How do I maintain masculine frame?

K9_snoop · 2021-03-11T05:55:34+00:00

Hopefully I can give you better advice than "just do it" like the others in here lol.

When it comes to having a solid frame, I would best describe it as having the courage to be disliked.

You can't have people in the world that like you without having people in the world that dislike you. That's just life.

People don't always have a good reason to not like you, they just don't and that's okay. Step 1 in building a solid frame is knowing that you are not in control of everything people think or feel about you and some people you can never please or satisfy.

You are going to be in situations where people will come to conclusions about you without getting to know you. Step 2 is understanding that the narrative people create of you in their head is not your responsibility. If someone had no intention of getting to know the real you why the fuck would you waste your time with them.

Step 3 is to stick to what you love to do no matter what. Make sure you are working on goals that are truly yours and do activities that you genuinely enjoy doing. DO NOT STOP doing what you love or enjoy because your friend, parents, coworkers, random thot said it's stupid or childish or weird.

There is no reward for living a life other people want you to live. Do what you want till your death bed.

BE YOURSELF

Edit:Typo

Future_Fisherman · 2021-03-11T04:26:28+00:00

don't allow others to disrespect you

that's it

ForeverAtYourCommand · 2021-03-11T07:32:45+00:00

I noticed everytime I break frame it's because of anxiety or I'm under pressure. I get tense and my voice gets more of a high pitch.

One thing I learned through meditation was to just feel myself. Through body awareness, or focus on sounds, the humming of the fan, a conversation, a machine, even just focusing on the sensation of your feet. Anxiety is always going to be there but you can control your reaction to it. During times I feel like I'm about to crumble like a cookie I just focus, I fix my posture, keep my tone lower pitched, I feel my heart pounding. you can focus on your breath too. Just be still.

It's harder for me to lose my frame when I've built up social momentum, at these times I just go with the flow, it seems like everything I say is perfect. It's like a video game that I'm finally beginning to be good at.

Musicgoon · 2021-03-11T04:41:53+00:00

Make your own decisions. Lead, don't follow.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2021-03-11T09:25:37+00:00

Walk around with your big ole dick out, of course!

gowi0707 · 2021-07-01T22:18:23+00:00

Stand up straight, chin up.
Become stoic ( research stoicism). 3.Meditate.
Lift weights.

Title	How do I maintain masculine frame?
Author	Pteronight
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	March 11, 2021 4:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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