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[–]jdoe51 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Being able to be selective comes with time. Set standards for yourself, but don't set them so high that you can't get any girls at all. There's nothing wrong with starting on 5s and 6s as long as you're always upgrading in the future.
[–]mission1st 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Time is that fleeting resource. What's a proven way to accelerate this?
[–]jdoe5 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Sorry, but that's a stupid question. You're looking for magic tricks. There's no substitute for putting work in. Hit the sidebar again.
[–]Endorsed Contributorstickfiguresk[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You lift weights, dress well, and be ambitious with money and women. An attractive man with 20 new numbers in his phone doesn't have issues with choosing/dropping women.
Your post sounds short-sighted. TRP offers something different than PUA.
I get the difference between TRP and PUA. I'm just asking amoral sexual advice / how to be the man I want to be.
You give good advice, but 20 new numbers seems so beyond reality to me. How's it possible to cultivate that kind of pipeline?
Is it really lift, get money, dress well, be dominant/masculine, approach, escalate?
[–]Endorsed Contributorstickfiguresk[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
You're stuck in a loop. Get good looking and pull 5 numbers in the morning. Do it every day and have 20 by friday. It's one of those things that's hard only if you make it hard.
[–]mission1st 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you. I'm making it hard by overthinking it and not taking action.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Its about socialization with women, and specifically building up your bank of successful interactions, regardless of her rating. Over time, it can accumulate to where you have your pick of the litter
Absolutely correct. The reference points from experience, the bank of successful interactions, is like the muscle memory one develops in any activity they practice.
I need to practice.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link
Thinking is good, but neither the problem or solution are in your thoughts, I'd bet dollars to donuts. Learning by experience, then soft exposure to better(hotter/more intense) mental extrapolation, refinement etc. Hire a 10/10 escort if you really wish to speed up the process. That would help guaranteed.
[–]TheBadGod1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
From what I understand; you are the man you worked to become.
If you want to be more, you have to do more.
Agree.
If you keep doing what you've been doing, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. E.g., if I don't approach then I won't get to be the selector.
Meaningful change must be immediate and drastic. I.e., I must get out of my comfort zone by doing things I've never done with boldness, gusto, and reckless abandon.
[–]TheBadGod1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I just meant be the guy every girl in the room wishes they could sleep with.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You select by doing approaches, because you literally get to choose who you approach. But then the girl also gets to do a "selection" when she decides whether to reject you or not (or keep you hanging for a long time, which is essentially the same thing). And this selection process continues for the whole duration of you dating/interacting with this girl. At any point you can decide to next her, and she can do the same.
The main difference between her and you, though, is that you actively determine how many girls you approach. She has to wait for guys to approach her (I'm simplifying things a bit). So if she nexts you, and you have good approach skills, you won't care, and will have many other girls to repeat the whole process with. But if you next her, she has to rely on her good looks and charm to cultivate an abundance of guys wanting to get with her.
In the end, it's whoever has more abundance that acts as the selector more often. If you ask me, I'd rather be the one who can control by their own actions how much abundance is in their life, rather than having to rely on other people to provide me with my abundance.
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