• Used to be a sugar baby for an older guy. Would fly out and fuck him for $1k a trip.

  • Horrible and absent relationship with her father

  • Mom has issues at work all the time, is generally very controlling and manipulative towards her

  • Asked if we could get married multiple times in the first couple months of dating. She was halfway joking and said it'd be so she could get out of her health insurance plan, but still.

  • Tattoos. But I have some shitty tattoos from my teenage years so it worked.

  • Vapes. And now I vape too after dating her for 2 years and I'm addicted to nicotine, fuck.

Context: I'm suffering from oneitis from the girl that I described above, who is otherwise a pretty intelligent and compatible girl. I didn't know about trp when I got into the relationship, and now I'm looking back and wondering whether the breakup is 100% due to me like she says or whether it was doomed to fail from the beginning. She was really into me when I didn't show her much attention, and of course once I started treating her like she wanted she lost interest and started drifting away.

I've been lifting, I've been seeing friends, I've been taking a programming course, but at the end of the day I feel weakened and demoralized over the breakup. I saw a post on here that really messed me up... "You picked the absolute worst time to breakup, the dating game is completely fucked for men". I'm in my late twenties and not in the best place in life and I'm really struggling with everything going on.