How do u guys keep a date interesting? What do u guys talk about?

anal_coke · 2018-09-03T01:47:15+00:00

Roleplay is great, talk like a pirate! "Aye aye, matey!"

Borsao66 · 2018-09-03T02:08:10+00:00

You don't talk.

You ask a few questions and let her babble on. If she asks you anything, give a vague A&A answer and then fire back with another question about her.

They love to chatter about themselves and it'll make you look like you actually care about her gender studies degree.

Radkin007 · 2018-09-03T05:24:09+00:00

If the conversation lulls out and you start to get the “awkward” feeling as is nothing is being said, wait. Just wait. Woman crack under that and will invest into the conversation more.

Dabunghole · 2018-09-03T02:53:17+00:00

Let her talk.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2018-09-03T04:25:34+00:00

I jut grunt like a caveman every so often, and she continues talking nonstop.

40YrManAwoken · 2018-09-03T04:07:16+00:00

Have fun, keep it light and share a few laughs and escalate. Girls like to talk about travels and themselves. Don't talk about work more than you need to, no politics or religion, movies and music can become boring quickly. Don't try to hard to entertain her, just have fun.

deletefilenewgame · 2018-09-03T10:31:35+00:00

When at a bar or lounge, I play the question game. We take turns asking each other questions and if the other person doesn't want to answer they take a drink. Start with some innocent questions like when was your first kiss then ramp it up to number of guys you've fucked or sexual fantasy. Be sure to include lots of kino as appropriate.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-09-03T16:08:59+00:00

You want to keep a date interesting for her?

Shut the fuck up about yourself. Just ask her questions about herself and let her ramble.

Southtown53 · 2018-09-03T13:15:14+00:00

This has been touched on, but with business being my background I like to work in The Red pill with not only women but professional career. Look at it like this, when you are looking to sell a product, your initial thought is to say "How great my product is." Or in translation "I want to tell this girl how amazing I am so hopefully she'll fuck me." Wrong.

What you need to be doing is gathering information, let them tell you why they are in the market to buy a product. This is where you ask the probing questions and then you need to Listen to find their true pain points.. Once you have this information, you amplify the need, "Wait, so you are telling me you are doing the process like this? How do you plan on keeping up with your competitors if this is costing you XYZ and you can't invest elsewhere?" or in translation, this is the push-pull method. You now know their need, and you are causing them to emotionally panic and enter your frame.

Now how this ties into a girl. You go on a date with her. This might sound backwards but she is the buyer and you are the seller of YOUR product. You have the best product on the market (YOU) and you want to know why you should sell your product to her (your time, your commitment, maybe your offspring in the future). Ask her those probing questions, find out why she is on the market (identifying red flags) and begin to push-pull. Have fun with it, because at the end of the day if you are chasing your goals, lifting and being the best man you can be, you are the prize or the best damn product on the market ;). And you don't see Ferrari selling their product to those who are undeserving... So don't do it to women.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-09-04T01:53:35+00:00

On a date with a chick I haven't banged, I just do the bare minimum and just focus my attention on escalating. If im vetting for a potential LTR I ask screening questions and use that time to subtly communicate my boundaries.

But yeah just focus on trying to fuck her first if you haven't done so yet.

HIJKelemenoP · 2018-09-03T08:47:21+00:00

If you have to ask...then you're boring. Don't be boring.

Title	How do u guys keep a date interesting? What do u guys talk about?
Author	flapjacksrbetter
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Date	September 3, 2018 1:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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