Ok so I need some help from you guys as I’m stuck in a pickle and driving myself crazy.

I used to work with this chick, call her Rachel, and we got pretty close at work - tried to make a move but was always turned down. She knew I liked her but as time went on, I slowly withdrew my attention as my life got better and had more options. Throughout the 3 years that we worked together however, we did get extremely close and touchy.

This girl also openly tells me that she has a “guy” that she is seeing for the past 3 years. She’s not in love with him and can’t bring him home because he is just “comfortable” and can’t leave him. Knowing this, I pulled back. I do know that she also goes on dates with other guys.

Fast forward a year later, I leave the company and we meet randomly at a bar. We ended up hooking up that night. We remained in contact through text once a month and a year later, last week, we meet again to catch up. We ended up hooking up again....after the hookup, she sent me screenshots of guys messaging her and asking me for advice on what to do.

then she asks to see me a couple days later, and we hook up again and fuck her brains out. She tells me afterwards that “I am so hot”

However, I don’t know what to do now....she’s been silent for a week and ignoring some of my messages. I have plates but I really dig her.

Advice?