High Schooler Plan

khanistan · 2016-02-25T02:04:49+00:00

Fuck, this is going to be a long ass post. This is the advice I would give to myself. This comment won't be organized and might come off as messy and hard to understand.

Education is the most fucking important thing for you right now. If anything conflicts with your education, drop that activity or delay it for another time. Your education has a limited time frame and everything else can happen at anytime in the future.

College/Education:

Start studying for the SAT & ACT. These are your two tickets to free college. Study your fucking ass off for those two, or pick one and see which your better at. Study minimum 1 hour a day for the one your better. In 6 months time (September), you'll be taking the SAT. Imagine if you studied 1 hour a day for the SAT for the next 6 months? Presuming, you ACTUALLY studied, you'll receive a high ass score. Some colleges automatically accept you based on your score.

Volunteer over the Summer. The applications for Summer volunteering are happening around this time. I volunteered at a top hospital in America, so that shit looks good on my applications for college, scholarships, etc. Try and Volunteer at a reputable place if possible. Call up or check websites of reputable places (hospitals, businesses, etc) and see if they have volunteer options, if so go apply ASAP.

If you don't already, start developing great relationships with teachers (and reputable people such as coaches, business owners). In the redpill book list (I'll mention this later), there are great books that teach you how to make people love you etc. Why should you develop great relationships with these people? They will be the ones writing recommendation letters for your college applications, scholarship applications etc..

Ace your classes man. Your #1 priority should be acing your classes. If your focus is on girls, and your not getting all As, you need to focus more. Higher grades = Higher GPA, which results in higher class ranking, which will reap you benefits towards college & scholarships. I would go as far as saying staying up late and not get adequate sleep to get great grades. You can lift any time in life (will mention later aswell), but your high school education is limited.

Want to get more advanced? Learn extra stuff online. Perhaps you like coding, go join a coding website. There are MOOCs (Massive Online Open Course), basically online courses, some free & some cost money.

Social:

Start befriending other people, and offer VALUE. People love to be around people who are positive and bring value. No one wants to be around the guy who is always negative and the guy who always asks for shit. When you offer value, people will be around you. Others will notice and wonder what's so interesting about TRPadam. This is just a revolving circle. This is basically Social Circle. And Social circle rules high school in sexual aspects etc

Have a hobby. Preferably a social hobby others can join you in. The main sub has a list of hobbies. Maybe you like parkour, skating and you can invite other people to join you for the hobbies. This is giving VALUE.

Physique:

Join a gym ASAP. If you can't, do home body workouts. Go research online what workout program you should do. There's some subreddits here dedicated to lifting etc which will help you identify what to do. If someone can link him that would be great.

Eat clean man. Depending on your food options. If you can buy your own foods go towards meat and clean food. Avoid processed shit as much as possible. Remember to eat stuff with less ingredients. I read somewhere "The more ingredients it has, the less natural it is." Also "If it has a commercial, you probably shouldn't eat it." Again, you can research on dieting with other subreddits.

If you can only eat what your parents buy, eat more of the 'healthy' stuff. Again you will know what is healthy and can research more on it.

If you're skinny and don't have access to your own food choices, I would suggest eating anything in your path. Why? So you can bulk up and gain muscle. Most football players in high school just eat anything in their path and get big from this. At my school, personally, the football players don't have access to their own foods so they eat anything in their path. They tend to eat like shit, but hey, they make gains.

Learn to cook, this is also a very good hobby/art. You will use your brain extensively when cooking. You will also be able to cook healthy meals, and know exactly what is in it. Cooking is an essential skill so you won't have to rely on some women to do this for you.

Money:

I would recommend getting a job if you need financial help. When you have money, you have the freedom to use your money on whatever you want. Now, if your parents are rich and your spoiled, I recommend using their money and not get a job.

You should get a job to learn shit. Robert Greene said "Value learning over money." Don't get like a shit job at McDonald's, you'll only learn to flip fries and make hamburgers. Get jobs that you think will benefit you in the long run. Perhaps a waiter, a retail job, etc. If you know what you are interested in the future as a career, try to get a job that will benefit towards that career. For example, If you plan on being a personal trainer, you should work at a gym because you can befriend the other personal trainers there and learn some stuff from them. I personally am friends with most of the personal trainers at my gym, and one of them trains NFL players, and he gives me advice when I ask.

Having access to money will also benefit you towards investing in your future. Better clothes, $$$ to buy books etc..

Stop Relying on others:

This will sort of contradict my money post in regards to using your parents money. The benefits of using your parents money is that you will not be stuck to a job, and the hours saved can be towards furthering your eduction, hobbies, and improving yourself.

But also, learn to be independent and not rely on others. Most teens are heavily dependent on parents for literally everything. Food, Money, Transportation, Cleaning clothes. Take a look at yourself and when you ask something from someone, analyze it. Ask yourself "What do I want from this guy? What is making me rely on him?" A personal example: I would ask someone to buy me something from the store, and if they didn't comply I would have to get it myself. I realized I was relying on them because I was too lazy to drive and get the stuff. So now I tend to go out and get shit, despite my emotions (lazy) not wanting to.

Learn to cook, in middle school I used to be home alone in the Summer and sometimes starve until my parents came home. My parents would generally buy junk food because other siblings wanted that shit and I never really enjoyed it. So I asked my parents to teach me how to cook.

When you have your own food and know how to cook, you won't ever have to rely on going to a restaurant and spending money. This is being a producer, and not a consumer (u/abdada know a lot about being a producer rather than a consumer). Making your own food you can eat anytime you want, save money, just a lot of benefits towards cooking.

Relying on a fellow student for homework? Don't, because if they don't 'come through' you're screwed, and also you will be seen as a parasite if you don't offer them value. Plus you learn shit when you do your homework.

Drugs & Alcohol:

I advice against drugs, they are generally not good. It's ok to do them at special occasions like at a party, but don't get hooked. Drugs & Alcohol generally just lead towards negativity.

Social Media & Texing:

It's up to you to have/make social media accounts, generally they are just useless and a complete waste of time. Many on here advice against it, it's completely up to you. But don't get hooked on it like all the other fucks at school looking at snapchat stories everyday and lurking instagram due to boredom. The negative is that it's a huge waste of time.

There are benefits to social media for high schoolers as it provide social value. Only post cool stuff on social media. Went skydiving? Post pictures of you skydiving.

Text is a big waste of time, I personally wasted so much time texting 2 years ago as a Sophomore. Most teens literally stare at their phone all day and waste time. Don't text people unless you're setting up plans or it's something important. A lot of people just text to be social waste of time. Be social in person.

Other stuff:

Start meditating everyday. Meditation is very beneficial, and highly recommended. I recommend going on the main sub and reading some of the top meditation posts and reading the recommended meditation books.

Read books. There is invaluable information in reading books. Read history, politics, economics, etc. Don't read fiction books, they are just long procrastination. Read more nonfiction books, on the main sub & on the sidebar there's a list of books recommended to read. Look up "redpill redux" and you will find a post on a list of TRP books to read.

Take care of your facial features. Get a nice haircut every 2-4 weeks. Brush teeth everyday, shave or have fleek facial hair.

Go cold approaching & get rid of your fear of rejection. Many people fear rejection and that is why there is approach anxiety. Learn to get out of your comfort zone. If you feel uncomfortable doing something, you should probably do it to get out of your comfort zone. After you've been approaching for a long time, you simply won't give a fuck about rejection.

TRP:

Don't talk about TRP in public. Don't lead others towards TRP.

Read the TRP sidebar and some of the top posts in the main sub. After you've read the TRP sidebar and the top posts, get off TRP. Apply what you've learned and only come back here when you have questions. A lot of people read, but never apply, and all they do is lurk TRP, big waste of time. Also a lot of what you learn at TRP is geared towards people beyond high school.

EBPLLRP · 2016-02-26T17:51:57+00:00

If your situation really is bad to the point where you can't leave the house and pull girls to your place. Then, monk mode till college. You'll have a shit load of game through theory. Plus, you'll be a good chunk of the way there to the physique your desire. NoFap helped me with taking to people and looking people in the eye. Just live a life where you aren't ashamed of what you do. Do comfort zone challenges. Also, realize that your mind can be wrong. It could be saying something like everyone thinks you're a loser because you wear the same shirt every 3 weeks. It's bullshit and mindless chatter.

If I found TRP at your age. I could have avoided getting fibromyalgia. Focus on physically, mentally, and intellectually developing yourself.

Stick with a routine and schedule. You'll be way ahead of your peers.

Try to find friends that will support your goals and endeavours rather than holding you back.

Good luck

Stick with it for 3 months to a year and you'll thank yourself when you see all the progress you made.

alpha_n3rd · 2016-02-25T03:45:55+00:00

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Title	High Schooler Plan
Author	TRPadam
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	February 24, 2016 11:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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