How do I escalate?

karmasutur3 · 2015-05-28T23:16:26+00:00

http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/24/the-flow/

nicethingyoucanthave · 2015-05-28T23:37:38+00:00

There are certain specific games you can run, but mostly you just have to get that first kiss in. It's better to seize a spontaneous opportunity than to let there be an awkward pause. Once you've kissed her, you can kiss her again, this time in a venue where you can start grabbing boobs and taking off clothes. Sure, she may still put a stop to things, but that's okay.

The only really tricky thing is getting to that first kiss. The opportunity for it is what you need to keep a close watch out for.

Just takes practice, man. You have to fail a few times - both because you missed an opportunity and because you tried at an inappropriate moment - to learn what works best. Here's one template to give you an idea: take her to a nice, quiet, vaguely romantic place. There's a pier I like to walk out on. Stop somewhere, lean against the railing. Watch her body language, if she keeps walking then lol, she's not into you. Hold out your hand - it might sound awkward, but there's no reason to try to sneak in the act of holding hands like it's a big deal. Just hold out your hand and let her take it. Hold eye contact (and glancing at her boobs is good too) and slowly pull her into you. If she doesn't go for it, then lol, she's not into you. Bring her in for a kiss.

And like I said, there are stupid games you can play (but hey, it keeps things interesting). There's something I do a lot where, if we kiss and then she pulls away like she's playing hard to get, I say something like, "you know, I don't think that kiss was a fair representation of my skills, and I think I deserve another shot." Just stupid shit like that. You think of stuff like that once, and then you use it over and over. That's what you get from practice.

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2015-05-29T00:00:45+00:00

Escalation is not done verbally, it's done physically through your behaviors and mannerisms.

You need to eye-fuck girls hard when you're flirting with them, and when they return the favor, start kino-ing in a subtle manner, shortly after which you'll be in line for a make out sesh. When you get to that point, make out with your girl super aggressively. She wants to be fucked by a dominant man, so you must communicate dominance when kissing her - i.e. subtly grab her neck and gently begin tightening your grip, make sure there's plenty of tongue action, and slowly rotate her neck back and forth. If you're able to take control in such a manner, you will easily be able to bring her home and fuck the shit out of her.

The keys to escalation are subtlety and dominance. Without properly demonstrating both, you're gonna get shut down. Seduction 101.

Carbone · 2015-05-29T04:22:16+00:00

Assume she's attracted to you and put your hand on her body and let it on her. Do shit you would like to receive but never give them while thinking to get something from it.

Work you way to more intimate area, Push/pull, don't attack her pussy and tits right away let the tension build.

Title	How do I escalate?
Author	Chocotop
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Date	May 28, 2015 11:14 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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