How do you stop taking things personally?

360_no_scope_upvote · 2017-03-12T04:37:16+00:00

Read the sidebar and TRP.

Abundance mentality, being your own man. There's always a new opportunity especially with women.

jopsh123 · 2017-03-12T05:02:48+00:00

It's not true. Some guys will attack you relentlessly for fucking their girlfriend, people who aren't you take shit personally all the time and thus throw more shit at you, to affect YOU PERSONALLY. The difference is that you have to be ABOVE IT. You are better than attacking people personally back. If someone is attacking you personally, A&A. There's no reason to take anything done against you maliciously as anything more than someone being insecure. That's all it is. Insecurity, and you are motherfucking better than that.

Triadis3 · 2017-03-12T05:41:56+00:00

You realize that you are letting the opinions of others affect who you are.

A large part of TRP is realizing you have a duty to yourself to be the best man you can be.

So, use others as a guide, a measuring stick, motivation, but internalize that in the end the only thing that matters is YOU.

BlackMarmoset · 2017-03-12T14:55:26+00:00

You are a man, rationalize.

Do you hate a cat for what it does to a mouse when it catches it? Every predator, including humans, in nature is ruthless: spiders, snakes, lions, hyenas and even dogs. You can pet them, but they're still beasts.

Women are no different, they want to survive. Understand and accept them for what they are, like you should do for yourself.

Kalidane · 2017-03-12T23:39:52+00:00

Kill your ego.

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W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-03-13T03:12:13+00:00

It's personal in the sense that other people stand to lose a lot more than you do.

Title	How do you stop taking things personally?
Author	XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 12, 2017 4:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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