First a little bit of background:

This is the first time I've actually asked a girl out. I've been stressing over her for the past month or so, and then I just decided fuck it. We knew each other for about a month or two and at first I was convinced she was attracted to me, everything she did pointed at it, but I didn't take action when I should, so that's on me. In last week or two, I sense a disconnection from her, like she's leaving(only thing to do, imo, since she figured I would never ask her out). I started thinking about it, and decided since she's getting over me(if she didn't already), and I have nothing to lose, so I just texted her.

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I simply asked "Wanna grab coffee?", I say when and where, she says how she's busy. Alright, let's reschedule. I set up a different time and location, and she answers with "hahahaha why tho?" and I said honestly how I think she's a cool person and how I want to get to know her better. After a while I get a notification, and all she said is "Nah."

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Alright cool, she doesn't want to go, I probably misunderstood her signals, whatever.

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So the next day, I notice somethings happening with her friends. So I assumed she showed them our convo, now at this point, I'm still cool with whatever happened, like I thought she liked me, I was wrong, let's move on right?

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I'm talking with my friends and this dude(close friend of hers) comes up to me and asks me this "Hey Moonshot__ I want to get to know you, lets go for a coffee", leaving laughing. Basically I was right, she did show everyone our convo, and it could potentially ruin my reputation.

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In a couple of days her friends, her and I will have to be in the same room together(reason doesn't matter), and I am sure they'll try to do some shady shit.

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I was cool with her rejecting me, but this shit pisses me off, best way to maintain frame?