How do I overcome this?

laurcrv · 2019-04-20T03:55:57+00:00

I had the hardest oneitis ever on a classmate, so bad that even small talk with her re-sparked my feelings, what worked for me is time and seeing other girls.

RP_Jordan · 2019-04-20T10:08:43+00:00

Who cares, let them be together. Go plate higher quality women, after a few you'll laugh at the fact she had such control over you

OxidatePhosphorylate · 2019-04-20T03:29:47+00:00

I’m in a similar situation. Cutting off contact with classmates/friend oneitisis can be difficult. From what I’ve learned is that the pain won’t be easy to overcome, and it’ll hurt for a good bit no doubt. It’s ok to feel this way. The best thing we can do is focus on ourselves. Priority number one should be hitting the gym. Prioritize your studies and get to where you need to go. If she wants to tag along on your journey to greatness that’s for her to decide. Keep improving and don’t worry about abundance, that’ll come with time (unless you’re already capable of it, then my all means see other women).

Title	How do I overcome this?
Author	Saga199019
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	April 20, 2019 3:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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