How do I integrate myself into a group?

TheBrokenRuler · 2018-10-16T01:49:06+00:00

Easy- make them laugh. If you can make the group laugh once or twice, you're already in. Then (probably) no one will cock-block you when you go to escalate with the girl

BurnieSlander · 2018-10-16T06:55:23+00:00

Have you tried taking to them? I’ve heard this is what humans do

Gravel_Roads · 2018-10-16T08:37:17+00:00

You integrate into the group by befriending the members in the group. Generally this looks like befriending people in a one-on-one basis, inviting small groups of them out to do something with you, or tagging along with a group as they do something. The latter is just harder to swing unless you get invited.

Casual friendships form by sharing mutually enjoyable experiences. Next time your around them, invite them to a movie or a fair or the beach or whatever is nearby in your area.

That being said... I'd be careful about befriending a group of people just to plate a girl. Especially if you don't intend to date her, and want to spin other plates. Otherwise, if she gets mad that you cheated on her later, you're going to also have to deal with all of your now mutual friends are also mad.

Don't shit where you eat, and all.

Title	How do I integrate myself into a group?
Author	THASSTUFF
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	October 16, 2018 12:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9oin0o/how_do_i_integrate_myself_into_a_group/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-i-integrate-myself-into-a-group.134826 https://theredarchive.com/post/134826

Comments