I've had this girl as a plate for a while, 19yrs old, not attention seeking, not a lot of posts on social media, no guy comments on social media, submissive, 8/10 and doesn't seem to know it yet.

So was thinking of making it a LTR for at least a year or so.

I've told her straight up if she wants this LTR I have clear expectations of how she must behave, I've written then down below.

Is there anything I've missed? I may also try the "unlock your phone and give it to me" on top of this.

And yes I'm well aware a women can easy just ignore all this and covertly do whatever she likes if she has tingles at the time:

  • No cohabitation.
  • No marriage .

Absolutely not acceptable:

  • No girls-night-out without your boyfriend (see definition below).

  • No girls trips without your boyfriend (see definition below).

  • No guy friends.

  • No texting/IG/snapchatting/etc other men. Job/business communication is fine.

  • No talking/gossiping about private relationship details with your girl friends.

  • No ignoring relating to the above because you "were not sure", ask your boyfriend before hand. This is respectful.

Definitions:

"Girls night out"

Any of the below counts as girls-night-out:

  • House party, without your boyfriend there.
  • After work drinks, without your boyfriend there.
  • Being at a bar or club, without your boyfriend there.
  • Music venue that serves alcohol, without your boyfriend there.
  • Any venue containing men at night, without your boyfriend there.

"Girls trips"

  • Going out of town and staying overnight anywhere, without your boyfriend there. Excludes family trips.