How does n-count factor into LTR worthiness for you guys?

LukeVTruth · 2019-05-31T08:43:59+00:00

Honestly I never ask a girl her n-count because I know she’ll never be honest about it anyways.

Instead I pay attention to her actions and behavior and see if any of these suggest that she’s likely a high n-count girl.

In my experience, you can generally tell from their behavior which girls have ridden the cock carousel and which ones place value on relationships.

I’m in an LTR right now and I don’t know her n-count and have never asked. All she has said about it is that she’s never had a one-night-stand. Do I believe her? Eh, but it doesn’t really matter to me. I plated her for about 7 months before I elevated her to LTR status and in those seven months she didn’t show any red flags that would suggest she isn’t fit for an LTR. She treated me very well and her behavior suggested that she’s the type who values commitment and relationships over hook-up culture. She continues to be sweet, submissive, physically fit, and overall enjoyable to be around and as long as she keeps that up she’ll remain my LTR.

KeffirLime · 2019-05-31T09:01:57+00:00

If she's had a train of guys, her ability to pair bond is highly impaired.

A women's sexual strategy is to lock down a high value male and hold onto him because her fertility window is fairly small. By sleeping with a ton of guys she's in direct contravention of her inherent biological strategy, she's not built for it.

It ultimately show low value, because multiple men have been allowed access to her sexually and it damages her ability to then comfortably settle with one man.

Also, due to the nature of casual sex, she's more than likely been alpha widowed by one of the many man she's slept with, leading her to be less satisfied with the one she eventually settles with.

FereallyRed · 2019-05-31T12:07:35+00:00

Absolutely useless metric.

1 - You'll never know.

2 - Some girls have triple digit numbers and are stable, some girls have 4 and are an alpha widowed cutting mess.

Imaginary metric that is also unrelatable and inconclusive even if knowable.

ugluk1 · 2019-05-31T10:07:15+00:00

My opinion of this is to not mention the n-count (other guys) at all. Invariably, if you stay silent, she will start talking about them (as she does not have anything to talk about anyway) and you'll be shocked.

Bruchibre · 2019-05-31T10:14:07+00:00

It does. The lower the better. If you vet a girl for a few months even without asking for a number you should be able to tell if it's 0 < 10 or in the 100s. I don't want to be the consolation prize of a used up slut.

MattyAnon · 2019-05-31T11:43:30+00:00

How does n-count factor into LTR worthiness for you guys?

Yes, but I'm not looking for an exclusive LTR. It might happen, but it's not what I'm aiming for.

High n-count is a dealbreaker for me for a LTR. But so are many other things.

2fassy · 2019-05-31T12:06:16+00:00

Unless you are chad its highy likely her n will be higher than yours.

As well as this you will never know the real number, women lie.

Unless shes an obvious fucking whore dont sweat it

Title	How does n-count factor into LTR worthiness for you guys?
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Date	May 31, 2019 8:16 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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