How do you be „that guy that doesn‘t count“?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-24T19:27:56+00:00

All that shit is a result of your value, your “fitness” if you will

distantoceangrey · 2019-10-24T20:30:17+00:00

This is actually a hard one and kind of interesting. You are talking about two different people.

Once you get to a point of real high value, look great, great bank account/life, women are going to want a relationship but will fuck you just for the chance.

You aren't going to be the guy they bang at the bar and go back to their husband, you are better than that, you don't need to succumb to sloppy drunk sex like the rest of the people who think they have value.

Your frame kind of ends up above the pick up "drunk girls at the bar or leftovers on tinder" and you don't do it. You end up being an uncatchable and unattainable thing that they will chase down, because the basis of the red pill, hypergamy, they will want you, you just won't want them, and you will date them a few months and move on, or date a few at a time. But they will always be there.

That's a different guy then the fuck boy who chases girls down and games them with compliments her man isn't giving her and then plows her in his backseat behind the tasty freeze then has to deal with an angry husband three weeks later when the woman confesses her sins.

It's the guy the married woman sets up a regular appointment to meet up with and fucks just so she may have an in when you decide to settle down but she doesn't know it won't go anywhere but she won't break her frame to show you she is hurt or unworthy, so She will keep it classy and keep working to win her game.

Either works, but high social standing is actually a different game entirely.

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-24T20:35:56+00:00

Focus on wordly qualities.

Looks- Maximise your own looks. There is no ideal look. The idea is to actually look like someone that values their own appearance. And this applies at any age. Attitude- Dont be an emotional cunt and really, you shouldnt give a shit about a womans feelings. Treat them like toys that like to get fucked. Get used to rejection- Be aggressive in your approach. Get rejected. Atleast she knows you are on her radar. Approach again. Get rejected again. Eventually you can fuck her. With some women you have to try abit more than others.

Money doesnt mean shit. Its a means to make your own life easier but doesnt mean shit when it comes to fucking women. Your job/occupation doesnt mean shit. Your ability to be a good husband/dad doesnt mean shit.

vodkalimesoda1 · 2019-10-24T20:33:33+00:00

High SMV and be at the right place at the right time.

vodkalimesoda1 · 2019-10-24T20:34:20+00:00

High SMV and being at the right place at the right time.

proactive-defense · 2019-10-24T21:22:20+00:00

This is what is know as “alpha”.

jjj2576 · 2019-10-24T19:25:03+00:00

If you are looking to never be Shit Tested, you are in for a rude awakening. This question tells me that you are afraid of being Shit Tested, afraid of conflict if you will. Read WISNIFG and NMMNG.

Women Shit Test you to fucking TEST your Frame. Women are liquid and want to know that their container, their man, doesn’t have chips or cracks. Women Shit Testing you isn’t bad. Read “The Rationale Male.”

The question you really need to ask, OP— Is why the fuck are you asking questions that are answered by the Core RP books listed in the Sidebar?

Title	How do you be „that guy that doesn‘t count“?
Author	Sweetdreams18
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	October 24, 2019 7:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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