So in all the threads I've read, people keep saying you'll go from a 4 to a 7 and from a 6 to 9, etc.

I rate other men and women easily, but I can't seem to be able to rate myself. I think I'm a 6, but all my hookups have told me I'm a 9. The problem was, they were all too drunk so it was probably bullshit. So, how did you find out what your rating was and where you had to improve?

You will probably think this is a really beta question, and I still am a beta even after lurking /r/theredpill for a while. As soon as I improve myself aesthetically, then I can get into the frame and mind set of TRP.