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| 1 | Is Going to the Gym “Too Much” a Thing?The gym is definitely beneficial to you, no doubt, however, you need to be the judge on whether or not you need to be spending more time wisely. If your struggling to pick up girls, but you already have the body of an Adonis, then you probebly need to focus on your sense of style, conversation skills, etc, rather than your bulk or physique. Similarly, if your in debt, or are struggling with work/university, then the gym isn't going to help you beyond improving your physical and mental well being… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 8 | " The first girl you'll fuck will get pregnant ""ha yeah! I already have ten kids" Basically, just don't get defensive or show any sign what he is saying bothers you. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 24 | Should I leave my wife?Keep in mind, the best thing for your daughter could be for you to break up. That way, you could spend your time with her dedicated to loving her, rather than worrying about how it influences your wife | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Best books and literature or resilience?When everything shut and life radically changed, I saw that as a great chance to break bad habits and build new ones. I’ve pinned down my sleeping schedule, started exercising at home alot, and even started keeping a diary. My size hasn’t improved doing hitt, but it give me an amazing adrenaline rush, just like I would at the gym. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Best books and literature or resilience?I use to focus heavily on the deadlifts and squats. sadly, gyms have been closed for 6 months now in the UK. I’ve doing a lot of HITT to make up for it, but I miss the gym alot. I’ve heard good things about Jocko, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Staying away from crime?I’m Uk based, but have no experience with crime or your culture. Best advice I can a say is you need to have a goal or a dream that you can work towards that will give you a better life style. Use that money to get an education and a job your going to enjoy, or use it to start your own business, etc I’m not gonna moralise why crime is bad, but keep in mind that you could have all that more, your lifestyle, and freedom stripped away any day. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Does having tattoos (as a man) repel good quality women?It's all about context and personal taste. Some girls will like you more, some will like you less. What is more important is how you wear them. Can you style your self so they compliment you? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you use any forms of planning or monitoring for your personal development?I’ve started journaling too, and I absolutely love it. I use it to force myself to face the emotions and thoughts that I might otherwise try to ignore or avoid. I do it everyday at 10pm as I begin my wind down before bed at 11. Really helps me settle. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | A girl I’ve been seeing for 9 months wants to discuss ‘Where things are going’. Should I be prepared to walk away?Thanks, I wish the sidebar was more clear on the contents. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 13 | Fear of not finding out after being cheated on?It’s about faith and trust. If you can’t have either of those in your partners, then it’s over. The lack of faith or trust might be due to their mistakes, or your own paranoia, but in either case. It’s over | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 11 | Dealing with significant SMV increase1) Take a genuine interest in theirs stories. Listen and comment on other peoples experiences. Talk about what you want to do and are planning to do. Don’t feel pressured to make up stories, just be honest with what you have, and what you want to do. 2) Social Media can play a huge role in modern social groups. You need to learn to develop a relationship with it that beneficial to you. A relationship where you can build and present a positive image of yourself, and communicate with those importa… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?Oh, I don't want to be apathetic to my boss, I just want to remain calm and cool when they start pressuring me(even if they don't mean to). | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?Thanks! I've been meaning to find a way to get my voice heard in our big meetings, so I'll definitely grab it. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?Thankfully I've worked hard to make myself irreplaceable and high value where I work, The machine isn't my only responsibility. I'm doing my best to show my boss that I'm pushing this work to be done where ever I can, but sadly the guy in charge of fixing it is much higher up than me. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?Thankfully I've been doing incredibly well at this job, after sucking at two others. I've contributed a lot to demonstrate my value to the company and make myself irriplacible. I'm actually saving for a deposit on a house, so I have nearly a years worth of emergency funds if I need it. Still something happens like this, and it's enough to shake my frame. Even if I know WHY it's shaking it, it doesn't stop me from seeking how to improve it. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?NMMNG is my favourite RP book I have read. It made me look at the very foundation of which my personality and anxieties were based on. I've not heard of WISNIFG until now. Is it worth a read? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I be professional and stop worrying about what my boss thinks?Yeah, thanks for this advice. I'm trying to get better at not hiding my mistakes. I grew up with dyslexia as a kid, so I'm use to be told off for innocent mistakes, which led me into a bad habit of trying to hide them. I do my best to be organised professional these days, so when a mistake does happen, and they do, I can put my hands up and admit to them. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringMy philosophical approach to this is: Life is a lot like Minecraft, you've got to make your own entertainment. In most computer games, your given really clear goals and objectives from the word go, and the game rewards you with entertainment for working towards them. When you start minecraft, your not given any goals or direction, over than the agency of don't die. It SHOULD be very boring, but people have an incredible amount of fun. Building houses, exploring caves, makes friends online and bu… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | What do I do when I can’t see a girl I’ve been dating for 3 months?Thanks for agreeing. ‘Artificial scarcity’ defines my current situation. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Caught LTR texting ex. Now what?Need more information, but don't try to get back together for the sake of the kid. You can still be a good father if you are not together with his mother. Trying to force yourselves together might not help things. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 11:11 AM |
| -5 | Why do I keep attracting such damaged women?" I jokingly say I don't hookup because I don't want STDs. She blurts out that STDs aren't a joke seeing as how annoying they can be. " You fucked up here. Don't joke about serious issues like this. You feel into her frame when she started making you take her point seriously. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone here ever struggled with overcoming being too nice?I just want to reiterate how good NMMNG is. I've read many good books that have helped me improve and build upon who I am, but this book alone made me look at the foundations and principles I had built myself on. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | anyone feel trapped?You won't alwasy been in a good position to do what you want. You need to focus or adapt to the situation you find youself in. Find something else rewarding and fufilling to do during this time other than working on your cold game. On the other hand, You could try online dating. Which despite it faults, lets you overcome a lot of the covid restrictions. I managed to get lucky this year and have nee seeing a surprisingly high quality girl from bumble. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?It's easier for a girl to agree to a date and then bottle for whatever reason than to actively say 'no'. I consider myself good with women, but I have it in my head that they will flake 50% of the time regardless of what you do. Best thing to do it always have a back up plan. If a girl flakes, make sure you you have some fun/exciting to do as an alternative, go visit a plate, see if your friends up for a quick drink. Always have something better to do that spend time with girls. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?Priorities. Lifting and judo is good, but not as good as developing healthy relationships and satisfying your social needs. Unless your seriously going to be a professional wight lifter, you don't NEED to go to the gym 4-5 times a week. It's hard to brake a routine, especially one as addictive and rewarding as weight lifiting, but if you want ot learn how to get with girls, then you need to put the hours in. Theirs no round about in learning how to talk to girls and other peoples in social situa… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Physically attractive, but socially isolated by hyper-religious parents all of high school, weak social skillsMaking friends, developing friendships and sexual relationships are is first and foremost skills in their own right. You up bringing, which is no fault of your own, hasn't allowed you to develop your skills to the same level as other people your age. Thankfully, nothing is stopping you from developing these skills now. "Even making new friends can be a struggle." As someone who has been in your situation before, I'd focus more on learning how to make proper friends, before you learn how to have … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Is shoplifting alpha or beta?You can’t control what you’re doing. That’s beta AF. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 74 | As an Engineer and a Doctor, how can I put myself out there to successful women not in my field?Take this from a 32 year old engineer with a PhD. You might had a PhD, but in the field of dating that means nothing. You've still got to put yourself out their. Your wealth with give you a lot of freedom and will help make yourself presentable (good quality cloths, hairdressers etc), but at the end of the day, you've still got to do what everyone else does and throw yourself in front of plenty of women. Their's no substitute. Go to bars, make friends, establish a good social circle. Clubs and s… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid a scarcity mindset? (Advice/rant)You’re right. I’m not in the best position to build abundance, but I’m going to try! | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid a scarcity mindset? (Advice/rant)Good advice, thank you! | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she needed more time before before we went further physically. What do I do?I think you’re spot on. I’d never have spent a whole day with a girl like that before. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Best dirty talk to drive a girl crazy during sex?Dump sexual compliment and make plenty of noise when she does things for you. She might also have an underlying fetish that would work wonders if you can figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Girl said she needed more time before before we went further physically. What do I do?Thanks for the good advice. I hate to admit it, but scarcity has been a major thing for me this year since I moved from the city to a rural town. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl said she needed more time before before we went further physically. What do I do?She drowned me in enough compliments whilst we were making out to feel like Prince Charming! | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 08:14 AM |
| 2 | How to best look after my physical and mental well being whilst on crutches.Are we taking about height, or weight? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How to best look after my physical and mental well being whilst on crutches.I will have a read of it, thank you! Thankfully I can work from home, so I've got enough stuff to keep me occupied. It's just a matter of how to cope with the short term loss of mobility. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Was there a tipping point in attracting women for you?For physical physique, its actually very low IMO, It's all about your presentation. When anyone looks at you they're gonna start making assessments and judgements based on your appearance. This includes things such as do you look social competent? Do you look confident/happy? Do you look like you can make friends and entertain people? Are you competent enough to dress well? Do you look like you have your shit together? If your healthy and go to the gym regularly, say have 15% body fat and reason… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else noticed this happening more and more in some your country or community.You got to remember that in the UK, most minorities are those from under privileged back grounds who need this additional support. I can't emphasis how much your back ground and support networks effect you life, work and academic studies. The women in STEM is a bit different. The UK drastically needs more people trained in STEM subjects, and rather try to recruit men harder, they are attempting dismiss the notion that STEM isn't for women. The more women in STEM, the better for everyone. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else noticed this happening more and more in some your country or community.As a disabled person, I struggled incredibly in school. The way highschools are run with everyone working and being taught at their at same rate make it very hard for people with learning disabilities to keep up. It wasn't until I went to university, where I was able to work and learn at my own place that I was able to start enjoying learning, and excel. In highschool, I thought I was gonna end up working in retail, but thanks to the support I received later in lif,e I know have a PhD and workin… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Hang on, wait.... Are the more attractive girls easier to cold approach?Thanks for saying this, I have a terrible habit of going for people below my SMV. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Hang on, wait.... Are the more attractive girls easier to cold approach?Thanks for your input. I suspect that it is the more aattractive ones have the positive experience to speaking to strangers more. I always speak to the attractive ones when I'm running through the drills, but it's just a pain trying to find that 15 to 20 where I live is a pain. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | What is the point of using Tinder if you're not a 10/10?I'm pretty sure Tindr is lieing to you. These Super hot guys are accounts they've created, or accounts that have been cherry picked by Tinder to show new users in order to get them hyped or hooked. Once users have swiped past them, only then do the authentic accounts begin to appear. Plenty Of Fish use to do something equally manipulative. I hadn't used my account in several years. Then I logged on, and got bombarded by 'Heys' from accounts that didn't look real. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:07 AM |
| 7 | Preparing To WinIf this guy is ever you, I highly recommend reading ‘You can’t afford the luxury of a negative thought’. It explain why we end up in these cycles of negative thinking and how to best counter them. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Podcasts and Learning at work?I can't recommend the importance of financially responsibility that you can learn through two cents. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3YCPPKRW2Q | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 08:34 AM |
| 68 | i just had an epiphany after a blowjobSex is like air, You only miss it when you don’t have it. You were probably really horny after a long Corvid Dry patch, but the moment you bust your load, you returned to normal. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 08:31 AM |
| 5 | A man gave me a watch for nothingThis is the exact example I was thinking of as I wrote OP's post. The man might help felt that you truly appreciated him and the watch. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else that finds life/existence weird?Life is a lot like minecraft. it has no inherit meaning, no objectives and comes with no inherent motivation other than don't die. If you want to find enjoyment in it, you have to set your own goals and objectives. Some people do this better than others, some find create wonders of engineering and others create large societys and adventures. Others just get bored and quit after 10 minutes, | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Srs Question for Men: Would you be gay if you could?Bi yes, gay no. I would be equally happy as a straight or gay man, if it wasn’t for the prejudice the LGBT community experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneNo you want to be striking whilst shes still hot and horny at the thought of fucking you. Arrange to MEET on Friday. Skip the flirting foreplay and agree to meet at hers or yours, you want to be fucking her again asap when you meet her. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneThen stick to Friday. It will be a better time to fuck her brains out if you both off the next day. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneMy bad. Now that you’ve done that, just play it cool and invite her over at your next connivence. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneMy bad. Now that you’ve done that, just play it cool and invite her over at your next connivence. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Has the lockdown made you nervous or rusty with approaching women?Like exercise and any skill, you need to work yourself back into it after a long haitus. Try approaching women, and just get use to enjoying the hunt again. Your excuses sound like you have anxiety about approaching | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Has the lockdown made you nervous or rusty with approaching women?What do you do in Japan? I have a good career here in the UK, but I'd love to work in Japan for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 2 | When to set up second date if you want to set it up 5 days from the first oneHave you fucked her yet? It sounds like she was waiting for you to escalate . | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | I feel embarrassed negotiating more payFrom a career perspective, do some research into what someone in your position with your skills and experience should be paid, and request that. Don't say you'll take less for any reason. Demonstrate that you know what you are worth, and demand the respect to be paid it. Doing otherwise may come across as desperate. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | I feel like shit for Alpha-widowing a girlDespite what you read and learn on TRP, this is lesson a you will only learn the hard way. I'm pretty sure every guy on here has followed his base instincts and tried to tie a girl down once before. Most lads are still virgins in their mid 20's, you in contrast now have a wealth of experience in both sex and relationships under your belt. This experience is gonna give you a massive head start as you enter the most sexualy active time in your life. Take some time to feel shit and deal with those … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:30 PM |
| 5 | What’s an ideal response for this?This is the first thing that came to me head too. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Ex behaves like a cunt/treats me bad even though my only interest are my kids..I recommend sending texts a swell. A text can be thought out and written coolly. It will help prevent arguments, and having the correspondence in a recorded medium will help. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Ex texted me out of nowhere saying that I'm ruining her relationship with her new bf.Her problems with her and her boyfriend are their issues not yours. If their needs to be boundaries set to protect that relationship, that's their responsibility, not their. I would still recommend avoiding her. Your relationship with her is you mentally limit your ability to connect with other women. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 193 | “You Were Born This Way”That's pretty much the 30th law of power right their. She wants to believe you are a natural alpha, An alpha built by god and by nature put on earth to reward her for being herself. It's always better to make your skills and abilities look like they came naturally or without effort, otherwise people are gonna think of your as unauthentic or get jealous. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes you can't save your friends from being usedSome lessons can only be learnt the hard way. Hopefully he'll reflect on what you told him when he realized what a tool he's being. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Ex porn addicts, how did you quit porn?Porn was always a stress release for me, an easy dopamine hit whenever you need it. Keeping yourself buys with other, more productive and rewarding dopamine hits is the way to get over it. The biggest challenge for me was braking the habit of doing it before bed. I set myself the goal of only doing it on Friday and Sunday nights, and spending the last hour before bed reading until I was so sleepy I just went straight to bed. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGI agree, I use to be addicted to an MMO. It was the only source of motivation and drive in my life. Now games are just a way of relaxing for short periods of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The young man’s guide for a simplistic way to finding his purpose and fulfilling it" the reason you’re not fulfilled is because you’re living your life in a way that you’re not proud of " Wake up, and make every day a day you can be proud to be yourself. That's my outcome form this, thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/20 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Didn't wrap it upTake the anxiety your feeling now a lesson to always bring condoms. Stash in your car, your bag, leave them at hers if possible. Now go get yourself checked for STD’s you can get them from just a moment of unprotective sex. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 09:32 AM |
| 15 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromSpent a year watching my housemate break up and make up with repeatedly with his girlfriend. Neither of them had the courage to be single. They where miserable, and it taught me that no relationship is worth that much effort. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get JACKED during quarantineI've been using HITT videos on youtube, I'm doing 5 to 6 work outs a week currently. The routine and live instructor real help motivate me, I rarely stop in sets, regardless of how much I'm sweating. The variety they force on your is really good, stops you falling into the same regular patterns, and helps develop kinaesthetic awareness. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/20 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Should I address my friends racist behavior?Wales, I've spent the last 8 years in academia interacting with people from around the world, he's pretty much stayed in the same town. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I address my friends racist behavior?It's now me he's offended, it's a larger social circles he's gotten on the bad side of. You can make whatever jokes you want when you have familiarity with people, but I was hoping he's be smart enough to know it's a terrible idea to say it with around this crowd. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I address my friends racist behavior?Some people are more serious about it than others, and I thought he'd be smart enough to realize that. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I address my friends racist behavior?Staffordshire in the UK | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Advice for men in their 20's?plan yourself a career you're going to be spending 8-10 hours a day working until you retire. best to thing something you can enjoy and pays well. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 11:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.I had the same dread as I was leaving high school. The solution is to find a line of work you enjoy and derive a sence of satisfaction and purpose. You’ll still have work/life conflicts, but it’s better than hating every hour at your desk. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Is she still doing them? Does she have an addictive personality? I did MDMA and cocaince once with a friend in Uni who is now a surgeon, don’t consider a one time use an automatic red flag. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | 19-year-old boy looking for advice. Feeling lost despite having a plan.Your situation does sounds incredibly frustrating I' once had a blakc pilled mindset before I left for Uni, but trust me, it will get MUCH better when you go to college. It's a melting pot of culture and diversity, so you'll be able to seek out inspiring friends and date real life women, not the distorted reflection of dating that online apps give you. Best thing to do it start preparing for life in colledge, and by that, I mean looking after your health, start revising for your course, and star… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 07:15 AM |
| 2 | A Note On "Confidence"I've always believed in confidence as the belief in ones ability to handle the known and unknown in any situations. I was preparing for an interview for my first career position after leaving university. After doing a lot of background research into the role, I realsied how little I didn't know about the role, but I also realsied how important the can-do attitude was in approaching these unknown. My attitude suddenly became, 'whatever happens, I will can handle it' and that became my confidence … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 14 | Grab The WheelToo many people on this sub blame their failings on society and feminism, and it gets quite toxic at times. It’s okay explain and explore how these modern ideas and concepts effect us as men, but like this post describes, any growth needs to come from taking responsibility for our selves, not blaming it on feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Considerations for visiting an old FWB in China?I should have emphasised this would be much later. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 03:42 PM |
| 9 | The Power of Sexual Energy (and how to harness it)This is why I enjoyed reading ‘The Game’ by Neil Strauss. He made you appreciate the process, not only the goal | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/20 08:10 AM |
| 6 | Quarantine has reminded me how comfortable I am being by myself."What if I had friends? What if I went to that party" This summerises my mid twenties. I only started to come out my shell when I first went to University. I threw myself at every social situation I could, but I didn't have the skills and experiences to take the most out of it at the time. When I got a second shot doing a PhD, it felt like a dream come true. In my second year of Uni, I was living with friends in the local 'party' house. I was extremely driven at Uni, I had a smoking hot girlfrie… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Quarantine has reminded me how comfortable I am being by myself.I want to think so, When I first had this realization, I was in a busy student block, with hordes of hot attractive people heading for a night out. If I can have it their, you can have it anywhere. The key thing is realizing that this is an internal battle and mindset. Once you can internalize that, you should be able to hold i anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Drugiecom's Guide on Maxing your LooksWhen it comes to beard and facial hair I highly recommend spending £100 going to a high class barbers for a couple of months. Just tell them that you don't know what looks good on you, and you want their expert opinion. I started going to a high class barber that was £30 a pop, and damn it made a big difference | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Honesty Is The Best PolicyA surprising way of being dishonest I discovered, is pretending to have no needs, or not being bothered by what people do. I use to have an ex who hen pecked me, use to do little annoying thing, get really aggressive when I made little mistakes, than kinda thing. In respounce to all this I did nothing. Maybe my mentality was it was worth it for a girl I loved, maybe it was me thinking I was being stoic and strong by putting up with her shit, or maybe I was just flat out afraid things would escal… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 07:19 AM |
| -1 | Bald shit tests.read ‘The Game’ by Neil Strauss. Not only is it one of the pinnacle TRP books, but he explains how he turned his balding hair from source of insecurity, to one of his strengths. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 51 | The most important thing is to optimize 1 hour of your day, every day.After work, I find myself conflicted between lifting weights, running, boxing, learning coding, painting, learning Japanese. Apart of me is addicted to these, I keep thinking that by doing these I'm building a better life for myself, and I get fidgety if I don't. Trying to set myself more distinct goals within these activities is probably for the best, but I also need to learn to relax and mentally and physically prepare for future. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice for maintain friendship with an ex-F buddy.This is a really positive point of view, thank you. Having a list of ex's who can vouch for my value would be a big help, but I have done little but move around the last couple of years. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Advice for maintain friendship with an ex-F buddy.I'm not your budday, friend. I do my best, to make the best friends I can. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice for maintain friendship with an ex-F buddy.No issue, just looking for advice and assurance. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 10:30 AM |
| 14 | If a girl has a bunch of guys interested in her how do you stand out from the pack?I appreciate this simplicity of reframing the question to not revolve around the girl, good answer. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Whenever my sleeping pattern goes to shit, I start losing grip of being on my missionYou HAVE to force yourself to wake up at a specific time. Sleeping 11 to 7 is great, but if you something happens and you end up going to sleep around 12 or 1, you STILL have to wake up at 7. It's incredibly useful to have a good pre-sleep ritual too. This usually involves not showering/eating two hours before hand, and spending the last one in a dimly lit room, with few electronic devices, preferably spent in your PJ's and doing some light reading. It takes two too three days to form a good sle… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 09:22 AM |
| 17 | You're Not an Introvert, You're Just an AssholeEven the most outgoing people need ‘me-time’ time to let whatever part of there brain that handles social situations rest. Extrovert/Introvert are just ways are ways if categorising ourselves and other people, in reality, it a spectrum, and people’s place on that spectrum can shift very quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Had my first date ever - A field report by an autistGood job on your first date. The next one should be at your/her house. Don’t dilly dally trying to get her into bed! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with high smv parties & bad game snowballingYou sound anxious about these social events, so I'll give you some key advice. When you go to a social arrangement your first thought should be 'How do I enjoy and make the most out of this as possible?'. The girls and guys their may have a higher SMV than you, but that only matters if you are ACTIVELY trying to pick up girls. When you go to party like this, just concentrate on having a good enough time as possible. Get your self into a good mood beforehand, and when you arrive, keep that positi… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 8 | How to handle 19 y/o chicksStarBucks, Costa, are too mundane IMO. Go somewhere fun, desert parlours are by far my favourite. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 12:50 PM |
| 17 | Deployed to Middle East, fiancee cheated on meIf you ditched her beforehand you wouldn't learnt a vital life lesson. That counts for something. Shame about your stuff though. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 18 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralI remember going on MGTOW the first time I heard about it. I was hoping for a sub about guys focusing on there own lives, missions and ambitions. Instead it was just a sub where hateful people posting stories about newly married men who where gonna get screwed by there spouses. I just took it for a bunch of sour ragepills and never touched it again | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 0 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?Best thing to do is find him some strong male role models, as well as somewhere he can interact with other buys his age. There is only so much you can do as a role model, but try to direct him such that he find others that can guide him. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?A huge part if the red pill involves radically changing ones lifestyle and goals. this includes your career and income, so naturally peoples financial situation improves as part of it. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 01:02 PM |
| 38 | As a man, you do not get sympathy, but you can get respect.I remember 10 years ago whining on social media about loosing my girlfriend. I was expecting a lot of sympathy, seeing how a lot of girls got sympathy talking about there problems, and no one even replied to my post. I still thank FB for teaching me a valuable lesson | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Best friend won’t shut upasking me about a plate.She has posted a few things about us hanging out on Fb, I’ll ask her to be aware | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?My frame significantly changed the moment I began to notice the resting place of my arms change due to the increase of my biceps. I achieved that in about a month of hard work out, focusing on the big lifts. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | To have kids or notA nice guy provides a service because he wants something in return, love, affection, sex etc. It's not really giving if your expecting something in return. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 09:19 AM |
| 30 | Just a quick example of what Agree & Amplify (to absurdity) looks like for dealing with shit testsIt's a good example of A&A, but obviously it's done more for the audiences comedic effect, rather than his own frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | For the people who study STEM how many friends do you have at school?I am a STEM student, but most of my friends where business/psychology that I met through the Rock n Roll society. The university should have along list of clubs for people who want to do things, or societies for people who want to chat and meet up. Make an effort to explore those, my only regret in Uni is I didn't have the time to go do all the clubs experiences I wanted too. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 10:54 AM |
| 11 | Living RP successfully but still a loser in my head"Find your own happiness and validation away from women because as soon as you depend on a women for validation and happiness is the second you will start to lose that woman." This should be the TRP quote of the day | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is less more when it comes to women?You sound like someone who's come across as as being desperate. Study TRP, and stop chasing pussy so hard. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Is forgiveness the most worst/beta trait ever?People do this because they're afraid of rocking the boat possibly alienating themselves from people. They'd rather stay with a girl who cheats on them and who they will resent forever than risk going single. No More Mr.Nice Guy covers this is much better detail, and I HIGHLY recommend you read it. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 10:41 AM |
| 2 | In a Split Second, Clothes Make the Man More Competent in the Eyes of Others.I highly recommend watching the first couple of episodes of the new Netflix 'Queer Eye' to get an understanding of how to and the importance of dressing stylishly. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 12:42 PM |
| 141 | You were not meant to be a beta, but a great man"Digital women and crafted chemicals do nothing to soothe the spirit, but only keep you more docile and tame. " As someone trying to cut back on Coke and artificial dopamine, this hit hard. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 09:30 AM |
| -1 | Friends gf on tinderI believe Tindr keeps your account and advertises it even if you don’t use it. It is possible she hasn’t used it in a whilst. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 12:14 PM |
| 74 | Kiss on Oprah discussing RedPill theory on an audience full of women"When we started to strum guitars, it was to fuck women, and there daughters too." This is the level of shameless frame I aspire too. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The one piece of advice I would give the younger version of myself.I literally made it a point to go to every social event I could, even to the point of boring me. There were gaming and other ‘activity’ events that I enjoyed, but it was for 5-6 years that I enjoyed the simple act of talking to another person. I’d say there is nothing wrong in joining a clique social group. Could be computer gaming, sports, anime, whatever. You need to get yourself out there talking to other people. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 09:53 AM |
| 2 | The one piece of advice I would give the younger version of myself.Glad to hear that dude! One of my Oneitis from years ago has gotten really fat too! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 09:48 AM |
| 7 | The one piece of advice I would give the younger version of myself.I agree with the ‘Man on a mission’ approach. I’ve been to a few parties in the past where i knew no one, so I literally went to the most dominant group and introduced myself as not knowing anyone, and it worked out really well. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in fashion or photography? or big changes in career?I wish I stayed in CompSci. My mate does Databasing and earns twice what I do. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | How to handle the shit test when a girl says other guys are attractive to you?“yeah, he’s pretty hot” Jut agree and amplify, then move onto a more interesting conversation. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 01:37 PM |
| 3 | What to say when a girl asks why you don't have social media“Just not my thing” The worst think to do is act defensively about it. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Redpill series/fiction books/movies?Neil Strauss The Game is incredibly inspiring. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Traditionally and to this day,do men reduce there life expectancy by working too much?Maybe, but your not going to live long if you don’t work and end up on the street, or if you can’t afford healthcare. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Tips for living with my parents at the age of 30?One of the key thing I learnt from TRP was handling shit tests. I would be very worried about people taking the piss before I started coming here. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Tips for living with my parents at the age of 30?This is very true, if this two year contract extends to a life time career I’ll look for my own place. Where I am is quite rural, so I have to travel to visit people anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Tips for living with my parents at the age of 30?I’d estimate an extra £500-£700 pounds. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Where can I find a solid resource to teach me how to dress well?Just look for celebrities and fashion models that look like you. Also, take some time out and try some cloths/outfits on at shops. Asking the shop assistants for advice is always handy. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:47 AM |
| 3 | How to approach hot girl sitting with friend at uni?She’s not the prose or your objective. Go speak to your friend and focus on your conversation with them. Once you have demonstrated that your not a creep and have value from your conversation with your friend, them try to get her involved? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 09:57 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to a black guy looking to game women outside his race?I’ve gamed and slept with both native born and foreign asian girls in the UK, and at the end of the day, there race really didn’t matter. Once you get to know them, you’ll realise that what makes them individual is more important than what makes them there race. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 08:18 AM |
| -1 | Should I pay for the woman on the first date?Think how desperate you look paying for her. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Stuck a landing, but not on purposeReading your original post, I would known what to do when she showed them either. It’s a cunning indirect shit test I wouldn’t have expected. Thanks for TRP for guiding us in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on subrеddit 'exredpill'?There just rationalising there own failures and reluctance to change. Why was the so much time discussing something you hate/ failed at? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm pretty bad at handling shit tests from other Alpha males since my SMV went up. How to handle?Agree and amplify. My default response is to immediately say “I know right?” Then A&A | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Anyone notice most that most Chad's/alphas tend to be very positive people rather than dark triad?Honestly, if you a positive and optimistic person, who looks forward and savour every social encounter, then your probably going to turn into a Chad/Alpha. Some people are well built, and have up bringings that natural put such personalities and outlooks into them. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:49 PM |
| 20 | LTR cheated. Need advice.I’d interpret that as six months off of emotional dependency. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How to approach and Alpha about being your MentorJust be his friend. Jump on opportunities to hang out and learn from his example. Don’t over complicate it. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How much should your SMV depend on your financial and career success?Men with financial and career success are strong, confident men with priorities. focus on yourself, focus on your career, and your SMV will rise as-well. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Women treating me differentCongratulations. All you effort is paying of, making you a more attractive person. You probably don’t realise it, but with a fit body and experience cold approaching, your oozing much more confidence than you did. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:55 PM |
| 8 | What are the best things to do that will improve your smv?Goals and direction. It might take you time to make money, it might take time to build a fit body and it will take you time to build a good social life, but none alone are more attractive than someone enthusiasticaly pursuing them. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:05 PM |
| 23 | "You can lose a lot of money chasing women. But you won’t lose a lot of women chasing money"Spend your money improving your life style and yourself. Invest in a nice home, a health lifestyle and a get a good career, and the woman will follow. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I join an all girl project group?The golden rule of trp is "Don't shit where you eat". Join the first group, work hard to get yourself a good grade/mark/whatever, and worry about fucking bitches later. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Plate says she never wants Plan B pill because it effects or health or abortion, normal for me to stop sex?It's good to check the opinion of every plate or LTR on accidental pregnancy. Condoms are solid, but I find that maybe one in forty will break or come off. Tell her you are serious about your sexual health and avoiding pregnancies. Ask her what she thinks about female contraception, as there a lot more idiot proof. The plan B pill can be used in the rare situations that these occur. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Should I give in about the wedding ?It doesn't sound like she has any ambition in life other than marrying you, I'd be concerned she get bored and hate herself once she's achieved that. Make sure you have a prenup to protect all the wealth you have worked towards, and try to find out if her plans for kids matches your own too. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 02:16 PM |
| 5 | How to leave roomWhat sort of place do you live in? Best thing to do as a first step is go join a club or society where you can speak with people. Martial arts are highly recommended. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Kiss CloseYou do need to learn to write shorter posts. Learning to be an effective communicator is an essential part of connecting people and improving your lifestyle. You don't need to defend your excitement at getting a first kiss because it feels like your behind other people in this forum. It's a big step forward for you, that's a reason to celebrate and thats why TRP is here. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/19 08:51 AM |
| 3 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"I agree with this, I've been battling with a physical limitation of myself and it's easy to use it as a rationalization to stop working or fall into a comfort zone. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:02 AM |
| 7 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"It's slang for a big nose, imagine a clowns nose that 'honks' when you squeeze it. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl from brazil I randomly know wants to fly 14 hours to visit me?Does she have a hotel or an itinerary other than you? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl from brazil I randomly know wants to fly 14 hours to visit me?This sounds like a scam or a catfish, but OP is probably the better judge of that. If you think she is legit, then check to see when she is planning on leaving. A quick google shows that a ‘Schengen Visa’ is needed for nationals of Brazil that want to stay more than 90 days. She may have to prove she has her tickets home booked already before she can apply, and I’d recommend OP does the same. If she is learning German, then she might legitimately want to come visit Germany, and enjoy the guarant… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | So basically most women spend their lives fucking muscular assholes and when they become old they want to settle down with some poor schmuck? That’s female nature in a nutshell, correct?Being an 'asshole' is just a quick and easy way to demonstrate confidence. you can build a confident rapport with friends and women without being an asshole with time. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the numbers game to get plates?You should focus on developing your friendship circles and social life before you aim at plates. Good friends will provide you with more support and happiness than a few plates, and if you don’t have the skills to manage friends, how on earth are you going to get a plate? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Best way to avoid oneitis?Abundance, also, if your young and new the relationships, it’s going to happen at-least once inevitably. Let it happen, and learn from that mistake. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Anyone know how to focus on thinking logically instead of emotionally when things you don’t like happen?Sit down and write out your thought process. Do graphs, images, flow carts whatever. The act of physically putting it to paper will help your logical side take over. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Is 5x5 the way to go as a beginner? I’ve seen it recommended a lot here on this sub, if so can you guys link me some routines? Thanks.I used the strong lifts app, and made amazing progress when I first began, Squat went up from 50kg to about 90kg in a month. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 09:21 AM |
| 4 | Can I get abs by only dieting and no exercise?Yes, but without exercise, you’re gonna look like Christian bale in the machinist | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why Cant I Keep Anyone?Sounds like your to dependent on the idea of a relationship, which is understandable. Just enjoy your time with them to the fullest, and don't push for a commitment. If things are going to escalate, then it should happen naturally. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I seek counseling/therapy?Thanks for the input guys. Just to clarify, I have been seeking careers elsewhere which is no easy task, but I want to focus this post on the topic of mental health. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being tired all the time?Fix your sleeping pattern. Sounds like it is moving it backwards and forwards a lot. A strict sleeping schedule helps a-lot. Another big thing I find that helps, make sure you have a clear and tidy living and work environment. It will help you rest and build energy living in a positive environment. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | I majorly fucked my life up. How can I start anew?Your young, and still have the oppressed to grow and change. I highly recommend leaving you home to go and study something that will bring you money at the end, like business. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?This was the post yesterday that got me of my PS4 and out the house for a walk. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 08:24 AM |
| 32 | Is it just me or are 9/10s so much more pleasant to be around?Invert your thinking, maybe they are 9/10s BECAUSE they are so much more pleasent to be around. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | What's "the thing you do" to help you get out of the funk?Discipline and routine. I go to bed the bight before on the dot, I wake up on the dot. I go to work, I stop and plan what I am doing that day, then limit all outside influences until I finish at 5:30. I then go home, eat, and either run, go tho the gym, go to an evening class, or take the evening off and relax. Rinse and repeat until you dog yourself out | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 01:30 PM |
| 7 | Why do girls throw themselves at you when you are cocky?Humble confidence takes time to show, cocky confidence is apparent almost immediately. The later has a big advantage in situations where your being introduced to people on a rapid fire basis, like on a night out. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Question to you broskisYou discovered you have some standard. Consider this a learning experience, and evidence that your respect yourself enough not to settle for less. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Shit test 101: weekly responsesHere's a little question on the topic of shits tests. I've been sleeping with one of my friends for a while, and she shit tests the hell out of me. Thankfully, I've gotten really good at them, I usually just start by saying 'I know, right." then say something else to agree and amplify. A little form of compliance test she does is asking me to hold things whilst shes rummaging through her bag, normally her phone. I normally wouldn't consider it a compliance test, just a minor favor, if it was for… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 10:26 AM |
| 3 | How do I master group conversations?I find in group situations I tend to talk less, but still have significant presence. Just remain calm, and don’t shout or do anything that can be interpreted as “Fighting for attention.” Hold the frame and internalise the thought “I am a cool dude, and people will listen to what I say, when I am comfortable saying it’ | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 08:38 PM |
| 33 | Sexual assaultFile a police report. Don’t ruin tour life by committing a crime. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 05:42 PM |
| 16 | Getting rid of brain fog in social situationsSounds like you need to rest and relax more before social situations. If you have a planned social event, take some time out to get in the mood. Have a shower, listen to some music, dance, think of it as warming up your mind like you’d warm up your body prior to exercise. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Valentine's day ideasDo something you’d both enjoy. The key to anything like this is demonstrating that you understand them, and can choose something they specifically like. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Loosing my career at 30, how do I find a new mission?I’ll give it a try, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Loosing my career at 30, how do I find a new mission?Thank you for saving me DEERing out the situation. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 12:04 PM |
| 9 | At what point should you take a girl losing interest as "forces outside of your control"?Consider this, you are NEVER in control of what a girl thinks. There may be a time were you get a girl to be intrested in you, but her own past and other forces will always play a large, if not larger role. You need to internalise abundance mentality. When you stop caring about wether a girl likes you if not, then you’ll start being more confident, and having more success. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more comfortable around other guys?Read ‘No more Mr.Nice Guys’ like me, it will help you realise what being raised by woman does to you, and will help motivate you to bound with men more. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with bitter women classmates?You’re not responsible for her, just ignore her. If she screams at you and a friend, make a habit of laughing or joking about it after to develop a IDGAF attitude. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Texting ltr makes me bored?I send my LTR’s around one meme a day, and that was about it. Everything else is logistics. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I right in inviting her over to mine?I see you point. I feel I should be making a move though. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Am I right in inviting her over to mine?Movie > Cuddle > Escalate from there. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Red pillers i need your helpAre you romantically involved with these other girls? If not, it sounds like you have sever oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:19 AM |
| 2 | I havent gotten laid in 2 years and I can only think about pussyIf you literally want to be Cuckholded, then go join Fetlife. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:33 PM |
| 6 | What to do the day after a date?Arrange another date where you can easily escalate to sex. Invite her to yours for a movie or something your both mutually interested in. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to resign than risk termination?I do not, I’m a scientist, and it can take a while to find one. I do not now 100% I am being terminated, but I am coming to the end of my probation period, and things haven’t gone well. I like the job in theory, but my relationship with my manager is hell. Whilst I love the subject, I have to ask if the actual work is for me. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I reconsider my career path at 30?Thank you for the inspirational message. Make I ask why you made the change? I love the idea of the job I am doing right now, but the pressures and reality if it are getting to me. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I reconsider my career path at 30?My background is is electronics, nano science, and physics. I’ve spoken to a-lot of advisers about my learning disabilities, and I’ve made a-lot if changes, but it doesn’t seem enough. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I reconsider my career path at 30?Make I ask why you made the change? I love the idea of the job I am doing right now, but the pressures and reality if it are getting to me. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Guys who rent on their own, does Tinder work for you cause you say you have your own place in the bio?Don’t try to ‘brag’ in your Tindr profile. Use it to tell a story that builds your personality. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:22 PM |
| 5 | Where/how to find sane, virgin and attractive women in the US? I'm not an American. I have no interest in casual sex.TBH, I think you need to learn more about America before you start chasing girls. Sounds like you have a-lot of misconceptions. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Where/how to find sane, virgin and attractive women in the US? I'm not an American. I have no interest in casual sex.I am literally writing this during a break in the middle sex with a girl I met 48 hours ago. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | hobbies and selfimprovement, i am shortsightedI want to encourage you, your doing well for your age. I recommend martial arts, it will keep you fit and help you connect with strong males. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 06:02 PM |
| 3 | A Strong Desire to Help is Ruining My LifeTl;dr. but it sounds like you use helping people as a way o garner attention and validation. Alot of people do it, I use to do it myself. Go read No more Mr.Nice guy and it will explain why. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Women with no hobbies/passionsWhy did you start dating in the first place if you have nothing in common? I assume there is something you share. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | [17M] Approaching in gymGet out there and learn to make every bar and club your palace. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips for cold approaching during the day in London (UK)I’m glad to see I’m not the only Uk member, albeit I live in Manchester. I always go to the city centre to practice more game. More variety or people and higher energy. I’d recommend you head to the city centre for your practise, If that’s not possible, then you nearest town centre will have to do. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle my Dark Triad traits?Did you pee in a jar or use litmus paper? I want to know how you quantify this shit. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Advice?Ask them out in 3 to 4 messages. Don’t waste time trying to get to know them, that whats the meet up is for. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Wtf is wrong with me?It becuase you are overly invested. I assume this is your first relationship. You need to know that you ate strong and confident enough to meet new girls and be happy if this one goes south. You need to start working on self improvement and meeting new people. You don’t need to cheat on your girlfriend with other girls, but establish confidence that you can connect and bound with them. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to invite a girl straight to mine, or to somewhere where I can easily take her back afterwards.This is suppressing inspiring. I will try to teach myself to cook well enough to do this. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Do I double-text a girl who hasn’t replied back?See, the dilemma I had was 'strike' whilst the iron was hot' or ' play it cool and seem uninterested' If you met someone during the week, who you felt you were ready to escalate with but didn't get the chance, would you not want to rearrange again ASAP for chance to escalate? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Do I double-text a girl who hasn’t replied back?I agree with your logic about keeping the weekend free. However this is a second date, after our first on Thursday. Do you agree it is acceptable to invite her over now? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 09:43 PM |
| 15 | Got whiskey dick, have I ruined my chance?The fire was hot for sex, but you missed that chance due to alcohol, which is normal. You should have minimised texting, texting just lets the tension you built dissolve. What you should have done, and can try now, is arrange another time to meet that blantly another chance for sex, them keep texting to a minimum to build tension. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I have a successful date when you can’t F! on the first night?I agree entirely. This date was originally planned for Friday, but she had to to bail last minute. I would have ‘next’d’ but she offered to reschedule for tonight in the same message. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an overbite?On a side note, what country are you from? Overbite or not depends mostly on race. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with an overbite?From your description, it probably because you considerable more confident when you stop caring. Take that lesson at burn it until your mind and heart, it a core lesson regarding self confidence. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with an overbite?From your description, it probably because you considerable more confident when you stop caring. Take that lesson at burn it until your mind and heart, it a core lesson regarding self confidence. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 02:12 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with an overbite?Thankfully your a dude, and men are judged more on there grooming than there genetic appearance. Get in shape, style your hair and beard, develop a skin care routine. When people look at you and immediately think ‘Damn, that guy has his shit together’ you have reached the effective peak of male attractiveness. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Bumped BPD chick but still feel like shit?You did the right thing leaving, anyone would get stressed out with a relationship like that. Obviously you feel like shit afterwards, anyone would. You did the right thing though, and need to stick by it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Where do I learn flighting/escalation?I will ask her to spar next time I try engage physical contact. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:51 PM |
| 5 | First time Tinder date help.Focus on having fun and enjoying it. Also, try to go to bars for alcohol rather than Coffee. Alcohol helps people relax and get flirty easier. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | What goals are you setting for 2019 to improve your SMV?Developing a new mind set, and making sure to ‘warm-up’ before any social encounter. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth paying for improv classes?I’ve always wanted to do them, they seem like a great way to build confidence and spontaneousness, | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 4 | What goals are you setting for 2019 to improve your SMV?Learn to enjoy socialising again. I want to look forward and enjoy every human interaction. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | What to do with severe beta father?I agree with this post. It won’t save him, but helping him develop interests and passions outside of his wife will help him. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | LTR saw my drunk parents fighting.Yeah, holding frame during this situation is a challenge, you did a good job. You need to put your own priorities first, and it’s important that you GF see you as so who does. Feel free to take time away from her, speak to you best (male) friends about what happened, and get emotional if you need too. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | She said we have really good chemistry but she doesn’t want sex if there’s no emotion involved with itBest thing to do is be honest with her and move on. If you just want sex, and she wants more than sex, then there no honest way to make her go back to just fucking. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach women without validating?Learn to enjoy approaching. When you are doing it for your own enjoyment, you’l stop coming across as needy. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid making women feel like they’re being used?sounds like she wants to tie you down. The best thing to do is be honest about attentionsz if she is acting like she wants more than just sex, then the best thing to do is to not lead her on and walk away. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Where have I gone wrong and how can I get better?Nothing sounds ‘wrong’ from what you’ve written. You’re still young and learning, just keep learning, keep practicing and you’ll get there in the end. You last GF sounds young, and probably didn’t want sex because of her own issues and you shouldn’t let it reflect on you in anyway. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to meet your LTR almost or every day during honemoon phase?Your over thinking it, don’t worry about trying to pretend your busy. What you should do is ask yourself if there is a way to use that 4 hours of free time more productively | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 3 | “Just because we smile at you doesn’t mean we’re into you, we smile at men all the time just to be polite”Loads of reasons, you told a funny joke, professional curtesy, etc. It’s an art, not a science, you can’t take anything as an absolute. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to meet your LTR almost or every day during honemoon phase?If you live 5 mins away from each other, go for it! but what I think the other guys are getting at is you should be aiming to have hobbies and other friends that keep you busy and occupied. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 02:48 PM |
| 4 | “Just because we smile at you doesn’t mean we’re into you, we smile at men all the time just to be polite”There’s a difference between IOI smiling and just smiling for another plethora of reasons. You’ll learn to read them with experience. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Becoming the man women wantThis has been said twice, but to elaborate, you should be doing things and self improving for your own gain and benefit, not for the sake of impressing woman. If there’s one person you need approval of, one person you need to love and be loved by, one person you need in your corner, it is yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been excited to the point that your current task at hand gets less priority from your brain when someone shows interest?Yes, I’m dyslexic and get distracted very easily. I always keep my phone in my desk where I cam hear it, but know not to touch it. It’s important to train your friends and family not to expect you to answer immediately. Your a busy guy and you have priorities. If you get a Tindr message, don’t read it until your ready to reply. Just focus on what your doing, and take the ego boost that some chick is sending you messages. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Exotic stuff to do, instead of taking girls to dinner everytimeMini golfing and the aquarium are at the top of my list. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Trapped inside women validation prison since i was born, Is there any hope for me?Read ‘No more Mr.Nice guy’, it’s all about helping men who have grown up dependent on the validation of women. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Is my sleep schedule ok?It takes 2-3 days toadapt to a new sleeping schedule. as a late teen, your body clock is use to sleeping later. I recommend not trying to pull your schedule that far forward. Have an hours downtime before bed, find somewhere quite, and not to dark to read or engage in low energy activity. Avoid screens as well. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 03:46 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with LTR that is stressed, overwhelmed, and worried?Help her, but don’t become a caregiver and build a relationship where she feels indebted to you. Give her space, let her know that you are strong and independent and that she doesn’t need to worry about you. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 09:49 PM |
| 4 | How should we raise our sons?By looking after yourself first and foremost. You Son will look at you as a role model, there no point trying to impart the lessons of diligence and confidence if you yourself have none. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Tips for cold approaching in a club.So here what feel's like an embarrassing question, what DO you do when a girl dances with you? I could always dance normally enjoy it, but I normally think there expecting something more and get nervous. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Tips for cold approaching in a club.Yeah, It's club is a bit of an unfamiliar social vibe for me. I can definitely enjoy it, it a special club where they play my kind of music. I always make a point to introduce myself to all the guys that go, So I've got friends to turn to, and so can learn form them how to behave in that kind of situation | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | How to find out what's the girl's height and not to sound like you are not confident?You should never discuss or think about the height difference. You are immediately setting yourself up to feel insecure. Just post to your profile your height, that way anyone looking will know your not a shamed. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 9 | How do I stop helping people? Getting stressed for other people’s problemsYour use to getting validation or creating a safe environment through fixing other peoples problems. (As described in No More Mr.Nice Guy). The immediate solution is to start putting your needs first. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 11:10 AM |
| 6 | Giving up on those plugged in the matrixIt’s not your job to save the world. Most people are uncomfortable having there paradigm on how the world is suppose to work broke, and will rebel against it. Talk to your best friends about it and those you actual care about, don’t waste your time talking to randoms. It best to speak about aspects and trp ideals, without mentioning TRP. When you mention TRP, they will immediately assume your preaching and shut you down. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl out my league is all over me?Honestly, you sound like a pretty cool dude. You look after yourself, you have cool hobbies and seem driven. All these rich dudes with money probably come of as beta and desperate if there trying to buy who food and drinks are going to impress her. but by not doing anything like that to grab her attention, your demonstrated a mindset where you self worth is higher than hers. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Do what’s the best way to delay a date or conversation?Thanks for say that, today was kinda frustrating, and I’m glad to hear it. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Got punched for saying a girl is beautifulWho know what on earth she was thinking when she hit you. It’s not worth escalating and possibly getting done for assault over. You should have walked. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What is best age of woman to date and why?It depends what YOU want. Only date those that you like and stimulate you in the right way. I’d avoid cradle snatching and dating 19 year olds at your age, but don’t limit yourself by setting specific age limits. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 09:45 PM |
| 9 | On seeing potential LTR too muchDo which ever you prefer. Yes, prioritising her over your make friends is bad in the long run but it’s not an iron clad rule. If you go, make sure you exercise high SMV. Have all that fun you mentioned in your post, and make sure to talk to all her friends, female and male. Make friends with them, so there approval makes your SMV rise from her point of view. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How did men learn this stuff before the internet?No More Mr.Nice Guy has some opinions on the recent changes to men. 50-80 years ago, most boys grew up in a radically different would. Rural life stlyes meant boys grew up with there fathers and had plenty of a strong male role models to mould them into men. These days boys don’t have as strong male role model. Are fathers work 9-5 away from home, and we are mostly raised and taught by females in school. This generated a generation of boys raised how to be men from women and TV. These boys grow … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:52 AM |
| 2 | The RP is about self improvement not getting girlsI whole heartedly agree, when I started my path of self improvement, way before I found trp, I was definitely motivated by my lack of female interaction. Thing is, there were so many other improvements and fulfilment’s I needed to reach before I was ready for mature interaction with women. The most fundamental thing with me was learning how to actually bond and form real friendships with other people. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it best to maintain radio silence until the date?Yeah, 4 days isn’t something I usually aim for. I try to aim to ask girls out around Wensday-Thursday, but this one exchanged messages way to quickly. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Is it best to maintain radio silence until the date?I’m actually thinking of leaving town to see the best the day of the date. I might hit her with ‘Hey, I’m making plans for this weekend, you still up for Sat?.’ | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 11:21 AM |
| 14 | Putting on muscle seems like it’s pretty complicated (counting macros etc). What’s wrong with just lifting and eating healthy?I don’t do anything to complicated, and have notably more muscle than your average person. Macros help if you want to really get into it, but you can make solid progress by eating well and working out. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Damsel in distress.Buy condoms, and make sure you know how to use them. If you don’t have the money, you can ask for them in clinics | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How to pick up on IoI's/IoD's better?The most common IOI I find is simply extended I contact or smiling. TBH, IOI’s are more felt than seen, if your not seeing them, your not getting them. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?I honestly expect she will say ‘no’. But you have nothing to loose and everything to learn, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?I honestly expect she will say ‘no’. But you have nothing to loose and everything to learn, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 07:40 PM |
| 21 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?Yeah, it’s probably hard to see from your point of view, but all this ‘Extra stuff’ is probably just a form of customer service to keep you loyal. If you can get her to hang out with you for a long period of time (4 hours+) without you paying, then maybe, JUST maybe, she see’s you as more than a meal ticket. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most inspirational books you’ve read?That actually does sound pretty cool. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle mistakes that make you look bad?‘Yeah, I fucked up’ Agree and amplify, show you are not ashamed at what happened, and that you are emotional okay with it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 03:40 PM |
| 7 | How to be when LTR is sweet and loving?Nothing Beta about showing love and affection. What you should NOT do is become emotionally dependent on her. If she was to get upset and start emotional blackmailing you by withholding these things, you need to be able to walk away. Or have enough emotional supper elsewhere to handle it’s withdrawal. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Made out with a girl in a club, she wants something seriousGo in for the bang. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 01:46 PM |
| 43 | How to get ready for a social situation after a stressful day?I believe this is the most wholesome stuff I have ever seen on /asktrp, thanks guys. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What books do you recommend for a monk mode period?Whilst I’m not a fan of his politics, I found the Auto Biography of Tony Blair to be full of extremely insightful lessons and anecdotes. I recommend reading something an autobiography of a politician you respect. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I be worried about my low libido?Your libido sounds nice and healthy then, I expect it comes down to you and your partner. How have things been for yourself and between the two of you lately. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I be worried about my low libido?Just speculation, but more infor would be appreciated. I assume this is with one partner? The first time you meet someone, you tend to fuck a lot, but to dies down after abit. Especially if you are stressed. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | More interested in watching porn than interacting women. I know that’s wrong but I don’t know how to change.We need more info, tell us about your non-sex life. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Girls flaking on dates?On an App, most girls will rather say yes to a date and flake later rather than say ‘no’. Don’t count a woman saying yes to anything on tindr as any kind if success until you meet in person. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Girls on tinder called me the ugliest person they have ever seen and "so ugly that i would be afraid of him"Stop seeking approval from women and burn your Tindr account to the ground. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get friends?Start small, try to join societies and clubs that give you a chance to be social. Have you tried making friends with other men from your boxing club? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Unintentional ghostingFirst of, try to avoid sleeping with co-workers in future, al ways a bad idea. Just tell her you’ve been buried underwork and ask her about how something you are both invested in is going(Her own work, family, hobbies etc) | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to questionion more details about a date?Best thing to do is brake it up into multiple smaller texts. Start of by saying: ‘It’s right by....’ Even if she doesn’t know exactly where it, you can be more specific in another short text if shes asks. You can apply this to any logistical problem with dates. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:23 PM |
| 11 | Should I expose my ex (who I dumped) who cheated on me and lied about being raped to cover it up?Needs more context, IMO, just walk away and forget about her. Exposing her is just going to drag things out. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 04:29 PM |
| 2 | My university has next to no options for meeting people and socialising...Sounds like your got the hard end of the stick. Are there any social classes or sporting groups(martial arts in particular) where you can meet people outside of university? I did electronic engineering too, and it was mostly dudes too. There was a metal society where we all got hardcore drunk on a Saturday night. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:40 PM |
| 20 | Girl intrested in me after I started liftingGo for it, even if she is being shallow, you can always fuck and chuck. Assuming you had an average build to start, 4 months is plenty of time to build a athletic body distinct from most people. That, and you are probably benefiting from over confidence boosters a-swell. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Best grappling focused martial arts?BJJ looks like it has a lot of striking in it, or am I totally misinformed? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | I have no Game whatsoever. I feel like giving up on life.How long have you been actively dating? Your posts remind me a lot of when I first starting dating and becoming sexually active. I use to have no game, I didn’t develop the skills most people did when they were young, I developed oneitisis all the time, and was scared I was gonna die a virgin/alone. but I kept trying, I tried and tried, and evertime I got a little bit better. It took me maybe 6-7 years to feel I was as sexually competent and desirable as a normal people. The fact your hear, show… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 08:54 AM |
| 2 | GF throws fits after I don't make her cumFirst if, don’t fuck without protection, no pussy is worth unwanted children. Second, finishing yourself was a bad move. You should have show some consideration by not orgasming yourself. I’d recommend you buy her a dildo or learn how to eat a girl out incase you ever find yourself in a similar position. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:17 PM |
| 5 | 4 same girls always keep matching with me1) They’ll swipe right on anyone for the validation that comes with someone saying ‘Hi’. 2) There bots. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:03 PM |
| 11 | Girl i'm seeing had a love bite on her neck. Should I go no contact for a while?If your just planning on plating her, then I wouldn’t give a fuck. Though I’d advice you to wear condoms to if your already not. If you want more than just a fuck buddy, then I think your out of luck. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Fucked a plate, first time without a condom, am I fucked?Internalise these words ‘No pussy is worth <blank>’ Fill that blank with STI’s, unwanted babies, loosing friends, etc | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I fake social proof without friends?You need to learn to make real friends and connects with people before you can move onto proper relationships with women. Don’t fake social proof, earn it legitimately. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Negative EmotionsMy motto is ‘Discipline ends where motivation ends’. To dig yourself out of a rut, you’ve got to build a routine and stick to it. You need to keep works hard at your career and education, make sure you have your targets set and schedules made to meet them. Make sure you have time for your friends and loved ones too, they should be apart of your routine too | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | As my SMV increased, I found myself talking less, and listening more.They are meeting in public places called ‘Munches’. Theres no actual fetish stuff going on at these events, but it’s a good way to meet new people. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:03 AM |
| 23 | As my SMV increased, I found myself talking less, and listening more.I’ve never believed the extovert/invert division, I find myself oscillating between the two depending on my current mood and needs. I can be pretty extroverted, but I noticed I’m capable of just sitting back and letting people talk, without disappearing into the background like I once would have. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:10 PM |
| 4 | As my SMV increased, I found myself talking less, and listening more.yeah, thats terribly worded. I do two things, one is a language exchange where I chat with both Japanese and English people in a cafe for 2 hours week. The other in a munch, where I meet people into fetish stuff on fet life. The former is a bit to formal, and not really for in depth banter, but the munches are an opportunity to talk about whatever. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | As my SMV increased, I found myself talking less, and listening more.Yeah, I can relate to that, I’ll keep this in mind. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I swallowed the Red Pill and it made my game worse. What to do?where is the main sub these days, I can’t find it. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What are some good books on finding a mission?Any book on ‘Ikigai’ is probably worth your time if you want help focusing on your goals. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | How to sound more well-spoken and articulate? Will this raise my SMV?“Focus on what you want to say, not how to say it” This is the best advice I have ever had about speaking. Remember to take your time. don’t be in a rush to say what you want to say, it still make you look nervous. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:23 AM |
| 1 | What should I doWhat’s your endgame? Is there a reasonable chance you could meet in person and actually build a relationship? If not, then do whatever amuses you. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Had a first kiss with a girl, started developing oneties and bea behaviourI gather your young and this is your first time. You can read TRP all you want, but like any skill, you won’t get good at it until you practice. You’ll probably make mistakes, but as long as you learn and grow from them, then all is good. Don’t worry to much about it, just tale moments to think things through, and enjoy what might be your first relationship. Just make sure whatever happens you keep a condom at the ready. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop being the pathetic nice guy who pleases people to like him and doesnt use his mind??Read Mr.Nice guy, it was one of the best, but one of the hardest books for me to read. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:50 AM |
| 5 | How do your turn off the “desperation stink” on a first date?Two words: Outcome indifference. The key too most social situations is learning to enjoy that moment, and not worry yourself about obtaining a second date or getting laid. The moment you try to ‘earn’ or ‘win’ her approval, that’s when you start to smell desperate. Obtaining outcome indifference comes with experience, once you’ve dated more girls, your learn to stop giving a shit, so just keep going. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Lifting to maintain, not to gain. When life puts the pressure on.It’s less about not putting in the effort when times get rough, and more about the distribution of it. Right now I’m at the peak of my physical strength, and I whilst I want to gain more, I don’t want to prioritise it over my work. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Profs say female STEM grades don’t reflect ‘perceived effort’ - they propose that “science educators could redistribute grades more akin to non-STEM disciplines to increase STEM retention.”I’m dyslexic and dyspraxic and had to work 50% harder than all my university In order to pass my electronics degree. If we where marked on “perceived effort” I would have gone to Cambridge. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How to thrive in long periods of social activityI believe this whole heartedly. However, practising 3-4 day marathons isn’t practical when I work full time. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | The casual TRP reading list?Did you read the entire post? I’m just asking for what TRPers like to casually read. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | The casual TRP reading list?By ‘Heavy’ I mean so thing that needs to be thought and contemplated on. I’m looking more for what people casually read in there spare time. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Get to average firstI use to feel that way too, but not feeling competitive with other men is an essential part of developing meaningful relationships with other guys. You need to have positive male role models in your life. These guys need to be older and more successful than you so you can learn from them, If you feel intimidated by another guy, change your frame and think ‘How can I bond or become more like this guys’, rather than be competitive. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 07:12 AM |
| 20 | Get to average firstYou need to learn to develop meaningful relationships and communication with other men. A lot of BP’s are programmed to seek the approval of women in all forms, it’s why you probably prefer speaking to a women. ‘No more Mr.Nice Guy’ goes into it in detail, and is worth your read | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Everything is your fault, and you should be relieved.My personal philosophy has always been to accept my own shortcomings as my own fault. If my short comings are due to society, then I can’t do jack about them. However, if there due to my own faults, I can learn and grow from them, and that motivated me to become a better person. 10 years ago when I was a loser and the only thing that kept me going was the thought I could grow and change. I knew the reasons I couldn’t get a girlfriend was become I was socially underdeveloped , so I made it my mis… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How can I best use money for red pill ends?Money can't buy you happiness, but it can buy you the things that buy you happiness. Use your money to exercise self care so people know look after yourself, and make sure you take an interest in it too. This includes gyms, personal trainers, nice cloths etc. The golden rule is don't try to present yourself as someone who is trying to present themselves as rich. If you start bragging about your money or acting like a rich kid of an arabrain oil tycoon, everyone is gonna assume you are over compe… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 12:54 PM |
| 2 | How to fit in an established friendship circle.I found them of fetlife.com. most munches and rope pear groups advertise there, so just go on there, find your local area, and hopefully you should find something you like. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | My Introduction to TRP.Thanks very much for the advice, Aiming to much on attracting women to add value to my life was my critical flaw in my youth. Yeah, I need to do a lot more training and practice talking to women developing relationships and close bonds, but there just a part of the great life I want to build, not the end goal. You will be glad to hear I take sexual health very seriously, I always wear protection, and get myself tested after every encounter. I don't feel I'm the kind of guy to get Married to fast… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Unique shit test help.Thanks for the input everyone, I will double check the community post like you said. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 07:28 PM |
| 2 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.Learn to obtain acceptance from those closest to you, family, friends, close co-workers. You can't and don't need acceptance from every stranger and acquaintance to develop self worth. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 04:40 PM |
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