How do I approach women without validating?

SirKolbath · 2018-12-30T16:49:36+00:00

The key problem lies in your phrasing. “How do I approach women without validating?”

If you wanted to talk to an old guy at the bus stop, how would you approach? If you wanted to ask an elderly woman if she needs help carrying her packages into the UPS store, like I did yesterday, how would you approach?

You are focused on the outcome, hoping it will lead to a number close, then date, then sex. Stop focusing on the outcome!

Talk to people, not women. I talk to that HB9 the same way I talk to her fat sister and it’s the same way I talk to her dad.

helterskelter1988 · 2018-12-30T14:46:43+00:00

Make an observation. Could be about the music, place, people, whatever.

Also, delivery is key. Straight posture, eye contact and speaking clearly goes a long way.

Sin-Silver · 2018-12-30T15:06:32+00:00

Learn to enjoy approaching. When you are doing it for your own enjoyment, you’l stop coming across as needy.

Title	How do I approach women without validating?
Author	FrankTheTank43
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	December 30, 2018 2:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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