How to BRING THE FUN when you are in a group interaction ? (Everyone sits on their phone bored )

Jesusfeminist · 2019-09-15T19:28:16+00:00

Start by being in a fun group, way easier to be fun when people around you are fun. Never try to force change the energy, it’s corny and obvious

cdan94 · 2019-09-15T20:23:56+00:00

You're having the wrong mindset. Fun people are entertaining themselves, not the crowd. They say things cause they like it.

Gravel_Roads · 2019-09-16T10:27:08+00:00

Give your social group a 3-strikes rule (ONLY IN YOUR HEAD, DON'T SAY IT OUT LOUD). When everyone is sitting around on their phones, suggest something like "Hey, let's all go up the street to the park" or "I feel like going to that exhibit in town" or "let's go dancing tonight" - something that you enjoy doing that can be done with a group of people. Sometimes, all it takes is one person to come up with an idea to do something, and that person becomes the man who leads the group away to the promised land of actual fun and going outside.

But some groups of people are drawn together because they like to be introverted and dont' want to go out. If they don't go out consistently, they might just not be interested in that sort of "fun". To them, being on their phones might be fun. I've known groups like that - they just enjoy looking at social media posts and sharing them with each other. Which is also fine,b ut it's not my thing so I kinda avoid ending up in situations where I'm trying to motivate peope who don't wanna be motivated.

morgandavies834 · 2019-09-15T19:50:37+00:00

WHAT UP PARTYPEOPLE!?

when you enter a conversation come in one level more energetic than everyone else. When you enter a group enter 10 levels more energetic than everyone else.

Title	How to BRING THE FUN when you are in a group interaction ? (Everyone sits on their phone bored )
Author	Fattybomba123
Upvotes	12
Comments	5
Date	September 15, 2019 7:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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