Help with confrontation

Palikan27 · 2018-12-16T14:29:07+00:00

You should had confront immidately after you saw it. Dont let her think you made up your mind for whole weekend about it.

SocialIntelligence · 2018-12-16T15:05:18+00:00

People that defile your trust aren't worth your time.

AshyLarry27 · 2018-12-16T14:31:56+00:00

Unless she has brought up this guy as some orbiter, I would just ghost her. Is this an official LTR, or are you guys just hooking up and leading into it? Either way, next, you really don't need us to explain this one, you know the answer.

If you confront her about it, that makes things worse. Your jealousy then destroys your frame, and makes her think much much less of you. Even if she eases you mind by saying "he's just a friend" (and to be nice lets assume that IS the case), again the reality is she will subconsciously think much much less of you. There is no win in this situation.

MaliciousMack · 2018-12-16T14:51:33+00:00

Who the fuck cares? Unless she disappears at weird hours, leave it the fuck alone.

scarmine34 · 2018-12-16T17:04:44+00:00

You should have confronted her immediately- but not in a way that shows you are insecure. I would’ve grabbed the phone and said “wtf is this? Is it your other boyfriend?” With a big, shit eating grin on my face. I’ve done this with my wife and I’ve never had a reason to worry. That’s why I’m 100% secure.

But, you’ve only been with her 2 months- that isn’t s long time. Just ignore it.

Rkingpin · 2018-12-16T16:08:00+00:00

Could be gay best friend.

Either way you should already have back up plans

DebonairD · 2018-12-16T16:12:28+00:00

Too late to bring it up now bro

Title	Help with confrontation
Author	red6pill
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	December 16, 2018 2:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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