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How do you determine your attractiveness?

morebaked · 2014-10-29T18:48:59+00:00

I think I'm pretty damn good but I haven't had much luck which IMO is a mix of game and maybe looks. All of my friends are like nah bro it's...

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October 29, 2014

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Title	How do you determine your attractiveness?
Author	morebaked
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	October 29, 2014 6:48 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2kp98s/how_do_you_determine_your_attractiveness/
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I don't know how to judge male physical attractiveness. I can discern "ugly as fuck" from "not ugly as fuck" but I can't discern fine detail. I can just barely be sure if a man is in the 7-10 range or not.

The only reason that makes me more sure of you in particular is I've seen guys that look like you where I live getting with very hot girls I'd rate 8.5 to 10 so it's by reference, not actual evaluation that I'm figuring it out.

Plus you do look fit, maybe not powerlift fit but fit, in your pictures.

It sure as fuck makes me wonder sometimes where I'm at. I can't look at myself in a mirror and just see it. Have no idea.

My only reference is the girls I've slept with. Some are pretty hot, some are not. And also the ones that will flirt with me but I don't know how serious I can take that because some girls only know how to flirt to communicate with men.

The one thing that really made me think hard about it & judge to the up-side is when I finally noticed at a particular angle of image when looking at Anna Farris. She's a comedy/romance actress, as in Scary Movie, House Bunny, etc. She's not a top-level girl but she's actually pretty good looking and as it happens also my age.

It dawned on me she looks very, very much like one of my ex-girlfriends. I didn't notice for years. Then it clicked in: not only is this girl very good looking but enough to be in lots of movies & a big part is for that reason. Well hell, if that's what one of my ex's looks like I guess I can't be that bad.

Because if I do look bad and still nailed that, that must mean I have all sorts of game I don't even know about and that narrative is not even believable.

[–]morebaked[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What you wrote is perfect. Alright, I'll definitely be going out with much more confidence I'm not tall but im not as short as i can be lol 5'5" nbd. But yea I must definitely be my game then because I am still very new with game haha and I feel like I get too excited (adhd so i get pumped so easy lol I've started meditating for it)

I have have some good results with girls just not consistent and Im still young as fuck (20) so I definitely have time to improve. I'm also learning to adapt to the group im with since Im going to study abroad in tokyo ive been with a lot of japanese people lately and apparently there is little kino early on in the flirting like even the hand on the shoulder is too much.

Ill definitely give you an update because your advice was good. And I sure as hell know what you mean, Like i look at myself in the mirror and I think holy shit I look good. But at the same time its pretty hard to dislike your own looks since you become used to them. As for the fitness I am at 140 and with my height its still a little fat. I mean I do have some muscles from swimming for two years and playing baseball like eight years before that but i dont think its like 30lbs worth lol.

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