I (27M) recently linked up with an old friend (25F)...been chatting on phone about a week now and today i posted a video about a couple cuddling;

her: πŸ€”

me: i want to cuddle

her: don't you have a girlfriend?

me: i asked myself the same question

her: now what do you do?

me: i am coming over to your place to cuddle

her: okay i am waiting for you

i finish up with work and went to her apartment, we chatted a bit about old days cuddling. I began escalating and she told me no penetration i said okay while putting on the condom. i continued with foreplay, she was moaning and saw that she was really wet and decided to penetrate again she said no so i told her "you seem really undecided, so I'll make the decision for you. It was fun, but i'll go now" this was i quote i read from u/BurntYams post.

I left her apartment and got a text from her saying "Sorry for ruining your mood but didn't know why we should have sex and I don't want you to think that i am a cheap girl. 'Cos we don't have any love attraction between us so why should we have sex"

i haven't replied her yet.