High school social status

Notagain6352 · 2019-06-28T20:34:13+00:00

High school doesn't really matter.College is where its at. WORK ON FINDING YOUR PASSION AT YOUR AGE. As for climbing the social ladder in HS; Sports, throwing parties and being at every party. Or selling drugs, I've made that mistake and don't recommend it

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-06-28T20:24:20+00:00

When I went to highschool a decade and a half ago, there were no real group of "popular" kids, but there were the guys you KNEW because they were OUTGOING and CONFIDENT. This MADE them become popular.

Do you talk to these girls? Do you give them shit? Do you let them think you give a single fuck what they think? Say hello, go for broke. You won't know ANY of them in the next few years and it will not matter. I used to be tactless in high school. I remember going up to this girl who was surrounded by her friends, man she just had the nicest ass, and I looked her in the eyes and I said "Alexa, I just want to let you know that you have one of the finest asses I have ever seen in my life, and if you'd ever like to have some casual sex, no strings attached, just let me know."

I didnt stand around to wait for her reaction. I had just kind of embarrassed her in front of her friends, but you know what? I have 0 regrets for being that kind of guy. I looked her in the eyes, smiled, and walked away. Did I ever fuck Alexa? Nah, I didn't pursue as aggressively as I should, but years later that same girl told me it was absolutely hilarious and "one of the best compliments shed ever received." I easily could have had her if I had known about game back then. Her friends knew I just didn't give a single fuck about consequences or public opinion, and I did ok with women in high school BECAUSE of this mentality, and I was NOT the best looking highschool dude FOR SURE

Those "popular" girls are probably WILDLY insecure. In high school its really only about looks, girls are just kind of figuring out wtf to do with their pussy and most men are huuuuuuge orbiters. Show up where they are, smile and wave, continue about your day. Lay a foundation for interaction, and dont give a single fuck about where it goes, and you'll see more success with these girls.

Edit: I just wanna add, don't say what I said to Alexa, there are more tactful ways of going about it, UNLESS your target is ACTUALLY the girl standing next to her, thats 4d chess.

yg301 · 2019-06-28T20:27:26+00:00

Just be cool.

People are often not as machiavellian as TRP can make it seem. Start hanging out with chillers who fuck, are good at sports, and are the kind of people you’d like to kick it with. You don’t have to—and shouldn’t—stop hanging out with your nerdy friends. If you grow apart, whatever, shit happens. But if you ditch them to be “cool”, you’re gonna feel like shit, and people will notice.

Don’t try too hard. If you’re good at sports, other athletes are gonna wanna hang out with you. If you fuck, guys are gonna respect that. The cool kids aren’t trying to be cool. They’re just being themselves, and happen to be cool.

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2019-06-28T20:39:21+00:00

You having nerdy friends wont matter if you look good and are fit. Going into next year you should, the first half of the year is when you apply to colleges and take your tests so that should be your focus imo.

SpinPlates · 2019-06-28T22:03:26+00:00

Get off TRP right now and focus on the gym and school. Mostly the gym.

Come back when you're 21.

Gym, gym, gym. Get yoked and your life will be significantly easier.

BigDickEnergy123 · 2019-06-28T23:26:33+00:00

Doesn't matter. You can be popular in highschool, but no one will care about you once you enter the real world.

First off, focus on building and mantaining relationships. With everyone. Their smv doesn't matter. Yours doesn't either.

Secondly, get as good of grades as you possibly can. Focus on getting a scholarship to reduce your potential student debt. This will pay off much later on in life.

Thirdly, start lifting/eating well/getting 7-8 hours of sleep.

Fourthly, save as much money as possible. You'll never have a time in your life again where you have no expenses. Get into a good budgeting habit.

Lastly and most importantly, if you fuck up it's okay. Don't focus too much on being perfect at everything I said. You're still young and have a long life ahead of you. DON'T FORGET TO HAVE FUN.

But doing the majority of what I said, you'll have women flocking to you at the age of 21-22.

Relationships, well-being, grades, career, money in that order at your current stage in life.

thenewyorkmind · 2019-06-29T00:08:10+00:00

Talk to the popular kids then, surely the girls will see you have some social proof and slowly start talking to them. Polarize works wonders in high school if you do it correctly and not in a goofy way. You really want to be that guy with an edge/mystery who talks to the cool kids but doesn’t. On your corny friends, you need to separate yourself a lil from them at least on campus. High school is all about who you’re with and they’ll judge you off that.

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-06-29T00:44:55+00:00

Does not fucking matter

Title	High school social status
Author	Your_turn29
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	June 28, 2019 8:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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