Was at the bar having drinks with the boys last night. 2 of my buddies leave the bar to the pizza place next door and I meet up with them to find them hanging at a table with some random guy and girl. I couldn't tell if this guy was trying to pull this girl or not but it isn't that important. He leaves to go back to the bar but the girl stays.

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Starts chatting with us for a bit. I'll start by saying this girl isn't anything special, pretty average. We're all joking around and whatnot, she is pretty hammered, keeps making flirty yet subtle remarks just to me, and I forget how we got to this point in the conversation but she says "ya lets just go fuck in the bathroom right now" to me and in front of my boys but in a half-jokingly matter. Basically saying it in that tone to make it seem like she didn't mean it, but deep down she did. Anyways, she brings this up like two more times and I'm sitting there like wtf do I do?how the fuck do I bring her to the bathroom and fuck her? I didn't make a move because I had no idea what to do. Maybe it was a little different cause my friends were right there and I had no idea how to pull because they were there, where it is a little different 1-on-1? I dont know.

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Anyways, my buddies and I head home soon after, even though I should have invited her home, she took my number. I dont know why I am so scared to make a move, and always realize what I should have done after the scenario. It's like now if I were to repeat that situation I would have pulled her home easy no problem but during the moment I fucking forget what to do. I get IOI's when I go out from time to time but always end up doing shit like this and never getting any success.