. You spent too much time talking and didn't escalate. You need to read the cues better. Sounds like you really crepes her out. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 8 | how can I get a thicker longer penis?Punch it and rub chili pepper on it. It will get very inflamed and swollen. Definitely thicker because of the inflammation. And you can also put weights on it and dangle them. It will get longer and skinny. You'll have massive ED, but a decent flaccid length. 👍 | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?Yup it's even stranger that my girl is hella Jewish. Racist, confused and hypocritical. 😆 | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?What do you mean bro? It was a stupid fuckup. Played how? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 10 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?The account got flagged for hate speech by an auto filter. I made a typo. "Like", was the work I meant but I accidently used a K in front instead of an L. So it was taken as an anti-semetic slur. Permabanned. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 07:46 AM |
| 24 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?No, your attitude and social skills matter more. If you are unconfident and socially awkward, low body fat won't do anything. Women base their attraction on more than just looks. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | What kind of dudes do Italian American women go for?They go for guys that are high SMV. Usually guys that are confident, healthy, flirt, good leaders, decisive, bold and dress and look good. Lift and practice game. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How Do Y'all Get Girls' Bestfriends?You read the sidebar and impliment the tools we give you. And you understand that there isn't a difference between gaming a stranger or a girl you know. You use the same tools and strategies. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:20 AM |
| 30 | Wishing plate good luck?Bro you don't need to be an inhuman asshole. Wish her luck and quit overthinking everything. Most guys here aren't alpha. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you 80/20 effectively?Bro you really need to stop. This alpha 20% is a crock of shit. Work on yourself. Do you really think that guys that are successful with regular women are in the top 20% of 3.5 billion guys? Stop chasing the title of alpha and work on yourself. Being a tough guy or a robot will make you look like an antisocial moron in almost every single social circle. The problem with RP content is that new guys don't use all the tools to create a custom approach. They think it's a formula. Work on you and you… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Am I a failure? I am pretty sure I am failure.Look here bro. You are choosing to be a lost cause. That is you telling yourself that story. I've seen it hundreds of times here. People decide that's their Identity and then do anything and everything withing their power to keep that identity. They will destroy friendships, destroy their health and body, argue with people that care and do things to ensure failure. You have to be honest with yourself. Do you really want that. It sounds from this post like you're setting that up for your story an… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Question on soft-nextingNo verbal warnings. The whole idea is to get her to reflect on her actions. Do some soul searching. Most of the time she's knows exactly what she did wrong. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Help me become less terrible at sexBro depending on the Esther test can last 5 to 7 days before it tapers off. If you do 200 mg of test cypionate on Monday you'll still be horny enough to fuck a cinderblock dry on a Friday. It lasts a long time unless you mean TNE. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | is that a shit test?She sounds like an idiot. And not everything is a shit test. Don't stoop to her level of stupidity. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Men’s biological imperative is to spread seed. Does a vasectomy reduce your power base?It sure didn't for me.wherecare you getting this info from? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 05:43 PM |
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