So, I talk to a lot of people. Most of the girls I talk to will giggle and say I'm mean etc. through negging but sometimes I take it too far and I'll say something seriously uncool for no real reason. I've always acted on impulse and never regretted that as it helps me to be real, but sometimes I end up being "The asshole" because what I say isn't received well or I just push it.

An example is I told a potential plate to come to my place via text and she said she was gonna watch a film with some old friends, then I straight up ignored her and told her to watch her film after coming over, likely because I told her the night before. Obviously, this was not well received and I know if someone did that to me I wouldn't be happy either. She read my message and said nothing, which was expected.

Another example is I might be talking to a girl and I neg her lightly but then I go a little overboard and straight up roast her ass for no reason other than for my own shits and gigs. Perhaps it's immaturity because I'm pretty young, but what do you think?

Any of you had similar experiences? How do you avoid putting yourself in situations like this?