How do I make my dates more sexual?

FereallyRed · 2019-07-10T12:00:01+00:00

Start early with touch and escalate, calibrating to her comfort level.

Couldn't/wouldn't escalate? Excuses. Touch her arm when shopping. Shoulder check her out of the way to get to a neat record. Lean against her while reading liner notes. Sit next to her at dinner. Let your leg touch hers and leave it there. Feed her a bite off your fork. Grab and squeeze her arm at the punchline of your story. Guide her out with your hand in the small of her back. Offer your bent elbow to escort her back to the car. Push her hair out of her face. Invade her personal space. eye contact.

All that before you take her home.

What are you scared of? She's on a date with you, remember?

ZR1987 · 2019-07-10T12:56:38+00:00

She is attracted to you or she would not be on a date with you. Boldness is attractive. Go after what you want, but if she seems uncomfortable back off.

Zwordfish · 2019-07-10T11:50:43+00:00

You have to be bold and test the waters. You could start with light sexual innuendos just to see where her mind is. If she picks up on it. Great.

During the date, find some random excuse to touch her; arms, shoulders, fingers, removing something from her face and whilst doing this, you could be talking about something and turn it into some sort of sexual innuendo.

When she's back at your place, find some excuse to get up,sit closer to her, find some shitty as reason to touch her, something about how her hair looks healthy or some shit, and play with it...keep playing with her hair, running your hands through it...and just causally go on about your conversation, keep up with the sexual innuendos, if she's allowing you to play with her hair, laughing at the innuendos and playing along...use your other hand to remove hair from her face, turn her cheek and go in for the kiss...

It's all about timing and setting the mood. Learn to be bold!

acp_rdit · 2019-07-10T14:38:57+00:00

wear chaps with no pants

clearly indicates you mean business

MattyAnon · 2019-07-10T15:18:21+00:00

, I couldn’t really kino until we got back to mine a

You should have tried anyway.

I’m a pussy. How do I make my dates more sexual or become a more sexual person?

Escalate/kino more, which means stop being a pussy.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-07-10T16:38:33+00:00

This is easy. A. kino within the date. Nothing overly in your face but slightly touching here and there. B. when you get back to your place you absolutely cannot be a pussy. Almost every time I plop myself on the couch and if the girl isn't sitting right by me I always hit them with "why are you all the way over there? Come here (with a smirk, while I hold my arm out)" then I put my arm around her and we start cuddling, kissing soon to follow. Do NOT be afraid to TELL the girl what you want her to do or what you want to do. If I have good vibes with a girl but haven't kissed yet, I will look her in the eyes and tell her "I want to kiss you" then grab her chin and give her a passionate kiss that leaves her wanting more. The key is in all of this is to NOT be afraid of rejection at any point, you need to internalize that. From there all you gotta do is rub the outside of her pussy (thru her pants) > finger her (sometimes I will tell her to get up and take off her pants) > then put her hand on your dick > sex/bj.

Now a real G tip, contrary to popular opinion you DO NOT have to kiss the girl during the date IF she is coming back to your house. And you do NOT have to instantly kiss and escalate to fucking when you get to your place. While some occasions you can but for the most part its good not to because you are building tension. Keep ramping up that tension = her pussy is getting wet. So once you make "the move" sex is quick to follow. Some guys metaphorical blow their load too quickly and escalate way too fast. G's understand that sex is already in the bag if they want it (subcommunicates confidence in themselves and indifference towards the girl) ,and escalation starts from the beginning of the date until it hits a climax where you start fucking. You're in no rush, you have an abundance mentality, this is part of seducing a girl and letting the sexual tension build up.

Another pro tip if you find yourself not being sexual then you gotta stop jerking off. Let that sexual energy build up to the point where you GOTTA do something to release it, and by something I mean releasing it into a beautiful girl.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-07-11T01:14:49+00:00

Girls don’t go out on dates with guys they don’t want to fuck, remember that.

tries_to_tri · 2019-07-10T14:21:07+00:00

This one is more specific, but if you ever go for food/drinks with a girl...sit at the bar. It's so much easier to initiate kino when you're sitting beside a girl than across from her.

zielkarz · 2019-07-10T15:29:16+00:00

Funny thing - my current girl wasn't very touchy but I knew from her eyes how attracted she was. I made sure to give her long, deep stares. After we fucked she told me that it was super hot that I didn't touch her and just "eye fucked" her.

Houston2NYC · 2019-07-10T13:10:59+00:00

DBAP

communistcontrolact · 2019-07-10T15:37:51+00:00

Cook with her at your place or hers and get behind her to grab her hands and help her cut something

Aesthetik_1 · 2019-07-10T11:40:33+00:00

Randomly grab her tit as a display of ultra alpha confidence and frame, don’t panic if she gives an impression with an open mouth proceed to insert the dick immediately. It is a natural reaction to your level of testosterone and must be followed up by the immediate insertion to establish and fortify the hierarchy

[deleted] · 2019-07-10T16:44:21+00:00

Open with a hug and do little things like open a door and touch her back, high fives, arm around shoulders etc, that's all you can really do.

Then the kiss and go from there

IrvineKafka · 2019-07-10T23:46:19+00:00

Whip it out.

Title	How do I make my dates more sexual?
Author	Ekhochambeer
Upvotes	65
Comments	57
Date	July 10, 2019 11:20 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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