So i was out with friends this weekend. We went to a techno club and it was a nice evening. We enjoyed ourselves, took some drugs and just had a good evening.

So there was this girl, lets call her Anna, HB 9 for me,i met her when we stood in a group of four(me, another guy, this girl and another girl) in the toilet cabin and cleaning the phone display. I was making jokes and we all were having a good love. Anna was smirking and eye fucking me during that time. After we‘ve been done, we split up and me and the guy went on the dance floor.

Later Anna found me and started dancing next to me, then moving in front of me. I was looking at her ass and was thinking „damn, i gotta smack that ass“ so i gave her a gentle smack with the back of my hand on her left ass cheek. She turns around, looks me in the eyes and gives me a smirk. I smile back. She turns around, we keep dancing, i find one of my friends and we leave the dance floor. I am focused on myself and enjoy the night.

Some time passes and i go outside to have a smoke. At this point i havent seen Anna for ages. When i am outside, i talk to people i have seen before and just stand there smoking. I had a moment for myself, just before finishing my cigarette, when suddenly i hear someone saying „thats the guy that grabbed my ass“ i turn to the right and there is a group of 3 girls, 2 smaller ones and the last one is Anna. They look at me like i killed a puppy and the small girl tells me with a serious face „you dont do that“. I replyed „yeah, it happens.“ She replyed, with a more serious and angry look: „it shouldnt happen.“ The 3 of them give me a death stare and i excused to Anna and her friends. Short after that they started leaving and i finished my cig and went inside.

Now my question: how could i have pressure flipped this? In the moment i didnt really care about holding frame cause i was not going to discuss with the girls about sexual harassment infront of the bouncer, risking to ruin my night. I think these girls were serious, but on second thought, maybe Anna set them up to give me an ultimate shittest. How would you have reacted?

TLDR: Gave a gentle backhandslap on the ass of a HB 9, got shittested and accusted of sexual harassment later.