High school help

SkorchZang · 2019-05-10T05:07:55+00:00

Some girls act that way because they like you.

"Ew, no. I would never go with Jason because...he's Jason" giggle giggle, flirt flirt.

It's fucking what they do, there's no such thing as bad attention with girls. Negative attention is just as good as positive attention.

When girls truly dislike you, you will know because you will be as good as invisible - they won't talk about you, won't notice you at all. Like you don't even exist, and they will be genuinely amazed if you try to talk to them - for the girls it's like a dog walking up to you and trying to talk smart shit with you, a bad trip you can't possibly get away from soon enough. This is how they treat you if you're truly unwanted.

Let them gossip about you all they want; you can observe it all with a big smirk because as long as the bitches are yapping about you, even if it's very negative, you're undeniably on their mind. And there's really only one thing on their minds, birds and bees, who's gonna pair up with who? All the drama around that. That's all they care about in their lives, think about how miserably pathetic that is from a man's perspective, and a second ago you worried about it or felt down over what some girl said? Ha. Never again.

4604Spartan117 · 2019-05-10T03:10:34+00:00

High school girls are vapid. It might be for any number of reasons. But you shouldn't be getting butthurt that those girls don't want you. You're spinning your wheels in the mud trying to pursue girls like that unless you are just trying to fuck them.

[deleted] · 2019-05-10T03:34:38+00:00

Continue to work on your masculine aura and frame, improve yourself physical appearance (gains, clothing, haircut and hygiene) and fashion sense. Aka increase SMV, that’s the best think you can do at the moment. You’re still young and in school, your body is still growing and changing so you have room for potential. Who cares if they say that, at least you know they dislike you and you don’t waste your time. Don’t stress about things you can’t control and work on yourself

0io- · 2019-05-10T05:34:25+00:00

The right attitude to do well with girls is to DNGAF. Genuinely don't care.

If you take some hot girl to the prom, every one of those girls who said she didn't like you will be saying OMG how come he took Becky to the prom, and they'll all be wondering why you didn't ask them instead.

You don't need ALL of the girls at school to think you're attractive. If you hook up with only one attractive girl at school at a time you're doing pretty well in high school.

You really should not give one shit about what girls supposedly said behind your back.

319Skew · 2019-05-10T05:44:47+00:00

Hey kid. I feel you and this is going to sound cliché but try to ignore it. Highschool girls are at at the peak in life until they hit their late 20s then they're in for a rude reality check.

Meanwhile, you're going to set yourself up for success. Get into good habits and toughen up.

If some ditz in highschool is enough to ruffle your feathers then you put more value on the external then the internal. You're also going to fail shit tests.

Also don't worry about what they find attractive. When has anyone sought the wisdom of a teen girl for advice on anything?

Worry about setting yourself up for success in the next 5, 10, 20, 50 years.

Also, if you are worried about your Rep (valid to an extent), remember that highschool drama comes and goes and unless you go full retard, the girl that thinks you are gross on Monday, can end up being wanting to be your girlfriend next Thursday.

Tl:Dr : Go read a book, lift and ignore the nonsense best you can.

Best of luck.

carb0ncl1mber · 2019-05-10T06:54:09+00:00

They’re just posturing to each other. It’s not about you at all. Don’t sweat it and don’t give it another thought.

UpperRedSide · 2019-05-10T07:35:00+00:00

I’m sorry that you’re in high school. Lol and I don’t mean that I’m sorry you’re getting an education. I’m just sorry you have to deal with teenage girls and all of their baggage.

Let me be straightforward. High school girls are retarded. They’ll say one thing and do another, without rhyme or reason. When I was seventeen I had a sixteen year old girl blatantly and heavily flirt with me over the course of a few weeks, then, once I finally mustered the courage to ask her out, say I’d read the situation wrong.

Let me tell you this: every one of her associates confirmed that she had indeed been flirting. It wasn’t rocket science. When I asked her, in a very subtle way, why she’d led me on, she denied it. She literally said, “don’t chase people who don’t like you like that” and “let God lead you.” Bitch literally brought up “God.” Then, when I didn’t buy her story and realized she was on bullshit, she blocked me on every social media.

When dealing with these girls, you’re kinda going in blind. If I could offer you some advice, it would be to try to be the best you that you can be, workout, eat well, be comfortable in your own skin, stay up on your grooming, and be as upfront as you can without becoming too aggressive. You’ll get girls that like you, know they like you, and want you to know they like you. Then you’ll get the ones on bullshit. Leave those alone.

FatmanO · 2019-05-10T16:36:56+00:00

Lifting improved my face, by a lot. Girls also didn't turn me down mostly or acted more positevly when lifting

Title	High school help
Author	thrawsheft45790
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Date	May 10, 2019 2:46 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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