This cute little asian girl at work with a ROCKIN body is definitely into me. (Was never really into asians but shes damn near IG model, not kidding.. I usually don't get girls like this) She works in the office, i'm out in the field so we really don't see each other much. But when we do, she is always making some comment/joke to me, always trying to talk to me, begging me to take her out for lunch (she even offered to pay lol), its to the point where other guys I work with are jealous and keep telling me to hit that .. So I promised her next week id take her out to lunch. I also have private access to a reservoir at work, so I was thinking of taking her up there for a short walk and sight seeing (maybe a good time to go for a kiss) because girls seem to love stuff like that. Ill get her number to stay in touch with her.. But next week is her last week with us and she will be going back to college, which is like 2hrs away.
Also, she just turned 21... im 29.
And here is another thing, so I was creepin on her IG, and she is very big against sex violence / assault. Turns out, I guess a couple of years ago a friend blackmailed her for months for sex. Im unsure how this has affected her dating / sex life.
My sex life is non-existant right now. I havn't been laid in years. (Had a bad drug addiction, after I got clean I became depressed and didn't do shit with my life but work, eat, sleep) But recently I made the decision to get back out there. I just got over a oneitis whom also I used to work with. I chased her for the better part of the last 6 months, we tried dating and got nowhere. I really, really don't want to go through that bs again.
How should I handle this? I don't want to try and pursue, for her to only go back to college and get dicked by a bunch of different dudes. The fact that a) I'm inexperienced in proper and short term escalation and b) Her sexual history makes me think that hooking up with her before she takes off is most likely not going to happen.
Should I try and take her out for drinks one night before she leaves or just swap contacts, vaguely stay in touch and try to get back together when she gets back from college?
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