Should I follow up with her after this? I’d appreciate feedback. I’ll be brief with background info.
Girl invited me to a bar and I already knew she liked me from a previous interaction. I arrived 30 minutes before closing and chilled with her group. It was too loud to really chat but towards the end a few of her friends left and she asked me for a ride home.
The whole dynamic is pretty neutral up until this point then we get to her place and she asks if I want to chill for a while. Eventually we’re in her room, she goes to get comfortable and comes out in a long shirt and underwear, and we start going at it.
This is what threw me off - after a good while of foreplay I’m going down on her and everything is chill. Around 15 min later she came, we makeout a while, and I’m thinking now it's time for actual sex and so on. She asked me if I have a condom, I said no and neither did she so I figure oral works. Except she excuses herself to go to the bathroom and when she comes back to bed she starts putting her clothes on. I started kissing and touching a bit but she said she was sensitive down there and that’s pretty much it.
She rested her head on my shoulder and seemed to start dowsing off. She sleepily mumbled something about the beer making her tired so I told her I’d let her sleep and got dressed. She didn’t say anything so I assume she wanted me gone and as I was leaving she turned and half-heartedly said bye (I think she gave a peace sign too) and that was it.
This was the shortest and least satisfying sex I’ve had. She basically used me to get off and sleep. I’m usually fine with long foreplay/oral because once they get off it’s reciprocated but it obviously didn’t work here. I don’t know if maybe I came across as too accommodating sexually and that made her comfortable brushing me off.
Question: Our meetup yesterday was spontaneous and we had actually planned on getting drinks today. Should I follow up and if so, what’s the best way to go about it?
TL;DR - Girl left me blue-balled after she came. Is it smart to go out with her again?
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