In today's day and age, short of marrying a hijab wearing Muslim its inevitable our females will recieve male attention and interactions which only gets worse the hotter they are.

I've ghosted this chick but to learn for the future how much beta orbiting should one put up with? Should it even be acknowledged or discussed with say an LTR/potential LTR?

This chick for example would show me instagram DMs from true betas and ignore them but what I would notice is that at the same time she would add a couple of guys who are just above beta (based on social media SMV) and obviously not mention it.

The one is a backup actor so he has pics from being on set and in costume, the type of shit that gives chicks the tingles even though the harsh reality is that 99% of actors are paid absolute shit and will go nowhere with that. I can see he recycles the same photos from a year back and likely works some low end job. I'm a STEM major earning $120k+ but in terms of female fantasies and tingles the job offers slim to none.

The other guy is a nothing special American teaching English in the middle of nowhere Russia likely just banging that easy pussy on account of his citizenship. His main trait seems to be that hes extremely outgoing. They likely talked over instagram enough to become facebook friends as I noticed his name when she was showing me some other messages.

These social media adds where when we were in that inbetween phase of being on the verge of LTR but based on this and some other red flags I ended it.

For future reference should one put up with this? Should it be discussed?