So we got to know each other 3 or 4 weeks ago, had 3 dates, fucked on the third date, 4th date is set up.

To give you an overview about this situation:

We had contact in this time almost daily with text messages (I know, trp advocates texting for logistics, but I like gaming with texts and we got to know each other through tinder, therefore this also builds some comfort). I answered the texts most of the time really slow and she started asking for more attention. Stuff like "I like you" etc has been dropped by her and then she went on vacation. First day in she was a bit bitchy and said that she wouldn't want to talk to me anymore (some truth may have been behind this, maybe some joking also). I then went 2 days radio silent which pissed her off and she told me that I should've gotten in contact with her, which I teasingly/playfully reacted to. She doesn't want to not hear anything from me for 2 days, that's so long.

She returned 2 days ago and now starts playing this hot/cold game. Answers are short, she doesn't try to keep up the conversation. I know this should be a good thing, but how do you handle this? She asked for more attention, I didn't commit fully to this request and now she tries to turn the tables by going silent, right? Just ignore her behaviour and don't start conversations anymore, wait for her to get in contact and keep conversations short and let it die early if it leads to nothing (her only sending smileys etc)?

No texting at all in this century is kind of weird too as everyone is bound to their phones. I dunno if I texted too much in the beginning, but I really tried to keep the conversations short (most of the time), answered some hours later while trying to build some attraction and comfort through this.

Damn, I feel like she has me by my balls right now, lol...