To an extent, every girl that I have fucked, when around me, will say something like 'That guys hot' and look at me for a reaction. Is it right that I either completely ignore it or A&A to the point of ridiculousness?

Also I was curious when a plate of mine (who really wants to date me) said "I've got a date with **** this Saturday" and she went on to fantasize about him, meanwhile I was looking at the sky and interupted her to point out a bird of prey.(She sent me tonnes of snaps that day-that I didn't open till the next day- and she never went on any date...) Was this her trying to make me desperate or what?