I've been dating this girl for almost two years. We started as seniors in high school and went long-distance for our first year of college. However, I got an internship a few hours away from our hometown for the summer that I'm leaving for on Monday. Between me visiting home and her coming to visit me, we'll see each other maybe once every 2 or 3 weeks (much better than the once a month we had during college).

You can call me naive, but I'd call her a unicorn. She has a strong family, is very smart (full merit scholarship to a top college in the US), beautiful, a virgin before I met her, and has pretty much all of the feminine qualities I'd want in an RP relationship.

I like her a lot, but I worry that continuing a long distance relationship will be counter-productive for our careers as we start getting older and have more responsibilities. We're both taking a significant course load next semester, and I'm also working as a TA. It'll be tough to find a weekend to go visit each other like we've done in past semesters.

I'm worried that breaking up with her will alpha widow her and destroy her emotionally. She's infatuated with me (I'm her first everything), and frequently cries when things aren't looking good for our relationship.

Now, you may say that the red pill thing to do would be to just break up with her and move on, but I don't want to do that to her. I want to give her the best opportunity possible to move on and have a happy life.

Does anyone have any advice or experience for this type of situation?